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@MichelleMarchantJohnson I love your channel! I am a feminine woman and I am in love with a masculine man. We are very happy together. I am 53 and he is 58. You are never too old to find love. I'm so glad I found your channel around the same time we started dating!😊
@@OhioGalReads Aww! That's so sweet! I am so happy for both of you! Happy Valentine's Day and thanks so much for watching and for your kind words too! 🙂
I always learn something from Dr. Gray. Sometimes it’s just reminders or rephrasing of important information. Thank you for allowing him to talk and being a great listener. ❤. I had a man not come to visit for 3 weeks., he was at his camp 3 hrs away and he said, “you must be mad because I havent seen you for 3 weeks. I said, no, I know you were having a good time…and I’ve been busy too. I could see his sense of relief that I wasn’t upset.
Dear John Gray, I watched lots and lots of your videos, read your books, follow your incredible wise advices and now my dating is much better. I'm enjoying it, I'm not "buying a house", and it's working! Thank YOU, you're genius! ❤❤❤
I’ve never done this. Like my mum I’ve always been supportive in relationships. Unfortunately it wasn’t reciprocated. So I gave up.My mum was forced to leave an abusive relationship.
This was a great interview. Dr. Gray was right! It's very easy to listen to you two interact. You ask the right questions, and summarize his points very well.
Altho' I agree, some people don't care about mess. My ex didn't care about a messy house - altho' they did like it clean. My cousin (female) doesn't care about a messy house either... some ppl are just like that. Honestly, if someone doesn't care, you can't make them care. Just like if you don't care about his car, he can't make you care about his car (that's an example, you fill in the item, I just randomly chose cars). Just because you have a strong opinion about something (he SHOULD care and pick up after himself), doesn't mean your opinion is a fit for everyone. We're all human, we all have our preferences and priorities. When there's an issue I can't be flexible with, I try to find someone who has the same priorities. I hope you don't fall in love with someone who's ok with a messy house, if you're not willing to accept him as he is. Something I try to remember when I'm upset about something: Would I rather be 'right', or be in relationship? That thought always helps me come back to the present moment and realize it is what it is, and I can either make myself miserable by being upset about it, or I can just be ok with reality as it is. Hope that's helpful.
@@jfdc8432 I’m not a neat freak but my husband would take off his socks and throw them wherever and I finally just left them there for WEEKS. The bottom line is it is about respect. He just didn’t care but he knew I cared. He just didn’t want to pick up after himself so he didn’t. Wouldn’t it be great if it was socially acceptable for us all to do that?
"Why are women having to ask grown men to pick up after themselves?" Why do women expect men to live domestically like their preferences? That's a rhetorical question to highlight something deeper - Because you are making assumptions. And btw - I've had the same experience with a partner but it was more extreme - And I had to pick up/clean after them if I wanted a more orderly/clean household - They just couldn't do it, it wasn't in them.
Easier said than done.. To be madly in love ..heart open...and wanting more of him...of fusion..and he needs to pull away..🤣 exactly when l.most need him...? Maybe l need a woman
Michelle, I think it will help woman listening to hear John talk also what he teaches men in each situation otherwise he sounds bias. Also you would be attracting more couples.❤
This channel is geared toward women. John does teach men and all of his books provide content for men and women. I work with women, so my channel has content mainly for women. Thanks for watching! I appreciate it!
bring it up , be direct about wanting to communicate something. and ask him "what would you do if you were me?, what do you think about how this affects our marriage or relationship?. men respond to thinking q's not feeling q's
I love John Gray’s interviews with Michelle. But sometimes I think he’s asking women to treat a man like a child. Children make a mess and don’t want to tidy up. I want him to coach men to change and grow up.
Do not ever say that ever again. he is NOT GOD. Repent on your knees for saying that. Do it before it is too late. Never ever mock God. God is not mocked. You can be wiped off of this earth in a blink of an eye.
