Enna's Cursed Sleepover Story 

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I was just about to ask hahahaha tskr!

I couldn't here you, you weren't shouting loud enough. I just assume the game she plays is RU-vid Simulator, can you link the stream pls, haha jk /s

Hey what game is this?

@@phmeeeeeeeee fall guys

I don't know how you got 1.4k likes without a single comment so here I'm welcome or not first comment

@@justsomerandomweeb11 Oh hey. That's a good question. I'm unsure how did this happen. If not for your comment, I wouldn't have known.

@@justsomerandomweeb11 I mean when I read this I was like "yup" and cant think of anything else to say in replies

@@kittenmimi5326 lol 😂😆

Why the "but"? This so so annoying. Why do people say "but" when it makes no sense. Those two things don't contradict each other!!!

I know right? Why talk about such mindless, barbaric, sinful mentalities when we could discuss the theories of Archimedes and Nostradamus like real men?

Alright but for real I get so philosophic at late night that discussing about ethics with someone is such a common and enjoyable outcome

Lmao on my last sleepover we just talked for like 2 hours about this world being so awfully programmed and bugged while playing chess. That was weird, but cool tho

@@brsxyz was it 3-player chess??

Does betting on whose dick longer is a kind of philosophical discussion?

I actually thought it was mean for her mom to laugh. But then again I don't know the full chain of emotional reactions they had.

@@paulvontarsus729 i think what her mom really laughed at was enna’s reaction and her attempt to stop the rated conversation as she asked innocently, even if she really knew what was going on. she really told the girls, “i’m good at chess” even if they are three people, asking if they were going to play monopoly or telling them, “oh yeah! we’re on the bed, let’s sleep~” girlie really tried so hard to kill the talk 😭

consulting to parents should always be the best way to handle this. it's the safest follow up

@@bmo3778 really depends on the parents sadly.

@@bmo3778 If I said this to my parents I would never have been able to see my friends again. I'm 18 and they still treat me like a small child. Some parents are just shitty and you should keep to yourself sadly :/

Asexual people do exist.

@@thatdarnskag5043 but I still by myself

@@thatdarnskag5043 of course but you can be by yourself and not be asexual

@@thatdarnskag5043 in asexual and im by myself

gonna quote this my guy, thank you

If there is anything you can rely on in this world, it's that people will find a way to blame pretty much anyone for pretty much anything 🤷🏼‍♂️

Enna’s reaction to this is very unnatural and irrational response, and literally anyone without crippling social anxiety can blame her... I get not wanting to partake (even if i would), but my god... Just say no, people. There is literally nothing traumatizing about this, and those who disagree are just spoiled/privileged or mentally dysfunctional.

@@midasvijfwinkel6116 That's because some people are more aware, and can see the whole picture, so they realize things you don't... Just because *you* can't find something wrong with a subject, doesn't mean that fault doesn't exist.

@@schnek8927 Ah yes and that person must be you! How foolish of me. Also kinda funny how you projected that whole 'there is absolutely nothing wrong with this' onto me, even though I had nothing to do with that. My personal stance, if you're interested, is 'well that sucks, I can see how that would make you very uncomfortable, but on the other hand, they were just doing what they like and expected you to do or not do what you like or don't like.' I don't particularly think anyone is at fault in a situation like that. No one was hurt intentionally and Enna seems to have gotten over it as well so no harm no foul. Side note, you're kind of a douche for calling anyone who can't live up to your standards mentally dysfunctional. Just because YOU can't find anything wrong with that statement, doesn't mean that fault doesn't exist. See how that works? :)

@@midasvijfwinkel6116 You are right. A truly sound advice.

well when she said 14 i realized not middle school by the US terms. In most other countries, Grade school is 1-6, then secondary is 7-9, then high is 10-12/ So she was either in 9th grade or goign into 10th. So it makes slightly more sense age wise.. It's just offputing to people living in the US becuase we have different age groupings and middle school consists of much younger individuals. That being said by the time i entered 11th grade over half the kids in the entire school had alreayd slept around, and this was very late ninties early 00s, so im sure its much much worse now, since enna sounds younger.

@@SombreroGato True. Assuming this was still Canada (seems likely, since Enna recalls having to stand for/sing the Canadian anthem even in elementary), the split is pretty much as you pointed out, K-6/1-6 being elementary school, 7-9 being junior high and 10-12 being high school in virtually every province. Also, from what you're saying, seems like you're around the same age my younger brother is (I finished high school in 1996, and if my brother had finished school, he'd have graduated in 1999), and with Enna being younger, "experimentation" seems more likely at that time.

@@CanuckGod yeah '02 for me, but most of my friends were from the '00, and '01 classes. Yea i can't immaing ehow it is for kids growing up through school now a days. As i mentioned, while there was alot of those who had sex, it was mostly in the form of more "traditional" sweetheart couples of older ages 16 and up, while gay couples did exist it was almost all women, and almost all were bi/experimenting. I think there was a single out gay guy in the entire school, and everyone knew him because of that.

@@CanuckGod Also about enna, back in our time if someone had asked or suggested something like that, we could've and wouldve easily told them straight off nothanks no way, leave me alone or get lsot and that'd be the end of it. I have a feeling in the modern era Enna may not have had that option and was worried about offending them/hurting feelings. Since nowadays it seems you cant be outright and forthright dissintrested, or spur adavnces wthout being labeled a bigot, or anit gay, w/e. At least that's my personal opinion.

@@SombreroGato If she was 14-15 here in America, she’d have been in 8th grade. Possibly 9th for freshman year high school, but she could’ve still been in middle by our standards then too. For us it goes k4-k5 kindergarten (ages 4-6), 1-5 is Elementary school (ages 6-11), 6-8 is Middle school (ages 11-14), then 9-12 is High school (ages 14-18).

yea bois, OG Halo 4 xboxs hooked up to crts, in different rooms 16player Lan connection, then swap out for n64s Goldeneye/perfect dark tournament. does were da days Boyz

@@SombreroGato now thats the real highlights of life.

Kek, 1st sleepover, during the national bio olympiad, talking lots bout Campbell etc, ends up hooked into minecraft for a while kek.

One of my biggest sleepovers with my friends (well it was more of a school trip) was when I was 15 or 16, and one of the boys snuck in an Xbox 360 and another friend who was in on it brought his controllers as well. We played the shit out of Halo 3 while cracking jokes and eating instant noodles and was one of the most memorable moments of my life.

Lmao halo all night best sleep over

At they least asked and were understanding

@@kyle4563 right imagine if they didn't and just starting experimenting together, while Enna was laying next to them trying to sleep and feeling way to awkward to leave. That would have been so much worse.

Doing curtain things with curtain friends.

aww i hope you're doing better right now homie!!! this was a good and touching read :)

"If respecting your boundaries makes them dislike you, then they never deserved your friendship" While that statement is true, from what we heard, the two of them seemed really chill about Enna excusing herself though. Otherwise, damn, you had it real rough.

🐊

Did you seriously put up with it the whole time just because you wouldn't walk over to talk to the RA and just waited for them to talk to you

@@ffwast that was my thought. Either quit being a pussy and tell em hey bitch I ain't down for this. U did something to get to move from where u were first to that dorm but couldn't do w/e to to fix the situation. Smh

Also, by “friends in Japan” I wonder if she means Millie and Elira

Yeah, long time... Ha, ha, ha...🥺

Regardless of the cheating, which by itself is already horrible, it is still at least inconsiderate to even bring up such a topic in that situation.

So I'm a dude that lost my virginity at 14 and while I wouldn't say I "regret" it, I can recognize that it was probably not good for my development. I def understand her reaction in this situation

@@FerunaLutelou what should they have done instead in your eyes?

Bruh

Basically third-wheeling.

that sounds like a dumb excuse your cousin and female friends made, im sorry that you had to go through life having your experience laughed off or brushed off as you getting "lucky"

@@XxcrimsonarrowxX Well, it has been confusing, to go from "damn dude, you are a real chad", to "I am so sorry that such a bad thing happened to you". Personally, I don't know what to think. On the one hand, it felt good, and it happened so long ago, that I am already beginning to forget how the entire experience went down (it's my only such experience). On the other hand, both the law, and my psychiatrist say that it was wrong and that I am a victim. And I don't know what to think.

@@transformersrevenge9 if it was just your cousin's friends she introduced you to, and they literally did not restrain you, (maybe just mental coercion) id say the R word isnt valid. But if you were physically restrained and/or your Blood relative was involved in ANY way, then yes, def R word, and if so im sorry my dude, i wish the best to you having some kind of recovery. Edit for grammer

@Legato DeadWinters Damn I am sorry you went through that man, I agree with the other person that said that is a dumb excuse your cousin said to you, there are better ways to learn how to do it, that's why there is internet for, there is people's that teach these kind of stuffs at what age did that happen to you, that's if you are ok to answer that, and was they order then you when they did that to you? And if not ok to answer this question I am good either way, I said what I wanted to said:)

Statutory rape laws exist for a reason, because a child is not able to consent. I'm sure it did feel good, but what happened to you was wrong.

I been in a chaotic sleepover but if I myself in Enna situation I'm gonna go walk all by myself to get home even I need to walk to another city I'm not kidding.

My sleep overs didn’t end up with sex but with “surprise dutch ovens”

@@mikellobabilozach3482 same, i seriously would leave in an instant

@@mikellobabilozach3482 That is *actually insane* behaviour, not kidding... A lot of people in these comments are clearly extremely mentally unstable. Am i the only introvert here who's emotionally stable and mentally strong...?

@@schnek8927 lmao kid need to sleep or you'll get mentally unstable like us 🚪👈

BaeRyS approved

thank u Mr. Pancake ❤️

Yeah and to my understanding it is not the norm

To be fair, on the flip side being in such a protective environment might also mean not being able to learn and prepare yourself for such experiences later down the line. I guess we do have more ways of learning things without first-hand experience to accomodate for that, but still

@@MrCh0o It really is a double-edged sword regardless. Sometimes I wish a had been a bit of a "wilder" teenager. I feel like I kinda missed out on a lot of experiences that were so universal for everyone my age. I was always so obsessed about being "mature" and "adult-like". Now that I'm actually at that stage though, I get a bit of FOMO. I don't really have the same liberty I had back then, I can't just do something wild and get away with it because "he was just a teenager". However, part of me just KNOWS that if I had actually done those things, I'd probably feel bad and say things like "I really wish I hadn't done that". No matter what, the only constant seems to be regret, even when you take opposite paths.

Yep 14-15 like mmmmm not a good idea

I thought she said elementary school friends who just went to middle school. That's like 11-12 if they just started at their new middle school

@@Firelavaguy2 that will be crazy to imagine....

and yet people seemingly dont think this behavior is a bad thing. massive yikes

14-15 would be somewhere in the last year of middle school going to their first year of Highschool, depending on the district.

Oh wow, I actually went through a similar experience too (warning: long story incoming, skip if you'd prefer) This one time a bunch of my classmates rented a cabin (there were parents there too, btw). The whole idea was to basically have this little sleepover thing before graduating. The whole class was supposed to come, but in the end only like half the group was able to make it. The worst part is: everyone who I really wanted to come, the people I was familiar with and were already kinda my friends, DIDN'T SHOW UP! So I was basically stuck for a whole night with the crowd of people I just didn't vibe with at all. That sleepover was, without exaggeration, one of the worst nights of my entire life. First of all, they were blasting their GOD AWFUL cringey rap music all day long, which was just absolute torture. I seriously don't understand why people are so afraid of silence that they'll literally do anything to drown out the noise. Silence is so serene and peaceful, it sucks how few people appreciate. I spent most of the day inside the room whilst they were outside making their ruckus. It was nice while it lasted but eventually everyone came inside the room since it was time to "sleep". They then proceeded to turn off the lights and start grinding on each, dry humping, and vaping. It was super uncomfortable because I was just under the cover of my bedsheets, and I would peek from time to time to watch them. I just felt so out of place. I won't act like I was a clean naive person either. I watched porn almost everyday during my teenagehood. But it was always something I kept to myself. It was disturbing to see my classmates be so comfortable acting that way around each other. At least I thought that, after they had their fun, they would relax and go back to sleep. But they then proceeded to talk for the ENTIRE NIGHT, so I was never able to sleep until the sun rose. They stayed up all night talking about the most boring and mind-numbing shit imaginable. They really were just the most generic and god-awful dialogues I've heard in my entire life. It was as if God himself just gave up and lost all his creativity and let his unmotivated intern write the rest of the story. I really can't complain. I went there willingly, but only because I thought I would be surrounded by a different crowd. I think the most gut-wretching part of that whole ordeal was seeing my crush be so comfortable with the whole thing. I had really grown a liking to her over the course of multiple years since she always seemed like someone different, someone that didn't care about being part of the norm. She was nerdy and geeky and super smart, so of course what loser like wouldn't fall in love with someone like that. It really was a stab in the heart, and it just made me feel alienated from just humanity as a whole. After that I kinda just gave up on relationships, of any kind, for a while. And I'm still kinda stuck in that rut. I just can't really trust anyone anymore, I've decided to just trust myself. It's peaceful for now, but I'll regret it later...

I've had the same thought. I love hearing about these wild experiences people had as kids, but can't identify with any of it lol. My childhood was pretty bland. Not in a bad way, but it was fairly uneventful. My sleepovers were mostly video games, internet videos, talking about dumb stuff, and goofing off.

@@notabot2351 you guys went to sleepovers?

I think it's just the inevitable bias stemming from the fact that it's people with crazy experiences who we end up hearing from because a person with overall much more narrower/less crazy life experiences is less likely to end up going for such a volatile, but also creative and ultimately people-oriented occupation as an entertainer (or anything alike)

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Dw as a girl I fear other girls too

@@gura-san5329 Same

Sometimes??? ALL THE FUCKING TIME

@@gura-san5329 same

Yooo ace gang

OMG same!! While I was listening to this I just kept thinking "This sounds like my worst nightmare and I would have cried 100%". The "talks" are bad enough but I wouldn't be able to handle this at all.

Meanwhile I'm ace but on the other end. I haven't been in that situation, but I feel like I would have been fine

@@annaairahala9462 tbh It depends. If we're having a normal conversation about that stuff, I would listen and comment from time to time. Like "wait you did what? Omgg" I can't lie, I would feel a little uncomfortable, but I wouldn't cry. The point is, if someone started watching porn in my presence or even DOING IT in another room, I would cry, a lot.

I got the feeling the boyfriend thing was all talk lol

@@codytappen super hot, they do it all the time at like 14, yeah he doesn't exist.

@@Falllll When I was like 13-14, I was friends with a girl from my class, who was doing it with a 19 year old dude. And she wasn't the only case. Teenage girls really went for boys who could get smokes and alcohol.

She might be too young to know that it's still cheating. She might have the mentality of like "We're just experimenting; also we're both girls, I'm not doing it with another guy so it's probably not cheating" or something at the time. I'm not saying she wasn't wrong though, but she probably realized when she got older.

@@liarfacestudio Is girl on girl cheating tho? I know of a situation where one of my friends had a gay experience in taiwan, and when hus gf found out about it, she laughed out loud.

I mean they did give her an out

Big relate on the second paragraph, wasnt even worth my time or money to go. Never went to any class reunions either

tyty 💕

The biggest redeeming quality is they weren't mean to her and didn't force themselves on her.

14 already got smashed idk man but sometimes it's not a good idea, but I'm just a maidenless runt so who I my to judge.

Yeah but I fell that Sam Force that situation in the moment she say yeah come to my home les have fun so I don't know what think Did she stopped because of Alice say something? Or she stopped because notice what she was doing? You can find people like this a that people don't have good intentions

Remember kids okay to cheat because "hormones" and being "young".

@@alexjake56 NO it's not good or ogey for Young lads to learn to cheat on relationship it's not a good etiquette and it's create disgusting people pls leave.

yeah

Same

Honestly everytime I hear about these "experimental" stories with the same sex to prepare for a hetero relationship or see what its like, I can't help but think these people are unknowingly in the closet or bi. Won't be surprised if for a lot of them that curiosity remains in adulthood.

They might have been in an open relationship.

i'll play devil's advocate here. When i was in high school i was in a relationship with a girl who also had a gf from before, but both were ok with that arangement. I was well away my girl was also having sexy times with the othe girl. Didnt bother me. Ship ended after a few months anyways, i think everyone was just having fun. Ended up hooking up with the other girl after they broke up the next year as well. I think that kind of thing is moe common at that younger freer stage of life, than when we all get older and look for actual strong longterm emotional connections

So you never got to a sleepover because of a very slim chance of something like that to happen

@@SombreroGato Yes bullshit

@blahblahblah1312 I didn't really know what happened i think they just touch each other, i hear wet things and their moaning tho so i don't really know. And the reason we ignore people when this things happened bcuz it gets awkward and introverts hate awkward. It's like we want to listen but we're cringing so hard we want to leave our body behind and just run away as far as possible. It's not like I don't want to tell them what I'm uncomfortable of it's just i feel bad for people that realized that someone saw/hear them doing private or embarrassing stuff it's like i can feel their embarrassment and think that it will leave a bad memory for them, it makes me feel like I did something bad by telling them i heard them every single moan, words, and sound they did. idk maybe it's just me. Maybe the other introverts have different opinions about this.

@@_Anim0sity_ You had some degree of dignity to avoid these things. Ignore the idiot above, you are at least have a sense of why it is bad and are able to go it on your own,

It's normal for 2 experimental people around that age, but inviting a 3rd party when it's cleared they are trying to be oblivious is just weird and a big no-no.

@@JArt872 absolutely

@@JArt872 TBH Enna shouldn't have played dumb at that point and instead be straightforward, but everyone in that situation was a hormonal teenager, and in spite of that it didn't end badly.

It’s not super weird, they were just figuring some stuff out, and 14-15 is a pretty normal time to do it. They should have been more considerate of Enna though, but they got there eventually and realised she was uncomfortable, so they don’t seem to be bad kids.

@@teethcoat4274 these kids would be in middle school, I swear if I heard someone say my first time was at 14 I'd just leave cuz wtf

How old were you back than?

Please do not tell me 14

I would’ve dropped the sleepover stuff for good after that 0_o

Introversion is a rarity in western nations. Particularly in America. No i mean seriously, there really are extroverted as hell.

You should take pride that you can be alone by yourself and be fine. You may get some sense of dignity if you know yourself well.

@@friktogurg9242 I do though it did take me some years to finally accept that it was okay that I was different, thought different and saw things different, it's why I had a small number of friends and almost not family. But thank you for you kind words 😀

ouch

Honestly, as an introvert, I’m so glad I’m not an extrovert. That kind of dependency on company seems so hard to sustain, it must suck. Plus I think being introverted means you can set up a healthy distance in relationships to avoid burnout.