definitely. it is amazing to see many schools adding a "SEL" (social and emotional learning) into their curriculums. teaching children since young age about their emotions, how to navigate them, how to be empathic and understanding towards others and towards themselves is a step forward. I can also imagine, problem solving and critical thinking could be skills practiced during those classes.
It's all bull. You are just creating the clever psychos. Yes, they will tell you how much they love & feel. And then you will start digging, & it's just another Hitler. Hitler loved Women & Environment & Children .... Very high EQ person. Or these Communists who love the idea of Gulags & want to literally exterminate some people. But they are very high in EQ. They want to exterminate people for a better good of People & the Planet.
yeah don't focus on smartening kids up. let the dum dums and bullies have something positive noted on their grades. this is why the chinese are kicking our ass
Yes, it is a must. Because Emotional Intelligence will be my topic for my upcoming Final Demonstration Teaching. Wish me luck, people! and thank you, Sprouts, for making this video.
Absolutely! Integrating emotional intelligence in our school would diffentely affect students' emotional well being, therefore their performance. For example, enabling a teen students to understand their mood swings in relation to their biological development at this age will rise their awareness of their behaviours.
Excellent video.. My psychology project is emotional intelligence and coping in women.. Loved the animation.. Im wondering how i can put the pics in my project
Thats whats being obedient and a people pleaser is, not emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize and validate the emotions of you and those around you while maintaining boundaries that tie into that emotional availability
Emotional intelligence as an expected skill has lead to marginalization and exclusion of some populations. In my case. I'm autistic and do not have the ability to communicate using non-verbal modes, such as facial expressions and tone-of-voice. On top of that, I'm a heterosexual, cissexual, white male. Due to academic activism and social engineering, new unattainable expectations have been set, with harsh sanctions for failure to comply. In effect, those of us who have an exploitable disability coupled with one or more villainous demographics (autistic, white male) are pushed from marginal inclusion to outright exclusion. We are expected to be compliant with non-verbal cues which are often non-verbal bullying based on a demographic pecking order managed by academia.
The 'using emotion' example is dumb because it shows someone only responding on an emotional level, showing, I would say, a lack of awareness or intelligence to understand and even override an action driven by pure emotion. Edit: Other than empathy, I think these two are off the mark, presenting a more touchy-feely view of what people are going thru mentally and emotionally. Being happy has nothing to do with cognitive ability, and "success" probably has more to do with taking initiative (being less afraid to try new things) and following thru (staying motivated and setting priorities).
I agree with your first statement. You should try to reflect about your emotions before you act. Otherwise it can lead to bad situations and ones that might be negative for you. Don't necessarily agree with your edit (if I understand it correctly). I think you can be more happy if you are more emotionally intelligent. Because if you manage your emotions well you can avoid negative thought patterns which usually only hold you back or you can listen to negative emotions and see what they want to tell you. Because normally negative emotions have a reasoning and might be connected to an unfulfilled desire or something bad that happened.
Your EQ is to low, once you reach a decent level around 100 you will understand that you can use your emotions to do good or you get stuff of your chest. To block your emotions consumes a lot of energy and leaves problems in the long run that must be addressed.
It can definitely be learned! For example, writing about how we are feeling in a journal or talking about it to someone can make the intense emotions inside us come to our own awareness. This is great because now that we know what we are feeling, we can better manage the emotions.
@@sproutsThis is a very interesting reply to me. Ive been recently quite conscious about my own emotional intelligence. Sometimes I feel like doing poor effort in trying to perceive, understand and then react to the emotional reactions of others. The diary thing talks to me a lot, it did helped me to look back at how I used to think and feel. But Ive been writing a diary for 7 years and it is only like 2 years ago approximately that I'm only startinfg to seriously "stud myself"
@@Totokey_the_orginal exactly, let us agree among ourselves and leave Israel die alone over there, we can't agree while me and my people are being beaten. If you're just a person living in a relatively stable and rich nation, you'll never understand me
For me, empathy towards others and self has helped a lot in regulating my emotions during stressful situations. It allows me to see the world through their lenses and see myself from a 3rd person perspective. This in turn helps me understand why they are acting that way and helps me formulate a neutral response which could mitigate both their hurt and the situation at hand. At worst, this solves nothing, but at least you can rest assured that you are not the one adding fuel to the fire and not the one getting into the hate list of other people.
In my opinion EQ can be raised significantly by a few processes 1.Being open minded 2. Listening more than talking 3. Putting yourself in the other person’s shoe 4. Realise that there is a cause for every actions 5. Analysing the consequences of your actions Of course If you want to add more to the list or comment on what I said your free to do so
EQ is bull. All these supposedly high EQ people dont mind offending me. They dont put themselves in my shoes. It's just irrational feelings. So it's bull. And there is simply no way to mesure it. It's like a psycho who tells you how much they love you, while plotting a murder. It's like every Tankie who will talk about exterminating people & throwing people in Gulags for "re-education".... Every Feminists who wants to exterminate men & boys for a better good is extremely EQ "Intelligent". They feel the pain of women & girls!!! Well, Hitler probably also had high "EQ". He cared about the people!! He wanted the best for children of Germany & their future!!!
I'm convinced that Luffy is ADHD: Hyperactive, impulsive, huuuge emotions, high sense of justice, distracted easily (especially by food) I rest my case
0:10 Sorry to say, seeing an emotion/ feeling coming is a stupid idea. ‘Oh, I think I’m feeling an emotion when I look at her. Might it be love? Quickly, let me overthink this… Oh. Oh. Thank goodness, it was just gas 💨😮💨’.
In my experience, to manage emotions or to try to Intellectually "understand" them ( with the mind) will do little. Yes, the mind will allow us to become aware of the emotions; perhaps even to repress them but emotions cannot be controlled many times( managed) through the mind. Many times we react right away according to the circumstances and the mind doesn't have the time to interfere in the outburst of emotions. Observation (not through the mind) through awareness ( it is a different kind of observation) is capable of that "understanding" but at another level. Finally, emotions known as " negative emotions" need to be healed. Those are traumas which could be released, but that is another topic. Thank you for bringing up this topic of emotional intelligence.
I've noticed that different cultures experience and express emotions differently. If you travel you will notice that emotional experience and expression varies from Mexico to Italy to Asian countries. Emotional Intelligence ought to take this into consideration.
Emotional intelligence should be taught and acknowledged in schools. Why not learn psychology and self awareness early on? I think it will help those who struggle with IQ and school in general. Speaking from someone who has ‘general learning disabilities’. If a person want to learn or to be motivated, they have to recognize their own emotions and be able to place themselves in a good/quiet state of mind. Why should it be expected for a young person to figure that all out by themselves? If you train EQ early on, I don’t doubt that learning will be twice as easier.
During my work time and focus on my job, someone laugh so loud, shouted and singing I was so annoyed by it but at that moment I talk to myself that can’t destroy my emotion and open my eye wisely and 🎶 sing some song in my mind thinking about what beautiful thing ahead waiting in front of me. This is what I always been doing when annoying thing comes.❤
Aloha. I am loving seeing how many of us do agree that where were these tools for children to develop the skills to prepare them to be successful in life. Mike, I agree what took educators and social psychologist understand how these skills can project how emotionally fulfilled we can be in life with these top skills in personal communication and now in the global business skills for performance success in all your business endeavors. I love the video here. Great job guys.
@@sprouts I am a Stock trader , I've seen people with P.hd in Maths, Double P.hd's in Finance , Dual Degree in economics, People with excellent education background are unable to earn a single penny from markets. But people with average IQ ,who have control over Emotions, who can control their Greed, anger, fear are actually making good money.
@@majormononoke8958 no my man if born like having this 4 traits you are automaticly used by people how many harm they did if they made one good for you are almost going forgot what they did to you ,you know mbti right there is infj type they are many of of them born with this 4 eq trait finf about infj peop[le on web you see some of them i bet you are anime fan look for itachis mbti search for it
@@majormononoke8958 How do you avoid those who wish to harm you if you have your ideal job, but management bully you? Do you just run away, leaving a job that you adore? EQ will not help you to deal with those who delight in exercising their petty power over others.
If schools were not corrupt intuitions this would have been in the very first curriculum. It's real scary that even now we do nothing for are children. We have all become slaves to people that died hundreds of years ago. Now the only people who benefit are the ones with the means to exploit said lambs.
