I'm glad you're open to the possibility the dreams aren't from God. I still believe dreams are just dreams and normal things people have every single night but when God spoke to prophets in the Bible through dreams and visions they were always focused solely on telling people to repent and honor God, not about mundane things like bodybuilders and personal family stuff. The way you describe your dreams and "predicting the future" seems more like a psychic and not biblical at all.
@BobbyBluejacket I can agree with what you are saying. So far, all the dreams were warnings but we are close to the physical blessing. Just got over the last hurdle I think