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I’m currently going through this in my relationship. Explaining to my gf how her upbringing has affected our relationship. She’s been so spoiled, coddled and sheltered in a box/bubble it has affected her basic life decisions.
Thank you, Shridhar. This has been a very valuable video. My husband is a full blown covert narcissist. He was the golden child - totally pampered, raised feeling special and a latch key kid. This talk affirms my parenting style on being consistent with my teenage son's behaviors. My mottos are simple: Your moods cannot dictate your manners. You need not suppress, but express your unpleasant emotions in a healthy manner. Success is a hard earned privilege, not your right. Respect is unconditional. Thanks again!
In today's so called modern world, modern parenting, this kind of parenting videos are so useful... Thank you sir. It really help us to teach our children right things
Too good, very clear you have told sir, I came here from what's app video, one of my friend send this video then I searched on You Tube, and I am very happy that I found the best channel.
Nice video....i totally agree with your views opinion and personally I grow my only single child with d same views and d result today is really gud....bcoz it's not me but others say dat my child is an example dat anyone would hope to have....just pampering always doesn't mean loving child.....thanx sir
Your videos keep popping on my screen so I just clicked on it. I'm quiet impressed. Exactly what I needed to hear at this moment. You just validated the way I handle my son and gave some very useful tips to be even better at it. Thank you. I really appreciate it 💙👍
Hi My child is of 10yrs he doesn't value the money or resources we provide, whenever we say NO to anything he wants, he accepts it and hardly argue to get it, but parallelly he drop interest in from his day to day activities such as studies, sports or friend circle. Sometimes we provide him to get him in normal mood. He is contented whatever he is, he is a bright child,but he himself says I don't want to perform good or get laurel, I just want fun in life that's it. How to motivate him ! His top priorities are Food & Netflix ! We offer him our best resources to motivate him but he doesn't value how we r spending on him our hard core efforts !
Very good, i am happy listening to you, very pleasing voice, u speak reality, i have learnt a lot from your videos, almost saw most of them and I implement at my home and work place. I am professor in one of the colleges
Thanks God, I am not pampered by my family. My family love me so much. My family teach ajust in every envouronment, face every situation. From childhood i do everything myself.
Dear shreedhar, you are doing great work. Just keep it up. Also I like the video formats where subtitles are showing along with video... Keep doing the good work you deserve 1 million subscribers atleast.....
Nice video, but want to ask you what should we as a parent do when my child say that my friends have this goodies and I want it too, that time it becomes hard to let them understand the situation. Kids generally start crying or will make sad faces that my parents didn't buyed me the same thing which my other friends parents can buy. It could be any thing like throwing a lavish birthday party or buying any expensive school bag or even a pencil box. How to deal with a situation like this when there is comparison among friends
My kids are studying good . But not doing their works independently that means eating , bathing , doing home work at home and in school too. His teacher saying Complaints regarding his studies and handwriting . They are good actually but LazyNess is the problem they are facing. How can I get rid from this lazyness ?And how can they understand family economic situation?? They can do their own work but lazy . How can we encourage them to manage their own works like eating , writing , reading ?? Please give suggestions 🙏
Hello Shridhar.. I love ur videos.. They are so helpful.. Ur videos are definitely making my life better 😊.. Thank u so much... Can u make a video on playschool ? I mean what should be the right age to send our kids at playschool.. I have a 2years old boy.. I want to send him playschool.. But I got different opinions about it which is making me confuse.. So what's ur thinking about playschool?
my question is, what can the child do to repair this parental mistake? I'm 17 and I feel like my parent's pampering has affected my social life (and probably other aspects as well). What can I do to help myself?
Yesssssss usually some fathers spoil kids by substituting their love care affection and above all their presence and warm embrace with expensive gifts luxuries or gadgets. 😠😡 Tz those kids who payback their parents with costly gadgets smartphones and stay at expensive old age homes in their old age! Remember parents nothing can substitute your love care affection presence and warm embrace.
How to deal with a jealous husbands brother and wife. My husband is in same business but is being financially and personally our family life being exploit by them. Elder Brother has all in his name. Goes outstation with family send his family on vacations lives luxuriously. Has not done partnership in business with my husband. But only tells sweetly that they are partners and make him do all work like a servant. husband is very soft hearted and takes responsibility for the whole family. Can't spend time with his family and children. Is pressurised to keep up with his brother by the mom.
Hi sir, I was searching the video's for very emotional child who's mostly cry in the things and if you gets little aggressive in the things they starting crying very badly, they can't handle it. What should I do? I m taking about my daughter here and she's going to be 6 soon! Pls suggest something she is single at home and we are in necular family. I have just checked ur some video's and can't find this topic. Plz reply
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Thank god I found this comment was looking for someone who disagrees I am a new mom and one thing I strongly believe is that loving your child unconditionally is what parenting is all about parents don’t buy them toys or branded clothes to get back love from them if parents genuinely practice honesty positivity and love for all it is enough to get their child understand and learn good habits
@@priyankaSaikiaMedhi right! My parents made me understand the value of an item. The choice of whether or not you should spend money on a certain thing shouldn't be the parents', but the child's. Make your child an empathetic, thoughtful child. I was given the liberty to choose whether I WANTED a thing, or, NEEDED a thing. This not only made me mindful of my parents' expenses but also made me understand the value of money and hard work which went into buying all that.
The truth is kids who are loved and secure do well in life and get stronger mentally .....this guy is wrong... . the key to making them independent is to create a secure attachment. Just watch video still face experiment. Don't listen to pseudo experts ..
Loving and pampering someone with materialistic gift is far different thing.People hide their own emotional incapability to attach with their children through these materialistic gifts.Ofcourse if you afford then give these things too but don't give it so easily.Child grows mentally weak if you will never let them face some rejection.
First of all, whats your age Shridhar? Are you experienced enough personally. Any high school teacher can what you are doing. And whats this donation all about. Stop your nonsense psychologist and go to work!!!
Atleast he is being positive in his opinions, experienced or not. But whatever he said was the fact. We the parents fulfill our kids all ingenuine demands first and later on crib that our children are getting spoiled ... disrespecting us ..throws tantrums when asked to study and a lot more. There are some times when we have to firmly say no and times when we need to say ... " You must do that" , especially to kids of young age which are the foundation years of child's development. I am a parent and a teacher too. I have seen umpteen of such cases where pampered kids do very bad in academics because their parents are extremely linient and let the child do what they want to. Sridhar sir, I have watched your so many videos and really learnt a lot from them.