DON'T CLICK ON THIS VIDEO! THE TRUTH ABOUT MY SIBLINGS!

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@drillgossip7506 4 года назад

Who ever reads this I pray to god that ur future is successful no matter what ur struggles are there will always be a solution‼️💯

@adoniscreed1239 4 года назад

U too❤️

@maddiemaddi2023___ 4 года назад

Thanks and same to you

@acooliemoore 4 года назад

I love these typa comments

@lilyae3991 4 года назад

*God

@shelbyyyy4536 4 года назад

Thanks u too I always pray to God when that happens 🙏😇💯

@niyahniyah2585 4 года назад

Mel Mel wasn’t tryna put his business out there😂😂😂😂

@immoses2194 4 года назад

Luv your grind btw I just uploaded BRITISH GUY FIRST REACTION TO FRENCH RAP/DRILL video check it out if yall had a boring day its funny asf

@aaronmendez6566 4 года назад

Nah he was just cappin lmao 😂

@j2clone 4 года назад

Aaron Mendez I swearrr😂😂😂😂

@kdvn1 4 года назад

I don’t blame him it ain’t nobody business

@vernaferguson3415 4 года назад

I feel like he was capping because all of a sudden he couldn't remember lmaoooo

@samanthaharaway207 4 года назад

Jordyn blends rly well with the family. Better than anyone else.

@maialwright 4 года назад

Yeah

@validvertezz-5227 4 года назад

Ong especially not the gold diggers drea and kye 🤦🏾😂

@kyndalldelores4529 3 года назад

Fr bro

@sidrahsidrah717 4 года назад

Mel: “how do i get a grown channel” bless him😂😭

@JNiyahNeveah 4 года назад

Mel Mel is slow....lol😂

@sharleenhernandez8049 4 года назад

😭

@missyg8156 4 года назад

@@JNiyahNeveah nah u outta pocket Lol jk 💖🤣

@gracecamacho3438 4 года назад

Right😂😂

@julianamolina2901 4 года назад

Yesssss😭 it's not a vlog without dashhh ogs remember that phrase before dashae stop saying it

@lathan_c4 4 года назад

Juliana Molina true, and the old intro all that

@subtopewpewpie 4 года назад

Why did he stop saying STAY FROSTY YA DIG

@xgenkea 4 года назад

Its Vicki he changing yo😔

@godlike5596 4 года назад

STAY FROSTY YA DIGGGG 🥶🥶

@antoinette9891 4 года назад

you can tell brooklyn is the type of person to goof around but when its time to be serious she knows how to.

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

IKR

@nyshnysha 4 года назад

Seems like she calmed down a bit , she used to be way to childish

@beautiful10381 4 года назад

@@nyshnysha yea she growing up lol

@i_am_so_teeyanna_hall6396 4 года назад

@Notttniah 4 года назад

When Brooklyn said she took him back 6 times I choked on my juice😭

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

IKR I would never take an ex back 6 times especially if they cheated over and over again.

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

That’s a red flag 😬

@JustKashShell 4 года назад

Mannn whattt😭😭😭 but I love me some brooklyn💞

@beautiful10381 4 года назад

@@JustKashShell rightt lol

@lashaygilmore6545 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@sidrahsidrah717 4 года назад

Mel looked like he didn’t wanna be there😭

@nonhlanhlamtembu7484 4 года назад

As always🤣

@shethemaint0pic_307 4 года назад

Always looking like he don’t wanna be there , but want someone to always be in his videos .

@queenmichelle5834 4 года назад

Lmaoo Mel always be like tht😭😂 but in his Channel he be all hype up lollll

@Shinell 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@angelinaad209 4 года назад

@@shethemaint0pic_307 😂😂🤣🤣😂

@ley.2sheisty 4 года назад

Why amare look tight when Brooklyn was talking about Christian😭😭

@wealthy5702 4 года назад

Because that’s his sister and he cares about her

@theslowswamp397 4 года назад

Ayyyooo want is your IG

@Ana-ck1hn 4 года назад

im sure thats why he was against her having a boyf all the time lmao

@nsymone 4 года назад

Mel Mel don’t like when brooklyn has boyfriends

@anthonymaduka9811 4 года назад

@mommy2335 4 года назад

They only time Mel Mel really talks if he's yelling at Brooklyn and calls her a weirdo

@gbillyy 4 года назад

THE TITLE SAID DONT CLICK AND THE FIRST THING I DID WAS CLICK 🤷🏽‍♂️

@radio0064 4 года назад

Facts

@chanelperez9406 4 года назад

Facts

@mayaakathryn9989 4 года назад

Me too

@noveawalters4339 4 года назад

samee

@julirodriguez3574 4 года назад

Sameee

@sheikgold 4 года назад

Nobody: Mel Mel : When I get married I’ll fall in love .

@Muhammed-jx7qp 4 года назад

😂😂

@iipostcapo4417 4 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@stargirls8189 4 года назад

LMAOAOAOAO

@tobilsadia7872 4 года назад

🤣🤣🤣👍👍

@unknowinglyme5538 4 года назад

“Its not a vlog without dash” ion even remember the last time he said that!😭

@cinayahlife9676 4 года назад

Facts

@antoinette9891 4 года назад

dont steal comments lol, take ur L

@beautiful10381 4 года назад

@@antoinette9891 ?

@oumiekebbeh4382 4 года назад

Mel Mel to Brooklyn “ you’re a weirdo”🤣🤣🤣💀

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@normaniii8498 4 года назад

Mel Mel there’s nothing wrong with showing emotions and love for someone

@dejalee5352 4 года назад

!! His first gf gon have to really be itttt for him to open up & she bet not mess up cause it’s a wrap

@GossipGyal1 4 года назад

Dejá Lee Right😭

@user-xw4dx6vm4x 4 года назад

forreal

@loveb7127 4 года назад

I feel like he took his parents breakup the hardest so he might be scared to get in a relationship 💔

@hiawesome3314 4 года назад

Love B wait aww you might be right I never thought about that

@riannawaltower1632 4 года назад

She took him back 6 times?!? I would've left after the first😂😂 It's all good Brooklyn!💕💕

@yunggroovy6624 4 года назад

Wait whats the truth about his siblings im busy so i cant watch the video lemme know

@riannawaltower1632 4 года назад

@@yunggroovy6624 Basically Deshae is asking them questions about things they've done and the have to answer honestly

@yunggroovy6624 4 года назад

@@riannawaltower1632 name a question plz if u dont mind like one of the juiciest ones

@iaeryanadupree5353 4 года назад

@@yunggroovy6624 its alot so you might just wanna find time to watch it

@spectacularnai5580 4 года назад

And what did I do.. clicked on the video 😭

@AveryChristiana 4 года назад

mel mel was lookin like he jus wanted to go lay down 💀

@_._cynthiaaa 4 года назад

Deshae: What is your name Amare: WhaT aRe YOu TalkInG aBouT ?

@briannaboomer1328 4 года назад

😂😂

@gracecamacho3438 4 года назад

Yeeaaaaaaa😂

@kevintooturntreacts 4 года назад

I hope the 1% that reads this will follow their dreams and never give up. My dream is to become a successful RU-vidr.

@gabbys1037 4 года назад

That was my dream but it’s actually hard and barely anybody supports 🙄

@yrnrackzz4326 4 года назад

Gabriela Stephenson Cant give up tho. It doesn’t happen overnight. No one supported me and I still was able to do it

@meshach9895 4 года назад

You will touch that homes

@ks.08 4 года назад

everyone here, keep grinding, don't listen to what anyone else says and just be comfortable with it 🙌🏾

@TIERAJBENT 4 года назад

Same

@tainabelizaire2607 4 года назад

I agree with Mel Mel on the cheating part

@temiade3901 4 года назад

"How do I get a grown channel " mel mel is too funny 😂😂😂😂

@ayessavalerio2034 4 года назад

So Brooklyn's been through alot

@yunggroovy6624 4 года назад

Wait whats the truth about his siblings im busy so i cant watch the video lemme know

@elisabeth5087 4 года назад

@@yunggroovy6624 me too 😂

@masochisticdoll 4 года назад

She's been cheaten on by her ex 6 times & took him back

@ayessavalerio2034 4 года назад

@Deshae Frost vlogs

@gee_donist4582 4 года назад

And she's the youngest , then when young people say they depressed people asking,how? Df

@brooklynharland2774 4 года назад

where is delane we havent seen him in a while

@justblowed1905 4 года назад

Brooklyn Harland he was in the last video

@gabriellee738 4 года назад

Briyana Ellis-Ware he was???!

@shanellrodriguez2581 4 года назад

He on a trip with his brothers and fam

@sidrahsidrah717 4 года назад

GabstersTV ye in the background and he recored the end bit

@vyabarton7666 4 года назад

Briyana Ellis-Ware what video?

@dejanaylayne9402 4 года назад

Brookly: talking about Christian mel mel: desperate 😭🤣.

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

IKR when Dalane sees this 😬😬

@emilyfuller2420 4 года назад

Exactly I be getting scared for Brooklyn Delane hate when she talk about her ex😂

@T-ShawnLewis 4 года назад

Amare: How do I get a grown channel?? 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

@lisaman2805 4 года назад

At 17:50 had me crying , Mel Mel like I ain’t on no gay shii 😭😭💯

@maleahwofford3491 4 года назад

naw its cuz he was moving around hella like stay tf still i think he got adhd or sum idk 😭 and deshae was tryna like tell him to stop moving his leg

@melissa-c4x 4 года назад

“But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne:” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:34‬ ‭KJV‬‬ Saying “ong” or “istg” is insulting to God because you are saying his name without meaning. If you want to go to Heaven you can’t cuss or swear or let people tell u it’s ok to do because it’s not. Blasphemy, which is saying God’s name is vain is one of the worst sins you can commit and in the Bible it’s called the unforgivable sin. If you have done any of these things repent right now and ask God to forgive you. If you believe in the word or want to get closer to the Lord share this with someone who needs saving today!

@sandyy9634 4 года назад

The unforgivable sin is not forgiving people like god forgives you, but thank you for educating people god bless you💗

@melissa-c4x 4 года назад

Sandyy No it’s not. And I don’t know where you heard that, but it’s wrong.“And everyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but the one who blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven.” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭12:10‬ ‭ESV‬‬ www.bible.com/59/luk.12.10.esv““Truly, I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the children of man, and whatever blasphemies they utter, but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin” - for they were saying, “He has an unclean spirit.”” ‭‭Mark‬ ‭3:28-30‬ ‭ESV‬‬ www.bible.com/59/mrk.3.28-30.esv“Therefore I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven people, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭12:31‬ ‭ESV‬‬ www.bible.com/59/mat.12.31.esv

@carlosalvarado7980 4 года назад

@@melissa-c4x this a vlog channel chilll this where ppl clear there mind.

@skinnygurl6903 3 года назад

That’s the truth but some ppl ignore it cuz they won’t change

@amberleemercedes415 4 года назад

Desahe:dont click Me:*clicks*

@julirodriguez3574 4 года назад

Sameee

@iipostcapo4417 4 года назад

Lol🤣

@nenecoltrane4260 4 года назад

Yes because who he think he talking to🤣

@melinal4237 4 года назад

i love they relationship together and how they all cared when they said they cant wait for mel mel to get a gf . i love you guyss!

@Unknown-hr2ws 4 года назад

Mel mel finna break hearts when he gets a gf💀💀😂

@hayynation6996 4 года назад

Nobody: Dashae: my life’s a movie. This video proves he ain’t lying tellin all their business 😭

@baby6x_581 4 года назад

deshae deshae like if u love deshae.

@leilanii7468 4 года назад

I taught mel was innocent 😭

@antoinette9891 4 года назад

he whispered to the camera he didnt lol

@teshangoepe8476 4 года назад

Thought*

@-topshot- 4 года назад

@@antoinette9891 he obviously fraudin. He just don't want all his business out😂

@xoxolondynnnn1392 4 года назад

7:27 mel mel tried to talk everyone was focused on Brooklyn he looked disappointed😭😭😭

@finapulotu6699 4 года назад

Nobody : Mel Mel : “Brooklyn , YoU WiErdO”

@justinjuerakhan7934 4 года назад

Brooklyn pretending all innocent when she realized she stole her mom's car.

@arii7752 4 года назад

It was her brothers car

@nothinglikemypeers 4 года назад

@@arii7752 no it wasn't tf you talking about😂

@khadijaahsy7428 4 года назад

9:38 Brooklyn: please cut that out what if they pause it on my feet 💀 I love Brooklyn

@ninilopez7720 4 года назад

16:12-16:22 had me weak😭 Jordyn was so serious when she said “Hawaii don’t count it’s still the U.S.”

@PsKeeks 4 года назад

Mel Mel's so low-key .. I love his energy.

@x.sapphire 4 года назад

Did anyone see Mel Mel’s face when dashae touched his knee at 17:50

@eunoiaeunoia5198 4 года назад

Had me crying

@jayfree3johnson333 4 года назад

Sus

@ayayanna5052 4 года назад

I love how I still clicked fast asf😭

@yurrrr4073 4 года назад

me too lol

@iyionacampbell879 4 года назад

Same

@dazaraygriffin7090 4 года назад

Nahh for real

@kendayshiamcdaniel9637 4 года назад

Same here😂😂

@niyayoung9711 4 года назад

for reall !!!

@itsjustmeflo8684 4 года назад

I love how honest Brooklyn is. Jordan stay honest as well. Can't wait for them to become sister in-laws.

@janellex9251 4 года назад

At 14:35 Mel Mel face said I’m abt to beat tf out of this boy

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@gracecamacho3438 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@tay9248 4 года назад

the worst thing Deshe did out of hate is delete that girl whole channel.

@TaraerrkyVEVO 4 года назад

What girl?

@mayaoccomy8916 4 года назад

What girl

@nothinglikemypeers 4 года назад

@@TaraerrkyVEVO goldi

@nothinglikemypeers 4 года назад

@@jeremiahstfleurant5168 goldi

@jeremiahstfleurant5168 4 года назад

@@nothinglikemypeers think you also I am his sister on his account

@Hhhhh-oq8eo 4 года назад

Mel Mel “you cant even take yourself to the store”🤣🤣

@chelsea5389 4 года назад

ngl dog look depressed asf 💀

@tainabelizaire2607 4 года назад

“ how do I get a grown channel “😭😭

@iamKingJames 4 года назад

Deshae Frost: Dont click on this video. Me. Shiiiiiiiiid.. No means YES

@sailorgacha3603 4 года назад

iamKingJames 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@24lgang.67 4 года назад

iamKingJames ong 😭❤️’

@mommy2335 4 года назад

I like how Brooklyn and Jordan have that sister in law bond they get along just fine

@Caleighalashay 4 года назад

you just never win here😂😂its still gone be like 200 people no matter how fast you click the notification

@Only1joyce 4 года назад

Brooklyn more mature then Mel Mel that’s crazy

@briannafigueroa4796 4 года назад

doctor: “you have 18 minutes and 33 seconds left to live” me:

@DeshaeFrost 4 года назад

😂😂😂

@antoinette9891 4 года назад

@@DeshaeFrost her profile pic thooo...

4 года назад

Deshae Frost Vlogs you just flexing cus you can clap her cheeks if you wanted😂😂😂😂

@jasiraisslow387 4 года назад

@@DeshaeFrost you only liked her comment cause her profile pic!

@nasnwo2783 4 года назад

@@jasiraisslow387 yeah that the only comment he liked

@memeluvss8376 4 года назад

Brooklyn was just speaking straight fax .

@yrgtay6655 4 года назад

Mel mel finessed the cheeks

@Badaboombadabang 4 года назад

I love when Brooklyn keep it real👏🏽 Mel Mel on the other hand barely understood all these questions🤣 He still learning 💀

@Nilya287 4 года назад

I swear mel mel and brookyln goe's at it all the time.

@user-lh5io3gm6j 4 года назад

LMFAO @ 17:50 WHEN DESHAE TOUCHED MEL MEL'S KNEE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@antoinette9891 4 года назад

LMAOOO MEL MEL WAS LIKE HUHH

@clamie101 4 года назад

😅😅😂😂

@chel7673 4 года назад

Can't wait for Mel Mel to fall in love❤💯🤞🏼

@traorefousseini1749 4 года назад

It is going to be difficult

@michelled.6001 4 года назад

He seems like he doesn't play, if he actually falls in love it's gonna be with his wife and she ain't leaving 😂😂😂

@ReactWithKe 4 года назад

Everybody worried about being first, how bout just spread a positive word💚

@kalisourworld4597 4 года назад

I love how Brooklyn was just exposing Mel Mel lmao 😂

@Itsssjustjahki 4 года назад

“Everyone strolling thru the comments I hope you become Wealthy/Successful one dayyy🖤🖤🖤 I’mma small RU-vidr and would love support🥺🥺

@samirahfazilahmed3206 4 года назад

Even me

@samirahfazilahmed3206 4 года назад

@Dan'Tavian Dunbar I suscribed to yours

@Itsssjustjahki 4 года назад

Samirah Fazilahmed I subscribed 🙌🏾

@shiestytaytay7754 4 года назад

I subscribe to u

@Itsssjustjahki 4 года назад

Dan'Tavian Dunbar I subscribed to you to🤞🏾

@palisamsomi4153 4 года назад

A video doesn't end wit out Mel Mel touching his edges

@carinevosi 4 года назад

17:51 Mel Mel face when deshae touched his leg “🤨“ 😂😂😂😂😂..

@trinlynn720 4 года назад

LMFAOO I’m so weak at Mel Mel’s face when Deshae touched his knee😭 @17:51

@tiawoney872 4 года назад

AND THATTTTTT IS WHY I LOVE JORDYN😭😭.. just throwing that out there 😭😭😭😭😭‼‼‼‼‼ PERIOD

@camrhonalexander384 4 года назад

17:50 deshae touches Mel thigh he like WTF YOU ON 😂

@King-up6cq 4 года назад

Lmao u see his face

@kashdior1257 4 года назад

Y’all always trying to make something a big deal

@camrhonalexander384 4 года назад

Faith Dior yo you gotta chill do you know him clam down buddy we just sayin facts and it’s funny tf get out

@kashdior1257 4 года назад

Camrhon Alexander girl bye

@user-tx8hm3tu5h 4 года назад

christian wasn't even cute to be cheating wdf 💀

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

IKR so true

@LaLa-ye4qw 4 года назад

How he look ? Y’all gotta pic ?

@mackhienzo4061 4 года назад

Finally someone says it

@aichaboo3742 4 года назад

La La he was in one of deshae videos

@dayanara6259 4 года назад

onggg

@nychyiliaaunghelle 4 года назад

Mel Mel always calling brooklyn desperate 😭

@elainaoxendine 4 года назад

Y’all Mel Mel remind me so much of me bruh I hate talking about love and I’m so quiet and shy but can also be changed in the matter of time it’s just a GEMINI THING ♊️🥳🥳

@mariahravelo8097 4 года назад

When Brooklyn says “David Dobrik” ?!? I lost it 😂😂

@tz2trill 4 года назад

No one: RU-vid: how many intros you want?? Deshae: .......yes

@Taebends_2x 4 года назад

Yhall funny specially Brooklyn 😂😂😭👏🏾

@yuhnx 4 года назад

"Dont click on this video" *Task Failed Successfully*

@smoovekidd5171 4 года назад

I’m dead “task failed successfully”😭😭

@wetpaint9883 4 года назад

😂

@yunggroovy6624 4 года назад

Wait whats the truth about his siblings im busy so i cant watch the video lemme know

@sumaya7962 4 года назад

Brooklyn straight speak facts the whole video

@jasminpendo6213 4 года назад

Why is Mel Mel always quiet in dashes vids but in his tiktoks he not quiet at all 🤣

@loveyourself8903 4 года назад

A group of Beautiful people .Period!!! ❤️

@finapulotu6699 4 года назад

Brooklyn always munchin on something 😭🤣 A WHOLE Mood😂

@ellababy5400 4 года назад

Omg mel mel is just the funniest person ever “how do i get a grown channel”

@naomii6545 4 года назад

Well the title don’t matter 😂😂bc I still clicked 🤣I’ve been watching you and your family for so long and ya’ll are just so funny and it makes my day 💗💗#BLACKLIVESMATTER

@desmanii 4 года назад

love brooklyn mindset

@antoinette9891 4 года назад

who else remembers when deshae used to say "its not a vlog without dash" now all they do is abuse him lmaoooo

@mayadenise6605 4 года назад

i’m weak how the dog popped up at 4:38 😂😂

@loveeniyy5100 4 года назад

Mel mel already in love with devyy and he know who she is !!!🥰

@amazincoleman276 4 года назад

I felt it when Brooklyn said “don't make anybody feel like they can take my place"

@katyebabylee3062 4 года назад

He cheated so many times♨️6

@samoneparker13 4 года назад

Ebony Scott 1 is too many lol

@skopealize8665 4 года назад

Somebody definitely broke mel mels heart at 15 😭😭💀

@helenberrios3594 4 года назад

5:32 mel mel be over it LMFAOOO😂😂

@hosana_xx7254 4 года назад

Mel Mel is not innocent 😭😭

@SmileyQueenlife 4 года назад

Is it me or is Deshae getting cuter❤️

@clodaghd2210 4 года назад

mel mel so cuteee the dimples anol

@shyshy8724 4 года назад

Brooklyn Always Eatingggg🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂❤

@zynasiahamilton4205 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@alyciawindle5009 4 года назад

when Deshae said “you’re a queen” it had me like 🥺 then he continued on to say “only one person should know that” 😂 ahh I wish I had an older brother 💀

@ryahball3493 4 года назад

“Hawaii doesn’t count “ we all know she was lowkey throwing shade at Kye 😂😂

@LifeWithLycia 4 года назад

I ain’t even finish this whole video yet🤣 he really said how do I get a grown channel, I’m dead 😵😂

@thatstamiaa 4 года назад

Mel mel is right or not suppose to take them back if they cheat cause that's dumb

@kalayaawilliams7781 4 года назад

bro istg i love deshae he funny asf 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️

@yrgtay6655 4 года назад

My boy Mel Mel acting suspicious

@Laylowkianna 4 года назад

😂😂

@876michie5 4 года назад

I understand what Brooklyn is trying to say. Jordyan was so on point. U cant really know until u have been or in the position. Then u have to make a decision.