Dos and Don'ts in a Relationship || KULTURE SHOCK 

People who don't talk much often speak wisdom when they eventually speak up. The guy in blue shirt keeps dropping great points

"Don't do anything that will set you up for compromise" - Wow👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

I'm more than 20years in marriage,I'm really enjoying your discussion.The truth is that all the don'ts should be adhered to by single born again Christians so that in the future you will not have so much things to regret for ungodly actions.For us in our own time,these rules seem too strict to follow,but I tell you the truth that those don'ts have made our relationships what they are in God today.Thanks Jaymike for this broadcast.God bless you and your crew.

The guy on blue shirt is so good at dropping beautiful points. Thanks for this, Zion Kulture. God bless you.

Another lady should be added to the show o😂😂. We need more of ladies expressing their views to these matters.

MARY'S VOICE IS SO SWEET!!!

Don't do anything that will set you up for compromise, This is powerful!

Thank you for such a beautiful discussion ❤ I repent. Actually I was not aware that I have compromised the gospel this much 😢 kai. Thank you once again Jaymikee and the team. I'm picking up my cross again, I will not be front hugging brothers from today. Wisdom is profitable to direct🙏. Thank you 😊

The devil takes advantage of people who don't constantly renew their mind with God's word Thank you Jay Mikeee Thank you Zion Culture

I just like jeremiah sense of humour Jay mikee hitting things on the head And ife is so deep, Kudos! And we need to have another girl supporting mary I really learnt a lot More Grace Mount Zion Kulture Cast and Crew.

HolySpirit is very important in a relationship. Intentionality and consciousness, especially if you are both in the same city. God help us 🙏

People that are far gone and very guilty needs help also, how do we fix this table so they can be redeemed?

Once Jaymikee is there just know you'll laugh 😂😂. Much love from Ogbomoso 🥰🥰

"Leave space for Jesus"😊. Thanks zion Kulture😊.

I love the way Jay mikeee hits the point directly and saying the truth so clearly.

In regard to the cooler ministry, I served as Vice president of my fellowship in school, and I am not a cooking type, but two sisters in fellowship regularly come to my lodge to cook in my place which I and them will eat. But something about them is that they come in two. And I don't stop anyone from coming to eat in my place because they place me high, and I love attending to people need. Although I don't think it's a sin, except if it become constant. If it's a sin then God should forgive me.

Jaymikee oo😂😂😂 ”What you can’t do in front of her dad” that’s wisdom though!!

😂😂 Mr. Jaymikee, is a table shaker

Mary was ready to tackle all points, and Jaymikee was like 'Why are you facing me?' 23:14 😂😂

Sooooo great..... I think there should be words for people who have been guilty of some of these points and how they can get back to purity (especially those who really want to get back to God) Thank You so much

To Jaymikee question; the lady should go to the Pastor's house. The guy could also go to a fellow guy's house and have her stay in his house

Been waiting for this since. I love how you balanced the takes with asking the Holy Spirit. Let God be your guide. I’m afraid diaspora people don’t follow these rules o😅. Especially cohabitation, they do it to save costs. The guy on blue shirt is very wise, dropping steady gems.

I wish to meet this guy besides J-mikee, I am really falling in love with the way he laughs. The thing dey give me joyy

All things are lawful but not all are expedient 😌

Loveeeett! ❤❤❤ Cooler ministry = Ministry of cooler😂😂💔

The sarcasm in the 3rd minute is soooo 😂😂😂😂 Thus conversation reminds me of the movie, Free but costly that featured Sir Doyin Hassan.

I love this ladies voice

The faith walk is too important to make excuse for ever thing. Word 💯 God bless you guys too much wisdom God bless Zion kulture

"Don't give room for what can lead to..."

14:30 😂😂😂 my mind has gone to Brother John 😂😂😂 married man still partake in cooler ministry 😂😂 and he ate everything that was served, his friends even refused to help and Bro couldn't even get a clue🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😅

"The faith walk is too important for us to make excuses for everything"

Thank you so much, guyyyys❤ Please can a topic about boundaries in friendship between the opposite gender be spoken about here?

Lay a Godly foundation in a relationship What's appropriate in a relationship: - side hugs - meet in public areas - no cooking for the partner (go and buy your own food or cook for yourself) - dress appropriately (not seductive so that It won't lead to lust. #keepitholy) - I think holding hands is appropriate (please educate me 🤷) What is not appropriate in a relationship: - spend the night together (all in the name of Bible study) - kissing on the lips (please wait after marriage) - full hugs (your body is the temple of the Lord. Wait my dear) - don't send any signals that shows marriage when you know you are not married - Don't call them babe (it's sweet but it's not clean. You can call them dear or by their name. Simple) The most important thing in Christian relationship is the holy Spirit. When the holy Spirit is in you guys life, your relationship will be clean if you are international with it because you will now what is right and wrong *Please add your own if you have any insight to this because this is an awareness topic in Christian relationship."

I like what Jaymikee said: " is it wise, profitable and necessary". Great wisdom

Jaymikee you weren't sick o you were just hungry

The Cooler allowance was it for me 😂😂😂😂

Thank you so much zion kulture 💝 Pls can topic about boundaries in friendship of opposite gender

Awesome piece as always, I'll love if you people could talk about the reactions after the public proposal, they reaction is most times a tight hug afterwards also for pre-wedding shoots that looks couples shoot because many Christians take careless pre-wedding shoot as though they are married.

Love this discussion 😂 Pls this table needs to be balanced o. Let the ladies breathe

29:58 Jaymikee ohh😂😂. Thank you so much Zion kulture. We the youger generation are learning. God bless you all🙏❤

OMG... The guy in blue is so sound

This cooler ministry talk sweet me 🤣😂😂😂 God bless you all for this talk it's reality and where i come from people have normalized cohabitation to the extent that a person single and staying at home at 20 becomes abnormal 🤣😂😂

I can join you as a lady oo😂 . You said it's not easy being the only lady there. This is a beautiful discussion. Also, educative.

I was blushing when Kogi state was mentioned.

Anty Mary I got your back, I will soon join culture shock so as to make it two ladies

There are hugs and there are hugs

😂❤ thank you Guys, don't do anything that will set you up for compromise....

And, yes. The Holy Spirit should be in the CENTRE

This team of four is so full of fun 😂 Well done you all

I'm so thrilled...thank you guys

Cohabiting is the term you are looking for guys. Sorry it was disturbing me😂😂😂😂😂 but I loveeeee loveee your videos FAM.

The guy in blue is deep! Take flowers sir 🎉🎉

Cooler ministry.😂 Thank you so much for this. I got clarity to a lot of things.

You guys are doing a great job. Im sure you expected some people would need clarity on each content in the outline. I’ll just say this simple. The truth is each outline is a topic on its own which would require enough time time to elaborate on considering the population of mixed multitudes. We should however bear in mind there’s a thin line between what is right and wrong in every subject matter. Many have crossed the lines many times that they can hardly see the lines again consequently finding it difficult to accept and agree with this inherent christian structurally placed practices. Here’s what i have for Christians, constantly renew you minds with the word of God. Flee from all APPEARANCES of evil( it may not be But what could lead to possible evil) although this calls for discernment. I believe this clip is help us guard against what could lead us to where we wouldn’t want to be. Btw, know that whatever you do in favor of the flesh, the flesh yearn and want more We can hardly say so for the Spirit as we are constantly in flesh and these two are constantly at war. Lets also remember that is mainly for those in potential ship or already in one. You would agree with me that these people usually have a connection in heart and spirit which begs the reason they should not indulge in practice that could lead to sin until the time is right. Ps: im not perfect, we’re all learning and our way to perfection. This zion kulture as well as other Christian based channels helps us to check our excesses and make necessary adjustments for better Christian life. God bless!

Jaymikee no dey gree, having fun watching you guys

Thank you Zion culture. I love love and enjoy your content. God bless you immensely 🙏. Although, you all don't seem to carry the larger audience, I mean you make comments as though we already know without solid reasons or structural back up. To the only girl on set today🎉, we love you and❤ are rooting for you sis but please stop practising phonetics on set😭.

Jay mikee thank God Tolu is a nutritionist, she must have been cooking variety of delicious meals for you. No need for the service of a cooler minister

Mary please take a lady with you in the next episode. It was you against two in the last one. Now you're against three!😂 Weldone sis, thank you for always standing for us despite.....😂 I'm rooting for you ☺️ God bless Zion kulture❤️

It's this cooler ministry talk for me 🤣🤣😂 Cooler ministry is equal to the ministry of cooler😂

Jaymikee is just too funny😂😂

Leave space for Jesus!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

She said "I don't sound like that" 😂😂😂😂😂

I love you guys Beautiful content😂😂

I love love love this discussion. Most especially because it speaks so much to me. I love the weight yawl give to purity. I mean, it's sth worth meditating on. Thank you for this topic

JayMikee is the wickedest of the bunch😩😩😂

I was really blessed by this,GOD bless you all at Zion Kulture in Jesus name.And may you not fall victim of all the points you made. I have a question, about the hugging,does it spread across to cousins of the opposite gender? And if you bump into an old friend you used to be close to,after a few years,is it wrong to hug out of the joy of seeing that person? I mean A person of the opposite gender.

This is so nice. Can I plead that you reduce how you cut each other short? Because most times there wasn’t a chance to bring it up again. Thank you 💙💙

You shouldn't be the only lady there. This is not fairrrr😂

Not only should you ask is it right? Include these in your questions: Is it wise? Is it profitable? Is it necessary? WPN😅

I need to keep the following questions handy Is it nice, is it profitable, is it necessary? Thank you, JayMikee. This is really educating, Thank you, Zion Kulture.

It's the way the two men are countering the lady for me. 😂

4th comment yay. Co + Habitat 😂😂😂

Powerful .... Well explained

Let me say that you guys did well but still from someone that was born and raised in Europe trust me the front hug would not be a problem for a lot of parents so😂😂😂😂 the way my brother hugs me is even thighter than the man who loves me so 😂😂

Yes she went through a lot in the last one.😂😂😂

That how during discussion I just mentioned my favourite meal The guy cooked it for me ooo 😂😂 I was shocked walahi... Was begining to think he will be a perfect man... But was my standard that saved me then, it was a period I wasn't ready for relationship 🥱

I couldn't stop laughing 😂... thank you for this powerful piece 🙏💓

We fix tables...grandson of carpenter...😂😂😂❤

Okay I just found this channel and I'm glad to subscribe, beautiful godly contents. More grace guys watching from Great Britain 🇬🇧❤️

Cooler is powerful😂. Sisters in welfare take note.may be you don't understand the gravity of your ministry. Am blessed oo

I really appreciate that these conversations are held. Thank you Zion Kulture ❤

Wow, wow, wow. Thanks a lot for this wealth of wisdom. Thank you guys. More Grace in Jesus Name... Thanks for making me laugh over and over again too😀😀

This episode was both insightful and hilarious

I'm just gathering victuals for the future. Thank you so much Zion Kulture and God bless you.

On a side note Tamar did cooler ministry for her biological brother and put herself in a vulnerable position because (1) nobody was there (2) amnon her brother had bad intentions I believe the same applies to brothers and sisters in Christ Wonderful conversation guys..i was blessed and was laughing all the way

30:28 especially the issue of musicians and brides. A certain wedding is on my mind: it was a well known Gospel artiste.

You ate food and you were healed and you don’t want me to eat😭😭😭😭.😂

Most importantly let the holy spirit be out guide and let's act accordingly. Personally, I've learnt a whole lot from this. The mistakes I made and MUST NOT happen again.

This things get level, seriously. Lesson shared though!

Inspiring as usual 👌

RU-vid bringing things I need to watch ❤

cooler ministry that they used to collect one brother from a sister in my former church that year...

Thank you Zion culture. Whilst the ladies are guilty of cooking for the guys the guys are guilty of sponsoring the ladies education or trade

Ultimately, as they said, we have to depend on the holy spirit to help at every point, because you could get to a point where the do's and don'ts can hold you back because of the level of intimacy and emotiinal connection between you and your partner. So where boundaries begin to fail, the holy spirt steps in to start convicting and warning you.

Thank you wonderful people for this edifying talk. I will just add that we all should stay away from every appearance (it might not be evil, but looks like it) of evil.

I didn't want this to end 😂 I enjoyed every part of this. Kudos to team❤

I'm so excited to watch this. Thank you Zion Kulture for this video. May God renew you guys strength. Amen 🙏

Jay Mike 😂😂😂😂 thank you so much for this

Let me sit down to learn Because there's a lot to learn from this

Very informative, thank you 😊 I think Cohabiting is the word not sure cohabitating is right. Please confirm. Thank you 😊