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I hope she accepted christ before she left.. God rest her soul, and may he give you strength. I lost my mom too.. It hurts

Get out of here with the "accepting Christ" crap. A majority of the world aren't Christian you know.

You're an angel for that.. takes a lot of inner strength to give people that last kindness. Condolences 🙏

Same❤ It was fully peaceful.

@@mkor7 accepting christ doesn't make you a Christian... I'm not telling her to join a religion.. I'm telling her to accept christ to get the peace she needs.. God bless you tho!

Women need to hear this more often. They think it's all about make-up.

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I recommend watching Theo Von's podcast episode #479. He interviews an NDE researcher.

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If I inject myself with Diesel fuel & a new Disease is created... would Government study it or tell everyone to never inject themselves with Diesel fuel...if you didn't inject yourself are you in remission? Cancer Industry. . . Pine Pollen straight off the tree, is the most Nutritive thing on the planet. Lauric Acid, found in in Breast Milk & Coconuts. Spirulina, Chlorella (Google; PDF this stuff). Or hold government accountable with their own research hidden in the N.I.H National Institute of Health. (PubMed). Nitrosamine & Zodiac ***Cancer. Acrylamide. Why is the word 'cure not used? Or is it wise to not inject yourself with the filth to begin with..? You know, If a dead pig is on the Table, People will eat it if you call it Bacon... Start calling it what it is: A dead Pig on the Table. "Consequence is a Bigger word than you think ~ Incubus I want you to think about the very first person who discovered Dairy. 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They sound like they know what they are talking about... They sound authoritative. Cancer Industry: Remission - ask them why they don't use the word 'Cure? Again: If I inject myself with Diesel fuel... & new disease is created.... If you didn't inject yourself with Diesel fuel are you in Remission? A Clairvoyant: a clairvoyant will sell you garbage like, time doesn't exist - that is, until you're bitten by a snake... 'quick, call someone, they may only have 15 minutes...' Why don't the media use the word 'truth? The Clairvoyant-run media. If you ever see a Clairvoyant, ask them to provide a timeline. See another and ask why they a drawn to the same conclusion. Sit them both down together. You have a car with a knock to the rear bar, bodykit plastic part - Dent. Hairdryer & pop it out! Don't waste your time with smash-repair industry. A Play within a Play, a Stage within a Stage. ~ Michael Ash G. P.S; Fasting = Autophage

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I wish you whatever brings you peace and comfort.

Sending you love

I hope that the day comes soon when the pain has eased a bit and you can remember your son with joy again. Good Luck to Us All Peace

My parents lost their oldest son when he was around 30 who was obese and diabetic. They were not allowed to attend the graveyard ceremony according to their traditions. It was devastating for them sure, but they moved on. I don't know the circumstances of your son's death, but I sense you feel either guilty for him leaving this Earth before you. You need to find solace and acceptance for what's happened. It just is. I hope you find peace and let go of the pain you hold onto.

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Much respect to you for doing that for your grandmother despite your fear 🙏

lol what if I say I’m a pastor and just spit out all this garbage your saying

Please enlighten me, what's the garbage I'm spitting? I told my background for relevance. I grew up attending funerals, so from experience I know where she's coming from.

​@adamgraham4899 dont take comments personal just random people thinking they are better then the next just know hes in pain and cant accept others deal with the same pain he is in but in a much better way and in a way where u where just trying to communicate what your life experiences is and in hopes of giving others different presectives people arent ready for this at least not closed mined people like the other guy who commented on this post i would actually like to know ...How did your parents actually teach u about death? with all there experiences im sure they had a pretty different perspective then most of us hope u see thisn

@@laughingatgoofymfrs I didn't take it personally, just put the ball back in his court. I don't mind responding to the people who are confused. Education is key, even if they won't admit you taught them. My parents didn't directly teach us necessarily, but you start seeing the patterns. Many people are alone in the end. Even if they have a loving family. Westerners cannot bear seeing their family on death's doorstep. They start thinking about their own mortality and for many faux-religious become terrified. Many stories about blood fighting blood just to see who gets all the inheritance. Also it's going to become more common. People are having much smaller families. The birthrate continues to drop in America. Question everything! Who and what are you living for? What excuses are stopping you from following your dreams?

Same ❤

Same y'all 🖤 I hope to check back on this in the not so distant future and we're all doing amazing in our chosen profession.

Ive being doing it since Im 20 without knowing is something recognized overthere in the USA. Interesting

Women need to hear this more often. They think it's all about make-up.

i'm sorry

I was going to comment this too, she definitely passes the vibe check! Her energy truly is soothing.

Dia de la Muertos is the best.

We have a death doula in our community. He helped me so so much when I was taking care of my grandmother at her final hours. I was with her until the end. Loving her, taking care of her. She had cancer, my momma gave her permission to let go . 😭💔😭 Miss you grandma.

Thank you for sharing

Women need to hear this more often. They think it's all about make-up.

​@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 to say all women think life is about is makeup is incredibly shallow and short-sighted. Perhaps you need to examine your own perceptions of the world and why you project false stereotypes onto other people.

Agreed ​@djjay-kay7636 . P.S. The misogynist "reply" is spamming most/all original comments.

Same..it's one the hardest things you can or will ever have to do..head uo..appreciate the people you have that are alive..so sorry for your loss

Where are you training? Ive been wanting to do this for a long time. Im finally at a place where i can and i dont know who to trust to train.

Are you training @ SWIHA?

Don't be

Try not to be. It's the end of life, but it's a very natural part of life.

If you’re scared; You Will Never experience it :)

Same. I’ve had panic attacks and a week-long mental breakdown of sorts from overthinking things when it comes to the inevitability and permanence of death, the ungraspable concepts of infinity and nothingness, etc.

Talk with a licensed professional about it now, to work through the fear. Then fully live the rest of your life without that fear, vibing & enjoying your physical experience while you still have it

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care

Don't do that to yourself..your mother knows you better then anyone..if you could been there you would have..keep her memory and spirit alive..God bless you and so sorry for your loss

Please don’t beat yourself up. Grief. Losing a parent is so tough, tough, and challenging. There is light at the end of the tunnel. It is difficult to see now. There are going to be good, bad, and indifferent days. It’ll be intense.

Same here 😢

😢❤🙏

This is not helpful for anybody other than christians hoping for revenge at the next stage. Your Jesus or whatever prophet is propably proud of you. It is 'keep it simple' not 'make it simple'. Live long and prosper.

Respectfully, recognize and sit with the fact-the fact-that THOUGHT created (all) religion and then THOUGHT worshiped the THOUGHT it created. It is your conditioning that maintains that thought (as truth) and it is your conditioning that allows your thought to eschew all other antithetical thought. Illusion reigns supreme and there is no escape-just the creation and propagation of more thought.

Im sure many people could benefit from that, with a Christian perspective you might be able to work with people who would be too hesitant before. Idk if that makes sense

@@idk-jy6cc Yes, it does. Thank you for sharing! 🤗 I shall consider this…in addition to life coaching. 🤓

I have attended many deathbeds and I can tell you that many, many Christians have difficult passings. I think it would be great if someone could help these people to relieve the fears of hellfire and damnation that gets drilled into them their whole lives. It’s awful what it does to them. As someone who no longer holds that faith, I would tell them to focus on grace and mercy and remind them of the care with which Jesus treated people, but it was never enough. People who were assaulted as children thought that they had sinned and were condemned. People who were abused believed that they should have stayed loyal to those who hurt them. So many deeply entrenched upsetting beliefs.

@@FlatTireForHire Thank you for your thoughtful response and vulnerability. I acknowledge that Christian faith taken at a surface level without being allowed to do a ‘deep work’ (internal healing including forgiveness of others, forgiveness of self, and trauma resolution) is a disservice to people… This is coming from a trauma survivor who has decided to press deeper to discover the true Jesus. I am currently a therapist, and have extensively sought therapy and healing. ❤️‍🩹 I am sorry for the poor portrayals of what a hollow faith can do to people. Reality is that Jesus wants a deeper part of us than many people readily realize, and that inherently involves helping us let go of the weights we carry. I shall definitely consider this additional career pivot because I want to help troubled individuals who are reaching their end of life with misconceptions like the ones you’ve mentioned. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏼

What so you can try to deathbed convert people?😂

I thought the same. Strong Scorpio energy there.

She could be, but doesn't necessarily mean she is. She is basically a death guide. Witches practice rituals and crafts based on certain beliefs. She is def able to be both however it doesnt mean shes a witch. She's a worker that helps people deal w death as a profession ✨️🖤

Came to comment the same thing lmao.