African parents should learn to respect their adult children & their choices in Africa or abroad. Period! Respect is reciprocal. You get what you give.
We have the same issue in Nigeria, but many Nigerians can’t afford to live on their own. Many Nigerian parents are so badly behaved, these issues will continue.
She nailed it at 12 minutes. I feel like because I sacrificed for you I have to have. Say " you WILL go to church" That's so toxic and wrong, Nigerian parents acting like they own their children even when they are adults.
The mum is wrong. If she wants to leave, let her leave , she is adult. In African parents allow their children to leave home till they’re 50 years old.
You guys do not have the full story and I implore guys to look into it. This same mother ignore her daughter’s calls after she gave birth and was bleeding out from complications at the hospital. She never apologized and her daughter extended her heart and accepted her back into her and her child’s life then continued to torment her and pick fights with her when she moved back with her mom. Thats when she decided to leave her mom’s house when she would be at work but her mom suddenly came home earlier than expected and caused the scene. It’s not just about religion or spirituality. There’s more things you’re actively deciding not to look deeper into.
That’s a lie I stayed in my moms house with 3 of my kids and because I was in my mom’s house it was her house I wouldn’t dare talk to my mom that way she fought me and I let her and I’m from the US
The problem is what exactly are our own values? Those things we call values are copied or other people's values... until we recognize who we are and be proud of ourselves we are a lost sheep... The lady is trying to find her self and has values for herself...we are intellectually lazy and uncurious to work on ourselves.
Africans need to be careful raising their kids in foreign lands. I felt sorry for a Ghanaian couple in Winnipeg, Canada whose teenage son took on bad behaviour of AAs
All you guys have a different story. The fact is she had no place to go with the baby that night so she and the baby ewould have been on the street to sleep, thats why the mother was trying not to let her leave because of the baby
The changes seem subtle at first … change in hairstyles ie weaves and extensions then lashes. The changes in the physical affects moral decisions. I also agree with the second speaker.
Gossip Central, we want to talk about 1bN for Swiss Apes trip for ----- trader. Who appointed her? Who asked her to just take a bow in the senate. My ex Nima can do better in that trade ministry. The same woman who wants pre-schoolers to go learn a trade how to make pads. Tell your man Tinubu to let her go immediately. What is your business with people in America? Dr. Morayo can always run back. We're are not distracted by the over 5000 killed since may 23. Over 50 university girls are still being held by so-called bandits.
Which one is imposing her religious beliefs on her daughter? We are talking about this child practicing something else. If you want to practice something else apart from the church and Jesus, please get the hell out of my house to practice whatever. I will warn you first and try to persuade and advise you as a child and where you persist, leave my house
We use culture to get away with a lot of rubbish in Nigeria. I see parents cursing their children oloriburuku, oloshi but but but but culture says you must respect me lol Parents gets way with it in Nigeria because many children dependent on their parents for a long time due to bad state of the economy, if Nigerian kids could start working and earning form going they parents power over them will wane. There are good aspects to Nigerian parenting culture and good aspects to western so we should aim to adopt the best of both not just use culture to defend and justify everything.
