DR. GABOR MATE: THE 7 IMPACTS OF TRAUMA 

This, to me, is the hardest to come to terms with. Sometimes I find myself not taking a chance informed by past experiences, only realizing it after the moment is over. It becomes a vicious cycle.

Wow So touching. I feel ur pain. May God comfort you.

Thank you for sharing your poem. I am familiar with some of those roads.... Amen to the portions of heart undefeated.

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Watch dr Carter and dr Ramani videos, it may be helpful. Nice poem.

The future of the past is todays memory. And Tomorrows past is the future of all your yesterdays longtime forgotten. Until they circumvent your mind making you remember today……

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@@createone100Your comment came right on time. Not sure why but I’m feeling a little ill and heavy today. Your acknowledgment means a lot! 🙏🏽✨💞

@@VanessaAbq God Bless you, and God Bless all of us who are helping those we hold most dear who are suffering from trauma. 💞

@@createone100 Thank you 🙏🏽 and amen! 💞

My brother lost his battle to addiction too, he was 29. You are not alone. We have some amazing guardian angels

WHY, HE HAS NO FIXES...

Mate has shared some useful information, no doubt, but he is only human, and it seems to me his advocacy of things like ayahuasca as a treatment for trauma are highly problematic.

@@dmt02459 Why would you think like that?

Аминь.

Hang in there! I’m the same way.

Thank you for writing them down ✍

Thank you. The chapters in the book of my life. I know I have had guardian angels carrying me. My "childhood" bears no resemblance to that which most people experienced. No. I don't want to go through life from the stance of "victim", but I was a little tiny person! Paltry bits only of nurturing, care, attention, security. Abusive older siblings, I was handy scape goat. I was on my own. Always. By 13 I had stopped living with either "parent", as in 1k miles away, not across town. I was legally emancipated @ 14 cuz I needed treatment for a bleeding ulcer. This is the Truth. I am grateful for resiliance and innate positivity. Gifts to be sure. The good people who provided what my parents could not give: a safe environment and good role modeling until I was 18. These lyrics "This is a lonely lonely life, sorrow is everywhere" (Paul Simon) are true, but "Resiliant" (by Apalachia Rising) is what keeps me going. 🚣‍♀️🙏🕊

my hero

@@yukio_saito yes thanks to this person for the list

That's me in a nutshell.

I’m new to his work and I have learned so much 😢

Despite how it feels, please know that you do deserve love, happiness and money. It’s “normal” to feel how you feel given what you’ve been through. Hang in there. It can get better. I’m glad you came across this video and hope you have additional resources to rely on as well!

sorry for everything you are going through,i have been there to finally encounter Jesus..He was there all the time and turn everything for the better..i opened my heart and let Him in..may God touch your heatt and listen to your prayers in Jesus name.Amen🙏❤️

Sie sind Stark,Alles Gute,Täter sind Schwach!!!💌💌💌💌💌💌

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He should write a book for pregnant moms…

There are countless long videos of Gabor Mate being interviewed. They are all good. Just start with one that calls you. ❤

I agree

No, he is not original. His work is based on the late Carl Rogers.

The hardest thing in life is to live.

3. Altered worldview

Wisdom? We all have it! GM is not a trained psychotherapist.

I read Dr. Bruce Perry's book What Happened To You and loved it all the way until I got to the end. He and his friend Oprah say that the trauma "didn't happen TO YOU, it happened FOR YOU." and that is bullshit. Go tell that to people who were abused and not protected from harm. Tell that to children who grew up unwanted by their parents. What a disgusting thing to tell people. I am trauma informed. I believe in healing, but that is a harmful ideology. Like gaslighting victims to tell them it happened FOR THEM.

There is hope!

Maybe u did without knowing...

Good therapist or self-healing There are couple RU-vid channels of clinical psychologist that are helpful. One is by Patrick Teehan. Also a book called Coming Home. I’m a trauma survivor so I hope the resources that are helping my self-healing helps you

@@tamraya23 if you're comfortable about speaking your own trauma could you talk about yours. I would like to know what trauma you have ? And thank you for your comment. I appreciate

@@artemiomusica5465 I grew up in a chaotic household with two parents, who grew up in dysfunctional families, constantly arguing and screaming at each other. They were physically and emotionally abusive to me and my siblings.

@@tamraya23 I understood. If you wish we can be friends.

@@artemiomusica5465 support groups would be better (online or in-person). If you can’t get yourself to go to an in-person one then consider online thru RU-vid posts on for example the channel I mentioned or joining online support groups held by therapists. I wish you the best of luck in your healing journey 💜

Hello, what would you like to attend to watch? Nearly everything we do is free. Perhaps we can help?

Decent therapy only available thru the Word of God!

buy his book, & start helping your self heal❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰

Hi. I know its hard, I have been through it and still dealing with it. Havent had therapy. Tried finding answers în so many ways and tried improving and forgiving. I know my parents didnt get what they needed from their parents and ended up treating us in certain ways. I think we have to work on it all the time, try finding the patience of being kinder with everyone around us. Just because this world is full of suffering, and we can try helping in any way we can. We forgive because we understand that certain people cant change because they are too engrained în their ways. Maybe inside they wish they could, maybe they dont..it doesnt matter. We have to try not acting like them. And if we do sometimes, try again. I wish I could take back the times I answered în anger or maybe I didnt do enough for others. I tried, and I keep trying to improve because I know I fall short of certain stuff. And I wish nobody would suffer, so that helps forgiving. Getting to Know God helps with everything, understanding Him and why we have this reality will help you change. I know He tells the truth and He wants us to go back to Him. This life is about us trying to get back to Him. Focus on that and you will see how you will finally understand why things happen the way they do and that will help you. I hope I made some sense. Wishing you all the best.

@@miyaiun4723 After many years of efforts and giving up and over the last two years, I just kept telling myself I am not giving up. I’m staying the course and I think finally I can see the end of the tunnel or some really great things that have happened. I’m off the Lyrica six months which is for the CRPS, which is a chronic pain condition, and I have reoccurring virus that I haven’t had in months as well so I’ve also been practicing heartbreak coherence and forgiveness and mirror work so I have some really good days, but I still have bad days. I agree with you totally it’s a lifelong thing, but at some point not only are we to find our way back to God but to become the person we came here to be. In other words to be the change you wanna see in the world. I’m finally beginning to really believe and feel that I can be happy and grow after a lifetime of struggling but I didn’t have all the things available to me like we do now and isn’t that a gift and something to be grateful for by the way gratitude is a huge key to all of this. There’s always something I can be grateful for. For your feedback, I send you love and wish you joy and peace.

Thence the Out of your is the performance to be needed praise🤥😟, it’s not true for the other players was trusted you🙏🏻! What’s ever happened I accepted that to make it better.

Ik the feeling...find a good therapist.

You ❤️ trauma? 😂

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He is not a hero, not an angel and definitely NOT the Messiah. So sorry for your suffering which also causes disconnection to YESHUA and Yahweh (God).

Sarella so sorry you’ve had that much pain in your life. But when strangers respond to you here no love ❤️ is real Maybe you haven’t experienced much love but believe me lifes brought me to my knees many times - and these hells have been my blessings in hind sight Love is real bc God is love. We are all of his creation just not Christ Jesus who came to teach us the way Why did he come ? Bc the world had become so disconnected, lost in sin, so far from our creator father - that he came down in his Son to save us - show us the path back home. You’re life is just a smaller play of why Christ came down to earth - if he did it for the world - he can do it for you my friend. Your trauma just disconnected you from the love from all that truly is…. You can heal and its never too late - o/w I wouldnt be wasting my time Just surrender to the Lord in prayer. Lay it all out - asked to be saved - what do you have to lose? My friend just passed - LEE AKMAN 5-28-2023 NYC RIP - she was 100 yrs young. That means you have another 26 years - thats a whole lotta time to get back on track and live the life God meant you too And its not about doing anything so forget that too old nonsense bullshit - it’s simply about BEING Whether you’re a President or street sweeper - what matters is BEING connected to God, to source, living every moment in His presence And thats all prayer is about - coming into his presence. In fact you’re in my morning prayers. Will be praying for your renewal in spirit - your trauma disconnected you from your spirit thats all - and with simple prayer and work you can get reconnected to source, God, Christ very easily. Baby steps of faith each day thats all. A quick way I found to touch God when I was very low was to help those in worse position than me. Give to receive. Believe me brother I do not waste my time. It is all possible and I hate to see anyone in unnecessary pain for any longer than they have to be. I as lost too - for decades - its only 2 years now that I’ve been saved. I was like you in a state of hopelessness for many years…..but sometimes thats what it takes. Thats why many drug addicts find Jesus… nothing brings. You down to nothing like a good drug habit, lol. But if it gets one to Christ well then damn thats a pretty good drug habit. 😅 You’re in my prayers. Just ask and yea shall receive. Just get started and NEVER GIVE UP - you will get there. Never too late. God bless 🙏🏼❤️

@sarella4 Even your last days can become beautiful! And no, I’m not gonna say you just need to give your life to Christ, yada, yada, yada. Once upon a time I was that person and would have said that but thankfully that period of my life is over. Although that period of time in my life was a very authentic one for me, something still always felt “off.” It still irks me that people don’t understand you just can’t “pray” yourself out of depression, or that you must have sin in your life and need to repent, or whatever other things they may believe. Don’t get me wrong, I believe most people that believe those things have good intentions but they are also, to put it frankly, stuck in the rut of old, traditional beliefs that in the end, just can’t help everyone! Anyway, that’s a different discussion for another day but my point is that once I started opening my mind, it turned out that the very things I had been taught to be bad” in Christianity were the very things that actually ended up helping me through the HARDEST days of my life and now I’m better than ever. Obviously, I learned that there’s only “one way” but that there is A way (apart from religion) that can lead you to profound peace, joy, love, & gratitude. I know this because it’s my current experience and I hope from this point on, you will discover the things that lead you down the path where you find this to be your experience, too. Best wishes!

Yes Gabor has mentioned the problems of our world "leaders" being broken people too Trump is strong and intelligent doesn't drink or smoke but I don't know that makes him an overly compassionate person or more so he had an America first attitude many think cruel but Canada can't even care for its own citizens and pretends it can help others? That's just a lie. Unfortunately about the children some women are in domestic abuse situations and being coerced by their spouse and family to breed and have the horror of knowing their childs life is or will b null and void as is their own. Shocking how many think having children will save a marriage or one abused kid needs a sibling for company etc. Certainly the justice system doesn't care much for victims either.

Love and peace for one and all, right? You should take heed of your other post, "Dr."

@@elisem1912 Well, I'm not you, so I must be doing something right.