So the mistress says she loves him and that is supposed to make up for the pain that they've caused his son. She's so selfish, she isn't even trying to reassure him that his son will be alright eventually, she's so narcissistic. But this man deserves every horrible thing that happens to him, it's just sad that he had to ruin his ex wife's life in the process.
The fact that dad made him sit for his own birthday party with somebody he didn’t wanna be around! He allow that person to blow out his birthday candles effectively stealing his wish! On top of that asking him to do it for daddy is disgusting! what has that dad done for his family?????????????????
You can’t force a kid to like anyone. They made his birthday look more like a seance than a party. And honestly I would be ticked off if someone tried to blow out my candles at a party that was for me. That’s like stealing his wish. It’s tripped out how no one considers the kids feelings at all, he is simply expected to go with the flow. Of course he will lash out.
I probably would’ve reacted the same way Siao Mo did. If someone tore my family apart, in what universe do you expect me to be tolerate his/her presence, especially during his birthday. It was such a slap in the face for him
I have no words that would leave his wife and son for a mistress that lied to him to break up his family. 😡 The father makes me sick. He’d choose that mistress over a 16 year marriage. I hated the ending.
He is only now realizing how much it has emotionally affected his own son when comes to his mistress and his affair has destroyed his son's family life. He had never once gave thought on how his own horrofic actions would affect his own son. 😢
Nunca piensan en los hijos😂... Solo piensan en su satisfacción... Si te pica ser infiel y tu excusa es que ya no eres feliz en tu matrimonio... Porqué no mejorar la relación con tu cónyuge? No decidieron juntos casarse? Se fijaron en sus buenas cualidades o en las malas?
I HATED the ending!! I felt like his karma became the ex-wife's karma as well. The writers totally disrespected the ex-wife with the ending. (SPOILER - STOP HERE!!!!!) The little boy already like her new man. They could have gotten married. He would have gladly helped her get care takers for the ex-husband. It was so unfair to the character of the wife. Her suffering continued as the mistress ran back to the husbandshe had in the US. It made you feel watching the entire series was a waste. Even the ending with her sister. I never understood how her ex-husband got that mad at her for misunderstanding about him and the ex having a child. He's the one who put his ex-girlfriend's care and needs in front of his wife's. Even after his own parents asked him to stop, he refused. How could she not think that he crossed the line with how adamant he was about taking care of his ex.
@@tasha9786 I thought I was the only one who did that!! 😁🤪 I felt that way about the ending of Dear to Myself (?). SPOILER SPOILER SPOILER That one guy who stays with the conniving, scheming skank even after finding out that she destroyed his former fiancé's and a friend's careers and targeted his fiancé to steal him, and take over the company she worked for.
Отец хотел порадовать сына, но это стоило сделать без любовницы. Напрасно он думал, что сын ещё мал, ничего не разу меет и не чувствует. Травма останется у ребёнка надолго.
The only time a mistress will want her lovers child is if she can’t have one herself, other than that she will discard his child/children as if they never existed 😩 expecting to start with new and so the vicious cycle continues. Again karma will bite😱
actually i have a boyfriend who has a 2 years old son.. i am capable of giving birth but i love his son very much i am just saying that not every stepmothers are evil 😅😅 we had watch too much dramas that even in real life some people think every step mothers are evil
My husbands mistress turned wife pushed our daughter out of his life after hearing a comment that our granddaughter looked just like me. That was after years of their ignoring my daughter from the age of 12. He finally died never having seen his grandson. My daughter had decided that he had hurt them all enough.
I've watched this little actor even in his younger years and he just keeps on being more impressive with each role he plays. A future star is on the way in the adult world of actors. Great story.
This father caused heartache for their family - can't get over his mother is not there like it use to be. Had me crying watching this. This is how kids end up killing themselves thinking it's their fault. Great little actor.
I have to say that I agree with you what is he doing just sitting down letting his mistress do everything for his son on his son's birthday that's the height of stupidity and the boy knows that the father and the mistress is the reason that his mother and father are no longer together and you let your mistress do everything for his birthday how stupid could you be
Little boy did some great acting when giving his father his opinions on the divorced matter. One thing to get a divorce because you and your spouse grow apart. However, it’s an awful thing to cheat on your family without thought and care for your younger child(ren)🤯🤯
I don't really know the context of the story, but seriously, how can a mistress expect the child to actually like her when she's the primary reason his family is broken???
Los tipos que corren por calentura, no piensan en nada solo en sacarse las ganas, la familia no existe, triste pero real. No olvidemos que es una novela, la realidad supera la ficción.
Desafortunadamente en estos casos de separación los niños son los que salen más perjudicados En estos casos es solo el papá para festejar y pasar más tiempo con su hijo Pero tristemente no piensan en el sentir de los hijos Mi humilde opinión
It is still better than the Child growing up in a Loveless Marriage - Especially if it involves a Cheating Partner. The Child will atleast learn to take a New Chance if He/She faces a similar situation, and will walk away with their Head held High if their Partner treats them like crap for long.
Это большая ошибка знакомить любовницу с детьми, от этого страдает психика ребенка. Ведь своим детским умишком ребенок интуитивно понимает, что в развале семьи виновата она.А здесь любовница без интуиции, эгоистична. Вообще развод это маленькая смерть не только для жены, но и для детей независимо от возраста. Некоторые дети с нестабильной психикой пускаются во все тяжкие, убегают из дома и даже кончают самоубийством, так как многие обвиняют себя в разводе родителей. В любом случае бы был ли развод мирный или с войной между родителями, частенько развод играет негативный сценарий в судьбе ребенка. Многие даже бояться заводить семью или у них не складываются семьи. Поверьте развод переживают даже взрослые дети, развод это крах семьи, стабильности и мира, уклада жизни. Переживают все, равнодушных нет.Психологи говорят, что любовь живет 3 года и что каждый раз разводиться? Рушить семью? Бросать детей? Каждый раз знакомить детей с любовницей? А почему день рождения не справить с мамой и папой?У мужика мозги высохли, он не думает головой, а головкой от полового члена
Вы совершенно правы. Очень жаль, семья была хорошая, счастливая. Я смотрела до конца: главный герой останется в инвалидной коляске, а любовница, со своей Великой любовью, сбежит в Америку, у неё там окажется американский муж. Считаю любовницу эгоистичной Галиной. Жаль жену.
Este capítulo me hizo llorar, que fuerte... Mis padres se separaron cuando tenía 15 años, hoy tengo 61, viendo este capítulo retrocedí en el tiempo, tanto así que parece que fue ayer...🤭
Hola linda buenas tardes podrías decirme xfavor como se llama el dorama para verla se me hizo muy bonita a parte q m hizo recordar una escena mi vida xfavor linda para verla desde el principio
Eso es algo muy duró para los hijos mi hermana se separó y mi sobrina no lo pudo superar y se quitó la vida apenas tenía catorce años. una ruptura es muy difícil para todos pero más para los hijos.
Es tan triste, mi esposo se separo de mi y de mi hijo, porque él se suicido, ahora la vida me da oportunidad de seguir con mi vida al aldo de un hombre bueno que quiere a mi hijo, pero el no lo quiere y no lo acepta despues de 2.5 años de que papa ya no está. Es muy dificil vivir 2 duelos y el tratar de entender a mi hijo, lo amo tanto pero es tan dificil a sus 15 años. 😭
This is one of the best movies I’ve seen in a long time, it tells you how low a man will sink ,the lead actor is great I adore him. We as fan hear about anything near the character he played in the movie we are ready to boycott him forgetting life goes on
When an adult chooses their selfish desire and has a mistress only the kids suffer. And now he is asking to have a peaceful bonding and to get closer with his son? Pissed off
Kids aren't stupid. Ximao doesn't know what happened but he knows Qin Shan hurt his mom and made her unhappy, he also knows his dad is at fault but it's his dad and he loves him. The father would've and should've done something just the two of them. Why would you bring the GF with you to your kids birthday party, the first one he's spending without both his parents. I wouldn't want anything to do with Qin Shan either and dad should be happy I even came because I'd be so ticked off with him. And then all the pent up emotions came out. People don't realize what they're throwing away when they do stuff like this. It's not just that they destroy their marriage but the actions also hurt the children. If he was going to cheat he should've been prepared to face the consequences of his actions, the potential loss and perhaps loss of your child's affection because that could've happened as well. The father is just such an ass, I really, really disliked him and the GF.
Lo más feo es que no solo le rompe el corazón por la infidelidad, sino porque cual madre no sufre al ver así de destrozado a su pequeño. Creo que no hay sacudida de cama o "llama ardiente" que le gane al puro y intenso verdadero amor que tienen los niños y las madres, es natural que se sienta traicionado porque al fin y al cabo ya el padre no esta igual de cerca y rompió el invaluable e irrepetible voto de confianza que tenía su hijo por él.
This woman...has no idea of how to be empathetic just as she has no way to know what being a parent means & how it feels; her whole life- - utterly selfish, a life only about her role as a business woman & going after what she wants. Shameless, as is the ex-husband...Such a hard, sad thing...faithlessness.
The father is so stupid who would spend his birthday with a woman who destroy his family. Poor child his father is so insensitive and the mistress is so shameless.
I must hVe wayched an alternate version someone made. Cause i do not remember this at all. The ending i saw was the mom and her new man happy with the kid. The Dad was sad realizing she moved on and the his mistress goes back to US, cause the Dad didnt want her anymore. She left heartbroken which made me happy.
Que terrible. El padre toma la desicion tener otra relación, hace daño a todos. Le roba afecto a su hijo y quiere que las cosa sigan bien. Quien es el adulto? El padre que solo se excusa por su comportamiento o el hijo que sabe que tiene derecho a tener a sus dos padres?...
The father has the nerve to ask to get along peacefully for their son ,if he hadn't cheated for the sake of his son or wife everything would have been fine.
