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ENFP brain: "yeah i know i'll lose my job if i won't accomplish those assignments buy that *random video/article/conversation* could change my ENTIRE LIFE
@@kajjafeeluv__775 deadass like if I actually followed through with things I could be a dancing actor witch who can sing, make clothes, has a business, and is a world class swimmer! And a therapy dog 😃🐶
Me thinking: oh that was super mean... eeehheh...maybe they will think it's endearingly cute?? 😅😅 To be honest though, I suck at really flirting. I am nice to everyone and they think its flirting..but I clam up badly when I actually want to flirt. 😆
@@ArcaneGinger I know right? I’m always nice to my friends and even strangers but when it comes to flirting with my crush I just completely change my personality and start to be super rude for no reason... idk what’s wrong with me because I’m an ENFP and this type of people tend to be flirty by their nature, BUT WHEN I’M TRYING TO FLIRT FR I JUST SUCK
ENFP problem: The reason we tend to procrastinate/abandon projects is because we grow so mentally exhausted from our own imagination, that the exhaustion actually transcends to become physical so we feel the urge to "rest" and watch RU-vid (as I'm sure some of you are doing right now - as am I). Trouble is, RU-vid can be an awfully inspirational and stimulating place online, and that just feeds our imagination further - and before we know it, we've re-read our favourite Harry Potter book, watched 2 Pixar films, made 3.5 pieces of artwork, learned All Star by Smash Mouth on piano, and have researched something obscure about Ancient Egypt, and we STILL need to hand in our paper (of which we've only written 2 paragraphs) by 11:59pm tonight.
Hey! The lazy man is the genius you send in to solve the problem no one else can solve. We are brilliant! And we *will* find an easier way of doing that thing. LoL
Do u also have a sense of responsibility that, we ENFPs are sent here to bring strong change to our communities, societies and the world in general? I really have that inside of me and fuck I way too much about the future too
@@harshjain3122 yoooo I feel that to my core like I always feel like I was sent to make a change or help the world in some way. I also feel like a guardian especially to my friends like I was just sent to protect people
Omg some people have asked if I was flirting with them and I got so shocked, like I didn’t realize that me just talking to my friends came off as flirting-
This video is so related to me. I'm an ENFP and i like to talk to my friends by jumping from one topic to another topic cuz i dunno.. I just wanna do it. And yeah, most of my friends are introverts!
Yes I have a bad habit of accidentally being a jerk and then I realize what I said and I start apologizing profusely because my mental wellbeing depends on it-
nobody: me: **screen shotting all of these and sending them to my friend who clearly has no interest in MBTI hoping he’ll read them all and suddenly like them**
I screenshot most of these to put in my MBTI photo album with hundreds and hundreds of pictures so I can look through them and laugh later since none of my immediate friends like MBTI 😌😂
As ENFP I genuinely asking why I have so many introvert friends 😂 Did I have some sort of magic that pull them closer? Even my partner most of the time are introvert 😂
You guys are really nice and interesting, so many ideas and thoughts I guess you're usually misunderstood, but most introverts can't help but feel skeptical when complimented in such bubbly ways lol. Funny enough, ENxPs seem to be the definition of ambiverts, the difference one puts the feelings before the thinking I guess and so on - INTJ
Hello there INTJ, ENFP here. So this is why whenever I compliment my INTJ guy friend, he will pause a bit and then say thanks with an awkward movement. It's just cute to see him like that :3 XD
How many did you screenshot? How many of those did you send to a friend in messenger? How many did you post to social media? Don't be shy rough estimates are fine 😅🤣🤣🤣
I am an INTJ basically dating an ENFP. He is the man of my dreams and we clicked immediately. It's wild. He has said he loved me, I have responded, on multiple occasions - " I love myself too". Wouldn't change it at all.
me being an enfp, i'm always attracted to the silent type. but the the interest fades away really because we're too different. but i find i'm pretty compatible with someone of the similar vibe BUT more responsibe and a tad grounded.
I agree. Honestly I m like, okay this girl is silent, lemme talk to her and see if she has a problem. I mean, with time she definitely starts talking to me but the level of openness we expect from them, never gets fulfiled. It always feels like 'oh am I missing something, why isn't she opening up' and like, I have options but holy fuck I get super attracted to intro types. Solution is simple: we must lower our expectations, learn to concentrate a lil more on our own lives and not be always seeking out to be someone's emotional ventout. It feels good, but with time, u will understand that it is kinda taxing on urself too. And I clear things with my partner. Now, my current isn't so comfortable to talk in public but will 10/10 can say stuff on texts, so I clear stuff up and we both change a lil bit and meet at a middle ground. I mean, that's how relationships work. Both have to mutually adjust a lil bit and focus on growth in our respective careers or studies or anything we want to achieve. And yeah, it's okay to show that u are horny, don't keep it inside. Even if u have expectations with ur significant ones, tell them that u expected this and this, let them know so it doesn't get built up in ur heart. Cuz we can be all hearty and sweet whilst having a stone crumbling down our hearts
WOW- That's awesome! The thing about our spontaneity is that no one knows why we are! Because... Every ENFP is like every other ENFP and every other ENFP is like no other ENFP! But from an ENFP's perspective, I'd say it's because of our mixed up traits! And we are very indecisive! Which makes an interesting person if you ask me! I hope I didn't get so jumbled up that you can't understand me - An Indecisive ENFP
I also have been pretty curious about intjs lately after i read tjat they are my most compatible type for marrige. I don't think i ever met an intj though.
ENFP here: Is it just me, or do my brethren sometimes make random noises *squeals and and doorbell hums* when they're content or excited or just thinking or perhaps all the time
I find this hilarious; I taught myself perfect pitch (which IS possible, I swear) and now I associate different pitches with different songs. So when I’m happy, I may squeal with excitement, then realized I squealed in C#, and then start singing “Dear Theodosia” from Hamilton in a Leslie Odom Jr. voice because the first note is C#. And if a witness were to be in the room watching, they’d be wildly confused. 😂
HELLO MY FELLOW ENFP’S SORRY IM LATE TO THE PARTY I WAS BUSY AND BY BUSY I MEAN I FORGOT TO CLICK ON THE NOTIFICATION WHEN I SAW IT BECAUSE I WAS WATCHING AN UMBRELLA ACADEMY EDIT AND I RANDOMLY REMEMBERED TO WATCH IT IN THE MIDDLE OF ALGEBRA CLASS SO IM HERE NOW. HI!!!
@@pentaholicproductions5468 OMG I *LOVE* KLAUS I USED TO HAVE A CARDBOARD CUTOUT OF HIM BUT THEN I BROUGHT HIM TO THE COMMUNITY POOL TO GET MARRIED TO HIM AND MY EX-HUSBAND GOT JEALOUS AND RIPPED OFF HIS HEAD SO THEN WE HAD A FUNERAL AND WE HAD TO THROW HIM OUT SO NOW HES IN THE GARBAGE rip my klaus cardboard cutout 2020-2020 i hope you’re having fun playing tennis with Ben and Reginald
@@RavenStrawman OMG WAIT I THINK I REMEMBER YOU FROM A FRANK JAMES LIVE STREAM A WHILE AGO I COULD BE WRONG BUT DOES THIS EMOJI MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU BY ANY CHANCE 🐶
I'm an ENFP and this is the most releatable video ever Edit: also bc I'm literally procrastinating + being plagued by intrusive thoughts as I watch lmao
I feel personlly attacked. Not really, can't wait to show this to my brother. Omg I didn't know I was such a mess. It's good to know I'm not the only one.
I can marry this video :| ♡ I always was confused whether my type is the right one at all since I wasn't sure about being an extrovert or an introvert; and now I see this feeling is exactly why I'm an ENFP. Sorry for doubting in you, dear character
I, an ENFP, was laughing maniacally incomprehensible while watching this shit because i can relate to EVERY single one of this (i was suppose to sleep at 10PM but i pulled an all-nighter and is now 5AM)
"ENFP find it is much easier to be motivated doing something for someone else than it is for themselves." THIS IS SOOOOOO ACCURATE OMG. THAT'S LITERALLY A STRUGGLE. One day I literally read my brother's 20-page essay to correct his mistakes until 3am when I should have studied for MY exams.
OMG this is so accurate. my ENFP friend likes to adopt introverts and I was one of them. because of that, I now have a group of friends consisting of introverts (INTP, INFP, ISFJ, INFJ, INTJ). He's the only extrovert in the group lol. Btw i am INTP.
Hello, fellow ENFP Here, and may I just ask: *Has anyone else tried to recite the Star Spangled Banner backwards on roller skates? I highly recommend, it is thrilling*
At this point, I don’t even say “of course” instead of “you’re welcome” it goes more like this: Me: *helps someone out of the kindness of my extroverted introverted ENFP heart* Them: Thank you! Me: ...yup
Man, am I the only one who finds these memes a bit depressing? Like, there's so much I need to do but can't bring myself to.. And knowing that it's not just a phase but a part of my personality.. yikes.
Please understand that your MBTI type is not a box. I love mbti cause I find it fascinating because I love psychology and people. But it does not define me. For example, I am NOT impulsive in any way. I see mbti as a guideline more than rules. I will change and grow as a person and so will you. If you want to work in procrastination; work on yourself! Don’t let your mbti type be a hinderance! It’s supposed to be fun! You can grow and adapt as a person! You are not confined to “ENFP”☺️❤️
That's why i have a list of things, every time i think of something i write it there and anytime i have motivation i do things of the list so i end up finishing something
@@faithseden293 so true. Everyone is special and one of a kind. Enfp or not. I watched dear kristins video of shiulder angels: I imagine the inferior character trait and try to act like that. Kinda works, but I get exhausted sometimes, cause its not my normal being. But it helps to do things better sometimrs.
SLAYYY THAT WOULD BE SO FUN, until everyone starts going crazy with ideas and everyone else is eager to listen so we end up making 40 other group chats for each separate person and idea- And the drama lmao
As an ENFP I also wonder about my E but this makes it make sense. I always wondered if I’m an introvert (well Ambivert, Extrovert is prob my strongest point) because technically I do get energy being by myself. Then I realize I just entertain myself a lot in my own in my own mind/space.
I keep seeing how ENFPs are compatible with INTJs which got me curious about how their minds work. I guess these memes would be enough research material for me.
😂😂😂. I also lately have been interseted in intjs after i read that they were the most compatible type for enfps. Y'all really sound like someone i would be attracted to, but i don't think i ever met an intj though.
I'm writing a novel and the character that I'm thinking of is an ENFP. It kinda scares me at how relatable it gets for me when I compare this video to my own character.. Probably cause I'm an INFJ?..
🙋🏻♀️ENFP here who thought she was INFJ for 10 years! It's the NF temperament, I think. INFJ is most extroverted of introverts, and ENFP most introverted of extroverts, so we're both kinda ambiverted.
I’m writing a novel and my main character is an INFJ, while I’m an ENFP! I love this! I have a few similarities with my INFJ, but honestly, I think she’s just better than me in so many areas. So much more humble and knowledgeable... though, I definitely have a lot more energy than her. Hahaha. Seriously though, there are some times I write stuff with the INFJ and then look at my own life and go, “Oh wait, I do this too-“ 😂
@@Dozeonseven It's honestly fun basing off characters with MBTI. And I might be the first one who includes MBTI into an anime light novel/manga haha. Though there are still a lot of things to learn about on each personalities. I hope I get everything accurately.
As an ENFP, I LOVED a lot of these. especially the adopting introverts ones. However I didn’t like a few that displayed enfps as airheads. One of the biggest misconceptions about us is just that, when really we are some of the most deep and philosophical people you will ever meet. I also didn’t relate to the “ENFPs exist for comic relief and sidekicks” one. I’ve been told by a weird amount of people that I give off “main character vibes” and that my life is like a story. Any other ENFPs have the same thing? ✋
Isn't the guy at the table a different type, maybe an INTJ, who will always see ENFPs that way and never see the truth??? I have officially scored INFP and later ENFP (although INTP first of all but though I have a very high score in logic I looooove feeling and empathy so I believe I have Fi and am somewhere along the NFP continuum), and I know we're deep and philosophical. We may express it whimsically -- a wise choice in many traditions! -- and not everyone has the radar for that, unfortunately (for them). So I didn't take it amiss, and I related to a lot in the video too. Be you and find your peeps!
i relate to 2:00 so fucking much, it's not just story telling though; it's also venting, ranting, within therapy and counselling, talking: everything also 2:51, i always thought i was weird for it honestly LOL
I think i'll never know if I'm an introvert or extravert. "Are you an introvert or were you shut down so many times when trying to be yourself that you adapted by acting like an introvert" Introversion is my comfort zone. I feel safe and don't have to fear that people actually find me annoying and dont want me around. And I have a really good relationship with myself, spending hours doing an internal conversation about the meaning of life.. after all I'm the only one who truly understands me right ? Extraversion is my source of happiness. Whenever I'm in a good mood or feel bolder that usual and act like an extravert that's when I have the happiest moments. That's when I feel like I'm tasting life for real. That's what I would like my life to be like all the time. Moments with people are literally my engine.. And as I grow and become more confident i begin to act more like an extravert. And I like that! So what am i in the end lol When I do the french test I get infp, with the english one i get enfp I do relate more to enfp's tho X) i'll go with that If anyone relates and has thought about it as well, please feel free to add to my thinking :)
I'm wondering about myself the way you wonder in your first paragraph. (And did you figure it out in the past year? ☺️) Also wondering if you are seen as relatively introverted in French-speaking cultures and more extroverted in English-speaking ones.
@@globalheartwarming totally forgot about that comment haha! Now I'm pretty sure that I'm an extrovert, at least I know that I'm the happiest when living my life like one. Key points for me were the fact that most of the time my loneliness was more endured than enjoyed, when I was living more like an introvert. I didn't like being an introvert, and I think it is a very clear hint that I'm not. You could be right about the factor of cultural differences, maybe these culture have slightly different definitions for introvert and extroverts. Or maybe it's because in places where I speak English I tend to be more of an extrovert, bc it's in contexts where I feel more free, confident, less judged. While I speak french in my daily life with people I've not always felt confident around. So even tho extrovert and introvert don't correspond to confident vs shy, the tests still quite take that into account as "symptoms" to know which one you are. However, it feels good to know we're several people having the same questionings, hope things will get clearer for you too!
I am really productive and active when I am interacting with people but there is always a time I just want to be alone that hella confused me when someone asked me if I am an introvert or extrovert but when I find out I am a ENFP that explains why I act like that. Also I am the energizer of my group of friends they say I am loud but if the topic doesn't interest me at all I am so quiet and just zoning out and imagining things
omg i so relate to memes about how we are both introverted and extroverted at the same time like especially after a long day at school being my extroverted self i usually become my introverted self
0:17 no wonder i always felt lonely 😂😂😂 how can i not?! introverts seem to be the only ones able to focus and listen to all my thoughts. 0:46 too accurate 😂
In true ENFP fashion, I should be working right now, but I have just found out I fall under the ENFP family so here I am watching ENFP memes to validate myself. I am also afraid the boss might notice I am on my phone for so long that I haven't had any work done the past 30 minutes
I'm and INFJ and I would like to tell ENFPs that I like their personality but I get a feeling they would tease me if I compliment them since I'm usually not talkative.... *Sighh
An ENFP moment is when you're watching this video and laughs at the memes then suddenly had a realization that you are not productive enough and got sad when you should've be able to complete your goals
I'm cackling at how accurate this is- I have a bunch of introvert friends that made me so worried when they're sad, insecure af, always with my meme and stuff even if i knew i had many life responsibilities to finish, my mood can change from a whole clown to a depress lil girl- Oh wow i'm questioning myself now AM I EVEN PEOPLE?😂
Fellow ENFP's do you also isolate a lot to recharge and then jump back to wanting to speak to anyone? I just found these memes and they feel so relatable. Also now that we are all isolated I'm commenting random people's memes and stories etc more than before. Has this been the case for you too? Sometimes I have the feeling that I've done the test wrong, but then I get so identified by many of these memes and descriptions. Anyway, happy new year everyone!!
@@hehehe785 I was going to agree with you- But now I'm just here to say I love your profile picture and name- That is literally the most glorious yet cursed thing in existence-
4:05 WAAAIT, does this actually happen a lot to other ENFPS?! I SWEAR, the other day I was trying to flirt with this super cute girl who had chill alternative vibes and I ended up telling her that she acts like she's on something all the time. She was severely offended and I had to come to terms with the fact that you can't always say the first thing that comes to your mind...
@@samfsrr yeahhh, I’m very eager to interact with other people, but I’m still learning how to actually do that. Everyone says I’m super good at it, but I’m a bit skeptical of that to say the least 🤷🏻♀️
Nobody cares...other than me because i am an enfp and if i say i don't care you can have other emotions than happy and i don't like making people other than happy.I dont even know why am i continue to write that.
@@kinsei844 Well my dude I wish you the best life possible, may you find the Sun inside your soul, may you find peace within the war in your heart, may you find the purest happiness in our world to shine in the dark like the Moon
Is it just me or does anybody else think that the sidekicks and comic relief change my mind meme was deliberately made to make all us ENFPs go "HEY WE CAN BE MAIN CHARACTERS TOO" or am I just proving the point being an ENFP
How extreme of introvert you are? Me: Yes, as extreme as a maladaptive daydreamer. How extreme of a extrovert you're? Me: Yes, as extreme as a hyperactive guy? What do you think about doing Household chores? Me: What are thooose?
7:21 oooooooooooohhh my goshhh this is soooo trueeee. Everyone compliments me I’m nice (exactly sentence of ‘you are a nice person’) but then part of my brain silently monologued ‘what if I’m not nice’. Another person compliments me the same and I feel so bad cuz I know deep down I’m not nice as what they thought. Pretty dark yo ENFP but well I guess I do my job well in being part of happy moment for all people’s life. -proud ENFP