I’m literally crying with you…..because nobody truly understands the overbearing emotions we go through after giving birth. Thank you for this. Thank you for being honest with us & yourself about how you feel! You are strong, you are capable of doing everything you put your mind to, YOU GOT THIS! ❤️
It's perfectly fine to cry and feel overwhelmed. It's OK, to not be OK. Thank God you're expressing your emotions, it can help someone else.. Sending Love and Hugs to you Daysha.. (I'm crying with you)
I dealt with postpartum baby blues! It’s crazy because you can be in a room full of support and feel like this. My labor was traumatic asf! 60+ hours of labor to have a C-section. I was down for a good 2 months. Got down to 140 from being 180 pounds because I wasn’t eating, only breastfeeding and drinking water. It’s rough momma but it gets better, promise love! It really does ❤️
It’s ok to cry Daysha!!! I have three girls and my postpartum was different with all three of them!!!!! Stay strong and take time for yourself!!!! Awww it was so sweet seeing Quik get baby girl ready!!!!!! I can’t wait to see baby Dream and her beautiful pictures!!!!!!!
I’m glad Daysha and Quik are allowing us to share these precious moments with them. Such a beautiful family 😍 I’m loving the authenticity and the realness.
My daughter is 15wks now, and I am a first time mom as well. I know exactly how you’re feeling, I promise you it gets better. I cried for two weeks but it got better. You got this, you’re doing so good already. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, or take help. And be vocal about your needs. Congratulations on your daughter🎊
Awww baeee don't cry. It's ok. Maybe take a break from social media. You don't have to show us everything. You've held it down long enough. Praying you feel better.
Hi Daysha, just want you to know that you are not alone. I had my baby 1 week before you. As soon as i got home I started feeling sad and crying for no reason. And that is simply called postpartum baby blues which almost every mom goes through especially with their first baby. I was sleep deprived as well so it made it worst. Baby is now 3 weeks and its not 100% better but it’s definitely getting there. Thank you for sharing the REAL that us women go through and for just being vulnerable ! We were made for this! 💞💞
Daysha take it easy. I remember after having my second child and 2 c-section I dealt with postpartum. No matter the support around you, you feel the world still sinking in on you. The best thing you can do is pray, spend time with your baby, and surround yourself with love.
I’m 2:05 seconds in. This is so real life and don’t nobody know what this feels like till you go through it yourself. And for people who have been through this.. this goes to show us that we are not alone. We’re not the only ones. This is raw, thank you for showing us your life💛💛
I love that you’re so transparent.post partum is sooo real and unexplainable at times . The changes the sadness for no reason at all ... feeling overwhelmed at the drop of a dime !
💕💕💕 sending love and light to you baby girl. I've been through the same after my second child and journaling and doing things that makes me happy helped like: taking a milk bath with flowers in it , meditation, listening to uplifting music, having positive people around you to also help make you feel good and etc. this too shall pass love 🙏🏾
Hey baby ❤💋 just crying along with you throughout this video and I just wanted to tell you that I am so very proud of you! I'm sending massive virtual hugs to you all! I've been praying for all of you and have watched all of you along your journey from the jump and my gosh yall are all so very strong! I am so proud of the astounding and phenomenal woman you are, of the momma, daughter, sister etc you are ❤💋🙏 in my 30s myself with 3 babies here with me and a few in heaven. Postpartum depression is most definitely real and baby it's so hard, but you are pushing it, you are going to get through this is the name of Jesus I just know it. Your village refuses to let the evil prevail 🙏 AMEN I could go on and on but I just wanted to let you know that you are loved, you are worthy, you are enough, you are beautiful and beyond hang on momma it's going to get better ❤ 💋xoxo
Omfg. Girl yes I'm 28 with no kids. And if I'm into it with a female , well this 1 in particular, she says "bitch you can't have kids,or ect.. " like bitch huh?? Css I'm 28 no kids that means I can't have any?? Like make it make sense. 🤣 Then what's crazy is she has 4 & doesn't have custody of them. Like u proud u have kids but don't have them . 🤣🤣🤣🤣I'm confused.
It will get better moma. I had postpartum wit my twins for months on and off crying a lot as a FTM but it will ease up and Pls take a self care day or two for yourself after your 6 weeks are up it’s def needed 💗💗💗 wishing you the best 🥰🤞🏼
I’m over here crying because I can understand where you’re coming from. I’m struggling with postpartum depression as well and it’s tough but it will get better. I’m praying for you🙏🏽 Thank you for sharing this with us I know it’s so many women that can relate to the way you’re feeling right now.
Yes postpartum is very real. I went through it with my first child, a girl also. I cried a lot and was thinking something was gonna happen to me and my child wouldn't know me. Its been 21yrs and I'm still here. God is good. Enjoy your blessing. Congrats!
You got it mama! I’m a first time single mother as well and my baby just turned 6 months. Cry, scream and breathe. It’s not easy but it definitely gets better. I came home from a csection alone and I cried the first month everyday. Looking at my son, it gave me strength I never knew I had. I wish you happy healing, peace and welcome to best journey you’ll walk down 💚
I definitely felt this ! Being a mom is hard ! it not a part time job or what not . I had a lot going on plus a baby . we all love our babies , sometimes it’s just hard transitioning into a new mommy . you got this girl ! The time will fly by sooo fast . I barley have a support system. Me or my momma . you can do this your a wonderful mother & the memories will be great . we all just need time to ourselves.
I went through post partum depression. Please allow your mom help you as much as possible and rest in dark room with quiteness....Love you and praying for your family.
I’m still dealing with postpartum depression as well it’s not easy and something people don’t talk about I’m proud of u for speaking on it mama and I’ve tried to commit suicide alone off that feeling multiple times from me feeling alone in a room full of people who love me it gets easier day by day the more u let it out and talk about it the better you’ll feel keep your head up
Praying for you ! Ive definitely have been there. I was so depressed when I gave birth to my youngest child 5 years ago. I’m pregnant now and my biggest fear is going through postpartum depression again. I was afraid to hold my baby, feed her. I had suicidal thoughts as well. I had to sit my husband and mother down to explain to them what’s going on with me. Those two ppl helped me get through it and I’m forever grateful
I do mom content & I did a video on postpartum depression❤️❤️❤️ I hope it helps you love ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-0XfbRGzBCm4.html
can you explain why you felt like taking your life after you had a blessing come into your life and now have something to live for plus having support . I am not intending to come off rude or insensitive.
Us mothers understand girl! Im 8 months post partum and I still have my moments. You got this mama 💕 Dream is so lucky to have you as her mommy! … keep pushing.
You got this Daysha..thank you for your vulnerable moments. Its ok to let it out. Accept the support and ask for help when u need it. Take things one day at a time. This to shall pass
Awww Daysha! I’m so sorry you going through postpartum 😔😔 I definitely know what that is like. It’s a mixture of feeling guilty,shame,sadness and anxiety. It’s the worst to feel depressed after having such a beautiful blessing. You wonder why you’re feeling the way you are when you should be happy for the blessing God gave you. But its normal Daysha🥺❤️❤️ It’s a big transition to go from only caring about yourself to having the responsibility of you’re own daughter. It DOES get better to give you some hope! Mine are 2,3,and 5 now and it’s so much easier!! It’s fun and exciting everyday lol. I support you so much and I wish you nothing but the best!! Please speak to your primary doctor and get a therapist. Postpartum depression is a DISEASE it won’t get better until you take medication for it. Wishing you luck momma❤️❤️
It's ok boo!!! You got this baby girl!! YOU GOT THIS. THIS is normal what you are feeling most of us mothers shoot if not all of us mothers have gone through this!! I went through it with both of my babies!!! You are a beautiful person, an amazing fiancé, and amazing mommy! This happens continue to ask God to strengthen you!! And I pray he helps and strengthen you in the areas you're weak in. We don't have to see her face yet. The fact that you are still doing this is amazing and resilient. You are also tired and need rest. You will get it. It will get better ok. Please know it really will get better! I don't know you personally but I am proud of you. I'm praying for you FOREAL because I know this feeling all too well!!
Hey hon, I've never dealt w/ postpartum first-handed, but, I am a 41 yr old mother & grandmother & I also work in the medical field and I commend you sweetheart, for sharing your journey, your ENTIRE journey because so many young ladies look up to you and want to know the real and you are giving just that honey REAL, you're so beautiful with such a beautiful spirit keep doing what you're doing you appear to be an amazing new mom Blessings be unto you, baby Dream, & family!
You look so beautiful Daysha. I know you feel weak & vulnerable right now, but I still see your strength 💪🏾💪🏾🤎. Hopefully 🙏🏾 weeks from now, you & God can laugh together because of His strong sense of humor. Postpartum depression is real & He sends all of His mothering angels on Earth through it. Saving grace is that you have a mighty family behind you 💪🏾💪🏾🤎. I know you’re hurting but outside looking in, you’re doing great so far 👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💐🌷💐🌷 Sending love to the QD family 🤎✊🏿
Awww look at dreamy 😍😍💕💕 i know exactly how you feel daysha i was a single mom doing everything on my own i cried plenty of days and nights but i got through it and you will too
This right here will help a lot of first time moms.... simply because some ppl think they are alone in feeling overwhelmed at times....🤞🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 you got this Dae
You got this love! God want put no more on you than you can bare.. I do understand! I had three, but you will get through it. You right it’s different than what you were used to. But just ask God to carry you though, when it’s tough and not tough. Praying for you Daysha. Like I said: you got this. You have a good support system, to just leave you hanging alone… just breathe and think about Dream! Know that she’s worth it all. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
aweeee took me back to my postpartum days🥺 u got this babe!! postpartum is real, but with support from your loved ones and sometimes space u got this!!
Awww poo my baby boy is 20 months now almost 2 years old, and I can remember everything so well of how it was when I had the little munchkin and postpartum blues hit. He was born before his due date @ 36w2d, so he wouldn’t latch until his due date, I had to pump like clock work and in the beginning it was frustrating, my husband helped out a lot, he was at home due to the pandemic so that was a blessing in disguise, I stayed in a diff city from family so it was just us 3 and that used to kinda bother me becaus I didn’t have my mom or mnl here to help out! I literally had to stay prayed up, I was in the word, I focused on positive thoughts, I didn’t care about snapping back. I focused on God to keep my mental health together! It got so much better after he latched on! It’s going to get better for you, stay prayed up boo and try not to stress yourself about things that are out of your control!
Daysha you’re an amazing mother and you’re beautiful inside and out. It’s okay to cry. Let it out but never question your parenting 💗. We love you ! You got this take it day by day. keeping you, quik, and little mamas in my prayers 🙏🏾
Awww, i truly understand i had postpartum with both of my kids. Some don’t understand it’s a scary thing and life changing . But it also get better dashy. You are a great mother already. Praying for you 🙏🏾
WOMEN ARE TRULY AMAZING! And I knew after birth and postpartum is mentally and physically painful but to see Daysha cry I finally like actually see and believe how really tough it is bc we know how joyful and happy and strong Daysha is .
Daysha, I am a first-time mom of a 9 month old daughter and I feel everything you said. Between the hormones, the chronic fatigue, breastfeeding, and a billion other changes being thrown at you at once every tear is warranted. I was not prepared for how hard postpartum was going to be, not to mention I moved to a new state with no family or friends when my baby was two weeks old. Let me tell you though, even though newborn life is extremely hard IT GET’S BETTER. Just keep holding on!
Awww I'm sure the pictures turned out so good! She seems like a really good baby 🥰 I am excited for this journey and can't wait until you show her to us! I just know she's gorgeous ❤
I love you Daysha! You’re in the 4 trimester and not a lot of people talk about this stage. I am a mother of 2 boys that are 10 years apart. Thank you for sharing your journey! So strong & so brave!!! You are doing a great job moma . You & Quik are super amazing parents!!! Praying for you & your family🙏🏽
Yes girl I feel you I will cry with you know one knows or can criticize you about this right her I remember this so well. My husband was bringing his family over to see Marley and she was 3 days old and I remember trying to get myself ready and I felt ok but when they walked into the house I looked at his sister and I started crying I really tried to keep it together because I was afraid they were going to take her and tell me I’m not strong enough this right here is RAW I’m so glad your showing this a lot of you tubers feel like they cannot show it and they make it look really dam easy when it’s not easy I love you and remember your not alone and your doing a great job your beautiful too we love you 😍
I’m crying because I feel you so deeply. After having a baby our emotions are over the place , from not sleeping to been happy to then feeling drain but also feeling bless ! Having a baby is such a blessing but it also the hardest job a mother could ever have in her life . Stay bless sis and stay strong ! You are such an amazing mom and also are so honest with all of us here with you . God bless you and your beautiful family ! You are bless with a heart of gold
Thank you Daysha for being transparent and starting off the video that way. I have been watching you and Ti basically grow up rarely comment but I just had to say..THANK YOU it’s okay to not be okay and I hope you have a speedy recovery with this PPD. You are loved! 💕💕💕
Hey babe your gonna get thru this, it's literally just for the first month or so, but they tend to sleep more and stuff. You are gonna get thru this and your gonna be the best mom❤️ It's a new experience just hold together and it's gonna be ok. I love you and I'll always support you and we as your supporters here for you ❤️🙏💯 Sending love your way😘
Hey daysha i myself went through postpartum sometimes i feel im still going through it 2yrs later, but you are great mom always remind your self of that, you got a gr8 support system so you're not alone even though it would feel that way you're not....blessings,love and good vibes to you and your family
Find something that brings you happiness whenever you feel down... yes ik you have to care for your baby but never forget to care for yourself in the mix as well! Its ok to cry but don't get stuck there Day! Tough times DONT last tough people DO!!! You got this mommy shit boo ✨❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ we love you ✨❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
OMG thank you so much for normalizing this babe! Postpartum is REAL AF and it really needs to be talked about more often. I have 6 babies and it gets very overwhelming so I can sympathize. Keep ya head up pooh, stay in prayer. Nothing formed against against you shall prosper 🙏🏽🙌🏾
I know exactly how you feel it’s okay to let it out never hold it it will hurt more. My baby already 6 months and I’m still dealing with postpartum depression. It’s hard trust me I understand what you coming from it’s not easy at all just take it day by day take a walk. Sending love & hugs 🤗 it’s okay to feel overwhelmed I promise you will get through it & it might take time it will eventually get better have faith and god bless you & your family.
Pace yourself, try to stay strong minded and just keep pushing it does get better. Everything is still so new to you and it’s crazy how we go from being pregnant to having so many responsibilities right after delivering, just keep going girl you’re doing good ❤️🙏🏼
I’m so proud of you for sharing this. This is something that most people don’t share …The thing that helped me was prayer, talking to someone and making sure I had ME time daily. Sending love
I’m literally crying with you because I know exactly how it feels . Postpartum depression is REAL , before I had my baby I was afraid that I was going to deal with PPD even though I had support I still felt alone and everything was overwhelming.Being a new mom and hearing people tell you don’t do this or that it can affect you but keep in mind you raise your kid the way you want. Being a new mom is not easy because you’re in a learning process. However you’re doing a great job and enjoy every single moment with your baby. Babies bring you happiness.
❤️ Sending you love and Hugs. I appreciate this. You showing the REAL TEA on MOTHERHOOD is everything. Enjoy your daughter it’ll be good and bad days but all worth it. Loved this video and can’t wait to see BABY DREAM girl ❤️‼️
It’s Okay To Go Through Postpartum I Went Through It And I Also Went Through Depression And My Support System Was Great But Sometimes You Just Feel Down And Alone , Cry All You Want I’m Not Here To Judge I Know You’re Being A Great Mom To Your Daughter And I Just Want To Say Congratulations Again , You Got This Daysha
Daysha you got this you a soldier 💪🏽🆑💯 raising kids is hard I have 2 and trust me the newborn stage is not easy especially if you’re used to not having kids of your own its a 24/7 thing but trust me those long nights are going to turn into enjoyment once you figure your little you out 💕 so wipe those tears bby girrl you got this 😘💪🏽🎯
It’s going to be ok. Talk to God sweetheart everything’s going to be ok! You are a strong woman and mother now. And it’s ok to cry it’s going to get better. The beginning is always tough bc you are new to motherhood. But after the first month it’s going to get way better❤️ wishing you the best of parenthood
