Elder Millennial: Looking for a relationship || Iliza Shlesinger 2023 

Rejection from a guy hurts... Really? Because a man being rejected from a woman must feel O SOOOO much better! Nothing quite like screwing on a smile on your face, choking down your fear of rejection, approaching a woman in a pack only to hear "Eww, gross!" and the rest of her herd mates laughing at you and your sense of rejection leaps out of its restraints like a demented Jack-in-the-box, laughing and pointing at you and telling you, "I told you so!" It seems that a woman rejecting a man is more of a power move. As for what women in the past did... that's hardly an excuse to maintain doing it. If it was, we'd still be using lead paint on everything.

Looking for a relationship for a woman goes like this she will marry anybody who can help support her emotionally and physically. But she will not love him. So years later she cheats are leaves him taking him for half of all his shit plus child support because he didn’t fulfill her needs when she settled for a guy she didn’t love. Hence guys have finally wised up and are walking away.

Most me wont approach a girl w a pack of friends not only becuz so might reject him but her friends will Also reject and attack hkm and women can be very cruel!

Some women hit on men, they just don't tell other women ! And the women that hit men, aren't asking where are the men !

I met my girlfriend at work. I went through her cash to buy a drink because it was hot in the warehouse outback. I always thought she was cute but she had a bf . Then she grabbed my hand when giving back the change for too long. At break time later she told me how she was having problems with him. Me being brave and 20 years old I said well if you need someone to play with you can always come to my place. To my surprise she showed up later that night hasn't left since, that was 1999.

Odd how she fails to understand that rejection is just as hard on men. Your rejection is also a core level rejection of our baby matter. In fact, since men encounter rejection from MOST women and most women would rarely be rejected, the damage to the psyche simply must be greater for men. When rejection is rare, it is not very painful, but when a man is rejected by countless numbers of women, the pain can be consuming. Women NEVER experience that kind of pain. they have no idea what men, especially average and below average men go through and their level of empathy for such men is effectively zero. The simple truth is that women put an artificial scarcity on sexual access and take advantage of that situation in a variety of ways, including the way they expect men to approa h even though rejection is usually the result. The real reason women do not approach is simple....POWER. Women have almost all the power in the dating market and in their minds, the one who is doing the approaching is seeking a favor. i.e. less powerful. Women enjoy their power and expecting men to approach is part of that. And, of course, sonce women really do have almost all the power, the strategy works. If men had the power in dating, they would not need to approach. If the power was more or less equal, both men and women would approach.

Marriage is seemingly dead. I will never date a woman again, unless she approaches me like I'm the second J.C. she Knows.

Women hit on guys all the time. I've seen it dozens of times. Not to me, but to very handsome men around me, definitely. It's often awkward, overt and always includes physical touch. But a funny routine.

If you didnt battle for the top 20% of men. You might actually find something that can change your life forever

Asking the guy outs too far for feminist to go. They aren’t ready for the rejection. 🇲🇽

She's great, camera work sucks.

I appreciate the constant comedy, but what's with the musical interlude in the middle of every video?

If the guy hit on a woman who doesn't see him attractive, it is a sexual harassment charge

Most US modern young women are not wife material so why bother.

Omg that camera guy need to find something else to do with is life because he suck at this. Beside that, I think women don't hit on man mainly because they are afraid of other women's judgment that she's gonna come across as a sl*t. A lot of "women not being equal to men" is perpetrated by women themselves

So the argument is "We aren't considered equal to men so we are going to purposely perpetuate the same behavior." We used to get killed over fighting for equality, but hitting on a guy and taking an ego hit is the limit now.

I rejected a woman sexually. She was devastated, so was her husband.

My problem was always the women who are "Looking4U" were really looking for someone else entirely...namely someone taller with more muscles and money. There's not much of a market for 5'7" pudgy guys with glasses. (I didn't have the beard back then, so I don't know if that would have helped.) I found my wife on the internet and persuaded her to remove me from the friend zone. It worked out in the end. I did encounter a couple of women who pursued me along the way, but the truth was they were not who I was looking for. And so, it's a bit of a cat-and-mouse game for both sexes. I would guess it's the same way in same-sex relationships as well.

Here is the thing back 20 years ago and more no internet ect. There were high school dances, roller skating, heck high school house parties, or parties in the woods. allot of places for men and women to interact long before they hit the bars scene many found someone or founf alot of someones there. But just like then it is same now women all want that same couple guys over 6 foot, over 6 figures, and have everything already. And want them to be that girl boss who only looks after herself. Thats why guys dont hit on ya, you make it clear you dont want them too.

Guys will not approach you? Try offering to buy him a drink.

Its not as magical as she thinks it is. The truth is, sadder. Men get to a point where they dont want to date anymore or be alone, and so they just kind of settle for what is infront of them. You have to remember that the onos of the relationship is still mostly on the men. Men have to ask the woman out, men are expected to make the plans initially. Its exhausting. So when women get mad about not being as romantic as before. Lets be honest that Date energy was energy that was saved up over a week, we got bills, we got kids, we get to hear eachothers bitching and griping. We get each other's bad days, and good days, but those days still exist. They are called Date night, and sexxy time. You promise a lack luster sexual congress, and ill pull the hair clog out of every pipe in the house cause thats love.

When parents don’t teach the kids the difference between fiction and non fiction it screws the kids up!

Y’a maybe it’s the constant victim card playing that guys are turned off

Not only will they hit on a man they will make a u-turn and hit on a man as soon as they find out he's driving some type of supercar they don't even care how gold diggerus they look when they do it, they see a Supercar and they think they got a chance at a big bag they will pounce.

Women: we are strong and independent. Also women: we are too scared to ask out a man I will give Iliza credit for admitting women need the attention though

Cuz we did All this- u ficking do something Scott LOL I freaking Love Iliza’s sense of humor

She's not even a millennial, she's gen x

Why does she look like she belongs in a Robert Palmer music video?

I'm so glad both me and my partner don't fall in line with these silly gender stereotypes.

In a way she's right. When a man sees a woman and realizes that the children will look like her or her mother, he may not want to mate with her simply because he's thinking that far ahead. Yes, that might be too much effort for a guy, but it's not intentional on a conscious level. So that's the rejection of her eggs perspective.

She nailed it.

not funny.

A Funny, Funny woman!

Iliza should visit Sweden.

She's talking about wanting to meet a guy but she's wearing a ring. Isn't she married?

Another traumatised spinstress ;)

I love her❤ She is so funny. (The comments are scary, Stay safe Iliza)

I hate to blow her shit up, but this couldn't be farther from the truth. Woman in relationships are pure evil. I was married once and when my ex had her last affair and left. I started dating. I went on 4 dates. That was in 2013 and I haven't dated a woman since.

Enjoyed the comedy, but if she actually thinks what she said, she should live as a man for just one year. Without cherry picking.

The camera operators really messed this one up by trying to do closeup shots of a moving subject. It was distracting!

Dress up for your cats. You wanted to change tradition formed over millennia for an ideology.

yeh noh what i know ´n seen when girls hit on guys don´t give fokk just blunt going in direct awkward for some kinda now or never ultimatum..hehh yeh and offended if guy says no (for not comprehending) - says no for not knowing hook up moves like that also even possible

"we did all this" except every woman says "I don't do this for men I do this for other women".

So what was that? A feminist convention or a warm-up act for a Sad Thrump Rally?

I love how she doesn’t get any blow back from publicly shaming short men. Not in this video by in the past.

Feminism is killing a generation. Emotional fragility is causing us all to avoid emotional attachments. Good guys really do finish last, and it's not the fault of the nice guys.

I also appreciate the comedy, but why the weird zooming levels? Is it to circumvent copyright issues?

"You did a lot" to compete with the other women in the room. Maybe if you just came out "as yourself" and didn't spurn every

I personally love the fairytale of being rescued by a prince 😊 I know it’s not the case all the time but it has happened to many women I know - myself included. It’s beautiful ❤

Want the same pay ? Work the same long hours. Do the dangerous job. Spend time away from your family. Then you will get paid the same.

Women only want Chad/Tyrone - everyone else is invisible

The audio sounds pitch-shifted upward in this clip.

Men take notes. Stay single. They will always see you as trash.

I’ve had 2 women hit on me without self esteem issues and it went very well

When I was in the army, women use to hit on any guy who wore the uniform. hint, it was the hair cut.

Comedy like this is why women remain in fantasy land.

The fact that men are expected to just get over it doesn't make it easier to do.

I find carrying my onion IN the feed bag is easier...

Plus it scares us to think how you look when you "undo all of that"!

the camera guy had had a good time

Well... that wasn't funny.

She uses 'scott' a lot. I could be scott.

She's a 4 on her best day. A 2 5 years later.

This is a comedian???

Lies. So many lies.

Deng iliza has some nice green eyes😊

Some men just settle

Why is this sped up?

My Grandma was hitting on my Grandpa! Still, when woman trying to hit on me - i don't get it, because i don't do word puzzles.

because when the relationship that the girl asks you (because they are legally required too) she cannot charge you unless you are super stupid.. she can get charged instead. The guy asks her, it is actually illegal.

You know I have watched this special on netflix several times, and something about the audio on this copy is messed up. Her voice is coming out way too shrill. Bad copy.

Men and women are equal, with different roles in life. You find a man whose beliefs about roles align with yours, tada.

Can't believe she got applause for the wage gap nonsense.

Woman do not love men

😂

Iliza is absolutely at the peak of her comic prowess and I love her as a comic. This is pure comedy.

She's right, but otoh nearly all my girlfriends approached me, I'm pretty shy so... It's worked alright for me though I could stand to meet a few more women like that. 😊

Laugh track

Eeeeek!

She is funny. But women always dress for other women, not men. They don't ask men's advice on fashion other than "does this make my . . . look large (gotta watch the censors)?? Has anybody noticed she has a wedding ring?? 🤣🤣 Ladies, I got my honey but I NEVER turned down a woman hitting on me.

Woman that only and constantly talk about sex and relationships are a massive turn off and huge red flag that says run fellas

I don't hit on men because men are very visual... if they like what they see and HAVE the balls to go after what they want then we can talk... I'm sure there's an exception to the rule, but if a man doesn't pay you any attention, there's a very good chance he either doesn't find you attractive OR he doesn't think he's good enough for you. NEVER date anyone who doesn't think they're good enough for you because that's more than likely how they'll treat you.

It can be quite unpleasent to hit on someone and get rejected. Men are insensitive, so if he hits on her and gets rejected, So What! A man may hit on a hundred women before he meets one who likes him. So for a man it is insignifigant if a girl tells him to get lost. What would be bad for a man is if ALL the women reject him. But if most women reject him, as long as he can get 1 to talk to him this is something he has gotten used to. The man's role in this process is a girl is worried that all the guys are rejecting her, he becomes her hero, by hitting on her.

Amazing that any comedy by a woman these days is just met with a deluge of tears from people who have fashioned themselves as the guardians of Not Being Offended By Comedy lolz. She literally gives men credit and says shit that dudes say and roasts women for making excuses. And the Gamma Kappa Phi Epsilons don't hear any of that. They just bring the blizzard😁🤡🌎

I met my girlfriend in a bar😂