DTS Ep.11| “HOW DO YOU HANDLE BETRAYAL, EVEN IF YOU CAUSED IT, PART 2“
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“LET’S GET STARTED…”
WHAT A KINGDOM IS-
“GOD’S INVISIBLE GOV’T-AN ACTUAL COUNTRY RULED BY A KING-THE KING-WHO INFLUENCES AND IMPACTS THE DOMAN OF HIS KINDOM PERSONALLY WITH HIS
“1) VALUES; 2) MORALITY; 3) LIFESTYLE; 4) AND HIS ENTIRE PRINCIPLES AND LAWS…”
WHAT A PRINCIPLE IS-
THE ORIGINAL INTENT OF SOMETHING-IN THIS CASE-GOD’S LAW…RULES OF CONDUCTING YOUR LIFE
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“BETRAYAL…”
“NO ONE WANTS TO HAVE TO ENDURE THE FEELING OF SOMEONE LETTING YOU DOWN…SOMEONE-THAT YOU CONFIDED IN-TOLD YOUR INTIMATE SECRETS TO-ONLY TO DISCOVER THAT NOT ONLY DO THEY KNOW…HAHAHAHAHA…EVERYONE ELSE DOES TOO…HOW DO YOU OPERATE WHEN YOUR EMOTIONAL STATE IS A MESS? WHAT NOW? TALK ABOUT BROKEN PIECES…OHHHH MY GOODNESS…NOTHING HURTS AS BAD AS WHEN THE “TRUST” FACTOR IS GONE…HOW DO YOU MANAGE? WHAT NEXT????”
“NOW-…”
“LET’S EXAMINE WHAT OUR CONSTITUTION SAYS ABOUT BETRAYAL…THE TREACHEROUS EXPOSING OR DECEIVING OF PEOPLE BY THOSE THEY FORMERLY TRUSTED. IT IS USUALLY ASSOCIATED WITH AN ENEMY MASQUERADING AS A FRIEND, OR WITH A BROKEN OR ABUSED RELATIONSHIP. BETRAYAL WAS SUFFERED BY OUR BIG BROTHER-JESUS AND CAN EXPECTED BY HIS FRIENDS…WOWOWOWOWOWOW!!!…”
“WHEN I THINK ABOUT THIS INSIDIOUS WORD…HOW THE GRADUAL, SUBTLE WAY THAT IT OCCURS-HOW THE HARMFUL EFFECTS CAN BE DEBILITATING IF YOU ARE NOT CAREFUL…”
“HOW DO YOU HANDLE BETRAYAL-WHEN IT’S CAUSED BY YOU…?”
“WE DO NOT WANT TO ENGAGE IN LIVING A LIFE THAT IS FILLED WITH THE PERPLEXITIES OF WILL I BE BETRAYED IF I “LET MY GUARDS DOWN”? WILL I BE EXPOSED TO THE HURT, THE DISAPPOINTMENTS, THE MENTAL CHALLENGES IF I SHOW MYSELF FRIENDLY?”
“BUT-WHAT IF YOU HAVE CAUSED THE BETRAYAL? WHAT IF YOU HAVE FOUND YOURSELF DOING AND BEING WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE OR DO IN A PERSON’S LIFE? ESPECIALLY SOMEONE YOU CALLED “FRIEND”…”
“SO I PRESENT TO YOU THIA SCENARIOS…ONE WHERE YOU HAVE CAUSED THE HARM…”
** ”WHAT DO YOU DO? HERE ARE THREE (3) KEYS TO APPLY TO THIS PRINCIPLE-AND YEA IT’S ONE…” **
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‘KEY #1:…’
“PRAY FOR YOURSELF-…
“SEEKING GOD’S WISDOM IN BECOMING WHO HE SAID YOU WERE…
SERIOUSLY…WHEN YOU KNOW-THAT YOU HAVE STOOD ON THE SIDE OF UNRIGHTEOUSNESS-THAT’S NOT BEING IN RIGHT STANDING WITH GOD-AND YOU VIOLATED SOMEONE’S TRUST IN YOU…YOU TREACHEROUSLY MISHANDLED SOMEONE…IT IS IMPERATIVE …THAT YOU MUST PRAY FOR YOURSELF…SEE-WHEN YOU THIS…YOU SYSTEMATICALLY YIELD YOURSELF TO GOD’S WILL AT THAT VERY MOMENT…SEE-IT’S NOT AN EASY TASK-BY NO MEANS…BUT IF YOU CHOOSE NOT TO PRAY FOR YOURSELF-I GUARANTEE YOU THIS-YOU WILL THINK THAT YOU ARE “RIGHT” AND THE PERSON YOU VIOLATED IS IN VIOLATION OF YOU…THIS IS A MISCONCEPTION OF YOUR OWN JUDGEMENT-AND IT WILL CAUSE DELAYED ANSWERED PRAYERS-“
“SEE-WHEN YOU PRAY-AND SEEK AN UNDERSTANDING-AS TO “HOW YOU GOT HERE-AND HOW YOU NEED GOD TO “MAKE YOU OVER”; GOD PROMISES TO GIVE YOU HIS PEACE-AND THAT PEACE -MY MY MY-SURPASSES ALLLLLLLLL YOU COULD POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND…”
‘KEY #2:…’
“ASK GOD WHAT IS THE LESSON IN THIS?”…
“EVERYTHING HAS A LESSON ATTACHED TO IT…EVERY SITUATION…EVERY CIRCUMSTANCE…EVERYTHING YOU DO-HAS A LESSON ATTACHED TO IT…HAVE YOU EVER ASKED GOD TO “SHOW YOU”? AND WHEN HE DOES-DO YOU BELIEVE HIM? WHAT IF IT’S SOMETHING ABOUT YOU THAT YOU’VE DISCOVERED DOESN’T HAVE A PLACE IN YOUR LIFE? WHAT IF HOW YOU ARE BEING PERCEIVED IS NOT HOW YOU WANT TO BE SEEN? THEN YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE…1) ASK FOR GOD’S HELP; 2) PRACTICE WHO YOU WANT TO BE-WHO YOU KNOW YOU CAN BE…3) AND ONCE YOU HAVE TRUE CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE-AND YOU’LL KNOW IT’S TRUE CHANGE-BECAUSE IT HAS THE CHARACTERISTICS OF “LOVE-KINDNESS AND COMPASSION-JUST TO NAME A FEW…”
“PRACTICE EVERY SINGLE DAY BEING THE BEST VERSION OF YOU…AND THAT’S DONE WITH A MADE UP MIND-A WILL TO DO-AND SHOWING UP ON EVERY SINGLE DAY WITH A HEART TO SHOWCASE JUST HOW GOOD GOD IS IN YOUR LIFE…”
‘KEY #3:…’
“DECIDE WHAT YOUR NEXT STEP IS-…”
“THEN FORGIVE/FORGET AND MOVE PAST ANY OBSTACLES THIS HAS BEEN A LIFE LESSON…WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I’M THE ONE WHO CAUSED THE TREACHEROUS DECEIVING…ESPECIALLY TO SOMEONE YOU HAVE CALLED “FRIEND”…AND YOU DO KNOW THAT THIS HAPPENS, RIGHT? IT’S THE “HUMAN ELEMENT” OF WHO WE “WHEN I FOUND MYSELF ON THE OTHER END OF CAUSING PAIN…I WOULD REHEARSE HOW DISAPPOINTED/MISGUIDED MY FRIEND MUST HAVE FELT DAY AFTER DAY-WEEK AFTER WEEK-I FOUND MYSELF CRYING… SCREAMING…I GOT ANGRY THAT I COULD FALL SO FAR FROM WHAT I CONSIDERED “ANY NORMALCY”… I KEPT ASKING-HOW COULD I BE SO MEAN? HOW COULD I BE SO THOUGHTLESS…WHY? SERIOUSLY…”
** ”REMEMBER, I LOVE YOU, AND THERES NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT” ** -DrTongie❤️🇱🇨!!!
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2 окт 2024
