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I honestly hope she will get to have kids of her own. This is so hard. She deserves so much.

I love 💗 makhumalos sister they are true sister coz they tell makhumalo the truth, they don't tell makhumalo things that will make her feel better

I feel like Thobile is trying to be overly understanding and strong but there is no such thing as another wife agreeing to give her child off to her it's unrealistic. She is hurting and she must really think this through.

I hope MaKhumalo will be able to convince her husband that surrogacy is the solution. He can't keep on going on about how it is not cultural. Technology and science is what makes us survive nowadays, and it does not take away from your Africaness. It's absolutely ridiculous and CHILDISH that Musa shuns upon surrogacy. Imagine saying you are going to walk to the other part of town because you choose to neglect using a car because your forefathers never used cars it in the past, absolutely nonsensical. I hope the best for MaKhumalo.

Sometimes we do things that our ancestors don't approve of, I believe she can conceive but her ancestors are refusing to bless her with a child because of the kind of marriage she in.

Ngifisa ngathi kungenzeka umlingo uvele uzitholele owakho umntwana phela njalo uNkulunkulu uyamangazana

Ngyak thanda kodwa makhumalo shame, Ave u nenhliziyo enhle❤️🔥

Musa once said that if Thobile doesn’t have kids her household will die , given they have been trying for 10 years and his daughter is going to varsity next year ..the sad truth is that Musa engaged Thobile so that he could have more kids it has nothing to do with love....Macele and Musa have conversations that we don’t know about..and that’s the only reason she placed her wedding on hold was so that they could discuss number 5.. it’s only acceptable to be barren in a sthembu if you’re the first wife..otherwise the end is nigh for her

Why can't she just leave this man not because she doesn't love him. But because she's choosing her peace. MaKhumalo your life doesn't depend on him, she looks unhappy uzobulawa iStress

Yey MUHLE uMaKhumalo Jesu

Surrogacy is the BEST option here! The baby is yours genetically, biologically 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️!

We need to explore the possibility that our beautiful Queen is not compatible with her husband. It might not be that she cannot conceive, it might be that them two together are not compatible. Am I wrong?

Jehova uyakwaz okukulungele 🙌🙌🙌wen da time has come he will gv u wat u desire da most😍😍🤩I love u makhumalo ure da best❣❣❣🥰⚘

Okay guys since last year and this year,s of covid 😢no one woman got pregnant,dololo,why only talk,talk,mseleku your time is up now, finished,now makhumalo,makhumalo, always, abantuuuuu

It's so sad 🥺😥 yaz coz uMakhumalo akazikhethelanga uba angabinayo ingane. They should really consider surrogacy and meet her halfway she is really trying on her side. Makhumalo you are so beautiful 😍💕❤😘😘🥰 cc, you deserve so much more 💞💞💋😍😘😘😘...

Uyazi if I knew her like that I would be her surrogate mother, uyazi she deserves to be happy and I know my child will be happy and safe laekhona. 😢

If you love someone truelly you will not feel the need to pressurise him or her for kids.umuzi awakhiwa ingane wakhiwa abashadikazi.this stress is not equal to love. just saying

I wish Thobile angaphums kwedidThembu athole omunye ummyeni who will accept her as is, this must be really hard for her

MaK she is a woman to have her own kids❤❤❤❤she is the best😊😊😊maK keep up

The prettiest wife

Kanti why doesnt Mthombeni pay for invitro fertilisation. I stand to be corrected but I think Thobile still has her womb intact. Just lost her fillopian tubes due to ectopic pregnancies. Haai man Thobile is not a baren woman. Why does Musa do this to her??

I can't believe this is even a conversation 😣

Don’t lose hope my older sister conceive at age of 50 she had 3 glz 1 day is 1day🤞🤞

Not having your own biological child is a huge challenge. I feel empty. Someone said phela thina seyazala Angelina inyomba. These was women saying these in my presence knows very well that I don't have child

I think Thobile is a problem , he wants kids not you.

I wish I could be a surrogate for you. No money involved just help from one human being to another

Makhumalo iZwi likaNkulunkulu linamandla themba leli elithi okungenzeki kubantu kuye kuyenzeka ungazinaki zonke izinkulumo u Jehova uyakwazi akudalele kona uzomthola umtwana ngezwi likaSomandla lenza izimangaliso themba lona qha lodwa ☝

Uyasithanda isilungu uMaKhumalo😂

Awaaaaaa isithembu is terrible , eish Thobile I wish you can leave him n find a person who will appreciate you for the way you are 😭😭😭

Makhumalo trust me uzoyithola ingne

Ukungabi namntana cc kubuhlungu kakhulu.i m in the same boat.i m also married sometimes I just feel ngingaphuma kulomtshato not becoz umyeni wam unditreater kakubi kuba ndingakwaz umnika ingane.its becoz I cant give him ingane ingaske aqhubeke nempilo.

Ewu uyathandeka MaKhumalo

MaKhumalo...is the money worth the emotional abuse enjena? 🙂

She's still young, she just needs to relaxe and to take it easy. İ am 45 well very different from her story cod she's married and i am but i am a new mum now of 6 months to a bouncing baby boy. My late husband told me that I would have a child but not from him because he knew he was going to heaven soon but wished me to have another baby and not just a baby but a baby boy, that's exactly what I have nje game, i am a mum at 45. İ had no complications when giving birth and I am fine. İf it has happened to me it can be you. İ know we are Africans and we have our beliefs about different things. And we become anxious if we don't get what we need at that time of need but i guarantee you all is well with you and you shall conceive your own within our heavenly father God' time. When you are married it's not easy because of pressure but i think it's time you have courage keep trying and most important let it be between your God and ancestors to deal with it. God bless you my sister

I'm confused....She is not married nje? Or did they pay lobola? but shes still not married

But that won't be your child once they get mpiloz age uyahamba

Konke kunesikhathi sakho Ntungwelihle qhawe lako Khumalo yebo kunzima kodwa uNkulunkulu uzolenza iCebo ngesikhathi sakhe ujabule futhi waneliseke uNkulunkulu wenza izinto ngendlela yakhe uyophendula sengathi akaze ukhale kangaka linda uthandaze siyiSizwe syakhuleka sikhulekela isibeletho sakho uyiRole model kubantu abaningi sibukela kuwe Ntombo kuye kuyenzeka 💃🏻💃🏻

Did she exhaust all the alternatives of falling pregnant and failed? Such as IVF?

Impeso 😂😂😂 ngyadlala but MaKhumalo is too accepting shame coz usufuna ukphila ntofontofo 🚮

So go that direction gal surrogacy is better though painful

Musa is selfish because akafuni nendlela zesilungu ezingenza uMakhumalo amithe...its his way or no way at all...Mxm!!!

Eish Thobile💔💔💔💔

ABA adopter

Makhumalo muhle yoo

How about surrogacy

Hey yazi indivisa kabuhlungu lencidezi ubaba Mseleku uyifakela umaK

Makhumalo shame the.way engikuthanda ngakhona i feel the pain 4 you , i can even vouch to be a surrogate for u so u can have your own baby to raise ibuhlungu lento. I think u suffered enough

Mommy you derseve better or more ❤️

What ever happened to IVF??? Hayi Makhumalo is overly understanding. I hope she will be served as well in this process cause so far all of this is one sided

Makhumalo your only solution is IVF

I am lost, I had always thought gore such topics were to be discussed among sister wives and not friends, wow!!

If uMaKhumalo really wants a child, I really don’t care what uMthombeni thinks and wants, this isn’t about him, if she wants a surrogate, she can get one with a lot of kids because trust me most people with kids don’t want another one.

Why don't they consider going for surrogacy?

I dont understand u Mthombeni shame ngoba he does not want to accept Makhumalo's situation and also the pressure he is putting Makhumalo on could be contributing towards her not getting babies, Musa should just let the situation ka Makhumalo to solve its self

Mmmmm hey

But myhombheni has several kids.why cabt she just accept that thabile wont have them. Why is a woman reduced to her child bearing abilities

Shame MaKhu needs a surrogate…. Full stop.

ADOPTION

Some BS!

Yoh I pray she gets a child shame... This is getting too much 😓