ENFJ Fascinating Secrets (MBTI Personality Type) 

Sam Bawse Yes I agree-sometimes it can be quite hard. 😏

Agree. But what a sensation of personnal victory after overcoming a big obstacle !!!

True. Sometime it's almost like if I'm high on something. But later on, I get that doomed feeling you're talking about...

You gotta keep yourself more on the middle or you'll get drunk on your own human connections and itll hurt the interactions

It’s tough because you feel so strongly about things in your whole body, you have such intense emotions that it can be hard on others because your being demands that it be dealt with and the planning is so true, sometimes you can see red flags before they happen, it’s almost like a movie plays in your head, so you can work things out in advance to get out of a jam, even if it’s one you caused and isn’t until later that people realized you saw something. I also knew the sex of my baby and knew that my girlfriend was pregnant before it all happened. It’s creepy but so cool.

Holy cow! You've exposed me! I'm an ENFJ, and I actually appear "stoic" many people.

I'm an infj 😃 hi 👋 everyone

I enjoy sharing certain things with certain people. Having a room full of all my friends I usually withdraw! I never know how to act. Being deep with one person and surface silly with another. I tend to keep a lot private and I'm really open about other things. I have surprised many people with my intelligence who thought I was just goofy. Some people see me as serious and get shocked when I'm in a room and turn into a social butterfly. Being around people I turn off my extremely sensitive nature I can be having the worst time and I'll just smile and forget about my problems because I know this what other people want is a good time but it ends up putting me in a good mood also so it's really a win-win and since I can make friends Wherever I Go I never worry about finding people who can relate to me on different levels

YOU SAID EVERTHING. 👏👏👏👏👏 ~enfj

Imad Serghini Sure do!! Isn't it awesome? Thanks for watching.

Tams PsychAdvice yes it is

Yes, agreed

Sure do

A little hint: They often dislike if you read it aloud to them. 🤷‍♀️

The DJ Hey I get so much joy from hearing how much you relate to my video! Thanks for watching: )

The DJ 4% of the population are ENFJ

Imad, is it your real life perception too that 4% are ENFJ's? That would mean 1 out of about 25 or so people? In my experience meeting lots of people who know their mbti, the percentage of enfj's is pretty low compared to types like ENFP's/INFJ's who seem all over the place..

PowerRedBull You always hear about how rare INFJs are, but either they aren’t nearly as rare as believed, or they’re the most vocal on the Internet. 😄

@@truepeace3 Obviously the 2nd! :)

I have more than once had to excuse myself to cry in a bathroom during a funeral for someone I didn't know.

YES.

memeful and no jam INFP pan n Ravenclaw Gosh it feels so good to hear something nice! You’re making me feel very special. I also like INFP’s because they are my calming place. I feel like I can be myself without judgment.

Tams PsychAdvice thank you so much! you’re so sweet. it’s no nice to hear that ❤️

Im also an infp and my enfj is the best 🥰

INFPs are my faves. ♥️ xo - enfj

We love you too INFP ❤❤

Christian Valverde Oh good! I think you just described one of the best parts of being an ENFJ. Appreciate the compliment.

I am exactly like that and right now I'm doing this assessment for the ENFJ for my motivation and workplace class. I do change my mood depends on who I am around I do pick up on energy and it's so funny I have a co-worker was looking kind of down or sad and I asked him what was wrong and he wouldn't tell me but eventually he did he was like how did you know I said I picked up on your energy I could just feel it.

Yeah, I do that because I don't want to make people uncomfortable nor change their "perfect" perspective of me although it does get lonely knowing that everyone thinks of u as perfect while u see so many flaws within urself.

Can't agree w/ you more!! I'm ENFJ-T and I'm exactly what she described.

Me too! ENFJ 4w3

Kimberly Evans Shank Tell your husband that’s GREAT 😁! I love that.

Lol this was a phenomenon I would explain to people and they would look like it's strange. But everyone has patterns

Issac Thanks for Making my day I’m so happy to hear that!

We are often alone because of tht

exactly why we try to solve issues caused by others by ourselves secretly coz we know the people would assume and accuse instead of actually solving the issue

You cannot expect people to behave like you do. Each person is unique and you should respect their nature. What you wish for is respect.

@@badbed2202 two way street though

Great words of wisdom!

truepeace3 Omg 😮 freaks me out too! Haha 🤣 Thanks for watching and I’m glad you can relate!

So well said! My struggle too.

agreed

Things are changing for me a bit

So true

Karen Corbin Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and for the great feedback--I'm glad it feels personable and relatable! Hopefully I can make another one on ENFJ soon 🙂

I feel the same way. Every other video is very impersonal and not correctly portrayed.

somerandomguy Thank you 😊 for taking the to share that with me-Makes me so happy that my Enfj Video resonates with you 😁😁

Whitney Dunn Haha 😂 🤣 Aw that’s so cute! So happy to hear that and thanks for watching 😀

Kelsey Sewell Ha! Ha! Yep I do. Thanks for watching 😀

Fifi O Isn't it so fun? Thanks for watching and happy you liked 😊

Jan fromOz haaaaaaa!!! Luv this! This is great and one of the perks of being an ENFJ!

Oh yes, I can tell immediately when someone doesn't like me from how it feels.

Jan fromOz Manipulative, inauthentic braggarts are my biggest pet peeves. And people who can’t handle a conversation that contains an ounce of depth.

So true unfortunately

A A Oh yay!!!! I'm so happy you found my video to be precise. Isn't it fun

A A oops I accidentally hit send before I finished. I meant to write isn't it fun to be an ENFJ? And just to think I was so scared to do this video. It was my first MBTI video and I thought I might be laughed at for doing it and I wondered if anyone would be able to relate. I appreciate your feedback it means a lot to me. Keep watching and thanks!

Yeah it's so accurate.. My intuition is almost psychic level and I can never express how I'm able to know people's moods, energy readings, how they think, many steps before they realize it themselves. Every detail of everything is witnessed by me to the very minute detail to the mannerisms in body language. Then I take that and try to guide people to their unrealized potential. What is really important for me is healing the world one person at a time or on a massive scale, having people realize their potential, and ultimately be a support soul. Having researched hypnotherapy extensively, my intuition is backed up by science/logic, plus even more depth of knowing about how people tick. At the cost of sounding arrogant, I will note it is almost a god-like power to know things before they occur, or moreso analyze a person to such a detail that I am able to tell their future actions and the chain reactions of those actions. I hate telling people I just simply "know", but I'm very rarely wrong.. however, when I am wrong, I am not a fan of criticism, but I will swallow it due to having a need to uphold my logical persona I've set as a standard to limit my whimsical intuition. It hurts feeling so much though.. it's painful sometimes. I see a bee with one wing struggling to fly, and my heart aches for hours on end.. I'm an empath too so it's just a blast of feelings and emotions. What really got me is when you noted how I pick up people's personalities and incorporate it into my own when I find it useful to understand or relate. Another thing I'll do is instead of judging an issue from the outside in, I pretend I literally am the person I am helping, then after I understand their pain, I revert back to my mind to analyze it so I can be objective. What is your 4 letters?? very sorry for ranting.. I'm so passionate about self-reflection.

I honestly thought I was crazy for years because of how I could read people, turns out we’re just disgustingly intuitive creatures!!

Dilar4ik So awesome! Makes me very happy 😊 to hear. Glad you found the chore part funny 😆. Best wishes!

louyht7 Thanks so much! It's so fun people watching 😀

i'm the exact same as u

@@simransaxena1058 Oh cool. Can I get your digits? lol

Tome Hey Enfj! I really like your description-we should frame 🖼 it-very well said. Being an ENFJ is awesome 😎!

Sam O I’m shocked about the accuracy of it too! I was scared to record it. I thought everyone was going to laugh at me ha ha. Thanks for validating that I knew I knew!

Anna Whittlestone Thanks so much and I’m so happy 😃 you found my video!

So true! Stay motivated-that’s awesome 😎!

Another thing is when you said about sharing deep things with other people, personally I know generally how people are going to respond and don’t like the way that they would respond to it, so don’t share it.

I think so! Thanks so much for checking out my video ☺️

Aww 🥰 thanks so much

BMC Yay 😊 I'm happy to hear that! I appreciate the compliment. I'm glad your love ❤️ encouraged you to learn about ENFJ. You can also check out my INTJ video--hopefully you will find it helpful. Thanks again 😊😊😊

Justin D. Not trying to be stereotypical--I think what you’re saying is accurate from a male perspective. Testosterone changes things to some degree (I really think 🤔). I started doing a video on it, got scared and erased it. But I might try again. Thanks for sharing 😊!

Yes! I would as well absolutely love that! I was looking for an ENFJ community just yesterday and couldn't find one! 🙁I was thinking about making an Instragram community maybe? What do you guys think?

Here's the Instagram community I've made it's called: enfj_community2020

If anyone is interested in staying in touch I'm super into the idea! 👋🏼 I'm currently the only ENFJ in my friend group

Pachia Xiong I am so glad you like my video. Thanks for watching!

Irving Malcolm Cáceres Ha ha! They are great secrets to have because they help you navigate through life. Appreciate you!!

Bro, I swear you have commented on every Myers Briggs video on RU-vid!

🥺 Hugs

flo Thank you! I'm so glad You enjoyed my analysis and that it helped you figure out that you're an ENFJ! Yay!

Loveeee angelindisguise

Aww! Congratulations! 💛

Try not to be...we love you guys. So many of my friends are Is

Trust me just be yourself. I have a infp friend for 12 year's . You infp people help us enfj with your laid back energy and we love that about you guy's. We connect on a deeper level once we get to know each other. Infp suppose to be the enfj natural partner too. Be you ok. We adapt easily because we want people to be comfortable around us.

I continuously am just floored at how much every word she said resonates with me. It’s an absolutely insane feeling!

maunder01 Thaaaaaank you all the way from Australia 🇦🇺! One of my friends made friends with someone in Australia and he sent her some Vegemite and I got to try it and some other funfun candies 🍭. I’m so glad you like my video!

sunset life Hi thank you so much for the compliment! I really appreciate it. You make your friends feel very safe to open up to you and that's always a great thing. Take care ☺️

Elim Wu Hi! What a great compliment that you think it's the best ENFJ video you've seen. Yay! Yes I am a 4 too ☺️. It's fun having that combo, isn't it? I'm glad that you could relate to the things said in the video and thanks for the great feedback.

HAHA i don't know about fun...it feels like i'm constantly at war with myself with wanting to fit in but also being real with myself and other people. People call me trendy but unique. :) I think if you figure things out and do the work, it's a good balance of being able to understand both yourself and other people very well! Do you know if you're 4w3 or 4w5?

Elim Wu Very good point! Yes I think one of the great things about being an ENFJ is having the ability to be deeply introspective about oneself. Great question and you've given me something good to explore. I've never really thought about if I'm the three wing or the five. I think sometimes I can appear to be the 3 but I feel a lot more comfortable being the five. And that may be because I grew up in an introverted home where everybody had space. How about you?

Where did the 4 come from? I didnt see that in my test.

Elim Wu true!!!

Zoe R Ha ha. Well I’m glad you feel understood and I’m so happy that you found in my video. Yay!

Daisy Rowser-grier It's cool because you're able to give people insight into themselves and their problems that they would not otherwise yet. It's so fun to be able to help people in that special way. You sound like a good friend. PS. Love your daisies! Those are my good luck sign ha ha

Tams PsychAdvice Thank you. Please make more videos about ENFJs 😀.

Sarah Jacob I know right?!! I once had a boyfriend’s mother who told me that anyone who wasn’t the same all the time was FAKE. Basically, she was calling me fake. LOL LOL! I beg to differ. I simply like to make connections with all types of people. ENFJs are adaptable and that’s why we get along with so many people. Because we understand them. We know how to put people at ease and we know what it’s like to feel uncomfortable in certain situations. We don’t mind bridging gaps for people. If someone is extremely serious and I want to have a good conversation with them, it may not go so well if I’m acting like a total goofball. But it’s fun when I have friends who I can be a goofball with too. We can change gears and we find the value in people which makes interactions interesting, fun, and varied. And I love that about being an ENFJ. However it IS hard when you’re in the same room with different friends LOL. Now that I understand that, it helps me a lot.

@@TamsPsychAdvice Couldn't have said it better!!!

WOW 🤩! Well said

@@TamsPsychAdvice Thank you! I am surprised by how well you know the enfj. Not many channels do that well. They disregard the many sides of us. Much appreciated

Yessss 🙌

N W Glad to hear it! It brings me joy to hear you connected so much with my ENFJ video. Happy happy 😊

Me too!

It's okay to not believe in god.

Mỹ Thuận Trịnh Thanks you For the nice complement! You made me smile.

Hel0 entpj me sabhhryo ne jnyo ke vidyo khraab karyo resiont koii chij sati kre aakhi aapi7 pela vide maro joya vgr tnara aagt btavp mnre so mltu6 bthu jhrab me 2vbe vodeo rakhos aaj suthi me oonile thi tim lkathri hti me kjhupan mukijav pana lko dekhv bhu joya aekvvat btha sabhro jehoya te vapri pan aarite koinu nlavya ha bhle tutel saroo video mne kon aapse amizon lhu ke tme saro aapis elesespan tej joto hto mare malik6tena hu nboli amozon fiithyu keme oof lin 6 tepan chalse tne trej aapis ha kyare kudakare maru korsaniorntma nhi entfj pivet mari var tmaro wife kho felavenhi fernd6 mate ki nfelave 7mhine bdlvu6 mate santchhu aajthi nhi hu vaso thi dikh chhu muslman maro sacho dthrm6 tme smjo dost tankyo

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hiba sh Aw I love ❤️ your comment and I'm so glad my video helped you and that you can relate to what I'm saying. It makes me very happy!

chakkaphak Awww 🥰 Thank you! Yes I am and I was so scared to do this video because I thought what if people think I’m crazy for what I’m saying. So glad I did it!

LOL so glad I could make it for you 🤓

That’s sooooooo cool!😎

Haha thank you so much 😊

Thanks so much and yes I understand you. You are a blessing to the world 🌍😊

Restoration Eden Ministries Thaaaank you!!! I’m so Happy 😀 you watched.

You’re so welcome

Hallie Rose 🌹 LOL! Thank you so much I’m so happy to hear that :-)

Not You I'm so glad and you make me happy I found the courage to do this video ☺️! Thanks.

Vahid Moradi Hey that’s awesome! I think you have discovered A LOT about yourself and that’s great 😀. I’m so happy that my video helped you. You have been blessed with a very special gift and now that you understand that gift, you can handle it better. Know your limitations and boundaries. You have the right to protect yourself. You can be kind and encouraging to people, but pay attention to your own needs as well. So ask yourself, what is it that you need to feel more peace? For me, it’s quiet alone time to reflect on my own thoughts and to rejuvenate, read books, explore nature etc. because even though I love helping people in my life, sometimes it can be very overwhelming and having a moment to self-reflect and pull away helps me feel better. I think you should be proud of being so young and already gaining good understanding of yourself. 😊

Theodor Robinson Awwww thanks soooooo much! Glad to hear it.

You’re welcome Tahjara ENFJ 😊

Elliot Nicole thank you so much! I'm so glad you like how I did this video. Sometimes I want to hear detailed descriptions of myself. I think cognitive functions are great but sometimes I just want to hear some "meat and potatoes" of who I am, you know?

Lynn Williams YAY!!!!!!!! Thanks so much 🙂. I'm grateful that you watched.

Sharon Myers Ha Ha! I love it! It feels great knowing that you feel so understood and that you connected to my video 😁!! Thanks for watching.

Hugs to you my friend

ron gaines hi Ron! I'm so glad you liked my video and that you shared it with your friends. I hope it enlightened them to how incredible you are.

Thanks 😊 so much

yes, there should be an ENFJ initiative. I'm in.. I really do think ENFJs need support too and maybe we'd be best at giving it to one another

odee82ify Ha Ha! I’ve been here just didn’t think anyone cared about my insight until a couple of years ago when I decided to share what I see and what I have learned so that it wouldn’t be floating around in my head all the time for nothing. Lol 😂 I’m sure your family and friends are grateful that you have used your gift to help them in many situations. What a blessing you are to them.

Same!!