Dr Bruce Perry Born for love - why empathy is essential and endangered

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Dr. Perry is a Senior Fellow at The Child Trauma Academy in Houston. He speaks at our 2015 Research Symposium about how we choose what to pass on to our next generations. Our sociocultural evolution is a property of our human brains' abilities to make memories and our society has chosen to emphasize language, history and math. However, in recent decades we have neglected our relationships to one another and, he argues, relationships are far more important to our health and wellbeing than most people understand.
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@kagwi1 2 года назад

This is a great topic and should be taught in schools and college . We need to teach empathy

@maxsterling8203 Год назад

This is very very well thought out and spoken from the heart. Very nice job. Resonates well , very well.

@reconfirmingfaith7079 Год назад

Another factual and honest discussion where science unintentionally proves the truth of scripture. The only issue is our insistence in believing humanity alone can change this.

@biancaroach2135 2 года назад

How sad that the things who spoke about have not been implemented to a great degree in our society. The children continue to suffer due to lack of change in so many areas.

@carmenmueller2888 4 года назад

We were so lucky! We had a wonderful infancy, growing up in Mexico surrounded by a big family including my maternal grand parents, aunts, uncles and cousins all of them were so close and caring and loving.

@jacobjorgenson9285 2 года назад

So why do you listen to this ?

@DJK-cq2uy Год назад

Amen. I grew up in a financially secure home but lacking in love empathy and bonding. You were blessed . I was severely crippled by my family's lack of love but will recover and heal

@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470 6 месяцев назад

This was 7 years ago and empathy is endangered now more than ever in our TikTok nation.

@Irina-zp9kg 3 года назад

That is the most meaningful and helpful video I've seen for months! Thank you de Perry for this presentation and share!

@amelie640 2 года назад

Hey amore are u my love? 💛

@nicolemilman1795 2 года назад

This talk makes so much sense. Very sobering sense. I have been saying for a number of years now that our brains haven’t evolved to handle all this artificial and constant stimulation. I cannot even pump gas without a screen talking at me. It feels unavoidable unless I am alone in the woods; everyone is on a device when I am out in a public space 😕 I don’t like it at all. I am 47 years old and this is a world that doesn’t resonate with me 😕

@JelMain Год назад

Like I say, I'm neurodiverse. We think differently, more widely, we dare to question social presumptions.

@montanagal6958 Год назад

Look at how our grandparents are treated. They are isolated and nursing homes are worse than prisons.

@alexandrastonor6936 3 года назад

Forest school offers a real opportunity to establish positive relational abilities in children and adults and everyone in between. It has been shown to increase empathy and lead to the development of neural generation and regeneration

@MaverickMotors 4 года назад

This ole' boy can see the root cause of alot of the nonsense and problems we're facing today.....

@DJK-cq2uy Год назад

Right on

@dontshakeme 6 лет назад

but i think the reason why households are getting smaller - not only in the u.s. but worldwide - is that something within these families must have been wrong, or why did it fall apart so drastically? I have heard of abuse within families and i suspect this as a reason. Like we still can see today that big families or clans are rarely living in peace and harmony together. In these clans i see children as the most welcome and weakest victims. First we learn to speak, then we learn to silence (the ugly secrets of a selfcontrolled family) To me Dr. Perry was the light I've been looking for so long. I am glad he and his colleagues are keen to make this public, it gives me an odd kind of hope, that humanity is not yet lost

@sobrevida157 3 года назад

One hypothesis is urbanization and modern capitalism, two forces that 'encouraged' the development of nuclear families and for people to work outside of the homes (as opposed to family farms or guilds). First it was the fathers, then the mothers. Children spent less and less time with primary adults, interpersonal bonds became weaker and weaker, and (seemingly) less and less important . . . until we are all lonely because it's easier to live alone, our history of relationships tells us they are risky, and we have the financial means to do it. .

@ValleyoftheRogue Год назад

If you can't figure it out, then I don't know what to tell you. Big families were never what they were cracked up to be. The reason families got smaller is because women became educated and birth control came into existence. More and more women realize they could say no not just to big families but to men, period. Family life is hugely overrated.

@ValleyoftheRogue Год назад

So alone means lonely. You don't know what you are talking about.

@punyashloka4946 Год назад

@@ValleyoftheRogue I do not agree with you big families has its own positive impact but yes there were abuses in the family too like incest but what west has done today is not good for healthy development of a child.

@JelMain Год назад

Sadly, the neurodiverse, already poor at empathy, are ostracised for not being neurotypical. That group includes your best and brightest.