Pray to God of the Trinity always. He is the one who can give peace, joy and calmness of mind and heart and give strength to walk our journey in life. He will send His Holy Spirit to guide us to live in righteousness and in the Truth. Slowly our hearts will be changed to be like His, for we have the Holy Spirit in us through our Baptism. We have God's divine nature in us. In God's time, our hearts and minds will be attracted to God's goodness and God's law. We will dislike sensual stuff. We will be so happy to obey God's law that is perfect, but not easy. It is by God's grace that we can. We will not be so emotional. We will be more gentle and docile, like the Holy Spirit nature