I have been having this convo with a lot of friends. We have stayed and stay because of the time invested and the fear of stepping back out there just to be eventually treated the same or end up alone with no support. I can see how and why she stayed because it’s tough maneuvering alone so you may just take it cause at least he’s “straightforward” with his narcissism but it’s truly embarrassing in the long run.
I guess I saw that so much growing up until it made me want to invest in loving me first. I saw so much game from grown men gaslighting their mate until I peeped game. Met the right one. Married him. That was decades ago. Still together. He's my best friend. I refuse to love as blindly as my mama did.
And yall ask ppl why they’re single as if there’s something wrong with being single. Being single isn’t the problem getting into relationships like this is the problem.
that's why you need to pick the right men to be in relationships wit. dating is a gamble thats the risk that ppl take. but good, healthy, functional relationships do exist. but im going to tell u its WORK. all day everyday. its not easy at all.
@meganharris8949 pick the right men? How ahout they work on being the right men, cause the pickings are super slim these days. We need better choices to pick from but nobody puts the pressure on men to elevate, only on women being able to see thru liars and cheaters and narcs smfh
Allison has a lot of sense. “She called her a banana guess what? She don’t like it!” Meaning you take your wife’s side and her feelings in consideration no matter what.
He not the man for her .. and she not the woman for him … he sounds real…….eww…..wanna show of his wealth..”you gotta calll me daddy “ if he does something… 😬 uhhh very cringe
She probably had a mental breakdown because of him! Cause remember he banned her from the house after she was working as drew Manager. God knows what suck games he played on her
It irritates me how at the reunion the girls tried to make it seem like Drew was the problem. Kenya is by far the only one of them with common sense. It’s crazy bc Ralph showed multiple times that he’s a bad husband and he does messed up sh*t and play victim after. Like how he said he wanna work things out with Drew but treat her how he do. I’m happy that Drew allegedly cheated on him bc all he was doing was cheating and tearing her down
She is. You can't just blame Ralph for who he is. Drew is a Liar & gaslighter (She blatantly went to hug Sonyas man before her husband, then flipped the tables on him) She like to have the Perfect facade She made excuses for him
Married her biggest hater. He literally goes out of his way to embarrass her and belittle her. How is ur Husband always coming for you and disrespecting you?!?! He’s nuts and the therapist was right 💯 a maniac and a major gaslighting hypocrite. No needs for enemies with a partner like him 🙄
This man just wanted to start a fight at that "romantic dinner". He's the kind of person who thrives on negativity. Even when he's attempting to do something "nice", the positive energy and good vibes quickly become boring so he will say or do something to provoke a fight.
When he asked if she was ready for dessert in the first clip and she says mmm hmm softly and almost looks like she’s about to break down while trying to hold her tears made me so freaking sad. 😢 he is trash
She knew he was mad at her. He is a narcissist and she knows she was in trouble. She may as well leave because he left her spiritually and emotionally A long time ago. He does not love her, he doesn't even like her & Now he is devaluing
How did Kordell get into this ? He was a great husband. He didn’t allow Porsha absent minded self to cash in on his hard work. Divorced her and put her out. I commend kordell. More men need to do stuff like this when they deal with women like a Porsha .
@@marztitus3472 He was very condescending to Porsha and didn't want to spend quality time with her. He made her out to be a dumb, trophy wife that needs to be quiet and only follow him.
The eyes really doesn't lie - it says everything! The guy holds so much disdain for her and you can see it in his eyes! Like she irritates him but he has to tolerate her. Run girl... these are the kind of men that will break you down mentally, emotionally and not feel anyway about it.. he is emotionally cold, his words feel empty and he is mentally distant! RUNNNNNNN for your life
Omg I couldn’t even watch this man for 13 mins… let alone be with him for years. Lord bless Drew’s heart cause wow he’s bad news and I feel so bad for her.
We allow so much shit as women. So, let's start off by saying, we allowed it like DREW said but now we are taking the POWER back and speaking up for ourselves. Very proud of her! She got this!
"You gotta make sure you measure it on the frequency, to make sure you reduce the occurrences of that it actually happens. This is very intellectual what I'm saying!" SIR??? WHAT???? 😅😅😅😅
0:03 not even 5 secs in and he already showing his narcissism..he honestly thinks he’s the smartest person in the room *embarrassing af* ratchet Ralph & cousin Courtney deserves each other Drew’s 100 times better off “have basic respect for your self”
You can be a fool for some time but when you wake up, trust me. You will Never look back again. Sometimes you learn the hard way and it's okay. I'm just glad she's over it now
Ralph shows he wants the appearances without the work. He sees himself as an ideal husband/man in his delusional mind. He sees fixing things as overwhelming and burdensome. Loser grown IMO
This abuse is making me ill. I literally cannot since I got out of my relationship not too long ago. This shit is just sick and other women BREED with men like this. Ugh.
I have the up most respect for the way Drew defended herself in the first scene. Glad to know she finally picked up the strength to walk away from the toxic mess
Ralph is annoyingly childish and doesn't like being called out on his bull...who goes out in public to hug everyone except their wife. drew tolerated him for too long.
Since the first season Drew was on I got Deceitful, Liar, Cheater, vibes from Ralph & I was right. When the Tampa incident happened just didn't get why she was still putting up with him 🙄 Now I see Drew may have been doing her thang too on the side 🧐 Didn't really get them same vibes from Drew I got from Ralph, gotta say she really is a Good actress lol 🏆 I like Drew though❣️Karma is real & Ralph deserved it, even though I don't condone cheating. Glad they're divorcing she can do better 💯
These are the kind of men that end up killing their partner! hate leads to bitterness and when they can no longer conceal it - it turns dangerous real quick! RUN Drew.. run!
Ralp need to accept his fault and failures to grow. He sees others as needing growth, while shutting the door to his. His childhood rearing must have been twisted.
I can't believe he said he wants to book a session for her to go and speak to a Dr about "how to speak to a man appropriately " are you kidding me!!!!!! he is the one who needs to book that session for himself ,this is heartbreaking, imagine what he says to her behind closed doors💔
