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Dr. Umar Johnson Still Opposes Interracial Dating And Defends Polygamy In The Black Community Pt.5 

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@INEVERKNEWTV
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@sergeayissi939
@sergeayissi939 Год назад
Black men in America can't even afford 1-woman relationship! Polygamy doesn't make sense for the average black man.
@Heman-x1n
@Heman-x1n Год назад
That’s not true. Black population has increase to 20 percent in the US. And by 2050 the global population will be doubled.
@jamaririptoe8555
@jamaririptoe8555 Год назад
That's weakness. If you feel like that let your women work and help elevate the family structure or can you not convince your women to work towards the betterment of your family? Weak game = weak relationships
@jhica5718
@jhica5718 Год назад
@@jamaririptoe8555 that weakness is pure facts.
@blkpaladin7992
@blkpaladin7992 Год назад
That's a straight up lie.
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
@@jamaririptoe8555 why does a woman have to work or build? That’s a man’s job. That’s why our community has nothing now because you expect women to help you all the time.
@hlengiwemasondo2858
@hlengiwemasondo2858 Год назад
Grew up under a polygamous home, we all my fathers children don't get along, because of our mothers fighting amongst each other. Dr Umar I'm an African polygamy is practiced too much here and it doesn't work.
@vicvic2081
@vicvic2081 Год назад
Listen People
@Zackey-Zackk
@Zackey-Zackk Год назад
I appreciate this more people need to speak out like you so we can really know what is
@RedIgauna
@RedIgauna Год назад
He said POLYGYNYand that means the women were never ok with it in the first place. So no that won't work. My Father was in a "Monogamous" marriage and had 3 baby mama's. None of the kids can stay attached and barely get along. the problem isn't Polygyny.
@dejumaboutique1305
@dejumaboutique1305 Год назад
While your experience is valid. There are instances where the wives gets along. Everything starts from the father as the head. He may not be able to control how the wives see each other, but he certainly has control over how/what his kids are fed. If it doesn't work for some, it may work for others. IJS.
@queenofthousandmoons2231
@queenofthousandmoons2231 Год назад
It didn’t work cause the women didn’t know how to handle their emotions and immature in consenting to something they couldn’t handle but wanted a man. They fought cause they mind was colonized
@dexterramey8787
@dexterramey8787 Год назад
Start with 1 wife first. We shouldn't even be talking polygamy until the marriage rate goes up.
@jasminehopson4895
@jasminehopson4895 Год назад
🎯🎯🎯
@MrMathoks
@MrMathoks Год назад
Your men aren't getting married because of your one-sided laws and foolish, selfish women taking short-term and ultimately unfulfilling advantage of said laws. Until the laws change, nothing is going to change
@Yourstruly4.0
@Yourstruly4.0 Год назад
Exactly!!!
@sora4440
@sora4440 Год назад
Exactly...
@rootsy7038
@rootsy7038 Год назад
Very very good point!
@keepsit100atalltime9
@keepsit100atalltime9 Год назад
Here we go with this again. The interviewer is correct, Dr. Umar not so much. Let me break it down one time. First off, polygyny is about one man being married to and taking care of multiple women under one housing unit. Doesn't matter if she works or not, typically she shouldn't have to because husband takes care of everything. Now what Dr. Umar is referring to is PROMISCUITY. Saying guys are out here with more than one woman is not practicing polygyny, it's promiscuity. Lack of discipline is the problem. Some people just spend way too much time thinking about s3x and that's why constructive things don't get accomplished.
@brianwashington5474
@brianwashington5474 Год назад
Racial whitening STARTED THE DAY BLACK PEOPLE WERE SET FREE. A BLACK WOMAN SENT THIS SELL OUT IN TO SELL BLACK MEN OUT.
@spencewhite9215
@spencewhite9215 Год назад
Interesting take...I see what you mean
@coolbreeze3
@coolbreeze3 Год назад
I’m mixed & on my 3rd passport, so did attempt to date Black men abroad. Unless you’re going to provide for them, the competition isn’t much different abroad - Then add the cultural differences. Just bc someone has the same skin color doesn’t mean they have a lot in common.
@keepsit100atalltime9
@keepsit100atalltime9 Год назад
@@coolbreeze3 Why does acknowledging you're mixed have to do with anything?
@user-discomfortfor2oo
@user-discomfortfor2oo Год назад
I agree
@JaymesForte
@JaymesForte Год назад
To many of these dudes supporting polygamy. If you don’t got self control just say it. I’m African many men in Africa who Marry multiple women have them all live in the same compound or house. In America Nick cannon and umar don’t do as such. This builds a broken home as the father has to divide his attention. We all know that when the father isn’t there 100% it lowers that child’s success rate not even about money just success as in the morals and behaviors of the child. We as black men gotta stop living fantasy. There’s a reason white men who follow this are more successful than us. The 2 parent home works
@virtualtourmaps
@virtualtourmaps Год назад
Agree totally! These "men" aren't really men they are irresponsible lost boys in men's bodies producing more lost boys in society. It's actually sad.
@tru_kru_bahbee24
@tru_kru_bahbee24 Год назад
Right! My grandfather had five wives. Black American men have NO IDEA what it takes to make this work. We are talking about compassion, discernment, self control, fairness, TIME, PATIENCE around the clock. How do you put this in the minds of men that don't even know what this looks like? Who run away from the responsibilities of ONE woman and ONE child. It is WORK to make this thing run smoothly. You have to be EXTREMELY masculine, yet gentle and understanding at the same time. You have to support EVERYONE. I wish Umar would stop putting this false hope into these men's minds. They are no where NEAR ready.
@WordSoundIsPower
@WordSoundIsPower Год назад
Polygamy is never easy for the woman. While the brothers are jumping for joy the sisters are suffering in silence. Is it really about nation building or is it I want my cake and I want to eat it to. Better to live on a rooftop than in an house with a contentious woman. Well brothers what will happen when you have 5 or 6 contentious woman? Good luck with that!!!!
@rootsy7038
@rootsy7038 Год назад
Even here on d continent a whole lot of households disfunction wether it is in d same compound or seperate..its always d women who ar d sacrificing lam bcz of religion,traditions an so forth...it might work for half a handful bt d majority is struggling an unhappy....it all comes to knw what u capable of an taking responsability..if its already difficult wth one partner,why thnk its easier wth multiple..
@kennyking5606
@kennyking5606 Год назад
Is single mother home not a broken home?. You have no sense
@Cat-jn2fz
@Cat-jn2fz Год назад
I 100% disagree with Dr. Umar here. And Im so glad more and more black women are doing what black men have always done and are dating outside their race!
@kayp4601
@kayp4601 Год назад
Preach BWWM marriages have the lowest divorce rate
@CherryCarterwomanofsubstance
Ok disagree, but read more and open minded and better argument...Feed me logic, research and learn your truth
@Chiefteeth1
@Chiefteeth1 4 месяца назад
@@kayp4601that because it’s the rarest interracial pairing
@angelahunter5954
@angelahunter5954 Год назад
Monogamy is very real...the problem is that so is greed....we practice little self control and everyone wants to live like a wealthy king with out the responsibilities....not everyone is in a position to have multiple families...but that's ok...because it is more responsibilities...stay in your lane...and make it beautiful
@g.m.5395
@g.m.5395 Год назад
​@A Vibe Called Yes™ 👍👏😉
@briantumwijukyenichanor1764
Your head is in the sand.
@g.m.5395
@g.m.5395 Год назад
Fantastic!!!!!!!😊👏👍
@PopLife-hb3ks
@PopLife-hb3ks Год назад
Umar’s acting like these same problems don’t exist in Canada and South America and the Caribbean. Bruh 😑
@Heman-x1n
@Heman-x1n Год назад
What he’s saying is the black population together is about 1-3 billion people. The numbers aren’t low as people think
@PopLife-hb3ks
@PopLife-hb3ks Год назад
@@Heman-x1n The male to female ratio in the black community is still off. Worldwide, there are still more bw than bm. But he thinks it’s good advice to tell bw search high and low around the world for a bm??? Why isn’t he telling bm to do this? Because the idea of a bw “marrying out” is more offensive to him, than telling her to search high and low for a man she isn’t likely to find.
@Heman-x1n
@Heman-x1n Год назад
@@PopLife-hb3ks that applies to all groups except for the Chinese lol there’s always more women than men. But I’m some African countries their are more men. It really varies
@Heman-x1n
@Heman-x1n Год назад
@@PopLife-hb3ks I’n reality sis nobody is going extinct and if any group does it will be thousands of years from now. Meaning our kids kids kids kids kids kids kids kids kids kids kids will only be around to tell the tale. Most men of other groups prefer their women except for the. Undesirable ones
@rootsy7038
@rootsy7038 Год назад
@@Heman-x1n well d women outnumbering men fluctuates constantly..bt I though china had mor men thn women since they had ths one child policy for a long time..I knw india is in shortage of men in certain areas
@TaliaJanette
@TaliaJanette Год назад
This generation verison of "polygamy" is him cheatin in peace and callin it polgamy
@rosalynharris7135
@rosalynharris7135 Год назад
Exactly
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
Yup
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
Ain't that better than being married to a virgin man?
@rasheedjeffries5754
@rasheedjeffries5754 Год назад
@@avibecalledyespreshfacts
@undergroundposse610
@undergroundposse610 Год назад
Yall sound stupid when Shazara Ali already told yall females aint no such thing as cheating thats white mans ideology ..black people dont come from monogamy its crazy how yall love the white mans d#;_k from Xmas to New Yrs
@claritywithteekay
@claritywithteekay Год назад
I’m all for marrying outside one’s race as the African gene is strong enough to prevail in the end. Black vs white has only caused us chaos, gray is where you want to be in life. It’s all about balance. That said, I’m also for marrying people within your own race, so once again, balance. People shouldn’t be shamed for their own choices long as they’re not unhealthy (for instance because you look down on your people, which most minorities are guilty of, ask Asians). Also, loyal, successful and monogamous men exist but he’s right, we ain’t that many
@TanRicky321
@TanRicky321 Год назад
They should try uploading the entire video interview. It just makes sense.
@SunshineCali89
@SunshineCali89 Год назад
My intuition is telling me polygamy isn't it. It defies self control, self disciple, accountability and loyal. There are too many voices on the internet. Gotta pick which lane you fall into wisely.
@nicolelewis6312
@nicolelewis6312 Год назад
How does polygamy defy self control, self discipline, accountability and loyalty?
@JaymesForte
@JaymesForte Год назад
@@nicolelewis6312 self discipline is being able to love one person through thick and thin and not fold it’s easy to go be with the other woman when one gets mad or isn’t satisfying you anymore. Loyalty is the same thing
@nweeezy
@nweeezy Год назад
@@nicolelewis6312 because of mental conditioning of what is "good and evil", instead of looking at reality honestly and then assessing the inherent godliness exhibited by *real life* .....nothing more
@virtualtourmaps
@virtualtourmaps Год назад
Yeah totally. Umar is way too opinionated and extreme. "Monogamy is a myth"...huh? Whatever. LOL. 90% of people I know (of all different races) are happy in monogamous relationships including wonderful "black" male friends of mine who love their one and only black wife dearly with loyalty and respect.
@autumnhomer9786
@autumnhomer9786 Год назад
🎀I disagree with Polygamy too. Soul bonds are real, why share one person? Yes single parenthood is an issue in the black community but this isn’t the way to go.🎀
@jmatthews5685
@jmatthews5685 Год назад
"I know sisters who have married African men, some of whom they never even thought to look at because they werent attracted to them but gave a chance"...if this is the sentiment than why not just consider dating outside her race within her OWN country and giving that a chance🤔seems like it would be a lot easier than going from country to country to find one
@stairway-steeltalkironresp7595
Many say Love is blind, but if you look at which way wealth flows, when Blacks marry outside their race, Love sure got good accounting skills. *Steel Talk*
@brandonchandler8632
@brandonchandler8632 Год назад
Ion know bro the amount of black dudes with big broke white women is crazy
@macheefkaze
@macheefkaze Год назад
@@brandonchandler8632 very true. But don't forget about the BW that get little scraggly low tier white dudes. Let's be fair.
@sonyacotton4881
@sonyacotton4881 Год назад
BAM!!!
@brandonchandler8632
@brandonchandler8632 Год назад
@@macheefkaze VERY true lol scraggly is definitely the word 😂
@jhica5718
@jhica5718 Год назад
@@brandonchandler8632 BM with WW have the highest divorce rate...BM only see WW as p*** stars.....and WW see BM as a boy toy. So many is going after NFL's for their wealth.
@james489
@james489 Год назад
Dr Umar I met in Washington DC in 2015. He is a visionary and right about alot he trys to teach. Most of what he says doesn't register in the average black person's mind. Because the black mind in already programed. There are so many breakdowns in our black communities I seen, which typically starts with the young black male. It creeps to women after the male is broken... I feel empathy for alot of black women. As a black man you have to be educated early on the world's plan for them. Black men get off track extremely early and most never recover from the mental assault received as a child to become the idiots you see and hear walking around. I can't even develop friendships with 99% of my brothers because of a immature state of mind of most. We play games and never understand the rules or consequences of our actions and decisions.... Super big issue. Praying won't fix this.
@candicedarbyfox7524
@candicedarbyfox7524 Год назад
Prayer dose work but it also go hand and hand with a willing participant to change mature and grow no matter the gender...
@Ontiming2023
@Ontiming2023 Год назад
See you an umar is teaching blaque women to not take accountability for their actions nobody is making blaque women have 3-5 kids by men inside prison an your not going to blame me for that bro cause I’m 27 with no kids an I don’t get pull blaque women like that so how am I to blame the average blaque women already had 3-5 kids by time she’s 29 how can you want a relationship with that she’s not responsible with her body she gives it out like it’s nothing doesn’t matter how you act if you have multiple children you are not responsible especially when you have different baby fathers
@james489
@james489 Год назад
@@Ontiming2023Respectfully.. Your a few steps behind what I'm saying. I don't disagree with you at all on the basic principle. I'm saying your principle is a by-product of the family structure not existing which originated from the male being already screwed but. So yes your right but my statement is in regards to the after effects of the natural protector (the male) being already broken.. thank you for your feed back it is important to me.. blessings
@Ontiming2023
@Ontiming2023 Год назад
@@james489 dude if a female says I’m going to date a man who’s selling drugs an commuting crimes have a relationship with him having sexual intimacy with such man your blaming that not on her behavior but on a family structure that makes no logical sense we’re talking about accountability for actions your deflecting blaque woman accountability an make illogical reasoning If a female is 25 an she sees a man in the bloods an crip gang dates him makes kids by him an he goes to prison an she already knew he was in the bloods an crips prior what does that have to do with anything but her actions she could of dated a man who was doing something constructive now she will say that man is to blame for her being a single mom when she willingly knew he was in the bloods an crips an made a baby with him how are you blaming that on family bro stop being a simp your a simp you don’t speak for me my guy im not to blame for blaque women’s failures your a evil man trying to guilt us for a blaque woman failures bro how am I responsible for a single mother of 4 kids by a man who’s literally in prison that was not my fault or yours don’t blame that on us an don’t blame that on you she did that she willingly dated such men gave her body to them an put up with all abuses because blaque women are not attracted to men who are positive unless those men are not blaque they cannot stand a positive blaque man we have to be a thug or criminal if you not that your written off
@candicedarbyfox7524
@candicedarbyfox7524 Год назад
@@Ontiming2023 oh don't misunderstand me...I whole heartedly believe women need to be held accountable. It's shameful to be a women with multiple kids with multiple fathers. Praise God this wasn't my fate because as a child I saw my mom struggle as a single parent do to her choices. I been married 15yrs together for 16yr with 5 girls
@Fgaentertainment
@Fgaentertainment Год назад
7-8 kids?? Nah I don't know any man that's going to take on that much added stress financially and mentally
@buttercup5920
@buttercup5920 Год назад
😂😂😂
@buttercup5920
@buttercup5920 Год назад
The ppl in slavery did
@Fgaentertainment
@Fgaentertainment Год назад
@A Vibe Called Yes™ I highly doubt a man wants you to take on 7-8 kids financially. That doesn't even sit right within majority of our spirits.
@buttercup5920
@buttercup5920 Год назад
@@Fgaentertainment you sad spirits 🤣🤣
@buttercup5920
@buttercup5920 Год назад
@A Vibe Called Yes™ ooo talk about it 🤣🔥
@DC-cz2sr
@DC-cz2sr Год назад
He against interracial marriage but he is for polygamy 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 he lost his damn mind
@niaedmonds3342
@niaedmonds3342 Год назад
facts I am with him concerning education but this here he missed me.
@julkaanka8283
@julkaanka8283 Год назад
And from a psychological - subconscious point of view: he is (subconsciously) too ashamed in front of himself, that he is attracted to other races. I mean that is an attractive man, he can easily have women from other races. However he can only know how to truly dominate his own, and his inner (subconscious) sense of weakness calls him to dominate women in all aspects of life as he feels powerless in front of himself being so attracted to women in general - both his own and other race women. others call that phenomenon mama's little boy.
@dagreatpeezy9610
@dagreatpeezy9610 Год назад
This man is out his mind 😂talking about how could you not consider a woman w/ 7-8 kids being taken care of by a MARRIED man 🙅🏾‍♂️
@Imthatoneboy
@Imthatoneboy Год назад
Lol 😂
@AngryWeeb
@AngryWeeb Год назад
Bro did ya see this man face when he “ I wouldn’t even want my wife to want another man” bro I feel you
@bigbyn8032
@bigbyn8032 Год назад
Polygamy should be looked at as a business a corporate LLC /partnerships /agricultural/ investment. You need capital and land to do it properly. All parties involved should be aware of the objective.
@warriorhippie
@warriorhippie Год назад
Valid points
@yangasidziya3245
@yangasidziya3245 Год назад
The most intelligent take on this topic, it should clearly be a business
@aaronaaron2405
@aaronaaron2405 Год назад
Black people don't have capital though
@bigbyn8032
@bigbyn8032 Год назад
@Aaron Aaron exactly so its not wise to irresponsibly have a whole bunch of baby mothers that you can't provide for or don't own enough land to build houses and grow your own food so they don't have to be dependent on the state that will userp your role as a husband/father. At least in America and other western nations that have the same policies.
@bigbyn8032
@bigbyn8032 Год назад
@Aaron Aaron marriage is not something men and women should engage in for free, whether monogamous or polygamous but that's not the world we live in.
@scooterinc7733
@scooterinc7733 Год назад
I'm not 'knowingly' sharing my man (do u hear me Nick Cannon)😮‍💨
@WelcomeToTheMadness
@WelcomeToTheMadness Год назад
Wait, what woman has 7-8 children? And which mentally stable man is going into that situation thinking that it’s okay to take on all that madness?
@analyzeit4682
@analyzeit4682 Год назад
The women in Africa and the Middle East/ other parts of Asia.
@willgggg900
@willgggg900 Год назад
most 90 percent in the world except the west
@Ontiming2023
@Ontiming2023 Год назад
Ain’t no man attracted to a female with kids I’m not
@juaneyahclinyah8272
@juaneyahclinyah8272 Год назад
@@analyzeit4682thank you …show do!
@JustMe-ws2pe
@JustMe-ws2pe Год назад
@@analyzeit4682 they don' t live in a westernized america so that part of their culture comes naturally for them. most modern females here won't have that.
@ssmythe61
@ssmythe61 Год назад
🙄 Complete nonsense what this man is saying. NEXT!!!!!!!! Black men need to step it up Plain and Simple!!
@frederickfrederick8334
@frederickfrederick8334 Год назад
black men need to step it up plain and clear is, that not what he said?
@rosalynharris7135
@rosalynharris7135 Год назад
Exactly
@rosalynharris7135
@rosalynharris7135 Год назад
The interviewer was definitely trying to understand what is going on in the community, right
@bobbythespaceghost9934
@bobbythespaceghost9934 Год назад
Touchy subject. To each their own. I understand where he is coming from though.
@fruitsarelife7073
@fruitsarelife7073 Год назад
Yes, in pan-Africanism we think as a community and what benefits us as a Afrikan people globally amidst dealing with white supremacist attacks. But of course you can also go the western individualist route. It’s up to you.
@Ghanaquankel2776
@Ghanaquankel2776 Год назад
The Asians do it so why not people of African descent then?
@Tashaten
@Tashaten Год назад
I swear I love this man's mind!!!!
@candicedarbyfox7524
@candicedarbyfox7524 Год назад
I think polygamy doesn't work most of the time in our community is because it's about sex and not about building and growing together... I am not against it or for it...I do she the need for it in our community because alot of our men are in prison for life or 35 yes plus, or gay and their is a shortage of black men. Also some black men don't want nothing to do with a black women so I understand the need to have to share...
@youngreckless1608
@youngreckless1608 Год назад
I agree y’all Outnumber us by 2million or more plus if you add what you just said it’s probably 1man for every 4women 😏. Not only that women in other races in America outnumber their man as well. Only places that has more males than females is China/India because of the abortion of baby girls. And Middle-east/North Africa because they prefer sons over daughters because of Islamic religion and very strict towards women. But for the most part it’s balanced.😅
@ellewoods9396
@ellewoods9396 Год назад
There is also a growing number of Black ladies who do not want black males and are marrying outside the community. So perhaps things will balance out on its own.
@candicedarbyfox7524
@candicedarbyfox7524 Год назад
@@ellewoods9396 hopefully
@brandonhardin2609
@brandonhardin2609 Год назад
Very articulate and eloquent speaking
@thabom9791
@thabom9791 Год назад
Just sophistry and shallowness.
@thedukeofchutney468
@thedukeofchutney468 9 месяцев назад
Being articulate and eloquent counts for nothing if you have nothing to say. And this guy is simply a race hustler and nothing more.
@mikmikmiik
@mikmikmiik Год назад
How can anyone focus if you have to deals with multiple personalities.These relationships come with a lot that people don’t understand and are not mentally ready to handle.They just want it for their own selfish needs.
@rootsy7038
@rootsy7038 Год назад
Exactly..
@niaedmonds3342
@niaedmonds3342 Год назад
Exactly and having multiple women comes with different spirits and causes mental health issues.
@mrredd8439
@mrredd8439 Год назад
For those who oppose interracial relationships, stay with your own. Mind your business and worry about yourself.
@fyahzenzeneral4643
@fyahzenzeneral4643 Год назад
Dr Umar is not a regular average Joe giving speaking whatever come to his underdeveloped mind.... He earned this position to speak on every and any . matter concerning his people...if you dont agree mind your business keep it moving!
@Morgue12free
@Morgue12free Год назад
I'm sorry, but that's not how you build a society. Society is based on collectivism. But like Feminist ideology, the western world has sold the idea of individualism to many black people, resulting in us not being able to rebuild. This doesn't affect other groups as it does us, because they are already established. We aren't, so we cannot afford to have this individualistic mindset of yours. It's a death nail to our already limping community.
@fruitsarelife7073
@fruitsarelife7073 Год назад
He is a Pan-Africanist. We believe in this. If you want to live a different lifestyle just don’t watch Pan-African content or people. Stay with your foreign lover and move on. Nobody is forcing this on you. It’s a global Afrikan movement and you can go your own way.
@NBO666
@NBO666 Год назад
@@Morgue12free beautifully said, thank you.
@Goku_Kiyosaki
@Goku_Kiyosaki Год назад
@@Morgue12freewith all the mixing, I had a “friend” tell me that if we only dealt with our race we would eventually run into the incest problem, I personally think that’s a cop out for him not wanting to deal with blk women but what do u think cause it does affect the Japanese for example
@urbanlark
@urbanlark Год назад
So let me get this straight: if I cannot find a suitable Black man in America I should search the globe for one (who may have cultural views of inequality regarding the male/female relationship and/or who may have a criminal and relationship history that will be difficult to uncover making me susceptible to domestic violence or surprise kids he did not inform me of) or I should accept polygamy? So no where are we asking brothers to be better we are just telling sisters to accept mediocrity for the culture? Sorry can’t go there with you today, Dr. Umar. If a white/Hispanic/Asian man wants to treat me well I’m going to do the same thing the brothers do and accept them. I’m not going to be lonely or in a polygamous relationship for the culture. Bad advice.
@jhica5718
@jhica5718 Год назад
Agreed...nobody should be settling for less.
@Imthatoneboy
@Imthatoneboy Год назад
I agree too. If I can’t find any woman in my race that can be a good fit for me I’ll search outside my race. There’s nothing wrong with dating outside the race the only problem would be if the love is one sided or if it’s not genuine
@virtualtourmaps
@virtualtourmaps Год назад
Perfect! ♥️
@Achilles645
@Achilles645 Год назад
@@jhica5718 The problem is y'all don't be settled for less most women think they deserve the best of the best when they don't like seriously. The vast majority of women in general are average looking especially without the makeup and fake eyelashes and eyebrows. But still most women think they are better than men that they qualified for It's ridiculous how much the modern woman especially black woman is incredibly arrogant.
@Achilles645
@Achilles645 Год назад
@@Imthatoneboy You find woman inside your race Y'all just make excuses for everything. If you want to date outside your race do it but don't come up with some nonsense about how you can't find a good woman.
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
The reporter made some good points at the beginning. Black women will have to marry out because there’s not alot of options in the black community and black men don’t make enough money to provide for multiple wives.
@stairway-steeltalkironresp7595
That's another gem of Panafricanism. We got beautiful, healthy, hard working, brothers and sisters all over the planet! Take your pick, but they better be Black! *Steel Talk*
@sonyacotton4881
@sonyacotton4881 Год назад
The diversity among Black ethnic groups is astounding. The opportunity to learn a new language and engage cultural exchange is phenomenal while keeping our bloodlines intact and black is ideal. I'm witchoo.
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
Not alot of black men like that
@kimmiecrumley5271
@kimmiecrumley5271 Год назад
If my husband have more than one woman then he will have to share me if my husband cheat i have a right to cheat and do so openly
@natewilson8609
@natewilson8609 Год назад
Do you want to cheat or would you rather one man ?
@kimmiecrumley5271
@kimmiecrumley5271 Год назад
@@natewilson8609 I'm a one mans woman I'm not a cheater my husband is my best friend my lover my praying partner I'm in love with everything about him he is God sent
@natewilson8609
@natewilson8609 Год назад
@@kimmiecrumley5271 so why would you cheat on your man ? Why would you go against your own morality based on what a man does ?
@kimmiecrumley5271
@kimmiecrumley5271 Год назад
@@natewilson8609 validation
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
Women don't have the right to cheat. Doing so lowers their value. Men increase their value from having multiple bodies.
@curlieeloks3032
@curlieeloks3032 Год назад
God did not approve of polygamy. Monogamy through marriage is possible if you have self control and God centered principles and foundations . But I do agree what he is saying about looking for brothers in other countries
@claritywithteekay
@claritywithteekay Год назад
God did, maybe not your “god”, but God did. For us Muslims, polygamy is a possibility, though it comes with a lot of responsibility, so many Muslims don’t consider it because it’s a huge weight. But polygamy is allowed by God himself.
@curlieeloks3032
@curlieeloks3032 Год назад
@@claritywithteekay that last statement makes no sense because how do you even know the god of Islam is correct or even an idol at that . Do your research … the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob clearly said NO and lives.
@claritywithteekay
@claritywithteekay Год назад
@@curlieeloks3032 The God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Noah, Jesus, Moses, Muhammed PBUT and so many other prophets that muslims believe in clearly allowed polygamy. There is no God of Islam, there's just God. God is ONE and he has no father and certainly no son, otherwise he'd be a mere human. As to how we know God is God, well, first of all, we look around, but most importantly, we look at his holy books, mainly the Quran, and it's pretty straightforward. The miracles are infinite in his book, he predicted everything in there, and gave us all the keys to a successful life and afterlife. But again, faith is about believing, you either do or you don't. We search, some of us with a pure heart, and those who do it with honestly and without arrogance and ego will find his truth, others will stick to what they were taught, sometimes blindly. The signs are there though, and muslims wish nothing more than for people of other faiths to find the truth, there's enough space for all of us in heaven, the more the merrier :)
@krystlelevis7020
@krystlelevis7020 Год назад
@@curlieeloks3032 David had eight wives, Lemach, who was Cain’s son had two wives, and Moses had two wives…there are several examples in the Bible where main characters had multiple wives. You are saying what God wants but you didn’t even check your main source…The Bible.
@curlieeloks3032
@curlieeloks3032 Год назад
@@krystlelevis7020 actually I DID check the Bible . And if you read the Bible , you would specifically discover when Jesus mentioned that ,THAT design was not for his people to have multiple WIVES when he spoke with the Hypocritical wicked PHARISEES …. Respectfully … if that’s the case, God would have made Adam and pulled many ribs from him to make EVE AND BRE AND MARIE … yet he made just ONE HELPMEET for HIM
@JustMe-ws2pe
@JustMe-ws2pe Год назад
Hates interracial dating but co-signs polygamy relationships. I'm aware that we're under eurocentric laws in america but the chances of sisters wanting to be a part of that type of union is slim. that percentage of women aren't enough for the collective with that mindset. modern day women aren't about that life.
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
How can you be against interracial marriage and call those kids from those marriages black?
@SirLoin2407
@SirLoin2407 Год назад
Polygamy? A solution? Riiiiiiiggghhht bro. Riiiight. 🤦🏾‍♂️
@manslayer3619
@manslayer3619 Год назад
@2:15, thank you. I’m tired of AAM ALWAYS blaming AA women, knowing that THEY (AAM) are too weak to fight against a system that’s ALWAYS trying to find strategies ways to continue destroying them
@travonlove83190
@travonlove83190 Год назад
And yet some of y'all still choose them type of man lol
@manslayer3619
@manslayer3619 Год назад
@@travonlove83190 seems like YOU DUD NOT COMPREHEND the message Dr Umar was saying🤦🏿‍♀️ the bad seeds (both AAM & AAW) is the aftermath of ALL THE ILLS placed upon them by WS. Some were able to pull themselves out of the darkness, some weren’t able to. The answer is to NOT PERSONALIZE OUR SITUATION and find ways to HEAL and RESTORE OUR MINDSET, CRRATE/BUILD stronger/healthier balance amongst ourselves. OUR FBA MAN FOCUSING on the building of a better community to raise better men and our women to raise better women is the key
@IllUMINATED33
@IllUMINATED33 Год назад
Single, educated and gainfully employed black Man here in Florida. It saddens me to see so many beautiful melanated women marrying outside of our community. I'm light skinned and not a lot of chocolate women seem to prefer me, on the other hand...I'm constantly turning down white women, with hopes of one day finding a black women to be with and build a legacy with. I love black women...but it sure get's lonely waiting on one to find and connect with.
@dred9174
@dred9174 Год назад
Actually they don't marry outside the community only 4% have married out. Your problem is that you're an educated black man, black women have no interest in educated men they're interest in thugs and drug dealers. That's why American black women have become the laughing stock of the world because they actively avoid men that are working high paying jobs while having kids with thugs in and out of jail. 54% of black men are single unmarried and childless and almost all of them are middle class and higher which says a lot about black women. That's one of many reasons we're done with American black women.
@rootsy7038
@rootsy7038 Год назад
Almost sounds as a dating add😁..anyway my bro.nothn comes befor its time we say..yet time,chance n opportunity will come still..
@IllUMINATED33
@IllUMINATED33 Год назад
@@rootsy7038 Thanks for your comment.
@IllUMINATED33
@IllUMINATED33 Год назад
@@dred9174 Thank you for your comment.
@rootsy7038
@rootsy7038 Год назад
@@IllUMINATED33 bless👍🏽
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
Black women go where you’re appreciated. Open your options in other races if you want❤❤❤❤❤❤
@jordanbarclay4434
@jordanbarclay4434 Год назад
@@avibecalledyes6564evidence already shows blaque women are attracted to thugs an criminals because ain’t no blaque man stop none of you your free whenever you give your body away all in your 20s but come here to blame blaque men when you become a single mom that’s no accountability ain’t no nobody to blame but blaque woman stop blaming us for your actions nobody is opressing blaque women nobody I don’t even have power so how can I oppress you I don’t control you you just fail an wanna cop out by blaming blaque men
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
These type of w,omen are worth nothing to their community.
@alvinking18
@alvinking18 Год назад
He asked that question very well good points oppsing Dr umar I believe we need more of that
@giovannilavita1683
@giovannilavita1683 Год назад
Yeah when dr umar shares his wife then ill consider being poly
@Morgue12free
@Morgue12free Год назад
As Africans, we only practice Polygamy, not Polyamory.
@jasminehopson4895
@jasminehopson4895 Год назад
🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@gentlesoul9046
@gentlesoul9046 Год назад
@@Morgue12free LIES polymory does exist in africa in certain tribes ,women have affairs in polygamy marriages most of the time.
@supahotjoe6493
@supahotjoe6493 Год назад
@@gentlesoul9046 African here from a Family with a Polygamous Grand-Father and Great Grand father, I can assure you that we ONLY practiced Polygamy.
@gentlesoul9046
@gentlesoul9046 Год назад
@@supahotjoe6493 Bro do not speak for everyone and do your research!!
@Parislashay
@Parislashay Год назад
Okay the full interview please 😫 I don’t understand this channel . Thank you for having the good Dr on. But why does this channel only post clips !? It’s maddening 😫😣 lol
@virtualtourmaps
@virtualtourmaps Год назад
This guy is articulate yet way too overconfident. Honestly, he is immature, irrational, and extreme as well. Listen to Bald Head and the Dread - these are real mature men with wisdom. (As well as kind hearts, open and spread good morals). ❤ MUCH better messages from them to grow, heal and have a good life.
@thetechconsultant
@thetechconsultant Год назад
Are you Caucasian?
@virtualtourmaps
@virtualtourmaps Год назад
Yes
@Belz123
@Belz123 Год назад
The only thing I don't with him is the Interracial Dating. Ppl can date whoever the fuck they want.
@onlylibra4883
@onlylibra4883 Год назад
This is an easy issue. The fathers should stay in the home then it wouldn't be no single mothers. They choose to not be in the home.
@BBoldGaming
@BBoldGaming Год назад
How can an interracial man opposes interracial dating? Hipocracy and ignorance has no limits. Hence why not all teachers have good advice for you
@jhica5718
@jhica5718 Год назад
wym?
@kordellsmall8301
@kordellsmall8301 Год назад
He doesn't date interracial I think you got him confused with someone else 🤔
@BBoldGaming
@BBoldGaming Год назад
@@kordellsmall8301 he himself is a mix
@juaneyahclinyah8272
@juaneyahclinyah8272 Год назад
@@kordellsmall8301I think so too,and many of us feel exactly the same was as Dr. Umar.
@scinnyc
@scinnyc Год назад
😂😂😂
@deechy
@deechy Год назад
“Monogamy is a myth “ I felt that
@DorothyDandridge
@DorothyDandridge Год назад
Yeah and so is every social structure and ideologies we have in our society BUT for society to work we need order and structure and monogamy provides that more than polygamy
@julkaanka8283
@julkaanka8283 Год назад
it is a choice - the problem is 1. when it is not mutal 2. when it is not deliberate
@lenwoodhoward7974
@lenwoodhoward7974 Год назад
Time to be real about it...factz
@iheartsleeppeace8973
@iheartsleeppeace8973 Год назад
Well polygamy is complete BULLSH*T.
@starseeker27
@starseeker27 Год назад
​@@iheartsleeppeace8973 I agree, he's not the kind of person to lead anyone all he does is fill his ego and embarrasses himself all the time. He's lost his mind and he's putting himself in a corner to where he can't get out to
@DaronJonestv
@DaronJonestv Год назад
I understand Dr. Umar’s sentiments and it’s totally understandable to a degree. The issue is when he spoke of the men who are dysfunctional in the community it was in a spirit of correction and when he mentioned the women having baby’s outside of marriage it was almost as if they are somehow victims of choices that were not their own. He didn’t mind tellin brothas to stop killing each other etc but he refused to tell the sistas to keep their legs closed or at the very least stay on birth control until a man is ready and has actually agreed to start a family with you.
@fruitsarelife7073
@fruitsarelife7073 Год назад
I think he goes with the mindset that the man is the leader. And with leadership comes a certain standard or responsibility. If the leaders become real leaders, the rest will fall into place. But I think you come from the perspective that the woman is just as much leader as the man and therefore everyone needs to be corrected at the same time to solve this challenge. That’s also an option. However then this mentality needs to be continuous. Not afterwards trying to be the head again once everybody leads the community out of inner conflict at the same rate and effort. Then it has to always be 50/50. There is also a lot of content in which he gives women instructions, as much as he can of course. Usually men teach men how to be men. And women teach women how to be women. He is doing it correctly.
@DaronJonestv
@DaronJonestv Год назад
@@fruitsarelife7073 My comment was about his inability to respect the role of women in the dysfunctional aspects of the community. He was willing to address the role men played but he was unwilling to address the role that women play when it comes to having children in a manner that has been proven not to be the most productive. I never mentioned leadership. That’s a totally different conversation. Lol But par for the course, as a leader would you give your son a roadmap and leave your daughter to the wolves with no instruction? Something to ponder…
@fruitsarelife7073
@fruitsarelife7073 Год назад
@@DaronJonestv I get your point, but that’s actually related to my comment. Imagine young men are influenced by his teachings. Then they will most likely not get in bed with women, even if the women wanted to. They would be too aware of the mental state of our people. They would be too busy leading and helping our community. The women would naturally follow the leadership and have good men to chose from. They would not sleep with young men who are not ready to be leaders or fathers. And there would be strong families again. Of course the women need to be taught how to be good women again. But it needs to be taught by good women. Dr. Umar is a man. He can teach boys or men the best. There is something fundamentally wrong when men teach women how to be women and women teach men how to be men. It doesn’t work as effectively, because they need a role model.
@tablet2820
@tablet2820 Год назад
My body my choice women are smart educated independent and grown no excuses
@DaronJonestv
@DaronJonestv Год назад
@@fruitsarelife7073 A man cannot teach a woman how to be a woman but as a father/brother/uncle/friend, men can play an important role in the overall development of women and men should advise them on how to deal with men in a way that protects them from decisions that are detrimental for them long term. As a father you can’t teach your daughter how to be a woman but you can tell her to deal with men in a way that protects her. But the reality here is, a lot of men benefit from not telling women to keep their legs closed. Lol
@aminaaminat8378
@aminaaminat8378 Год назад
Great response Dr. Umar! I did that very thing! I am a born-bred and generational 500+ years native & descendant from chattel enslaved Africans, and I dated and married a Nigerian man not from Amerikkka. Why?! My options were very limited at best at marrying a fellow Black American man born-bred and raised in Amerikkka. At the age that I married which was in my 30's, I found it very difficult to find a Black who were interested in being Head of Household, interested in having a family, interested and supported a Black woman working, if she desired to do so, and supported in being a help mate for the Black/African family-at large.
@Nkosi766
@Nkosi766 Год назад
Maybe you can address the single mother issue, by teaching our daughters to secure a commitment before bearing children. So you want a black man to take up another man’s responsibilities ( 8 children) work his ass off to support this family, why ? What’s in it for the black man? The community?😂😂😂. Build a community program
@SPEAKSB
@SPEAKSB Год назад
I agree that we need to teach women to not bear children unless married. Because I understand it takes two to tango but women are the ones who get pregnant so therefore we have to take ownership of our body and be responsible. A man can tell you anything he wants but he cannot have a child. Protect your womb and stop having children with broken men who create broken households. I don’t agree with the multiple wives thing for me just because it doesn’t make sense now that most men aren’t financially stable to even afford one household let alone multiple. And some of the guys these days wanna be taken care of instead of being providers. I don’t even think most women would be opposed to the idea as long as the man is honest and a provider and creates a family community q
@Nkosi766
@Nkosi766 Год назад
@@SPEAKSB well said sister. Take some responsibility, my grandpa always said, a girl can run faster with her skirt up, than a boy with his pants down. Satire 😂
@Nkosi766
@Nkosi766 Год назад
@@SPEAKSB , the polygamy part is where umar doesn’t understand. If you were born in a culture that supports polygamy , it would makes sense to you. But women living in a western culture will never give up the idea of their own personal prince in shining armor. It the west women gets emotional and financial motives to leave their good supporting man because of another woman, not thinking about the children ( some women do put up with a lot from men for the welfare of the family) , and she gets rid of a good man, thinking she’s going to find a man that doesn’t cheat. Men and women need to understand the natural roles of both sex , And come to reality. Man too is a beast of nature, he walks around with a bag o seeds and a pickax between his legs for the purpose nature intended. For a man to have one woman is a fight against nature, much like shaving, one day you’re gonna slip up and have a five o’clock shadow.
@Goku_Kiyosaki
@Goku_Kiyosaki Год назад
@@SPEAKSBwhat about the many broken blk women who mess up blk men’s minds ? Lol because id argue there more jezebels in women then there are “broken men”
@SPEAKSB
@SPEAKSB Год назад
@@Nkosi766 but you’re still putting the responsibility of men on the woman. If a man claims to be monogamous why can’t he be faithful and if he wants to cheat why can’t he find other women who are okay with that? If he’s taking care of the household financially that’s great but if you made a commitment to your wife then you need to honor that. It’s not right to put the blame on the wife saying she’s not going to find a man who doesn’t cheat. What men need to do it be honest with themselves on what they wanted and be honest with women. I know quite a few people who are into taking multiple people at the same time and everyone is okay because they’re honest.
@ejay2075
@ejay2075 Год назад
The problem with this is that if black American women think they are going to date men from other countries, those men aren't going for that dominant attitude that they have. The masculine energy and argumentative nature that so many black American women have. In other countries those men do not play that ish. Men provide structure and most American black women don't want structure because they never had a dad at home. They wouldn't last a year with a man from another country.
@jesseb5076
@jesseb5076 Год назад
💯
@Heman-x1n
@Heman-x1n Год назад
Right and if they do it’s the bottom of the barrel psychotic ones
@sonyacotton4881
@sonyacotton4881 Год назад
The fallacy in your statement is that Black American women are already dating and marrying in the U.S. to _black_ men from the West Indies and West Africa. The children from these unions have fared well, for the most part, especially in academic pursuits and social etiquette. The children become a bridge btw cultures. I've seen this up close and personal. This has been going on for decades. You are late. Keep projecting...though.
@sugarBlossom4ever
@sugarBlossom4ever Год назад
I can see already that this response is rooted in stereotype. As you claim that *most* African-American women come from a single-parent female household. Which is incorrect. What is correct is that *most* come from dual parent households. The stereotype is merely louder than the truth. This stereotype undermines the brothers that actively participate in their families. It’s destructive. This is coming from an African-Caribbean sister living in the states
@sonyacotton4881
@sonyacotton4881 Год назад
@@sugarBlossom4ever - I agree we must discipline ourselves to not generalize stereotypes. We can cancel stereotypes when we redirect our mental energy and change our thinking, behavior and actions...and give ourselves grace. Good post, Sis! 👍
@audreylillygayle
@audreylillygayle Год назад
Yup!! I when back into my country and I find a man who knows how to take care of a family. We both work together to better of our family.
@almaesperanza6821
@almaesperanza6821 Год назад
Happy for you that everything went well in your case. I know a lot of people that go back to their country to find a man and they just end up used for a green card.
@letstalkfighting6961
@letstalkfighting6961 Год назад
People do realise that so called white people(melanin recessive) account at most for 13-14 percent of the worlds population. They already dont have as many kids as any other so called races so its only a matter of time before they are reabsorbed back into the "Hue"man population. the ancient africans never had a "race" ideology as such and it was more tribalism. Hence why certain tribes like the dahomey traded other africans because we didnt see each other as one homogenous group...exactly how it is now! We can't eve agree on our blackness, africaness etc and still have many of the core colonist mind frames which permeate out into "our culture". The amount of psychological, physical, spiritual and emotional abuse that has taken/taking place is ridiculous and because of this we still squabble over sitting in masters house. It has to take serious healing and a change in consciousness, when are thoughts, feelings and actions align we will get the results we desire, which has a big part to play in why we are where we are today. Humans as a whole are mostly in fight or flight mode(due to systemic factors) every day and only think of themselves and because of this, worship the biggest slave religion on the planet...MONEY! regardless of how morally bankrupt they become. A person who stands for nothing will fall for anything
@im26c4u5
@im26c4u5 Год назад
People are in fight and flight mode due to their upbringing based on how their parents raised them, not some systemic bs.
@letstalkfighting6961
@letstalkfighting6961 Год назад
@@im26c4u5 and by what mechanisms were used for the removal of the parents to happen in the first place? Which leads to everyone having parental abandonment issues and most people have not addressed these traumas. Plus environment i.e socio-economic factors add to this which have been done on purpose such as red lining, education, health care, authorities etc. And this is not just black people, it is the infrastructure. Its does matter, and so does parental responsibilities. Parents definitely have a role to play, but kids gotta go outside too.
@im26c4u5
@im26c4u5 Год назад
@Lets Talk Fighting Once black men stop blaming white men, the system, etc etc things will change... it's 2k23... there's therapy, scholarships, help, and coaching. Maybe you weren't blessed to have those things for you back then, but now you can teach black children how to use what's there and guide them so they can go where the help is. Who cares what mechanism was there in the PAST... everyone has a PAST, the first humans weren't blessed with technology, money, food hand picked and ready yet they created a society little by little that makes it easy for us now! Black people need to tap into that energy- you can create your future in the present moment, not with the mind in the past.
@thomasterry1131
@thomasterry1131 Год назад
Dr. Umar does not like interracial marriage,however his hero Fredrick Douglas had a white wife!!!
@starseeker27
@starseeker27 Год назад
I think he realizes that but he doesn't care and I'm gonna laugh when he gets caught sleeping with a white woman.
@FA-iq7yy
@FA-iq7yy Год назад
The way we're conditioned to despise each other right now I don't think we're going back to tradition and black love. Women who marry and birth outside the race are super uplifted especially in the media and on youtube. The obsession with mixed-race babies looking better and being more marketable is heavily desired. There arent many media outlets or music promoting black love without putting a heavy dose of drama behind it.
@jordanbarclay4434
@jordanbarclay4434 Год назад
Ain’t no such thing as mixed you used that term. You either blk or your not ain’t no such thing as mixed
@confidentialp6292
@confidentialp6292 Год назад
I agree with a lot of the things he say but disagree with this. I’m in a very happy interracial relationship for many years and have friends in interracial relationships and married for many years and are happy. Marry a personality, love, caring, loyal & that comes in every race
@HoneyBunGod5
@HoneyBunGod5 Год назад
Of course that’s why you disagree it’s guilt
@hoodfam7690
@hoodfam7690 Год назад
My black self with my white wife still making black baby's....
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
Biracial. Cave beast can’t birth black babies 😂 you wish
@barrytheflashallen3941
@barrytheflashallen3941 Год назад
Black is dominate
@TheCapn23
@TheCapn23 Год назад
'Find a husband in a different country' is not a solution
@maurice2936
@maurice2936 Год назад
Black women in America… id have to leave the country to find a wife
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
No one wants to marry a black man. You have the highest divorce rate.
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
They don't find you attractive anyway.
@diversetribe231
@diversetribe231 Год назад
Why is this platform not asking him about the school?!
@starseeker27
@starseeker27 Год назад
Because he's not focused on it he's more focused on being the black Hitler and looking for ways to rob the black community of their hard-earned money so he can fuel his gambling needs.
@marlonsamuels6443
@marlonsamuels6443 Год назад
real talk doc... real talk doc...
@theindiespotlightphilly
@theindiespotlightphilly Год назад
I know sometimes everybody black does not agree with Dr Umar's facts / beliefs but you definitely have to give it to him he's definitely a educator or scholar a very smart man and the way that he details and unpacks topics about or things that affect the black community is is amazing some educators aren't willing to go that deep
@travonlove83190
@travonlove83190 Год назад
He's delusional especially when he said men like myself who don't have any kids should be willing to be a step father and if not we aren't man lol. Don't know why y'all listen to him
@bobbyschannel349
@bobbyschannel349 Год назад
Gray is the only way? Let me push back on that because that made no sense to me. Has nothing to do with color it has something to do with culture in the race. Have you met biracial people, I have plenty of them ... their lives experience is difficult to say the least that's not going to change anything it's not going to make a stipulation better there are people who are married to people of different races but they still may not like that race I have met those people before... not to mention many biracial people tend to date and marry White. Look it up, look up almost every black person who have biracial children, and those children grow up to be adults, and look at their spouses and partners, very few if not none are black.. And that is in society in generally. Biracial people date and Marry non-black... that would definitely not add to the Black American culture Heritage or experience. ertha kitt has a white granddaughter, Lena Horne has a white son, Sidney Poitier has white grandchildren, Harry Belafonte has white grandchildren. And that's how many. in fact as interracial grows more and more, and I see it everyday. Black man and black women .. you're going to see white people with black grandparents, it does not add it takes away.. If you believe in culture, Community, Heritage, and identity then you wou ldn't say such things.
@theindiespotlightphilly
@theindiespotlightphilly Год назад
@@travonlove83190 I know sometimes everybody black does not agree with Dr Umar's facts / beliefs but you definitely have to give it to him he's definitely a educator or scholar a very smart man and the way that he details and unpacks topics about or things that affect the black community is is amazing some educators aren't willing to go that deep
@theindiespotlightphilly
@theindiespotlightphilly Год назад
@@bobbyschannel349 I know sometimes everybody black does not agree with Dr Umar's facts / beliefs but you definitely have to give it to him he's definitely a educator or scholar a very smart man and the way that he details and unpacks topics about or things that affect the black community is is amazing some educators aren't willing to go that deep
@some1350
@some1350 Год назад
I think there are lots of people in monogamous relationships. If most men are not monogamous is it because they can get away with it or is it because it's natural? I would argue that it's more acceptable for men not to be monogamous. It also takes commitment to stay with one person, most people these days are not committed.
@youngisrealite4765
@youngisrealite4765 Год назад
Polygamy is NOT of God! Only one wife
@koffi3415
@koffi3415 Год назад
Where are you coming from,some of the characters in the bible had multiple wives.
@truthdude8849
@truthdude8849 Год назад
@@koffi3415 david and solomon
@websurfer8670
@websurfer8670 Год назад
@@koffi3415 also abraham and moses
@velvettingleschalkiesasmr
@velvettingleschalkiesasmr Год назад
Read the bible properly and the context to those situations. Polygamy is NOT of God but of MAN, hence why when he created Adam, he created just Eve for him. ONE woman, because that is all he needed. Not Eve, Jenny, Shaniqua and so on. Adam had more than 1 rib, so more than 1 woman could have been created for it, but they werent.
@Chantusyluvmuzik
@Chantusyluvmuzik Год назад
@@velvettingleschalkiesasmr 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank UUUUUUUU this world trying to change the origin to their sinful Likings
@greatestone4eva
@greatestone4eva Год назад
i respectfully disagree with him on both issues here. there would be no humanity if humans never left africa and all DNA come from it.
@staydownpromo
@staydownpromo Год назад
Great video 💪🏾 #StayDown ⚓️..
@nixonmollos4877
@nixonmollos4877 Год назад
Respect from 🇭🇹 to Dr Umar
@damonmartin293
@damonmartin293 Год назад
Well presented
@brendadaviswilson9243
@brendadaviswilson9243 Год назад
Nah I’m good. A woman who didn’t have self control isn’t my problem. She needs to seek out birth control to prevent more pregnancies and mentorship for her kids. I put in work in my marriage we had to overcome I’ll parents both of us having job losses and illnesses. I worked my butt off with compromises and sacrifices. I’m not handing my husband over to anyone because she doesn’t care about herself or her kids. No one is adjusting their lifestyle and having less for recklessness. I was married before I had kids we have choices. We are in our 40s about to retire in les than 3 years. If he decides to have another woman I can just travel the world and live well without him and he can find another sucker to go save single unwed moms
@nicolash.9222
@nicolash.9222 Год назад
This dude got power in his tongue, for real (pause)
@deandreadevinehorne1853
@deandreadevinehorne1853 Год назад
I WILL NEVER MARRY THE COLONIZER
@Seek_Truth
@Seek_Truth Год назад
Polygamy has nothing to do with sex. It's about covering a woman and children that have no cover.(Father or Husband) It is wrong to have sex with a woman you are supposed to be covering. It's one man to one woman. One rib does not multiply. Men that want to exploit the circumstances instead of cover woman and children will only make the problem worse. This is not to say woman should not be working, we definitely should be working. Please stop promoting this exploitation and calling it circumstances honoring. It's not, it's promoting adultery, envy, and neglect. We want to build our community not exploit it.
@sandrahinds907
@sandrahinds907 Год назад
But Bro. Umar why is polygamy needed anyway?? I don’t see the justification for it
@Erica-ls7bp
@Erica-ls7bp Год назад
The premise of the host's statement is wrong. Polygamy is purely an economic system designed to enrich men thru forced labor of their wives and children. If it wasn't it'd only be practiced by extremely wealthy men. But that's not the case worldwide and historically. Men have become wealthy thru polygamy, beginning with bride prices and then their wives labor. But men have been gaslighting about polygamy for eons. Polyagmy is a system of sexual and labor exploitation of women and children. Period.
@tanicabilley8280
@tanicabilley8280 Год назад
Sounds about right to me!
@decayinsilence
@decayinsilence Год назад
Yep 😁
@jaykaynum5569
@jaykaynum5569 Год назад
Stay at home?. She's looking for a home to steal in divorce court 😂
@yinslangdoe1141
@yinslangdoe1141 Год назад
1 Corinthians 7: 2 One husband and one wife Don’t listen to Dr Umar when it comes to marriage. Listen to the Bible Back in the days long ago it was ok to have multiple wives. But in the last days One husband One wife. 1 Corinthians 7 1 Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. [1] 2 But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
@Tocoffi
@Tocoffi Год назад
Black men getting their passports 😂😂
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
Screw them.
@geinikan1kan
@geinikan1kan Год назад
This is why people do not need to accept BS from a man with Dr. in front of his name. People in Africa live in cities too. Not everyone knows how to get honey from a beehive.
@DM-sv2ei
@DM-sv2ei Год назад
Thank you Baby Boy!
@sharondennis5024
@sharondennis5024 Год назад
Dr. Umar I agree with you ABSOLUTELY 💯 percent right...their are Black men out THERE....BLACK POWER TO THE BLK SISTERS AND BROTHERS....
@daphnesmith1686
@daphnesmith1686 Год назад
EPIC!
@adivax3
@adivax3 Год назад
My question is…Do we see a world where a black woman can have more than one man/husband…I mean that would be ideal for me 😊
@amonferrell4452
@amonferrell4452 Год назад
You can but It'd be hard to start a family. Who would be the father?
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
If I do, it won’t be 2 black men.
@JustMe-ws2pe
@JustMe-ws2pe Год назад
been happening,how many black women have multiple baby daddies? ijs
@staceywalton29
@staceywalton29 Год назад
Same here sis 👏🏽
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
Do we see a world where men and women rely on each other for protection? I mean that would be ideal for me. Husband makes the same as his wife, him being equally submissive, and a stay at home parent.
@morriskode
@morriskode Год назад
Soon as I see that finger pointing I'm clicking 😆 🤣 👉
@starsstripes990
@starsstripes990 Год назад
Deuteronomy 7:3-4 kjv
@kingtaylor201
@kingtaylor201 Год назад
Those men of other races DO not want them lol they're the least desired , now if she swirls that's not a problem as long as she ain't the grass green on the other side type
@ebonylamb4871
@ebonylamb4871 Год назад
I agree with the interracial marriage theory but polygamy is a no no cause it only benefits the man.
@jhica5718
@jhica5718 Год назад
why do u agree with opposing interracial?
@IIIII...
@IIIII... Год назад
Marriage is a no no caus it only benefits the wahmen.
@rosalynharris7135
@rosalynharris7135 Год назад
Manhood before polyamorous hood
@IntelligentInsights876
@IntelligentInsights876 Год назад
Good luck with that, I think the LGBTQ community will do all they can in these schools to turn your sons into a bitch.
@rosalynharris7135
@rosalynharris7135 Год назад
No filter!
@dom4378
@dom4378 Год назад
Until men can learn to stop being abusive mentally and physically and build some integrity for themselves I don't see the problem changing much ...
@raulrussell2571
@raulrussell2571 Год назад
To each their own.
@CEEJAYAKA
@CEEJAYAKA Год назад
he forgot to mention black lesbianism. it cuts the number of available black women
@xzing7
@xzing7 Год назад
Stay away from intermingling. Stick to your Race. As it is Written. APTTMHG
@garrettcole2251
@garrettcole2251 Год назад
Blak on Blak crime Needs to be called out as a sin....
@therealbigboss101
@therealbigboss101 Год назад
ni****az don't care everyone for themselves
@garrettcole2251
@garrettcole2251 Год назад
@@therealbigboss101 Then we need to argue that Blak people's culture is killing other Blak people.... And not unity. Silence is consent. If people are silent is because they have a belief in Blak pathology. Well the Azande, Yoruba, Tonga, KiMundu, Zulu, Oromo, Toubu and others would argue against Blak pathology as only a Blak thing. Right or wrong???
@garrettcole2251
@garrettcole2251 Год назад
@A Vibe Called Yes™ Electro magnetic people, allegedly Black, are not skilled to be independent as a separate nation, polity, and infrastructure. We don't have the people skills to be independent in compared to kinyaRwandans, which is a 99% Electro magnetic/black nation.
@hoottasshell
@hoottasshell Год назад
So....I guess we're forcing Pookie and Rar Ray to marry BW or something...??
@8213apice
@8213apice Год назад
Leave them alone. Don’t marry no BM.
@CaapriceTube1
@CaapriceTube1 Год назад
1:29 - Born and raised in Toronto, Canada. Most of us Blacks up here are of Carribbean background, then African and Nova Scotian moving to the Eastcoast. I can tell you right now, in Toronto where the majority of the carribbean population is of Jamaican origin, these Toronto guys are what we call "Wastemen" and "Wasteyute". Myself being of Afro-Guyanese origin, same thing but we call them "bungatuffies" lol. A waste man is a waste man either way no matter where you travel.
@Zin-uru6551
@Zin-uru6551 Год назад
I feel like I've wasted my time watching this
@dhqbrandi
@dhqbrandi Год назад
In this polygamy scenario is the husband providing for all women? Or all 3,4,5? If not so what's the advantage of marrying someone else husband and sharing him plus having to show face at work. Do y'all all sleep in the same bed? Personally couldn't imagine sleeping in bed with 2,34 other adult people, or they take turns sleeping with the husband? Sounds cray cray He must not understand the k-1 k-2 visa process . Who can afford filing plus flights back and forth to a foreign country. Plus the green card can take a year Or likely longer before they can work an entry level job paying the minimum. So basically a Black women k my option is to share or marry someone outside their culture but still inside the diaspora? Plus with all those children in people that house is going to be pretty expensive so it seems the man will be highly stressed working so much to compensate for the bills and food is expensive as well. What about dealing with famil feuds or disagreements about household or raising children between women who are naturally territorial It just doesn't seem reasonable.
@thebabbler8867
@thebabbler8867 Год назад
Hit the nail on the head. Love is cursed by monogamy.
@brandonbeach8943
@brandonbeach8943 Год назад
100% wrong. He is not saying the real truth about most men in Africa. If he doesn't say it I have no problem saying it.
@keepsit100atalltime9
@keepsit100atalltime9 Год назад
What is the real truth?
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