Don't Care | Stoicism | Marcus Aurelius Meditations | Karka Kasadara 

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Stoicism means in 2 word - Don't care 0:14 ( 0:21 but many got confuse with don't care that, their questions is that how we can Don't have care about our life or not thinking about anything,not caring anything how i can lead my life They ask but this question itself wrong ..) 0:27 But stoicism didn't say like that Only below 👇👇👇 Marcus - Which is not important for us , Which is not under our control that thing we no need to care ie only don't care meaning , That type of character he has . He explained in mediation book that ,many places we don't need to be care for things which is not under our control and which is not important for us. That teaching life lessons he wrote in that book. ( 1:00 to 1:06 1:10 ) Stoic philosophy - Main thing is that we want to understand that , we want to understand mainly that which is under our control,and which is not under our control only we want to know that ?? ( 1:48 main rule 1:53 2:05 ) In our life many things mostly not under our control we want to understand, for that we no need to become hesitate or become saint and all , but we want to understand that many things will be not under our control) 2:22 In my life something really hurting me means, more paining i feel means, In that we want to ask to ourselves that " which is not under my control that thing think,i am trying to control think" 🤔 ( 2:24 2:36 if we ask this question to ourselves we get some clarity and feel some what ok better) ( 2:41 in our life , which is not under control also if we know then also again if you are continuously showing care ,love means ,in that time itself this life fate puppet we are changed as puppet ,then life will be playing with us with our emotions ,so 😢from this we want to get rid means what i want to do ? 2:58 3:00 to 3:10 we want to follow don't care 😊and we don't want to show many things care ,that too especially which is not under our control) Epictetus- said as Freedom 3:13 Marcus Aurelius - see as he consider this as chance to do work 3:16 So for some this situations can see as life ,for some this situations will be way for goal to achieve . Don't care 3:39 ( 3 ways for 3 reason he says 3:46 3:45 3:46 3:47 Future , past, present in these 3 timing he thought how to follow don't care he thought with more clarity 1) Future: 4:02 Seneca- said "We suffer more in imagination than in reality " 4:09 4:12 ( In our life problems bad ,pain hurt etc it all because of our thoughts only Mainly thinking about future what are the bad things will happen ,wrost what will happen like these we will be thinking imaginary , thses things we think and after that we got confuse and sad . Only sometimes only what we think it will happen but most of times it won't happen ,what we think it oppositely work that is only fate . 5:08 to 5:22 5:26 ( Future - we know that it won't happen now , so you can't do anything now that thing we want to understand . Why future hurt us means the only reason is ; we are thinking about future only reason so that thinking only hurt us. so future is not outside it is inside your brain thoughts. * Marcus Aurelius - says "Future won't hurt us but how you are handling the future only will hurt you ( That is, for future what you are now thinking only hurt you ) ( 5:28 to 5:31 5:39 to 5:44 ) From this how to get rid of this:( Marcus Aurelius says) * 5:50 don't allow future to hurt you don't allow , because future what ever it brings,you are going to see that, so anyway you will be seeing,so why now you want to think about this?? 🤔 he ask ? ( Now whatever happening you can able to handle, you can easily take it means ,in future also what ever happens sure you can able to take it and handle it , so it won't hurt you ,that think you want to understand he says .😊 *6:13 Don't think in future what and all worst will happen in future ,like that don't think now.. Instead 😊 6:18 .for future,now what i can do now , that think alone you think we says 😊😊. *Amor fati 6:28- Love the fate , surrender to fate, instead to control fate,do love fate 😊 ( In this world whatever happens, admire them . Example: just ,come out of our life and see admire what happening in our life ,like that you see and think .and surrender to fate . _____________________________ 2) PAST : 6:53 Marcus Aurelius - always says in this book that , " life will very short ,life is very easily pass way "" This Marcus often reminding ous , ( Example story: 7:07 Few years before only , Alexander the great - he thought to rule this entire world but his charioteer thought today somehow i should eat / somehoe can i able to eat thinks ,, But now not both alive today , and that two peole we won't think daily, both under sand mud died buried ) By this marcus says how our life is easily passing, passing away ,that past more and more generated , so he says. How future, similarly our past also we can't able to control it . But mostly people won't understand that we are in present life but we mostly either think future or live in past life he says . But past is not important for present , don't think like that but we want to mainly understand that " we can't able to change that past life that we want to understand" that only Marcus Aurelius says.😊 Use past for our experience and as knowledge use it but no need to worry for that .. ( This past is only in our memories,brain - something that is only in our memories means we want to understand that , 8:27 we always see our memories as only in our perspective way only ,in our side only that thing we want to understand. "What we are seeing in our perspective,it should need not be true always", that thing we want to understand. So when ever past js hurting us means? 8:44 That time even we are hurt also think that, this thing it may be not true also , because this is my perspective perspection only , if we think itself we can come out from that hurting itself. If we have horrible past how i can come out means: 8:54 8:57 Marcus Aurelius - says " always don't keep your focus on past but , whenever i am thinking about past see focus on HOW I FEEL IT " ( Example: 9:09 9:17 to 9:18 Don't show interest what happened in futre but see how i feel whenever i think whether,am i happy or am i sad , am i not feel secure , am i feel regret etc see how i feel whenever i think that past , What feeling you have see to it) "In our life what happened is not important, but that things when they are happened, how i reacted to it ,how i handled that situations ( how I reacted and how i handled it only these 2 important) ( Example: 9:29 to 9:48 ) *Marcus Aurelius -says In our life whatever situations happens also , because of that situations, Justice, honesty, morality, knowledge, humility, compassion, kindness ,these things can't be destroyed ( நீதி நேர்மை ஒழுக்கம் அறிவு அடக்கம்.கருணை இரக்கம்) So any situation can't able to destroy thses things ,then Why we want to be anxiety ,concern( கவலை) about that situations. Because thses things only important Justice, honesty, morality, knowledge, humility, compassion, kindness( so only we are important,makes us alive, and we continuosly doing , if these things not gets affected,then why we want to be worry ) So why we want to get worry about ,and why we want to show care towards that Marcus Aurelius ask ?? ( So if past hurt us means, don't care that ) ___________________________ 3)Present 10:30 : Marcus Aurelius - always say we have only thing is that is our PRESENT ( shortest present life ie., Present life) Even though it is shortest path timing present also, in this also both are there which is under our control, which is not under our control. *Marcus Aurelius - says By fate what is happening, which is not under our control, in that ( situations which is not under our control) with that emotionally disturbed like that is useless, pointless crt 💯💯💯. "Fate is not under our control ,but what we can do is , How i can give to my level of my best that thing doing and go with that flow "crt 💯💯💯 ( We can't stop our age ,natural disaster etc ) ** How to use this don't care in present life :: 😊11:57 * We want to understand first what is in our control with clarity we want to know it first 3 things which is in our control:: * How we are seeing is in our control *For that what we are going is in our control *What type of decision we are taking in under our control ( So thses three things only we want to be more focused in life crt 💯💯💯💯) We we are having we want to see it often , continuously, don't think what we don't have. *If we don't have means,see that this universe itself not having like that see . *Which things i have ,that things only very important for me ,like that we want to see it. * Think suppose,what i have now,if i dont have means how i get struggled ,feel sad ,to get that how much effort i would have took to get back etc Think and show gratitude to which i have now 😊 If suppose we continuously getting more struggles means: Yes it is difficult but Marcus Aurelius - says Don't see as bad things see it as we are practicing Virtues( அறங்கள்) philosophy practicing field ( For example: if any bad things happens to us also,we are take it lightly or smiling means ,- see it as chance to develop this as Philosophy habit ,and see it as a chance he says ) *Life is not how we got our circumstances, its about how we are facing that circumstances only life beauty is there . Conclusion: Marcus Aurelius - says * My present is my virtues( அறங்கள்) practising filed , so what ever happens in present life my virtues i can practice as field ,so in this present life ,what ever happens ,i dont care By Marcus Aurelius

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What is in our control We suffer more in imagination Amor fati Life is very short

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