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"The Response" - To have written all that as your defence and look even worse takes some kind of skill, you should probably consider a job in politics or maybe a monastery :)
This was so entertaining. The guy is writing his side of the story and can't even make himself look good. Oh, and you know that any "explanation" that begins with "she just needs to get the **** over it" is just going to be a trainwreck.
Man, did that guy from the first story miss the point. Even if his *assumption* that she wouldn't care one bit about missing the raid was correct, he'd HAVE to tell her, regardless of whether or not it's his girlfriend or a random guildie. If I showed up to the raid all prepared and then told (Heck not even told outright, she had to poke and prod a bit to get an answer) I'd been replaced, I'd be miffed too. Even if I'd disagree with the reason, I'd appreciate knowing it beforehand so I can plan my evening accordingly. And then he tries to blame the raid leader too. *GUILTY*
If it's something that came up right there then I can kind of understand but he already knew way before. What did he expect by letting her prepare and take time out of her day to raid just to be ignored afterwards. I would be pissed and probably /gquit any guild that did that to anyone. You're not fit to lead if you have 0 people skills.
clueless seems the best assessment here. the guy clearly has a lack of personal integrity. strike one: he should have talked to her, and given her the choice if she was on board with it. strike two: he's too much a coward to own it so tries to blame his boy. strike three: he doesn't see his mistake, and continues to roll with his lack of anything resembling comprehension of his actions, and the results. YOU'RE OUT!
He also contradicts himself Statement 1 "The RL should be the one dealing with raid roster" uses this to say that he should not of been the one to ask his gf (Even the RL asked him too) Statement " "I should of been asked" Says this after his gf gets back in and gets angry there is a massive problem here
16 minutes in and god damn... dude could have just had a quick text to her and it would have been done and done, but instead we've got this tunnel to the other side of the world for all this hole he's dug for himself
I know i lost it when he started contradicting himself he said "The RL should be one managing the raid roster not me" but when his gf gets back in " I should of been asked" LIKE WTF Also he uses that first statement to blame his friend for not telling his gf she is off for this one but he did ask him to ask her since well they live in the same home and are in a relationship. This guy is just digging himself a hole to china.
You know this girl is just gonna respond to her BF with "yOu FiGuReD!" to like every time is disagrees with her now.... And that makes me really happy xD
@@Ellierienna that arse commented about how she embarrassed him on drama time and to their friends. He doesn't need her to embarrass him he does a perfectly proper job all on his own. I am really curious what he wrote about her in the letter he sent to preach, that he outright said he was not going to read out loud to protect their relationship. Whatever it was, it had to have been bad and hopefully Alex gets the good sense to have a serious conversation, or break up with this douche.
I am now convinced based on preach’s reponse to the “slyvanas cosplay pictures” that Preach’s one desire is for Emma to come into the bedroom as Ysera.
He displays some classic signs of narcissism - assuming a lot, conceited, cowardice, entitled, putting the other down. These people can't take responsibility for their actions, run the other way if you're unlucky enough to become involved with one
That boyfriend story was literally the most painful of any dramatime story that I can remember. I really hope it's just some person making up a story and writing both sides. Phew man.
As someone who does 20+ keys as healer tank and DPS, I can confirm that DPS is by far the easiest role to do in M+. Just don't stand in fire and kick when you have do is all you have to do. Tank and healing is a lot more challenging to do well in high keys. I go DPS whenever I just want to chill and not have to shot call or time heals perfectly so we don't wipe.
God someone who understands my plight. My iO score is not so good to get dps so I usually have to tank lower keys and that stresses me out a lot more than dps.
I always wonder why people keep saying 15s are stupid easy but its super stressful for me as a tank. Then ran a 19 as a dps and realized it's because being a tank is difficult
@@Medic99z There's a reason why tanks are the hardest role to find. If I ever just want to get a pug immediately and pump a key, I just go tank and I can find a pug in .00001 sec.
Eh I’ve always found healing to be as easy as dps. It’s just the difference between having a good dps or having a good healer is very different. A shit dps means 33% sucks while having a bad healer means 100% bad heals.
Well that is highly unlikely due to the fact that theirs info here that she would not know E.g It being the raid leader who asked her bf the GM to ask her to stay out of the raid also they both watch this so it would be very obvious. Would interesting tho.
mk gaming Oh yea watch this then. You pooped the bed last night. That info is highly unlikely for anyone but you to know. There for I am you. It’s called lying friend :)
@@frankanderson9577 Yes, but the fact is there Guild watches this show, So its pretty easy to disprove any of this if preach wanted too. Also the dude sent a letter to preach. that made preach say "Im not reading that to protect your relationship" So there is a relationship and now only preach and the bf know whats in that letter.
@@Localpref416 Yea, but there guild watches the show so its pretty easy to disprove if people wanted to go out of there way. Also we could just ask preach if the email accounts were the same. And before you say fake email accounts can be easily found out. and the letter that he sent preach that preach would not read out to protect there relationship.
PC crashing on a certain fight is absolutely a thing. I had exactly that problem. It turned out to be my power supply. Some specific combination of animations drew too much power and blue-screened or just shut the computer off completely. I figured it out when running a tensorflow benchmark did the same thing. New PS solved it.
The dumber thing (from a guy’s perspective), aside from not asking her first, was that he didn’t apologize or try to make up for it. Even if he didn’t understand or agree with her, he loses nothing from a half-hearted apology or making breakfast for her for a few days.
@@ethanomihombre I think a half-hearted apology would help but would be obvious also, he not only blames her but also his friend at the same time. Like its up to the raid leader to decide who goes and who doesnt according to him , the RL asked him to tell her because they live in the same house and he could smoothe it over being there partners , but when she gets back into the raid he says she bullied her way in and that he should of been asked but in his own words "The RL should be the one to decide that" but now he should have a say???????? TBH it seems like this guy is afraid of confrontations but also wants to have some control over her.
@@nhagan001 I was laughing extremely hard at his idea that he was apparently going to "win this argument". I even rewatched it a few times 'cause it's so funny.
I understand being anxious, overthinking and then shutting down but damn. Your in a fairly committed relationship with this girl, and you have been living together you should be comfortable enough to talk to communicate anything that you know that involved or affects her without worrying that she will take it the wrong way. If you are keeping stuff from your partner our of fear of that reaction then you should re evaluate your relationship. You don't haft to be honest 100% of the time but you should at least try and not be paranoid that they will hate you for being honest.
So that guy first doesnt feel responsible for benching his girl friend because he isnt raid leader and then complains she didnt speak to him before returning?!
lol in HIS mind, because she doesn't like to possibly make wipes, and get things done with some caution, she is bad. that guy needs to get a serious reality check.
Well he said they knew each other since 14 and there living together so i assume there at least in there 20s somewhere. So they were probably friends for a longtime and I presume the relationship between them is quite new maybe barely over 1 year old. So i`m guessing its one of them situations where really good friends just end up transition into a romantic relationship somewhere down the line.
To the boy with Xanesh crashes. Are you using WeakAuras? If so check if the fight still crashes if you try disabling them. Faulty weak aura can crash the game. Simple solution is to find the aura that causes the issue. More complex one is to do full clean up of WAs and apply them fresh once again.
I'm assuming that ryan also was jealous of how Moons looks good, and he tought he could've maybe made something also happen there. Since he is a mighty GM with power and rank Assuming he's constantly in the right, i wouldnt be surprised
lmao, that first guy presented his side of the story and made himself look even worse than he looked the first time around and was like 'i wasn't fairly represented' yeah no shit she painted you in a positive light by comparison.
Imagine writing all that out as a response; presumably proofreading it a time or two; seeing it all laid out. And STILL not understanding how UTTERLY WRONG you are.
Catching up on these drama times and I gotta say the dude from the first story was so guilty, it wasn’t even funny. It was down right hysterical. I hope he apologized.
The thing is Ryan ASKED him to be the one to tell her A. They live in the same house b. It would be easier for him to do it since there a couple and might be able to smooth it over.
Oh my, this couple has issues. Does it make sense to still be angry over a raid spot? No. But I would say this anger isn't about the raid spot. If you are in a relationship you have to TALK TO EACH OTHER! For the love of everything that is sacred. You cannot assume especially when there is even the slight chance the person could disagree. By asking such questions openly you are showing that you respect your partner. Even if you hear something you would have expected. Talk to them!
I know it's a year later but, "I think it should be the raid leaders decision to bench someone and tell them" then later "SHould have asked me, I'm the GM!" Like, what??
The first mistake at the core of the original story and the response here is that the girlfriend or whatever is that If he wanted to pull that "no favoritism" game, as he should have simply excluded himself as well, and simply told the truth to his gf, that homie in the guild wanted to get up "proper" on the new brod, and they both sit out the raid and avoid or minimize any drama/issues from the get-go by him siting it out as well to make things feel more fair to her.. Lastly, Preach asking the question "is she bad though?" as long as she isn't causing constant raid wipes and if the guild is not a top cutting edge raid team, then it doesn't matter if she's a mediocre/bad player if all they do is progress normal, heroic, etc at a casual to semi-casual pace, if they still manage to clear the content, then all is fine. However by this dude's comment about M+ at the beginning, it sounds like she's not a tank who causes wipes and does the keys proper and on time, so we can make an educated guess that she's a good tank also in raid.
Day-Yam....you gotta ask yourself....would you have not asked any other guildie to sit out?!....then multiply that by x100 because she is your GIRLFRIEND! GUILTY AS FOOK
When your lacking of common sense is so bad you sub out your real life "live-in" girlfriend without notice and blame everyone but yourself. I hope that guy never pro-creates!
doesn't ask her about stepping out of raid after being asked to ASK HER by the raid leader. doesn't get why she's upset. she talks to the raid leader and gets her spot back, he's upset she didn't ask him to come back. just... fucking hell....
I felt uncomfortable and cringing that entire boyfriend story, dude has 0 idea how to deal with people. But I am not sure if it is just straight up stupidity or ignorance, or both.
Holy crap, this dude is a clown. His side made him look even worse. I can't imagine how much this dude tries to gaslight her and avoid any blame in every aspect of their relationship. Guilty.
