I have some friends who’ve had kids and the “we’re just not coming” thing is so real. Sometimes it’s just not in the cards. Always give those friends a break! They’re doing their best!
I don’t even have kids and I do it sometimes too! 😅 And my sisters & friends will be like ok good cause I actually wanted to just stay in cause I’m tired too 😂
We WANT to come... it's just a lot sometimes lol... especially if you have a few kids... you never know what disaster is waiting around the corner .. as a mom who has had to cancel plans ... we feel guilty... for our friends... for not not getting it together to show up... for our kids missing out, etc... the guilt is strong... its nice that you recognize that with your friends. A lot of people who dont have kids dont understand it... how could they? So to give your friends that grace probably means so much more to them than you know
@@jenicdarling9425 Same. Completely the opposite in my case, my friend who has a kid is always there 2am 4am 12pm no matter what she is always there but it ends up with me sleeping in her place because her daughter and I have a good relationship she even calls me out of the blue just to say hi. Me on the other hand depressed and miserable never there.
@@fusionofmyth same. My best friend has two amazing kids that I love and never get to see because I’m the one who always cancels. I suffer from severe migraines and an autoimmune so most days are a no go 🙅🏻♀️. But I try. It just ends up being a “I’m not coming”. And then I end home childless and alone, wanting nothing more than being around then. Rather than watching FMA Brotherhood for the millionth time.
My mom before it was a thing she let us have mental health days when where younger She also said she loved when we all home I remember her taking us out lunch of a movie She is also the one who made me a night owl because we be up late waiting for my father to come home from work I would watch Johnny Carson and what 6 year old kid knew about Joan Rivers and George Carlin I wish she was still her so she could see me on TV ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Das mit der Musik ist eigentlich eine ganz einfache Sache, wir können uns in solchen Momenten nur wirklich mit der traurigen Musik identifizieren, weil sie eben unsere Emotionen reflektieren. Manchmal erreicht man sogar ein Level an Traurigkeit, in dem die gute Laune von anderen Menschen als eher nervig empfunden wird. Man denkt sich, dass diese Personen gerade nicht durch sowas Schlimmes gehen und es denen ja viel besser geht, wodurch sie einen nicht verstehen würden. Manchmal kann man sogar das Gefühl bekommen, noch weiter eins reingedrückt zu bekommen. Man möchte in solchen Momenten lieber verstanden werden und umgibt sich dementsprechend, mit Personen, die ähnliches Leid widerfahren haben oder eben auch Songs, die ähnliche Gefühle behandeln. Blödes Beispiel, aber deswegen hängen Junkies auch eher/lieber mit Junkies ab. Natürlich spielen da auch andere Faktoren eine Rolle, aber das Verständnis der anderen und die Fähigkeit sich mit der Person identifizieren zu können, sind große davon. Man fühlt sich auch einfach nicht in der Lage positive Emotionen zu fühlen oder anzunehmen, da man eh schon in genug anderen Emotionen schwimmt, von denen man gar nicht weiß, was man gerade eigentlich fühlt und wo man sie einordnen soll. Oft hilft einem die Musik, genau diese zu erkennen, zu verstehen, anzunehmen und zu durchleben. Generell ist zu beobachten, dass wir Menschen häufig erstmal ein Gefühl der Verständnis (emotionales Verständnis) haben möchten, bevor wir das Thema „rational" angehen/bearbeiten können.
I used to have to get up at 4:30 am - 5:00 am every morning to get my son moving and ready for daycare (school later on) in order to make it to work by 8:00 am. It got easier as he got older but the internal alarm is still there. It doesn't matter how late I go to sleep, I'm usually awake by 4:30 am - 5:00 am, even on weekends. That being said, just because I'm awake, it doesn't mean I have to always get up. Weekends are for sleeping in a bit!
Friends who don't have kids are always on my ass about not being on time or just not being able to go period. They don't understand the struggle 😅 I have 4 boys and my niece (who I've adopted) and it's always Chao's in my house 😂😂
Wow. So I’m adding ruby franke to the list or worlds scariest women…. Along with Elizabeth Holmes, Casey Anthony, amber heard, my sister in law, & Jessica Kent
johnnyyxrobert She had bruises on her knees and knuckles, which is what you would have if you were the one instigating. He covered for her so she wouldn’t be charged. Stop defending people you don’t know Jfc
Visible bite marks and bruising TO HIS FACE and she had bruises ON HER LEGS. Facts are facts, and going off of physics you can tell who the instigator was. Women can absolutely be ab*sers too. If you’re going to even reference the report, be real about it instead of being selective.
When you have enough wealth/fortune, power/influence (and stardom), you can even getaway with a straight-up murder too, this is the benefit/privilege of being a celeb brings you (which we ordinary people cannot afford/enjoy).☝️😬😝👎
Yup, she was arrested for it as well. Funny how when it’s female on male it’s barely on anyone’s radar but let a man do the same & people are ready to rip that man’s life & career to shreds.
When my kids were little, I was uber-punctual, more often than not we were early. Now, they've grown up and left home, what is time?... I'm an old lady, I'll get there when I get there...😆 🙃🐨🇦🇺
I always find it hilarious how these celebrities try to be so relatable by pretending to know how hard parenting is. Let's just pretend like they don't have a whole staff to raise their kids.
@@DeterminationInspiration-pj2oiLmao why are stans like this? All this person said was that hopefully she treats her partners better than she did in the past. Domestic abuse is fucked up and doesn’t deserve to be brushed away as a “mistake”.
@@DeterminationInspiration-pj2oiI can throw stones when it comes to that. Because I have without a doubt, never physically assaulted a romantic partner. So yeah.
