the worst thing ever is when you're at a door or something that requires two or more people and someone chibi falls right in front of you instead of helping
Aww that's too bad 🥺 listen I love chibi falling, but if someone needs help I would always help. That is just too rude to ignore someone who needs help and only help yourself. I am very sorry that happened to you. If you are ever at the 4 person doors in vault and i see you waiting for help, i will pay a candle to be your friend and chibi fall with you so you can come too, not leave you there. Just be polite and help each other my chibi-falling friends 😆
chibis are either the BEST and sweetest players or absolute dogshxt like this. the amount of times, 2 or more chibis have glitched in front of 3 people, needing a 4th.. i would truly be rich. and people try to defend this behavior like “what if they’re in a hurry?” IT TAKES LITERALLY 15 SECONDS TO OPEN THE DOOR LMAOOO.. you’re spending more time trying to glitch rather than just shorten that time to help..
I don't think trying to light ppl is something toxic, but the insistence of it (by honking a lot, following everywhere) can end up being boring and annoying :c
i’ve had entire servers bully me cause i didn’t wanna light anyone up. i will die on this hill, if people don’t wanna light you up, LEAVE THEM BE. it’s not hard. yeah, it’s also not hard to light them back, but i literally don’t have to. i’m not bothering anyone, i’m minding my business, and i want to be alone. ppl are so entitled to think THEY deserve social interaction. “wELL i jUsT wAnNa sEe yOuR ouTfit” i don’t care. i don’t have to show you. shoo. 🤣
Bro I think it’s funny when I’m being chased to light the candle I’m like “hahaaaa catch me if you can mr grey man” if they catch me I’ll hangout with them
I’ve had this and being bothered to sit on a bench with someone I accidentally lit up. I just restarted my game and hoped I wouldn’t see them again. It was so rude. 😬
for all the people disagreeing about whether lighting up people is 'toxic' or not: this is just a silly little game. meant to be relaxing and enjoyable. and yes socialization plays a big role. so if you want to light people up, then do it. just don't be too insistent. if they don't want to, then just walk away and move on with it. there are plenty of people out there willing to light you back and plenty of outfits to see. srsly, it's really not that deep :/
If someone refuses to be lit, I take it as they ARE toxic and I avoid them at all costs because I wouldn't want to befriend someone so cold. Or they are a hacker and they don't want to get reported.
Honestly, I hate, hate, HAAATE it when players throw tantrums over me not wanting to follow them or take their hand. I'll let go, bow, and be on my way and they will mad/cry emote at me and I'm like...man I wish there was an unfriend option already, not just a block. :/
@@Mr_avenger709 it basically is but a unfriending option would just be nicer, because if they’re right in front of you it can seem rude if you just block them
@@Mr_avenger709 Technically no because it builds up a block list and I would just prefer to remove altogether where I cant see everyone I had to remove, if that makes sense. but I guess blocking does a better job. I just dont want to block all the people who just havent played in years but need to clear up some space.
Honestly, I don't expect all my friends to go say hi to me, especially if they merge with me at home upon logging in on Sky. I know the feeling all too well, logging in on Sky just to make a QR code for someone, or you forgot to claim dailies etc. Or maybe you've had a rough day / your social battery died and you just want to be left alone. In any case, I don't take it personally if people run away from me at home. We never know what they're going through or why they logged in on Sky. We don't have a private space we load into after all so there's no way to do things like create a QR code, claim dailies, send light etc without potentially merging with friends. Just because someone logs in on Sky, doesn't necessarily mean they actually mean to play the game. Which sounds weird, but that's just Sky's bad game design for you I suppose. Other than that I agree with all other points :)
i dont think that person led the krill to you 😭 they just barely escaped it and it happened to be hivh enough that when it turned it accidentally spotted you- but yeah dont lead a krill to anyone
Dude I remember I had a friend who would get upset when I didn't greet them immediately! There were times I was stuck at a cutscene because of unfinished quests and they would become very passive aggressive. This would be so frequent that we aren't friends anymore. Please understand that just because people are not able to say hi to you doesn't mean they hate or disrespect you.
Another thing is intentionally getting moths killed by krill. It's so mean and alot of moths leave or uninstall the game because they get frustrated. It is NEVER ok to exploit new players for your own entertainment and fun. This happened to me my first time on sky and someone helped me get to wastelands just to let me die there and then leave me alone. Thankfully my now best friend (their name I gave them is Etux) saw this and apologized for that players actions and assured me that not every player is like this and to give the game another chance. I gladly accepted and now I play this game almost every day❤
I saw this happen to a moth a while back when 2 veterans just left him in the middle of the graveyard getting attacked by a krill, I went straight to him and helped him out telling him to be cautious around who they should trust since there are people like that doing those things u shouldn't do in sky😢
I love sky for how wholesome it is most of the time. I saw someone afking just today and they were in the hidden forest under the rain so they were losing winged light so me and another player stuck with them and kept them alive until they came back. Then it happened a second time but it was in Golden Wasteland and someone was afking in the path of a krill so I stuck by them to give them light whenever they got attacked. Both of them gave lots of bows and kisses after that. Weird how that kind of thing happened twice in the same day lol.
i had this happen to me a few days ago.. i sat at the map in treehouse and afk'ed bc i didnt know it wasnt under shelter there, and a group of like four people who had been chatting with each other surrounded me and waited for me to come back- i was so grateful for them
For a second I thought u we’re talking about me in the hidden forest 😂 I was afk accident on the treehouse area because I was searching something in google and there two player who stay with me until I am back . When they saw me moving they left 😂 I’m not sure if it me
The worst thing must be when you spend the whole day to complete the leading spirit task then you see some one seeking at the end or seeking behind you and enjoying all of your hard works
I've had people come in & take over on it then ruin it & have to start over. If you're going to join someone in progress then actually help don't mess them up.
I don't think that's not actually rude at all, ig. I have a friend and a stranger who doing the same task like us and the stranger once made a mistake by falling the light on bottom (in vault on 4rd level) . He knew he made the mistake. He and I just didn't bother my friend doing the task and my friend rather doing it alone instead of other people gather doing the same tasks crowdedly. Idk about you feeling it's not good to ignore it cause some people (my friends) are fine with it.
Oh no I own two accounts one on phone the other on PS4 just incase I lose the first account and I play it at the same time because I don't really like other players
Writing this comment in a rush💦 in the past, My little sister and I encountered this Japanese player. At that time, we were in the 8 player room waiting for more players to join. Usually, while I wait for more players, I would play around with other players by pressing emotes. So we went to the centre of the room and do the spinning emote while my sister is doing the jump emote(?) . Then the Japanese player set up a camp fire there and stomped at me then points at the camp fire. So I sat and they spoke to me in Japanese and I translated, they said “ you are too noisy, I think you are bothering other players. If you do it again I’m going to report you to the higher ups”. This of course shocks me 💀 I thought it is normal to do emotes while waiting, they made me and my sister felt like we’re criminals lmao. After that we were scared of this person and we left sksksk. Maybe that player needs silence ( m a y b e ) but if they do want silence, what’s the harm in approaching and just asking nicely abt it bruh 😭 due to this my little sister stopped playing the game bcs she’s scared she will bother more ppl and feels uncomfortable when there’s another player in the server. If this is about Japan having strict rule of being quiet then they should know that the server is not limited to Japanese, it’s a global server so their rules don’t apply 💀 I really want an opinion on this like, maybe I am spamming emotes at the wrong time or something idk sksksksk
If the noise was such a bother, they could just turn the sound effects off...🫠 Btw don't worry about it too much. You didn't do anything wrong. That person must have some weird issues
Dang, that was a tad rude. I do hope your sister comes back on and you shouldn't worry too much. Only small amount of people like to police like that. My friends and I would totally giggle at that and join in.
That was how someone ended up offering me a candle to be friends. We were just playing with all the emotes for a few minutes 🤷♂️ Sometimes the noise becomes bothersome to me but I can just turn down the sound or leave the area 🤷♂️
i ABSOLUTELY HATE when im changing outfits and someone puts themselves in fron of the camera, prevents me for interacting with the closet, and demands I lit their candle by honking non stop. Usually i just ignore it, get still and go away from my phone until they get bored, cause the last thing i want to do is give in to rude demands of unknown people. It annoys me SO MUCH.
I feel there are people in Sky that use the excuse of it being a "social game" to have forceful interactions with other players, and its selfish, annoying and even a bit scary.
@@lagislife4155 i don’t have to, especially if they’re harassing me. i’m minding my business, and i’m not gonna do what a rude stranger wants cause they’re having a temper tantrum so they can see my pixels.
The last one the player didn’t even lead the krill to you, they just went out of the krill's sight. The player probably didn’t even see you, they were on the opposite side of the mountain. After they left the sight of the krill, it turned its head to look around like it normally does. Then it spotted you. Also you could’ve easily went behind the mountain instead of going home.
Another bad things : -steals fox , manta(toys) from other player and throw it away -disturbs players when they were playing musical instruments -puts things on players while they were sleeping -taking pictures from couples (leave them alone plz , that’s very rude , they need their own space together)
@@Puri_.z Its not that deep honestly. Unless the other person repeatedly throws it away after they're told to not do it, it just feels like a fun silly way to start an interaction tbh
There was a case when a player asked me where I was from, and I answered that I was from Russia, then he took it and left after I wrote. And before that, we praised each other and talked at the table.
Many people are ignorant. I’d be thankful they showed me their true colors so I wouldn’t have to waste energy on them. You’ll always have the opportunity to meet more thoughtful people. Good luck out there stranger💜
i'm still new to the game and only recently realised that the candles on a bench use up. When i joined i was just lighting up everything i saw including benches :< In my defense i've been playing for only a little bit more than a week
OK listen: while I agree most of these are good to keep in mind and some of them you obviously shouldn't do (like purposefully getting people krilled and bullying), some of these you should absolutely NOT feel obligated to do. It's OK if you can't stop and help someone...sometimes people are in a rush, don't have the time to wait around, are in the middle of ubering, hanging out with friends, ect. There are so many situations and scenarios. It's not your duty to help everyone and I promise you're not toxic if you choose not to. Let's not accuse players of being toxic without knowing the full context.
Fr, some of these don't make you a toxic person, the most obvious ones I understand, but like there were 3 or four that are seriously more of a personal issue with other players.
@@imokage sometimes, but it also depends on how many people are already there waiting. Believe it or not, I've had to wait around at a 4 person door for over 30 minutes.
I strongly agree with what was said in the video 🐣 But there are a couple more things I would like to add, if author and other skykids are don't mind of course~ 1) Don't disturb a musician when he's practicing or playing a song. Don't make noises please, please don't take out a musical instrument and don't start to spam on music notes. It's very rude and not nice. If there is a situation where you accidentally ended up in the same place with another musician and you were playing a song at the same time - apologize to the player (through the bow emote) and change the place to keep playing or practicing the song 🐣 2) For god's , don't annoy players who might be a couple (or just a good friends) who want to spend time together. Alone, with each other. Yes, it can be very interesting to watch someone and do a lot of "content" with them without their permission, but that's not normal. It is especially amusing that some players still believe that if the players are cuddling while sitting somewhere - this is 100% a couple and it should be stopped because it's not normal. Not normal to climb where you are were not asked for that and destroy someone else’s happiness. Please find for yourself another activity in the game or in reality 🤷 3) Sky is a game. With an open world and a great opportunity to find friends from all over the world. Not an app to find a couple for dating. And Sky isn't a dating simulator- 💀 Perhaps there is something else that I could forget about, but I mentioned 3 main problems that I noticed during the game (besides those that were mentioned in the video). I will be very glad if someone decides to add something else to my list and decides to share their stories 🐈💕
kinda ironic how you said "you shouIdn't destroy the happiness of other couples!" when you said after "sky isn't a dating place :skull:" also i do not agree with some at all, in the last one the other guy was hiding, not leading the kril to her, also benches are to talk right? if you ask someone "can you help me?" instead of "hello" first thats rude imo, you shouId atleast talk to them first
@@trashpandaRaku how to say... I met plenty of players in my time who purposefully came to this game just for this and thought that sky is a dating app. That's why I said that 🙂 But I do not deny the fact that there can be people in the game who really dating, who could find a loved one in the game.
@@trashpandaRaku you want rudeness? they can literally just insult you and leave. i know “hello” is the bare minimum but good gravy, it’s not personal if someone doesn’t kiss your feet and lay out the red carpet for you. if you find SUCH a fault with a lack of greeting, you’re free to ignore them. regardless, if someone just bombarded me with help questions, i WOULD just leave. ion wanna deal with that, the internet has so many guides on how to play the game 💀
ugh I have another bad experience; I was practicing Isabella's lullaby in harmony hall when someone came up to me and tried to get me to light them and when I ignored them, they started music spamming me until I finally got up and lit them and I had to start the song all over :(
I'm sorry to hear that :( the best way to deal with these people, is to not light them at all. don't give them what they want, just ignore them and go somewhere else if you can. A similar thing happened to me, when I was playing flower dance. A moth just came and was nice at first, but at one point yawned at the performance at that point I'm just like "if you don't like it why are you here?" He was also spamming confetti, which wasn't helping me focus so I just left and went to valley.
Figure this. You are there people hoking at four door in vault and there were this two stup!d chibi players who thought it was better idea to go under the door before open it
U mean second floor not four floor? Maybe they was thought they were in server alone so if u feel their presence maybe they can't see u due to server random change
So, some people aren't obligated to help tho, sorry. I do like helping others, but when I need help and get ignored, it doesn't bother me cause they aren't doing it intentionally. Plus sometimes I am in a hurry and can't wait for a gathering of people, so chibi shortcuts are my highways 😭😭
@@audos_8306its one thing to chibi through because you don’t want to wait for other players to join. But if 3/4 players are already there waiting it’s definitely rude to chibi instead of becoming the 4th
Ikr.. Tgc even make our cape looks like default cape to encourage us to light people without any judgment before light them.. Like this is a social game?
I totally agree with the, "Not ignoring people" when they're at multiplayer doors. Just the other day; I was solo at Vault second floor 4 door, and there was one other person (I had my chibi mask on so was planning on glitching in, but waited instead for other players to enable the first initial player get through). Two players came by and flew to us. They stood there chatting and laughing, even standing on the other 2 entry stones, but without attempting to tap the icon-deciding to laugh and then fly off to sit on the elevator. I cannot comprehend such ridiculous behaviour, other than to be annoying and give themselves some 🙄 HIGHLY AMUSING 🙄 fun. I added the other player who was understandbly doing the 'WTH' emote, and we glitched through together. Idk man, odd interaction with some odd players 😑
I didnt know lighting up other people bothered them (i dont press for it, if they dont want to i walk away) I just like seeing other peoples outfits. 100% guilty of accidently lighting candles on seats especially by the campfires. When jm just trying to light the dark bubbles. Ive let a few new people lead me about because im cooking dinner and i like to see where they want to go. The game can be lonley alone as none of my IRL friends play this, i play across two devises to do the friends task (which is very sad and a tad depressing). But i play at strange hours so some of those ive accepted friends requests arent on unless im on early during a weekend of playing late because i cant sleep
The chat benches in the dark bubble areas don’t run out! Actually there’s quite a few social areas where the chat benches don’t run out like in treehouse.
I think the most toxic will be some advanced players or veterans will hold moth's hands and lead them to the krill and then they'll use the techniques to escape the attack like shop press, pressing instructions, etc. That's really sad if someone really experienced this.
This video was made because the uploader had a negative outlook. Most of these situations is what I wouldn't deem toxic. But these are good tips and advice. The last one was a misunderstanding. The player did not lead it to you and even moved away once they saw you. Then the krill focused on you once it was looking around. It's easy to get krilled if you're going to shoot a video nearby one. Just expect it next time.
Today I was listening to someone playing music, this player played me 3 songs, I congratulate them every time, but the last time the person made a facepalm like they are mad at me and quit the game, idk what I did wrong
Screw them, it's impossible to know if a player is going to like you congratulating them or not, so don't pay attention to that rude person. Many musician players appreciate when you congratulate them, so keep doing it as long as you feel like doing it! Don't let that bad experience affect you, you didn't do anything wrong :)
As someone who loves to play music, I am so grateful for you! I rarely get congratulated (maybe because I'm bad at it) but when someone does it literally makes me feel so satisfied and amazing.❤❤❤
@@greeniscoollol Same. I love it when people sit and watch me play even when I'm just practicing and then clap and send kisses when I'm done. It's so sweet and wholesome.
I think the only time I bothered someone while they were afk was when they were in the rain and I was collecting their winged light and they were just losing a lot. I stopped after a min cause there wasn’t anything else I could do
lol, I encountered an afk person in the crab fields who was just laying in the water and getting bonked by crabs while me and a couple others were doing the crab whisperer spirit.
it reminds me when, a few days ago, i saw someone in the forest just laying there in the rain and i collected their light then i stayed with them until the game probably disconnected them. im sorry if they were trying to go wingless but isn’t there others ways to do that ?!
but- I love to honk 🥲 recently tho I wanted to sing with the honk but it bothered some ppl chilling around so I stopped lol, I don't have any instruments sooo 😔 I honk lol
i swear i spend upwards of 1.5 hours at EACH of the vault multiplayer doors every other day while people just chibifall in groups. used to be my favorite realm until people started doing this. whenever i complain about it i just get told to do it too but why should i sacrifice my cute fit for the mask or candles for shrink spells just because people dont wanna help? it could be 10 minutes spent there max if the same group goes to the next floor together too but people just see you struggling and ignore it
why should ppl waste 10min of their time when they just spent 20 hearts on chibi mask tho? like… it really sucks if u are waiting with 2 more players in a 4 players door and someone just chibi falls instead of just helping with the door, but don’t expect ppl to wait for players with you, time is precious. i also don’t like to use chibimask coz i like to be tall, but i always run it when i’m candle running at vault or some other maps that have at least 1 chibifall spot (like skipping that unnecessarilly large tunnel at ice rink), it’s more likely tgc fault with the bad server merge
@@kyrus7422 im not attacking chibi players for speedrunning but its just common decency and the whole point of the game to help people and not just chibi fall when theres SEVERAL people waiting or 3+ chibis skipping the door while one player waits. sometimes they friend me and take me along and sometimes the people causing others to wait for HOURS arent even in chibi masks, just loitering and laughing at us. the issue is horrible servers and tgc constantly advocating for the game being about teamwork and friends while actively making it impossible to play like that. not everybody will spend 20 hearts on a mask that adds nothing aesthetically just to avoid playing the game as intended considering theres only a limited amount of hearts to collect if you cant find friends for heart exchange
@@fermentingdragonyup, chibi carrying friends and just chibifalling because they’re lazy to catch hands again is really toxic. i usually add ppl and bring them to the other side at vault doors if it’s just one player (as a aurora moth i’m always broke at candles) and always keep an eye at the doors, if there’s someone waiting and more players appears i always stop what i’m doing (like lightning triggers for next area) and help them, as u said it’s common sense. but unfortunately i (and prob most players going to 19~gray candle run everyday) have no time to wait together with 1 or 2 players at 4 players doors. due to most cr taking around 1h30 (that's really A LOT for a supposed socializing and exploring game, it’s more like a grind to dress-up game rn) and my time being very limited it’s impossible to wait with other players, thanks to server merge and 2nd vault floor being part of 1st floor, both having 4 players door.
I loving chibi falling though it is courteous to pause and help players through doors. Still chibi fall when no ones there cause I be speed running though or OOB time. Zoom zoom!
Im sorry by number 1 is such a non issue. You will be playing with them anyway, they will just be grey so what difference will that make?. Plus ignoring someone like that is straight up rude
The people in the comments calling players toxic for not wanting to light people/forcing others to light people is actually wild. Its really not that serious. Someone is pushing you to light them? Politely decline and be on your way. Do they keep chasing you around? Maybe they see it as a fun game. Just go home or smth, most players aren't doing it to be malicious. Someone you want to light keeps ignoring you? Accept that and move on. Your gaming experience isn't going to be impacted by them not lighting you (unless you're on switch i guess).
@Not_RedBoosta cuz the button for lighting ppl is the same as the button for lighting candles, or holding someone, or following a friend and stuff. So the light stranger button could get in the way while trying to do anything else
@@squidhatonaglobe4030 I play on Switch and that is immensely annoying. It takes so long sometimes to do what I'm actually trying to do. And a lot of times what I'm trying to do won't pop up anymore when other people are too close, all I can see is the stupid icon above them to try to light each other's candle. It's so frustrating.
@@NoNames-vw3bq i couldnt imagine how horrible it must be...i dont get why tgc thought it would be a good idea to make like half of all stuff in the game triggable with one button.
A kid lead a krill to me in Eden once, they wouldn't help rekindle me either, had to backtrack to find a light source.💀💀 Thank you for bringing that up in the video, because for all I know it could've been an accident and didn't realize they did it.
Also don't play your instruments when someone else is already playing! I get extremely pissed when this happens and spam the notes until they stop. One skykid at grandma's cry-emoted after I did this lmao, felt good
That's rude. Some people just want to duet, so please just let them know in a kind way.. I personally am okay with it. It's fine if you aren't, but not really okay to make someone cry over it since they might just be trying to duet.
Mmm from my experience, and I'm playing from 3 years, as toxic behavior i would say that people who lead moths to krill are pretty sad people.. Then i think are very toxic those veterans that act cool and make feel bad other players because they have less clothes ( as a vet i love to help other players ,when it's possible). And plus i add those that doesn't greet you, like they are already your friends also with open chat , but if they see you they go away without saying nothing. Honestly, i can understand when a person doesn't have the desire to talk, you can just bow, it's enough..but act like you don't exist it's rude. Plus one time i had a friendship of a guy that had chat open with me, i had the opportunity to read his conversations sometimes, and he was the definition of " toxic" player, he was just say " your outfit suck" " what you study sucks" and laughing... I blocked him because was very sad to read this, and yes, was a toxic person. Generally i don't care much if a person want to light me or not, i try, but If they don't want for me it's okay, i will go on 😂
1:33 i was stucking on this door FOR 10 MINS ! I mean that's a lot of time for me i could do a lot of cr in that wasted time.. because i don't have much time to play each day,so i should use my time wisely But just a lot of players ignored me and i had to wait a lot for the next players to come and at last i had to just give up that door
I think if there's not much people it's totally ok, it just happened to me that we were perfect for the door but the 2 people still ignored and went to do the chibi fall 🤣😅
Questions for the community: 1. Not sure if this is considered a bad habit, but if I see/hear another player honk, even if I don't know them, I automatically honk back. Not excessively, just once or twice. Is this considered bad manners? 2. On another note: is it acceptable to honk when you enter a room or meet another player, even if it's just to announce yourself? I mainly do this so that they know another player is nearby if they need help, but I can see how this is rude. Yes, I realize my moth is showing, but I want to make sure I'm not annoying people when I go online.
1. its not some people honks for fun and they enjoy it when other people do it with them ❤ 2. This is something I do too so I think it's completely normal ❤
if someone honks in the same map as me, i usually honk back. sometimes they need help or just wanna see where other people are, or sometimes they honk accidently. a couple honks isnt annoying but avoid continuously honking in their face. i spam honk a bit when i meet a friend cause its a way to show i'm excited to meet them but dont do it very long
@@eden.gardenthe only time I spam honk is when I see someone dying 😂 I might be annoying the people that are passing by, but who cares about them because they don't wanna help a dying player 😤 Even when I dont feel like any social interaction, I still help people dying, even if I'm just setting myself up for death lol.
aAaa i didnt know 1:39 is a toxic thing 😭 i just get so awkward when seeing a friended person and idk if they want to be left alone or if i should approach 😢😢😢
@@Skykidjoy I just wanna point one thing. isn't people commenting on your video same as liting other people in game. just like people comment on your video they wanna lit you in game what they wear. and like you replied to only few people here. isn't it same in game if you nice outfit you wanna talk to them to say you have nice outfit. you saying you make video on your own opinion. so it means according to video you have to block the whole comment section right??? 🤔because there is toxic
@@BIJAYONJAN No the difference is here it's a platform to share my thoughts on how to be a better player, a lot of people agreed to them and it's ok to not agree too, I read the comments and people has their own reasons and I respect it. The things I put in the video is all my experience. I love to annoy people by honking or following them just to light them then one day someone got really mad about it and I was not aware that my actions bothered other people, I'm just sharing my thoughts and trying to help people to be more aware. 💞
I have lots of “friends” but none of them ever want to play or say hi or help I patrol realms looking for people I can help with doors and save fallen kids When I ask a friend to come with me to help with door most replied I don’t really go to that area or I’m about to log off 😢 it’s beginning to be not as much fun playing by myself every day
I'm sorry that happened to you. 😢 Sky is honestly a wonderful world, so don't let a few people ruin the experience for you. You'll find some great friends who'll appreciate and play with you soon! ❤️ And I'm always looking for new friends too! If you would ever like to play together. 😊
Don’t flirt. Especially when I agree to help you and you starting to ask question about my age or how tall I am or what’s my name. I feel uncomfortable. And most players who I decide to help start flirting with me and telling story’s about themselves. We don’t know each other. Pleas don’t do that.
i only ask for their nickname/online name when i add them as a friend but yeah you're right. flirting and asking personal information is just a really big red flag
1:23 I usually just come to the other players in the area and honk + do pointing emotes, hope they'll understand and help, it usually works 😁 but don't forget to bow and kiss emote after they helped, it shows your appreciation to their time and effort ❤️
Thankfully most of my encounters have been good over the years but recently i have had the worst set of encounters ever. There was one moth i freinded back in 2020 that I kinda forgot about since i often give up on the game quite a lot. The time i decide to join they logged in and they offered to chat with me, and at first i was like wow thats cool we can chat now. They then started asking if i would date them and if i was into role playing. It got so bad i had to block them due to them following me in every realm while i was with my little sister, begging me and always typing "crying" "sniffing". Some people need to get it in their heads that this game aint tinder nor badoo.
I remember a friend telling me about this happening that there's a lot of people who are only there for dating & I was so confused because how would that even work? I guess I have a completely different definition of what it means to be dating someone 🤷♂️
This is an important thing to take home! I love this. I sleep with Sky on sometimes and I'm woken up by players all the time. But I either hangout with them or leave. I don't get upset.
i don't really run into a lot of toxic players, nor did i think the community had any toxic players so i wasn't expecting this ;-; but these are all great points, will definitely be helpful for any new player! thank you :3
I made an exception for #3 when I saw a player afk in the poisoned water in the Wasteland. I noticed the player when I saw them lose a wing. I picked up the wing and honked at them in an attempt to restore their light and get their attention. They were still afk when I ended up in a different server, and I don't know what happened to that skykid.
Ah, I am an introvert with social anxiety so I am innocent of these crimes, I just don't interact with anyone 😅 Literally all of my friends are those who approached me first.
Seriously, what's wrong with all of you extroverts, huh? Someone doesn't want to light you? Then just ignore them! Change server or wait for them to go away. It's not like you will die if you don't see the face of every single player you meet. The fact that Sky is a social game doesn't mean that you're allowed to force others to show you their appearance. You can do a lot of things in this game, and socializing is just ONE of them, not the only one
@@Puri_.z nono i dont mean that, i know that but it isn’t just extroverted players i’m just saying it could be any type of person like a person mustering up the courage to make friends in sky
Some of yall are so weird. You are not entitled to having other folks light up your candle like damn. It’s not toxic to have boundaries. Yes, Sky is a social game but folks do not have to be socializing every second to play the game, there’s other things to do and hey if someone just wants to be left alone or doesn’t want to be lighted then that’s fine then, that’s that. Like really, think about other folks boundaries instead of your own and feeling entitled for what you want while not considering their feelings.
Personally I don't see any problem with just lighting someone to see their avatar, it's not socializing. I've never met anyone trying to force me to accept their candle, just maybe taking a while to realize that I don't want to. I dunno, I think lighting someone's avatar is just a nice gesture, especially because the moths won't understand why they'd get ignored
@@rigure That’s understandable. It’s just different for everyone, not everyone will like it whether some considers it to be socializing or not, to each their own. It becomes an issue when people in the comments start making it seem like people have to light their candles when they don’t want to, that’s when it becomes toxic like the video is referring to.
@@rigure Personally, I like to bow or wave to anyone whose lit my candle and vice versa, there’s other times where I’m in a hurry and don’t want to greet anyone. I see it as a sign of respect to bow or wave to someone but when I don’t have time for it, (ex. speedrunning a short candle run or daily missions before school starts) then I’d rather not have someone be in my face about it when I’m focusing on completing those tasks. It takes me awhile to find the bow and wave emotes as well since I use a lot of emotes and have trouble remembering their places esp after getting new emotes. And Yes, I know it’s easy to light a candle and such and go on about my day but I still consider lighting candles to be socializing which is something I’m not always in the time or mood for.
I was in Eden once, and that area right before the tower like thing, just after the bridge is a little hide hole/canopy thing to hide from krill. I was hiding there and someone just stood in the middle of the bridge and it krilled me, I was so upset cause I fell all the way down and lost wl, so I had to leave and get them back
Had a similar experience. I was at the last part, just before the tunnel where the last 9 wings are. I was waiting behind cover for my chance to cross to the tunnel & someone came up behind me and got the krill's attention then ran. I didn't realise until it was too late that it now saw me behind my cover too so I lost wing light & had to go get it back then return to Eden & start over from the beginning.
Oh man I rmb one time a moth wanted to 'help' me find winged lights so I can level up my wing. We went to the golden wasteland and i thought 'that's not too bad' bc there are many winged lights as well. There was indeed one but the moth just ignored and I thought something's not right but I ignored it until I realized that they were leading me to a krill. It was slightly scary, and I lost a winged light as a result so I had to collect more to recover. It was the first time that has ever happened to me.
@@FlixTheFoxALT yea open your chat and press R2, a QR code will appear. you just have to scan. you can find the qr code in the menu too now. try out, it saves so much time!
@@FlixTheFoxALT yes there's a QR code you can use to get your mobile connected to use for a keyboard. Makes it a lot easier to talk with people but also means you still can't see what's going on while you're looking at your phone trying to type lol but it's still a better option than that dreaded typing with the switch.
Sometimes I just wish people wouldn't ask me to light them when I'm in the middle of jamming out with my piano and it's in the middle of the piece. At least wait until I'm done, bruh
one time i was helping my bf with quests (he joined the game yesterday) and i said for him to be careful at the wasteland.. so i was leading him to some spirit i saw but when he got the spirit's cutscene a damn krill was coming and the krill saw him, my heart was in panic and i started to play hide and seek with the krill, lol
I don’t see the light up one as a problem. I play on controller so the light button goes to nearest thing when you want to go to something else. But honestly who cares if you get lit up. You probably wouldn’t see that person again and if you did, you wouldn’t know.
There are times when I'm trying to do things and a player will keep following to light me and honk nonstop, so it does get annoying. It's worse when I finally light them and they still keep honking and following me. There are players who just do it on purpose🤷♀🤷♀
@izylea Understandable. You can go home and go to the thing in the middle to go back where you were. I never experienced it before, but I think some want friends or attention. But I was talking more about accidentally lighting up players. There have been times when I accidentally lit someone, and they would get mad.
One of the worst things is that they ask you give a heart when they don't even return the favour/constantly bothering you. This happened to me with my ex~ moth (I blocked her afterwards ). She always made me constantly feel overwhelmed with her presence because she had no respects for my boundaries. Even if I did put on "do not disturb" spell (that is directed to her) she would still join me. I finally had enough when she asked me for hearts for the 3rd time. I told her so many times I'm saving up, which is true by the way but she gets mad and sad because she doesn't get what she wants. She also often says we should "upgrade" our friendship tree to unlock piggyback! Well guess what? I was the one forced to spend on it cause she threw a tantrum when I refused to spend. This is why I'm now a solo player, I'm just afraid to socialise now because of that incident. and I unlocked a trauma for moths and high expectations for what my moth should be or shouldn't be. Or how they should respect my boundaries etc. Nonetheless they'll ignore your signs of discomfort anyway even if you obviously express it visually. Sorry for venting here, I've been wanting to get this off my chest for a while since I often had bad experiences with moths
Omg I went through something similar, but I was the moth. (Bad english, sorry) I started to play a month ago, I’ve made friendship with a veteran but she treated me so badly, always talking about my cape, my hair, I liked the moth appearance but she forced me to change and didn’t give me a single hearth to do it. She always blamed me when a krill attacked her, even when I was distant from her. Sometimes I couldn’t save all her winged lights and she started with the drama, I know it’s such a boring thing to find the winged light again but she made me lose all my wings in eden multiple times, even when I didn’t want to make the eden because I like to fly exploring all the portals. Anyway, now she’s blocked Sorry for venting. Now I’m passing through the same thing as you, I’m afraid of making more friends in the game, but at least I finally can have some minutes of peace playing
That’s such good and important video! Should be spread to all sky kids ! Thanks for this video make not feel alone with the feel you all told perfectly !
8. leave them alone if you see they're using a "do not disturb" spell. Sometimes people want to stay alone/have social anxiety and prefer to play alone for a while. People should respect that more... It always irritate me a little when someone teleports to me even if i'm using that spell 😭
Krill baiting people is just horrible! I don't mind the krills or getting hit by them, but some of my friends are TERRIFIED of them. I am the uber for Golden Wasteland all the time because of this. So please don't :< I can get petty when annoyed by this and will friend baiters just to use their body to slap a krill (It's easy to tell a baiter from an accidental). I know it doesn't help the situation but I only do it depending how many times a baiter will set a krill on us till my friends have an anxiety attack irl (we often VC our sessions). The one I used to face slap a krill did it well over 5 times of baiting the krill onto us.
That's me! I barely play Sky alone because of how much the Krill terrify me! If I get hit/nearly hit by one, I almost always have a nightmare with them in it that night. Aside from that, the game is super fun, so I basically want to be a forever moth and be ubered/guided by friends and others to get help for events and dailies. c': I've never been Krill baited before, but I could totally see why it is a huge issue, and so so cruel. :c
I don’t thing the person did the krill guide on you on purpose… idk how that works… if the krill finds someone else cause of me personally it wasn’t meant to happen- cause then I would be just running away and didn’t see anyone else XD. Plus. Yeah the light candle thing is so tiring or anxiety infp ducking sometimes, cause I love all people but please no 😭😭 I don’t wanna talk and I don’t wanna have that awkward silence either. BAHSH Or when you practice a music sheet and people come over and you’re like “nooo” BAHSH ueueue. But yeah I agree with most, but some might be unintentional or weren’t intended with bad thoughts ueuuee
A player I saw. Was very impatient with my other freinds and also doesn't want to go to Eden. Yes you can lose all your winged light but there are some benefits for the cost. He wouldn't help either when needed.... I decided to not become friends with him anymore. P.S. he calls Eden a scam.
watching this after getting krilled by another player an hour into my winged light run. I'm not a new player, but I don't have any friends in the game, so I have very limited knowledge on tips or tricks to avoid being krilled (and I'm just extremely afraid of krill). unfortunately I always seem to meet malicious people.. it could have been my fault for trusting a random player this video is lovely though, and I hope it inspires some to be a little more understanding and kind to others.
idk if it's me or ignoring//self-help players are more toxic than krill baiting......especially when you're standing at multi-player puzzles (mostly those 4-people doors in the vault) WHYYYY????? indeed you can do chibi fall (and so do I) to skip the door, but can we just give out 1 candle or a few seconds to help others open the door ???? And in the previous rainbow puzzle of Days of Colour........like a hell ;-; when everyone just stood there waiting for the bubble without a help in filling the rainbow bridges
It’s chibi players mostly i play 4 years and not a single chibi in all this time has ever helped I never saw any…. Ans no I also never played myself as chibi to be like them. I do not even light up chibi players anymore because I don’t want to see anti social people 😅
Nr one happens on a daily basis for me. See, i’m a ppl pleaser and everytime someone want to light me, it feels like i’m forced to light them back because everytime i do the emote for ”no” or ignore them, they get mad. Like seriously mad. Don’t be like me. Don’t confuse respect with kindness or kindness with respect.
1. I sometimes still light the bench candles by accident 😢 2. When I see my friends in the same area as me I just let them be bc idk if they'd like to see me or not but ty for telling me otherwise! I had no idea wht I was doing was rude
1. It's completely ok because sometimes the candles stop when it sense that no one is using it 💓 2. This is not rude at all, some people get merged and a simple honk to acknowledge them will be fine ❤ You are such a good friend 🥰💓
I don't think the final one was someone leading the krill to you, they went a complete other direction. I think they were trying to get away from it and you happened to be in the scan range after.
Me who cant deny a friend request and lighting them up : I will play this forever. also me when my friends kinda ignores but they are with their friend : I will give you ✨personal space✨ and im also from the philippines :D
The second one, I do agree it’s kind of annoying, but sometimes I don’t have enough candles or the other person doesn’t have enough candles so we do talk on the bench see what they do. Have see what they don’t have. Plus if they’re saving for something they can’t really spare any candles.
1 *weeps* i always get to accidentally press that goodness forsaken button 😂😂😂 2 i always abuse lighting the ones by the bonfire. Gives me hella wax sometimes. 3 agree. Totes. 4, 5 (?) depends. Some players are in a hurry to maximize their time. Of course, often times they will dismiss other players either by accident or intentional. I wont put it into them that they are being unkind. 8(?) the Krill one. If it was done by accident i wont mind, its happen to me a lot. Of course its frustrating for some, but another form of kindness is the skill to be adaptive. The next best you can do is just complain but never assume or blame. One thing you forget here is level of tolerance. Either way, good job for putting this list. I wish honk spamming by some players stop. Unless its done outside a group, but thats just my bias.
I wanted to learn how to dodge a krill and then right when the krill saw me and my friend a moth came out of nowhere- I panicked and we went to hide and we were safe thankfully but then again she(the moth) moved a bit and waved at me and the krill spotted her again.. I wanted to distract it but it ended up krilling her… I was so guilty for letting that happen until my friend cheered me on.. never ever krill moths protect them at all costs it was traumatizing for me as a moth in wasteland and we all have that experience
Y'all have no idea how many times i went past Gates and spirit's cuz sone require more players to open I'd see player's literally flying past me but won't come down to help i feel so helpless at that point and i can only open these gates when my big sis comes online 😟 I'd be honking for 10 mins and no one would bother to come OFC their are some nice player's who'll always help But the toxic base is more think
Personally agree with all of these! And imma add my own personal rule. Don't baby talk players just cause they are chibi: I've had one too many ppl (when I offer to help them or smt) baby talk me when I go chibi (for the fall glitch) It makes me uncomfy and I normally tell em not to do it but they don't listen because "your a wittle tiny baby!!"
I feel that was just unfortunate for you. I dont think that happens often, because that seems like toxic player behavior, and those players aren't that common. But anyway, yes, people shouldn't do that.
Thank you very much!! I had just started playing SKY last week and I went to eye of eden after getting 20 Winged Lights lol, when I died I thought it was all over. I want to further explore and make friends on sky !! ❤❤
for the first one, i think it's exaggerated to call it toxic, it's a game about helping and making friends afterall and ALMOST all of the players want to know (curious) what you're wearing. if you don't want to be lit don't stay on social area ☺️
to be fair even if these are an opinion these are all true, all of these situations are just results of someone not caring about others and usually yourself paying for it and or another person, always be respectful of others 👍
i think i accidentally did something wrong, because when a lot of people were holding hands i wanted to tell them that i think they were funny but i didn’t)t expect the laugh emote to be that noticeable and harsh-
It's annoying when more than 1 of our friends are in the same place and they will be with their friends and making our friends know each other is a pain When you talk with your one friend the other friends feels ignored
I mostly agree with other things you said but the light one is something I do not agree. I usually want to light someone to see their looks, doesn’t mean I want to befriend them plus, if we do not befriend we will never see each others again. That is my opinion. When I want to light someone it is not meant to be rude or to. Be disrespectful, is just because I want to see their outfit.
I think you misunderstood, it's already annoying for some people if they don't want to light you but you force them to do it. I am like you too I'm very curious of what they're wearing but if they don't want to light me I just accept and respect it 💓
@@Skykidjoy nono I did not misunderstood I preaviously got your point, the thing is that my opinion is far away from yours so you think that I’ve misunderstood. I do not force but is something I do not understand. If this game is based on cooperation and socializing I do not see the point of playing alone because most of the things are been doing together , but I repeat I do not force,but what I am trying to say is that I do not understand this behavior especially when everybody can Easly reject the friendship (like I can light your candle but doesn’t mean I wanna befriend ,and if that so you can reject the friendship and this is totally understandable )👍
