Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma, Addiction, Ayahuasca, and More | The Tim Ferriss Show Podcast 

Wonderful interview. Explains a lot of my life. I had an epiphanie!

@@judysmith1964 did ya have one where you knew how to spell epiphany? Or did you have multiple epiphanies? 🧠💥 experience eh? Right oh!

@@hoosierbaddy3052 You have revealed more than you intended.

@@hoosierbaddy3052 because spelling matters when you know the intended meaning🫡 it’s not a book but it must feel great to be a self appointed editor🙄🤣

@@judysmith1964my bad 😮😮 T😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮t😮t😮rrrrrrt

Brilliant! 95% of consciousness is believed to be unconscious. So if i am behaving in a fearful avoident manner in my romantic relationships, i am not so much responding to my partner so much as reacting to my past. The difficulty then, comes in trying to change the subconscious fearful avoident reactions. Difficult because only 5% of my behaviour is under conscious control. Any suggestions?

@@globalvagabond5376 reactions have time afterward for adjustments. As you adjust your sails to reset your course, you will improve your re-reaction time until you've created a new reaction. Grab hold of what you can when you can. And make you're number one romantic relationship be between you and your breath.

React

@@eyesofthetruth You said that 🥰💞sooo perfectly. Beautiful advice for living. Thank you.

​@@k-turner Hi

Profound quote - it makes so much sense !

My girlfriend acutually is the most creative person I know of. And the whole trauma subject is such an issue for us. I am so gratefull to have discovered Dr. Matés work, it gave me Insights that are of unimaginable value.

True so far anyway in Human History due to Massé insensitivity of Higher Self Awareness y Soul Y Spirit Maturity... As well as part of LIFE Experiences that The real overcomings of by individuals y Human Soul Groups lead to more Maturíng y Awakening of This Potential HumanKINdship y Earth Life lives Healthy InterdepenDance as a Whole

so true..i am talented, educated, obtained my BS in engineering..hoping i could get out of this chain...but didnt work..i lost everything, including the love of my life. but how to fix it? i dont know...im happy i saw this video of Dr Gabor Mate'

12:50 for those looking where Gabor Maté says it.

Does anyone know any good source to get them? I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels, would love to give shrooms a try.

Yes, dr.sporesss

Is he on instagram?

Yes he is. dr.sporesss

Dr.sporesss is the best, he's been my go to for anything psychedelics.

Its like that...people just stress me tf out. one time i did shrooms (my first n only time but i had done acid before) and i started to notice how badly my friends treated me and i saw how we interracted with each other more clearly, and it really opened my eyes.

​@@kathleenmcclenahan5701 I can relate to that. It definitely was the beginning of the end for me too. But the ending of something less real, so I'm ok with it. Just took a lot of adjusting and I can't bring others with me like I tried to at first.

​@@kiramatt6152I've been looking to get my hands on shrooms since growing isn't an option for me . Any one knows where I can source?

​@@peterestrada8542Yes he's Dr.jeffshroom

​​@@PepperLinksWoo I'm not surprised you moment dr.jeffshroom name... They man is good and people always talk nice about him.

FFS. HE IS CLEARLY A WASHED UP, SELF CONFESSED DRUG ADDICT. YOU ARE ALL TAKING ADVICE FROM A DRUG ADDICT???

@@barbaraives5751 If drug addicts are so terrible, why do you type like one?

​@@robynhope219about what?

Absolutely

#❤Yes , dr.johnsonshroom

​@Ryan Blacksmith Yes he's. dr.johnsonshroom

☆♡Can dr.johnsonshroom send to me in AZ?

​@@JuanMadeline❤Sure. He delivers anywhere and also it's discreet. That's if you're worried about.

Can't trust anyone with psychedelics because it's still a schedual 1 drug. Governments are the natural enemy of freedom and peace. When the federal government can put me in a cage for trying to heal myself without the use of the currupt pharmaceutical and medical industrial complex, it's clear why our society is so sick.

I got my stuff's from online store they got Lsd, Mushroom, Xanax, extascy, chocolate bars and psychedelic products which they also deliver...?...?

They're on Instagram or Telegram as¿‽¿**

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You can tell Gabor is a very unhappy person. Look at his eyes!

That compassion inquiry did it for me

Wishing you all the best on your journey 🙏🏼 the resources are out there and inside of you at the same time. RE-COVER-Y :) like he said... 🍀 re discover yourself

Take care mate. Every day we observe ourselves and struggle with ourselves. It is so, so easy to get distracted.

@@Jukeboksi YES DAY TO DAY STRUGGLE

@Mike Martinez - I think you know what your problem is, you are just scared to confront it. Cos when you open the box once....all of the pain comes in flooding your entire being. But once you have started "feeling" again, you can manage the pain too, it just takes time. And if your parents were addicts, your problems are: child neglect, abandonment, emotional unavailability of the parents (hense your aggression - it's actually towards them), repressed anger, a massive emotional "hole" due to the lack of security and parental love. And you need to change your environment + find a job if you want to change something. The same environment / "friends" will push you back to the same

@@MT-sw8rf Or, they could just listen to one of the best in the field share their expertise instead.

Psilocybin containing mushrooms save my life. The drastically reduced my benzodiazepine withdrawal allowing me to quite illicit pill addiction after three years of heavy daily use before it would had became medically dangerous to quit

Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.

@@leecharlotte5212 yes.... he's Myco.spore

I live in Michigan….suffering for awhile now but didnt realize how serious I may have it until recently - probably bc of @self medicating” with alcohol

@@williamspiper is he on insta

In the Realm of the Huñgry Ghosts

👌🏻👌🏻

HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN REHAB WITH YOU. HE IS A WASHED UP JUNKIE WHO IS CLEARLY STONED DURING THIS INTERVIEW.

I would say he gave you the tools, but you did the work. Congrats!

Can you please point where he says this ? The time.

A memory or a nightmare depending on whether you integrate healthy lessons in life into your daily practice or unhealthy ones, which so many traumatised people struggle with understanding the difference between what is healthy or unhealthy for them due to the cognitive dissonance and trauma bonding that has taken root in their psyche through years of being gaslit, verbally and physically abused and other toxic experiences from Narcissistic parent/parents and other significant childhood figures.

The difference between a true seeker and a feed-me. Like, some people have one psychedelic experience in their life that is vague and unspectacular and they derive lifechanging insight from it. Someone else visits an ayahuasca circle every week and they can cruise on for decades without learning anything transformative. (Although an unlikely extreme, since then aya likes to hit you hard when you least expect it. I heard of cases where someone with a self-image of a spiritual guru took the brew and later told the shaman he realized what BS it all was. But at first he very much stuck to it. It took some time to process.)

Time Stamp:- 1hr 50 mins.

@@inv8890 @1:50:00

Thanks

I think owning behavior is the first step to questioning and healing.

@@jennyadee913 Excellent point,Otherwise it's never ( my ) problem it's theirs!

This is coping mechanism instead of helping yourself you help others

@@simbayauk its codependency

@@simbayauk knnkkbnlnnnlnlnnlnllnlllñkk

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YES YES YES!!!! I AM CURRENTLY FEELING THIS WAY.

It IS unbearable. Just when I feel like I'm healing from one trama, something else happens! I can just hear someone saying, 'well you like playing the victim'. That makes me angry. If it's true, tell me what can I do about it, not just attack me.

Obviously, it realates to past trauma that needs to be healed, integrated..and stop making affirmatiomns..like Im a Magnet for traumas coz you ll just end up manifesting that.

A minor adjustment, if you will: *kids don't feel loved. Just wanted to broaden the scope and give credit to parents who try to love their kids but accidently miss the mark.

Yeah like regular people don't shame kids for being frustrated actually care about WHY they are frustrated especially if they are not usually. Little kids get treated like adults too expected to sit still and behave and be quiet or else they have ADHD? They have more energy need exercise etc.

Dr. Gabor Mate awakens our mind to the reality of trauma and how our childhood shaped us. I have learned the importance in facing and being in touch with this trauma and suppressed anger. Journaling, and talking about them are keys to freedom. Learn how, WayofSpinoza.com

But that's not a fact

There is some truth in that probably.

This is a brilliant thing for people with borderline to remember.

@@TheMothernerd very true.

@@TheMothernerd Was thinking the same thing myself.

after watching 2 2020 presidential debates, I am thinking the same thing.

Aldous Huxley in "Doors of Perception"-1894-1963

We're all here together

@@kimfrank8981 Please can you tell me where? My daughter needs ibogaine mainly but sny that work on obiod addiction. I looked into one ibogaine center and they wont even be contacting me till next month. Im not sure my daughter will make it that long. I pray she does. 😪

​@@angirgie729How is she doing? I hope well.

never too late

So happy for you. He truly is amazing isn’t he??!!

@Patricia Crowell As my lovely mother said when she was alive: “Learning about self is never ending.”

Yes

Clarity polished At 85yrs🪶🐫

He's barking mad!!!!

sanity in him and insanity in others?....though there is only me

But he also says we create our world according to how we perceive it. I don't remember the exact point, but it's in the first half-hour, because that's as far as I've got just now.

“sensitivity magnifies the pain we have...it also leads to more creativity. often the most creative people are in the most pain.” - Dr. Gabor Mate

Dr. Gabor Mate awakens our mind to the reality of trauma and how our childhood shaped us. I have learned the importance in facing and being in touch with this trauma and suppressed anger. Journaling, and talking about them are keys to freedom. Learn how, WayofSpinoza.com

The moment I hear him tell us to not sexually assault and mutilate our male children I'm sure I will have that same experience as you. What I'm seeing is a man with all the information he needs yet an overwhelming cultural brainwashing that prevents him from exposing the most obvious, blatant and disgusting mutilation of the genitals of our male children. I just see hypocrite.

@@nextlevelintactivism8195 Is he promoting sex change operation?

I get my psychedelic stuff from an online store where I got my own, his on Instagram and his handle below is

Leonmycology

People looking to self improve and self actualise are much more well adjusted than people who think they are great just the way they are.

Have you noticed how many dislikes 👎🏻 there are though? So odd. Who could dislike this interview?

@@elainewoodcroft9070 People who can't change which probably mostly includes narcissists and psychopaths.

Something that makes it rather a gem.

There is something elitist in this comment and all the responses to it

Really? It is the Nazi's fault that he can't pull his act together? Maybe.... JUST MAYBE, at some point in life, its time to grow up, own their own act and stop blaming abusive mothers, alcoholic fathers, Nazis, teachers, in general OTHERS. Maybe.

@@joelafrite7850 Clearly you need enlightenment yourself. He has taken responsibility and is aiding many people and is a productive human being.

time stamp?

@@joelafrite7850 doesn't sound like either is supporting the idea of blaming anything.

Timestamp??

yeah he's easy listening. x

Thanks for giving me more insight into the pain that many experience. As a mother I knew that our children's problems derived from traumatic experiences even before they were born. My thoughts were confirmed...thanks again

@@dorothybothman1550 offspring of male mice have generational trauma.. I hate what humans do to find out. but eyes its cell memory.. im gonna talk to mea cells and tell them its ok to release the trauma. wmeanwhile its summer here..im out bathing in a kiddy pool with chamomile coffee, magnesium flakes boron. and herbs today I put fuller's earth or DE on my face neck and are and legs. gives me a mask and will kill fleas in the garden when the water gets spilt on it. x

but his wife was editing his books thank her mainly....

Me too!

So are you😇

Weso Weso no you are

This says everything right here, because he didn’t used to be. He said so himself. So that says any of us can reconcile and realign with ourselves in this way.

We’re all amazing as we are drawn to this healing work and info Xoxox

My childhood doctor. He is a genuinely good man.

100%

Big Pharma : Why would you want that? We have billions of pills to cover up all the problems in modern society. Talk to your psychiatrist lately???

I don't know if you are familiar with Stephen Borges Polyvagal Theory as well as Peter Levines Somatic Experiencing, but if not I am sure you will like those as well. Bless you!

This comment alone is what is making me stay and give this a chance! (That and the time of the video, a talk this long must have some nice heft of good info :)

Dr. Gabor is the speaker I favour most. I am indeed Thankful for learning from him.

A voice over of him speaking over a Facebook video led me to his work... I'm in shock at how accurately he described ME in "Scattered" .... I'm on my journey now.

Gabor is incredible. His talks have made a massive impact on me! And he is from quite close to where I live as well 💖 been listening to him for years now

this kind of conversation can indeed change lives

Thank you beyond words.

That's beautiful! What measures exactly did you take to change?

But Dear, all worlds are mental projections, .. Dr. Gabor is therefor a Blessing to Humanity.. (::)

AMEN

I concur, its about the self improvement journey

yes, he is truly an amazing man❤️ so knowledgeable WOW it’s rare people like him ❤️🙏

@@nextlevelintactivism8195 go and harass people somewhere else man, I have no idea what u're talking abt

@@nextlevelintactivism8195 poor you 🥺 may God heal your soul.

@@rouissiachraf Adult humans think it is okay to take healthy normal babies and strap them down and take pliers and knives to their genitals for fantastically asinine medical excuses. What part of this don't you understand?

I feel the same and I'm 35. We got this!

Meetoo 38 here. The things he say vibe with me so much

62 and learning

@@NerisaFinau 😍

This is also a beautiful film that I saw that talks about depression and love. It shows how tightly linked depression is with resentment sometimes especially when we fall in love: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-nSC4ptU79-8.html

SAME

Same here ... different books but emotional memories.

I'm 78, and still discovering the depths that resonate with me

Yes!

can relate 100%. Awesome wisdom.

I’m tired of it

I totally agree. I need to watch this again. I thought it was amazing. I wish that the host would repeat certain things (titles of books) and key points because they touch on so many topics (and references to books and people and experts) and it's hard to catch it all. I should look at the show notes, I guess.

@@harlenevan just rewatch with a pen. You can pause and rewind. Xx

How do I contact?@@raymondscott8689

Welcome, dear friend ❤

Yes fascinating you can sense Gabor sensing Tim hiding and deflecting and Tim knowing he’s deflecting and fearing going deeper.

Wow!!!

Yeah and so much gaslighting and cancel culture and oppression is not healing as they claim.

"we dont react to what happens, we react to the past. Thats Trauma." His inquiry is so powerfull.

Externally grateful for 12 step recovery program members for helping my loved one reclaim his Self again and the members in my program that helped hold the space so I could reclaim mine.

The self is an illusion

❤

My GOD- this has been LIFE CHANGING FOR ME! My mother had a child die only days old and was told she would not be able to conceive again--and then I happened! The STRESS( common to ur story) my mother must of been under, has NO DOUBT contributed to my addictions- my family and I have spent half our lives trying to figure out why I ended up how I did (jails institutions etc) despite all the Privileges I had (private schools spoilt only child etc etc. Like you said it’s all IN UETRO👌💯👌💯👌

Absolutely I feel the same way, when I was 9 years old I asked my mother if I was adopted because I never felt any love from them and I grew up not being loved that affected me so much growing up I was always looking for love, and Men lied to me that they love me and they only wanted sex so I got hurt many times!!

They're not authentic! They're idiots!!!!!

@@denisemartinez8911 how so? Please enlighten me

@@KerryNeeds keep watching if you want I don't give a FF

@@denisemartinez8911 😂. Oh denise... This guy is a renowned.. you know that right? F*** you added to the world?

There is no healing. Never goes away. You can talk about it... You can pinpoint it.. but good luck on getting rid of it

Nobody wakes up one day and says oh boy I'd like to do time in prison. I am sure that was not your goal. Your comment just moved me emotionally. I love Gabor. ❤️ I wish he could have reached all of us sooner. He makes so much sense.

So true

I think you slightly misunderstand, the scenario you described is only one example of how ADD may develop. There are other scenarios that could cause you to shut down your brain for survival purposes, other than your relationship to a specific kind of person.

Search for "EQI - invalidation" for a document related to the complex of good and bad parenting and the core psychology. One of those documents that every person had read it would already make a significant positive difference.

He most likely has trauma induced Disassociation functioning for all intents and purposes as adhd. I am in the same boat. My mother had untreated Paranoid Schizophrenia when I was a small child. You are correct adhd can be genetic and just happen, other reasons. My adoptive daughter let me know even though mine is trauma induced hers in genetic. One thing I would warn people about is be careful tying trauma responses to bad parenting. I've struggled with this a long time. My parents were both severely abused. I think in the big picture it's time to accept or forgive and move on.

Yes! I know the feeling. Like his profound wisdom has given my brain an element I didn't realize was needed to be fully aware. Now I seek more.

1:38:40 my heart dropped at this realization 😢 I’ve learned so much today and I’m writing down everything in my notebook but I’m still gonna watch this over and over again to absorb all the knowledge I can. Thank you for making this 🙏

Wtf just happened?

Wtf just happened?

Glitch in the matrix

Study this: Anatomy Structure and Function of the Human Male Penis The Hidden Simple Facts of Male Genital Anatomy by world renowned Nurse and why the world doesn’t know it. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BgoTRMKrJo4.html Study of penile sensitivity ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-PDh63jVkNVg.html Sorrells fine touch sensitivity www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/17378847/ RU-vid Anatomy Structure and Function Playlist: ru-vid.com/group/PLIZ9tgpNSydo3RjOOv4RU4-ZwLCZ3SVWv Video on the functions of the Foreskin ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D_dzeDvx2QA.html&app=desktop bit.ly/2r5mw1n Foreskin During Sex Vs Mutilated ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cOZQ-2rV2zQ.html The intromission function of the foreskin doi.org/10.1016/S0306-9877(02)00250-5 www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306987702002505?via%3Dihub The mechanism is simple. The interposed foreskin decreases the friction between the introitus and the glans. The unretracted foreskin consists of a thin dermis that is folded on itself with very little friction between the layers. As the penis advances, the foreskin unrolls so that the portion that makes initial contact with the introitus is 6 cm. Up the shaft before any friction occurs between the device and the skin. Visual of Functioning Whole Male Penis How a Natural Male (Unmutilated) Penis Works ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cOZQ-2rV2zQ.html Anatomy of the Penis: Penile and Foreskin Neurology ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-DD2yW7AaZFw.html The prepuce: Specialized mucosa of the penis and its loss to circumcision by J.R. Taylor, A.P. Lockwood and A.J. Taylor Department of Pathology, Health Sciences Centre, University of Manitoba, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada BRITISH JOURNAL OF UROLOGY, Volume 77, Pages 291-295, February 1996. www.cirp.org/library/anatomy/taylor/ The prepuce C.J. COLD and J.R. TAYLOR* Departments of Pathology, Marshfield Clinic, Wisconsin, USA, and *Health Sciences Centre, University of Manitoba, Canada British Journal of Uroloygy, Volume 83, Suppl. 1: Pages 34-44, January 1999. cirp.org/library/anatomy//cold-taylor/ or bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1046/j.1464-410x.1999.0830s1034.x Circumcision removes the most important sensory component of the foreskin - thousands of coiled fine-touch receptors called Meissner's corpuscles. Also lost are branches of the dorsal nerve, and 10,000-20,000+ specialized erotogenic nerve endings of several types. Together these detect subtle changes in motion and temperature, as well as fine gradations in texture. Meissner's Corpuscles are found in our lips and fingertips. They're there for us to detect the lightest of touches. So take your hands and rub them together. Feel that friction? This is the sensation that is not supposed to be felt during intercourse. Size of the Foreskin - Its NOT just a 'flap' of skin! "First, a dissection feasibility study was performed in eight male cadavers. Dissection proved feasible, and the mean surface area of the prepuce, when folded out, was 46.7 cm2. (7.2 square inches)" www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9734426?dopt=Abstract Post-Circumcision Sexual Sensitivity Self-Test www.fathermag.com/health/circ/sensitivity-test/ How Much of Your Sexual Sensitivity Has Been Cut Away? A circumcised (anyone can use this - for us circumcised, this is our only way) man can assess how important his missing skin is by testing his remaining sexually sensitive tissue as follows: In an aroused state, caress the skin downwards, starting from the end of the penis. When your stroke crosses the scar line, note the stark difference in sensitivity. The amount of sensitive area you have remaining between the scar line and the glans is just a sample of what you had before your circumcision. This sensitive region is normally much larger and folded inside the foreskin in the intact male, where it is moist and protected from constant stimulation. After circumcision, what remains of this region is exposed, dried out, and greatly desensitized. Child circumcision was designed in an attempt to reduce the sexual appetite by reducing the amount of pleasure sexual stimulation can provide you.

Thank you.

Blessings

You are incredible- what a job you have done. Thank you❤

Legend!

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I know the feeling. I’m 38 but i feel like my life is ruined. I have time left, but not my health. At least he taught me to have compassion for myself and I actually have self love now. All the best to you.

@@taoistr966 And to you too x

I’m having the exact same experience here and now at 52. I feel lighter.

It took me till I was 63. I agree his work is very enlightening.

my friend..you can still help yourself.. there are lots of people who do care about your mental or emotional health...

absolutely!

Agree!

Well put!!

Amen

Exactly Arcadian wings >< , it's almost like you have to blink to see if it's real in 2019

@trippy_psyche1

They've got all kinds of psychedelic stuff.!

They're on Instagram .....

Connor Sandberg !

Connor Sandberg : when the student is ready the teacher appears. Not my quote but, your comment, this came to mind..

Yes, and it starts with self compassion.

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Hoe kan je leven in huis als of in de Afrikaanse jenkol

Ik ben net dieren tuin

Ik ben zo lang bezig om om mijn leven op gebouwen

Maar ze zijn alleen bezig met het levens verhaal

Ik heb lang niet kunnen slapen

Yes~not wanting others to feel the way I did. I'm 50 & realize I can't pour my energy into saving others. I've learned to let others work out their own issues. It's difficult to mind my own business. I want to help. It breaks my heart the way people treat each other. I'm very sensitive & working on controlling my emotions.

wow..yes...i see that in myself.. i want to help everyone.. but want im doing ..is hoping that people would see MY PAIN and return the favor..i thought God would help... very rarely did anyone every try to help or look for the red flags..

You can't heal others while hurt. We can guide others once he walked the healing path

I have spent at least 50 years trying to rescue people. At the age of 60 I have learned healthier boundaries.

@@homesgui_chrome9186 Good point. Parallel reality.....

Shows you how cruel and inhuman the system is the way it punishes addicts like criminals.

Truly.