@@sorgii I think it's just a automatic reaction when you see or realize that someone wants to commit suicide. For a person, it's really hard to get out of that depression if you fell so deep and I think the human just recognizes when that happens to somebody and he reacts automatically.
he might be just doing it out of genuine empathy, but actually he did waay more than just helping that individual. His positivity shines the entire humanity
I think hearing “I expect to hear from you in the morning” from an idol you think doesn’t know anything about you is possibly the greatest deterrent to suicide I can think of
@@keepitsecret-dl1pr now you see you could have just kept that to yourself and nothing would change but your hating ass just had to share your opinion and now you're going to hell
I have to be honest. I used to think Lupo was kind of a douche. I made a premature assumption of him. But the more I watched his streams, especially when I came across this, I realized what a fantastic human being he really is. He always supports mental health. I suffer from depression and have been in this position before, and appreciate this and respect him immensely now. Love you Lupo.
I tend to have a good detector about people and I'm happy to say that Lupo seems to be exactly what I thought he was from the choice streams I've seen of his and on Doc's channel. He's a real human being; being a thinking and discerning original person who doesn't mold themselves to their peers and agenda driven culture is becoming a rare trait.
Hey bro, I know this comment was about Lupo and all, but I hope you are doing ok. It's been 2 months since you wrote this, but I hope your depression isn't overpowering you
We've been there before. But i think this serves as a good lesson to not judge people solely by assumptions, sometimes it takes giving them a chance to realize their potential. I hope you're doing ok!
You saved this persons life for sure And you confirmed their existence even the next day on stream Words like these from people you look up to can change your life
Every single soul on this earth matters. There are some nasty natured individuals but every life, every soul matters. And i care.. I care about every single soul. I understand how dark life can feel, trust me when i say i do... Alot of people say that, and i think in many ways its true, but not everyone quite gets it. But if u ever feel like that again... Come to this comment, I'll give u my details and we will talk. U matter
@@mkb6353 aww thank you so much, that really means a lot to me. I will for sure go back here and talk if I needed to, it's nice that you a stranger from the internet care more than the people who surrounds me daily, I really appreciate you so much.
I have been going through things, but u feel like no better what anyone says, such as “you are needed in the world”. I just feel like to me, it doesn’t help me,
In high school, I lost my best friend to suicide. Not a day has gone by over the past 5 years where I haven’t missed him. Seeing him. Doing things together. Playing video games. Hunting. Everything. Suicide is never an answer. It causes more damage than you can ever imagine. Someone somewhere will always love you. You are never alone in life, even if you believe you are. Everyone matters in some way to someone
As someone whose survived attempts, this brings a tear to my eye... Because people can and will take the time to speak to you, to make you feel cared for, to make you feel happy
This brings emotion to me because two of my friends wanted to hurt or was suicidal and I was there to help them. They told me that I was a good therapist but I’m only just a child
As someone who’s friend keeps trying to commit suicide, this make me ball my eyes out… Remember this: -you are worth it -We love you -If you are thinking about suicide, talk to someone. -Suicide is not the solution, it hurts your loved ones and the people around you. -If you die we will miss you -Even if I don’t know the people reading this, You are a humain being, you deserve to live like any other! I love you.
"Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, that problem might seem like it'll be permanent and it may be difficult to change that perspective, but it is possible. Any little victory of the day is a victory, cleaning your room or even just getting out of bed to take a shower, when things are dark don't expect to know the path you're taking just take the best step you can to take the right path. Eventually, right path or wrong path, there will be light to help you see a new perspective. You'll see little things you can be happy for, or even just grateful for - you may even not want to be happy, rather just content. As difficult as it is, the rewards of overcoming that are equally worth the effort." I've attempted a lot, I learned a lot, and I can say I have moments I am happy. I'll say "you" just to make things a little easier for me here - not lecturing, just a comment on my experience with mental illness. I still have mental issues like bi-polar depression and some a couple other issues, the quote above my therapist told me. It helped me to think of that instead of suicide, then later on replacing that with more positive thoughts. I no longer have to go to therapy, I have a psychiatrist - it may be beneficial to consider some medicines especially if they're intrusive thoughts, my medicine targets specifically that which by itself is a huge relief and helps my focus on continuing to get better. You have your days still, but they're easier to deal with and they pass, plus if you get into a strong enough habit of thinking differently you may not even need the medicine. I needed mine simply for mania, hell I might even just have a ridiculous amount of energy even I don't know because ya boy be on the go no matter what Anyways, you both got this. Stay strong.
I tried talking to the one i love the most and she said she doesnt care and to fuck off .. sometimes its not that easy when you have nobody and dont wanna talk to random professionals.
no you dont love, u wont miss. you dont even know me. to me you are just a stranger on the internet, to you im just a suicidal stranger. we are not same. you probably love your life, enjoy it, could be sad but mostly happy. but im not like you. you are just trying to be a superhero who thinks can save everyone but thats not how that works. "Suicide is not the solution, it hurts your loved ones and the people around you" thats also bullshit. if you care somebody yeah thats true but most of suicidal person dont care cuz never loved by anyone like me. neither family, nor friends nor a gf or smth whatever you call. like my parents never loved me but only thing they said is: "why did i get pregnant for you", "why you...". never had friends who cares me. never had a gf who makes me love someone, makes life easier for me. for a person who never had these, can you say it hurts your loved ones? even if you say, you thinks that helps? simple answer: no. nobody loves, nobody cares and no one except you knows whats going on with you, with country... for a basic example you probably live in great country but for me i live in Turkey. thats not how things works here. you guys can have everything you have probably and make yourselves happy but to me you cant afford whatever you want and that doesnt help you. as a human, we all came to this world to be a worker. and thats just one option to suicide. there are more like i said before: never loved, havent got friends... you cant help or stop the suicidal person. even i cant stop myself. if thats gonna happen, theres nothing to do with that. sorry but thats the realistic one. stop thinking or playing as role of hero or humanist. we all came here for nothing and not by asked. we are just subjects like rats. nobody even greets someone. we became strangers and what happens on here is just jokes going around called memes. if someone died it become a meme, if someone sad it become a meme. we forgot who we are. and thats one of the point why everyone keeps thinking "where did i go wrong?", "if i do something wrong, they laugh at me?" and social anxiety. and by that people asocial. and by being an asocial you realize yourself and you hate every part of your body every movement what you done/do, everything you done/do will make no sense and you will hate yourself so you are going to end up your life. its that easy. but like you said you are worth it, we love you, if you die we will miss you... these are just lies to someone that you never met and probably never going to. probably you didnt even read this far. if you did thx but thats normal cuz people who dont care or could bore too easily, skip these messages but when someones about to suicide they say i love you dont. you probably never going to see me again (maybe suicide, maybe social anxiety...) but you (who reads this) got the point what i meant. I live for 19.5 years and never loved by someone, mostly hated person and since 4 years never became happy. but yeah. i understand you all too. living and being happy is also your right except me...
Drlupo isnt really my cup of tea, but this has earned him so much respect from me. We need more people like this in the world who will care for others, even if they dont know who they are.
i respect this guy straight up as someone who has been close to suicide myself i rate lupos courage and kind words wen i heard this on stream i cried BIG UP DR. LUPO
the worst part about the attempts is, when you do them wrong, eventually they put you in rehab. 5 attempts and I had a year in a rehab centre practically comatose on pills. The only thing my mother said when they found my mangled body from a RTA was "lemme know when IT dies." I drove at 60MPH into a solid wall, no seatbelt on, and was thrown through the windscreen, my skull hit the pillar and I popped my arm out. Died on route to hospital and was revived twice. I had short term amnesia and was actually alot happier and wasnt suicidal. Like I knew my name, that this is Earth and such, but I didnt know why I was in a crash, or where I worked, i didnt recognise the picture of my then partner in my wallet. Took a few months for my memory to return, by which point they put me in a mental institute because it was apparent I was a danger to myself. Mother never visited me in the centre, when i was released, i had to get my own taxi. When I got home, reaction was just "oh....your back. Pft, whatever." Im still suicidal, but as i told the therapist, unless its a 100% full proof way, I aint doing it. I dont wanna be comatose for life in a padded room. I go to sleep crying every night hoping I'll die, and cry when I wake up praying "maybe i'll get lucky and someone will hit me with their van, or I'll be stabbed in the back or shot. Maybe today is the day i get to finally die."
@@wondertriplover maybe, bro. But still, we can’t just assume that’s what it is. There’s so much gravity to a situation like this to just dismiss it. Sure, maybe it is attention seeking, that means there is a mental issue though. Someone who actively uses self harm as means to get attention wether physical or just verbal for attention seeking like you say, that person needs love. Something isn’t right for them to feel like they have to use something so grave and disturbing for attention. So they need help. Maybe they’re annoying, childish, whatever. Spread love regardless. I’d rather someone troll me, or seek my attention by lying about it than for me to just dismiss it outright and then find out later that they went and did something horrible to themselves. Anyone remember Etika?
One of the best things I ever heard when I was in that dark place, and depression had completely taken over, was this question. "Do you really want to die, or do you just not want to feel like this anymore?" That question changed my life.
I’m so thankful I came across your comment that question resonated with me so much I don’t want to die but it feels like it’s the only way to not feel this pain anymore I just want it to stop
@@kayla-the-rus-female-tbk-killr talk to someone please. A therapist, anyone. Trust me, if you get help, things get better. It takes time. but eventually, things will get better. idk if you are religious, but talk to God, put all your worries on him. He will help you find peace.
I feel like a lot of people would have seen that donation and just gone to bed and hoped it was a joke. Thank you for doing the right thing. No body is alone. Promise. Reach out to someone.
As a suicidal person I can understand why you'd want to reach out like that to someone like a streamer that you watch and love, I feel like that acknowledgment and them caring can actually be enough to save someone's life. On the other foot though It isnt really fair putting all of that pressure on a streamer either. Imo you don't have the rights to take your own life if you haven't attempted to reach out and get help first.. Use the rule of "If I'm so willing to end my own life I at least owe it to myself to try getting help, If I'm going to die anyway then there is no reason to not try first"
The guy did reach out by making that donation. At least it's better than committing suicide alone without talking to anybody about it beforehand because it makes people uncomfortable and talking about it is not ok
...The second part, isn't how it works for a good portion of people. I get what you're trying to say. But, for some people the darkness can take you to some pretty nasty places. And also, I personally at least, don't think the pressure, is not worth trying to save a life. And that that is, quite the audacious, and slightly apathy ridden, statement. Because in factuality, these aren't 2 things of exact equal value. Lots of people have personal struggles, and people they know in their lives, and loved ones, who may go through similar things, or other kinds of struggle, pain, and just hard things. I wouldn't say its something far enough from relevance to people to be a blue moon rarity. We are all just in a way, doing our best to support each other. And lift each other up, in any ways that we can. Help isn't, like, a validation bomb, or a simple thing. Like come on, it goes deeper than, what, getting called by a famous streamer? Take it from stalkers, they seek their idolised person for the same thing, and after repeatedly desiring and searching for more and more of them, it doesn't help them, it just feeds them with a drug that they seek more of over and over and over again.
This is why he will always be one of my favorite streamers. I respect him so much. A lot of people would disregard it or not pay it much mind, but he GENUINELY cares. You don’t see that every day
I lost a very good friend to suicide who I met in a program we graduated from, earned our diplomas in our 20s and took a trip to San Diego with the program to meet with others all over California who graduated from the same program. I'll never forget the memories. Rest in Peace Raymond Sanchez 🕊️ I miss you bro...
I expect to hear from you in the morning, this was so kind especially cause even he knew there was a possibility of being a troll, he tried to say whatever came to his mund in that moment to try to avoid that guy from ending all, I don't even know this streamer, but he is a good guy .
I lost my grandfather when I was just 3 years old.. when I found out he was dead at 5 years old I said, “he’ll come back right??” Then I started bursting into tears finding out he won’t.
he handled this so fckn well huge respect to Lupo for handling this tough situation, and I hope the guys doing okay and is feeling better. God bless anyone reading
I would be absolutely lost what to do in this situation. He handled that the best way possibly imaginable, and this man is a genuine hero for that. So much respect👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Sometimes all they need is a listening ear, or some act of genuine love and kindness. Just think about what Jesus would do for that person, and then do likewise ❤
@@the.seagull.35 no i had a weird glitch that I had a different comment section instead of the right one. And i thought huh what are you guys seeing in thos 20 second video. It does that often when i am screen casting to tv
As someone that used to be suicidal, these comments made me cry. Same with this video. I always thought no one loved me or cared about me. I had no irl friends. I still dont, but I have 4 real online friends. They helped alot. And same with these comments and the video. Thank you all SOO much!! ❤❤
so heavy to watch but so beautiful - Lupo, been watching you with the Doc and always enjoyed the collabs but this shows me what kind of person you are. Doing great things, brother.
I’m sobbing so hard right now. Not many people would take that extra time, to check in, to care. As someone who’s attempted 3 separate times…I wish….I WISH I had someone like this streamer care this much back then. Fuck, I’m still crying.
I mean the obvious answer is to seek support from people who actually know you and can be with you, but I understand not everyone has people they feel like they can open up to in their personal life. It still creates and unbelievable and frankly kind of inappropriate amount of pressure on a stranger to do this…
its horrifying that he was placed in that situation i know exactly what it feels like, when the words you are saying are the deciding factor in wether or not somebody dies by their own hand and what to an extent feels like yours. he handled it so well and i hope he know how much of incredibly serious impact he had on somebodys entire life
I also know how it feels and while it is good and nice to help people, it creates an ungodly amount of pressure and even sometimes fear in the person who becomes the impromptu therapist.
At 2:37 I just started crying a little. What he said about feeling like chat and DrLupo hated him now hit me so hard. I've felt that exact same feeling after having depressive episodes around close ones. It just hurts so much man.
I'm sorry you feel that way genuinely. You know its heartbreaking because its a vicious cycle. I don't like myself, so I isolate myself, so I feel lonely and like I'm not being there for my family, so I like myself even less... and on and on. The one constant through all of that, the one bright light that keeps shining for me no matter how I feel, is Jesus Christ. He really does love us and he never turns his back. He's always there to listen and he very often responds with mercy and kindness. He'll direct my attention to the exact right Scripture at the right moment. he does that for me all the time honestly. Its amazing. Especially knowing how little I deserve it... knowing the price he paid on the cross to forgive me, a sinner with such little faith. Jesus loves you the same way, too.
@@the.seagull.35will he give you the exact girlfriend you want when you ask for it? No? Didn’t think so. Heck, he won’t even give you any girlfriend at all.
Army Vet here.. true words man.. thank you for just being a decent human being. One of my solders watch you a lot and showed me this video after giving an ACE speech. I don't know if you have any training for this situation that happened, but it just goes to show how just giving a crap matters and how you don't need to be a professor or have some degree of influence to just care about someone regardless of your personal gain. Those simple words you said carry tons of weight. I know being an influencer and having people look at you for help can be very tough and sometimes doesn't feel fair for you to have such a burden but that's just life if I can be so harsh to say. You made a decision as a human being and that's all you can do. Truley much love man.
I was suicidal during covid lockdown. I felt lonely and imprisoned in my own home, and on 21/07/2021, at 18 years old, I jumped off a bridge in an attempt to end my life. I instantly regretted my choice as I fell. I shattered my pelvis and the left side of my skull and have many more life long injuries. I was in a coma for 6 months. Since then, I've had surgery 8 times, and im not done yet. The doctor said I will be paralized from my waist down for the rest of my life. Don't make the same mistake I did. Get help, you're not alone.
Wow... I'm really sorry that happened. And this may sound insane, but it may actually turn out to be a blessing for you. Even through all these sufferings you've been through. God's given you a platform to touch many people's lives. You could go and talk to people and share your story. Just by your example alone God can use you as his instrument to save _many_ people's lives. There's actually no telling how much he could do. You'd be doing the Lord's work, helping to save depressed and suicidal people from death. Its just worth thinking about. "You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit-fruit that will last-and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you." John 15:16 🙏
@@shyguy85 have you ever seen a person who turned their suffering into a platform to inspire millions of people? Would you call them cursed? That would be way more disrespectful than blessing them for their work
@@the.seagull.35 you're calling him being paraplegic a blessing. Absolutely disrespectful. I understand it wasn't intended to be rude but that's what I see it as.
@@shyguy85 Idk- that wasn't what I intended at all. I meant it as a comfort, for OP to see that there's still a lot of hope, a lot of greater good that can come out of this ordeal. But if OP thinks I was being disrespectful I will delete it for sure.
This make me cry dude...Knowing that there's people like this in the world, that has no issue to help you no matter what they're doing or what others may say...Bless this dude...
Easy thing to do is ignore stuff like that in a chat. Might look bad on you. What my man did here was a risk for the betterment of a suicidal person because of the proper understanding that their life is far more valuable then even his reputation. I hope his actions are rewarded.
I don’t follow Dr Lupo but I am glad RU-vid recommended this to me because I was on the brink of ending it all as well… I’ll be following Dr Lupo from now on because he indirectly saved my life through his words… thank you for making us feel that we’re not alone.
It’s dudes like this man! Dudes like this give you hope. He went out of his way not knowing if this thing was real right away and put his all into it immediately. What a good dude man! Reassuring that guy probably made his life so much better……
What a hero i have nothing but the upmost respect for you man well done i am proud to see good moments like this where someones brave enough to help another in a time of need.
As someone who has had these thoughts and still struggles. This is heartwarming, cause this is what I needed or would’ve been nice to hear. Just someone to be there, to hear, to care…
Props to this drlupo for actually helping. So many would have just said a small talking piece at the best. One of the only heartwarming things I've seen
Depression is overwhelming. Sometimes people get too far gone and talking no longer becomes an option. Struggled with depression my whole life and was a very heavy drug addict for 12+ years. Survived....somehow and am better for it. It made me who I am today and I live regret free. For all of those who suffer never give up.
I've attempted a few times, got put in a psych ward last time it happened. Luckily never actually died but came very very close a few times, needed to get surgery at one point. it was and still is a dark time for me dealing with addiction among other things. these things gotta be taken seriously so mad respect for making dude check in the next morning.
I’ve been in that mindset many times and have been around others in that mindset, friends and family, I know it’s hard to stay positive, but you’re never going to get better if you stay stuck in your own thoughts. No matter how you feel, suicide is never the answer. You’re not alone no matter how alone you may think you are, and you’re always able to reach out. To a friend, a guardian, or a helpline. Help is always within reach. It’ll always get better, but never expect it to be quick. You never get better in an instant. It always takes a while, but you will eventually get better. Not in a few days, not in a few weeks, or even a few months, but eventually. Get the help you need. Don’t hesitate to do what’s best for yourself.
always listen to friends/family/general folks when they speak - you never know what they are going through and even the smallest little bit of time you can spare can save a life. Be kind, listen, and be there for those around you when they need it the most.
The fact that this persons name is only one letter off from mine and the pronunciation is the same... this fully convinced me not to end it all. Life's been tough, and I'm happy for this very lucky coincidence
To those who are struggling remember you are not alone even though it may seem like that! We all have are struggles. You may have regrets or you may be bulled but remember time heals all!
