@@agentbeard8806 Because life doesn't ask you if you want hardship or not, it just gives it to you and that's it. And the choice is yours. To deal with them or to avoid them.
What should i do if im in love with the idea of a girl. I dont really know, i just know shes sporty, pretty and seems nice. Idk why i like her so much but i do. I know she definitely doesnt like me and i really want to talk to her but have to no idea how. Yeah idk
You have a great dream. I was also involved in basketball before and even won championships with the team, but I didn't connect my life with it for certain reasons. So, I advise you to practice yourself, develop yourself and keep improving your skills. Relationships are a good thing too. Especially if they are mutual, but they take time. And if the relationship is not good, it also disturbs your mental health. If I had the opportunity to tell myself something in the past, it would definitely be one of the main thoughts “don't waste time on useless dating and relationships, invest as much time in yourself as possible, trust me”.
@@friendcommunity Thanks for the advice. I agree dating for no reason is a waste of time. I will continue putting in work in basketball and maybe try to talk to that girl, even if she doesnt like me. Like you said meaningful relationships take time and who knows she could be an amazing person.
