Purple blush is awesome!! Looks amazing on the skin! I have some too, and they are my favourite. I have wanted to make my own charm set, slowly building it but have no clue how and for what I'll use it 😂. I love bones but have none to throw. As for pendulums, I have been trying on and off. they're temperamental, testy and playful I feel like lmfao. Fey energy! That sounds like an interesting journey you're on now with your family that takes much courage and strength, good luck and cuddos, not for the faint of heart ❤