Envy Is The Enemy of Masculinity - Responsibility and self improvement vs envy

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Envy and masculinity does not go together and it's not good for men's mental health, or anyone's. Now with the US election, it is time to ask: Is envy a motivator for certain politicians and political parties?
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@Dethcrush 4 года назад

"Don't compare yourself with other people; compare yourself with who you were yesterday." - A wise man

@teddrosenthal 4 года назад

Jordan Peterson said that

@pentagonialdime5862 4 года назад

This is a lot of why I don’t like social media. It’s a snapshot of a moment in someone’s life that portrays perfection and happiness, and people compete over that. I hate it.

@mantyxxx 4 года назад

Well put. For that reason i don't own any social madia. I don't even have FB anymore. I miss literally nothing, except I'm less annoyed by some stupid posts/thinks people say. And guess what? Still I'm in contact with the same people I've been before. You really don't need social media, unless you do business/youtub/etc.

@alexboehm2107 4 года назад

Social media is cancer and makes teenage girls insecure

@Kamal... 4 года назад

100%

@GAZEREAPER 4 года назад

Exactly. I had been removing all of my social media over the last months and I really, really, don't miss anything. I still see the same people, maybe even more because contact isn't as lazy as sharing a meme anymore, they have to message me directly now as I do them, and in turn we talk and call more, look forward to seeing eachother more. I never was one to show envy, but social media did drain my time and my attention to do the things I love; creating- instead of consuming.

@MNkno 4 года назад

@@jaymannewell, well said. How you use the tools is up to you. We need to be making more positive use of social media... especially now that we know the pitfalls.

@coreyS33 4 года назад

My life has been tumbling into nothingness the last several years, for myriad reasons. But I'm starting to rebound, and I recently found your channel. The idea of strong people is staying firmly in my mind. I'm grateful for influencers such as yourself.

@HighColorado 4 года назад

Stay the course, Don't be dissuaded, reach out to others who seem to inspire you.. never give up. You will find success and happiness!

@VKSgtSLaughter 4 года назад

Keep believing in yourself brother, you can do it!

@mikavikesland9611 4 года назад

Keep away from porn! As keeping away from it will forever make you closer to your goal of Glory!

@kev1734 4 года назад

I have been rebuilding myself over the past few years and I feel the same as you, people like Bjorn actually don't know how much they help us :) I wish you the best mate!

@trillz31 4 года назад

Is there something that interested in? Perhaps join an organization in your area that has a positive effect for your community or an organization of some sort that has similar interests or hobbies.

@SteveWFitch 4 года назад

"The spirit of envy can destroy; it can never build." - Margaret Thatcher Another great topic, Bjorn!

@prayunceasingly2029 4 года назад

Ayn rand would likely say the exact same.

@srddnrsmn7320 4 года назад

Fuck Margaret Thatcher.

@antlerman7644 4 года назад

Margret fucked the housing system in the UK. She privatised counsel housing causing the market crash. I don't like her at all.

@redrumtm3435 4 года назад

The economy was tanking, Thatcher had no choice but to create money out of thin air - and our housing stock was the easiest, and safest way of doing it. A Prime Minister's job is to manage the state economy: she had nothing to do with the global crash. This is how foreign economic expansion is funded without taxing us directly for it. I should keep my mouth shut about this sort of thing as it is frowned upon, but I think it's time *we* knew.

@Redrosewitch 4 года назад

I've never been a fan of Mrs Thatcher. But she was a very strong woman. And I can't imagine her letting envy take the place of motivation.

@stephenparkes9543 4 года назад

Envy and Narcissistic Personality is truly the epidemic of our time.

@northernraven2939 4 года назад

I appreciate you defining Masculinity as something other then toxic. Sköl

@brendanq5323 4 года назад

If I am ever in Norway. Or if you ever find yourself in south Florida usa. I would love to grab a beer and swap stories. I couldn't agree more with you about 99 percent of things you believe and say.

@brendanq5323 4 года назад

Oh sweet! I'm in vero beach. 20th and us1.

@brendanq5323 4 года назад

Dudes! I go to the king's humidor in Melbourne all the time!

@junebug0o0 4 года назад

Tampa Fl here. Lets make this happen lol

@ybrueckner5589 4 года назад

I am amazed there’s anybody in Florida who thinks like Bjorn how the heck did you turn out like that it’s awesome!!

@Torsteinhauger 4 года назад

You should come to Norway my friend. You will fall in love with everything in here... 👍

@throwsbear4334 4 года назад

'Life Isn't fair, work harder' was drilled into me a child

@benb50001 4 года назад

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Bjorn! I think you're absolutely right about how poisonous envy can be if we aren't careful. An effective way if dealing with it, for me, has been to make an effort to speak my envy out loud when I feel it. I find that the moment I give it a voice it stops being envy, and is transformed into admiration and respect for another man's accomplishment.

@bay9876 4 года назад

My Swedish Uncle use to say with a glitter in his eye, "Don't be yellous." I helps to realize envy is not a good thing but comedy sometimes really drives home the lesson.

@Redrosewitch 4 года назад

Oh yes. A good laugh can cut right through envy.

@sjohnson4882 4 года назад

My grandfather (from Sweden) used to tell my dad and his brothers, "You be good boys or you will go to Yale."

@bay9876 4 года назад

@madelfuns a He was a bit of a Comedian but he sadly passed away a few years ago I miss his funny way he shared his life's lessons.

@gurnstein 4 года назад

Envy is the weak brother of admiration

@attilathehun2537 4 года назад

It has been my experience in this brief 40 years of life that when you find a very greedy person also you have found a very envious person.

@SSRT_JubyDuby8742 4 года назад

Very true.

@ladeda7033 4 года назад

They are actually mentally ill

@123tonyking 4 года назад

100%

@stanleythorsen4363 4 года назад

Why someone has to envy a best friend . to keep thinking they will always be friends. I dont think its possible

@silverman824 4 года назад

I really hate when I feel envious of others sometimes, it really is destructive and wish I could turn it off when it rises up. I usually just distance myself from those I'm envious of so that my mind clears up.

@silverman824 4 года назад

@White Man you're right, we get caught up in illusions and forget some people wear shiny masks to hide their own issues. Life is better when you literally own what you have rather than living in debt for vanity.

@nicolasmelo1211 4 года назад

Same here from Argentina!!

@silverman824 4 года назад

@@nicolasmelo1211 Salute from the UK my friend!

@christineloz1686 4 года назад

natural..you are the bigger person to be cognizant

@silverman824 4 года назад

@@christineloz1686 Appreciate it!

@theredbaron057 4 года назад

I am grateful for our talks in the woods, until next time!

@MrBrachiatingApe 4 года назад

Eating a steak after a good workout, about to spend some time writing, and hanging out listening to Bjorn. Just wish we could all hang out in person, out in the old woods there in Norway.

@david2284180 4 года назад

Eating animals is starting to gross me out, but I can’t stop.

@Thedisciplemike 4 года назад

@@david2284180 you shouldn't feel like you should stop. If you are grossed out because you feel it is unhealthy, do some more research as animal products give us a plethora of vitamins and nutrients otherwise scarce in the plant world. If you are grossed out because you feel like it is disrespectful to animals then go out and hunt or kill your own food. Or shop locally where you know the animals aren't abused. Veganism can be terrible for you if you do not enough complete proteins

@Billbarker57 4 года назад

If it helps it was written a couple thousand years ago, in so many words: Galatians 5:26 “Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another”

@ladeda7033 4 года назад

Love the campfire idea... Its calming, it brings focus, its comforting, and sets the ambiance for the relation even though its only a video. It creates that campfire chat that makes one ready to hear wisdom, understanding, and knowledge. Nice. 👍

@tychovanvugt5531 4 года назад

Love your videos Bjorn! I hope Dr. Peterson gets well soon

@TheQNSzzz 4 года назад

We need more men like you. Humble and wise, with a wonderful sense of humour. Your son is lucky to have you as a role model. I am so pleased that my son has decided to go to rugby training tonight after a 2 year break from it. Camaraderie, respect for women (in sport and otherwise). Any show of ego is fodder for healthy banter. 😁

@xDrikenx 4 года назад

Man, this channel just keeps getting better and better. So happy i found this channel.

@wolfmauler 4 года назад

Cheers for this video, this is an important facet of masculinity that men neglect to think about. In fact it is a toxic compulsion in many men's lives. You have to be above things of this sort. Get what you want for yourself and don't worry about the easier time of it some people seem to have. Things that are handed to us are not as worthwhile the kind of success we worked hard for

@kennydyas688 4 года назад

Exactly right. When you work hard to have something, it builds your confidence as a man and motivates you to do more to.improve yourself.

@soundkode 4 года назад

My God, I respect you so very much.

@nikolajgrunig7993 4 года назад

This might in your eyes come across as nitpicky, but i ask you not to take God's name in vain. If you believe in God, you should know that it is one of the commandments, that you shall not take His name in vain. If you don't believe in Him, what do you gain by using His name in vain? I truly believe in my heart that God of whom we read in the Bible is the one true living God. And so, i believe it is harmful for you to break that commandment. I wish you nothing but the best, may God be with you and guide you to Himself. Jesus is the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Jesus.

@petecastle4791 4 года назад

@atheodora lastname As a Christian, when you see another Christian stumble, we are supposed to correct them on spiritual transgressions that they may or may not be blind to, in a humble way. However, this can be misconstrued with sanctimony and self-righteousness, but that in my experience is more common among atheists and secularists. “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.” Galatians 6:1

@soundkode 4 года назад

@@nikolajgrunig7993 This use is in no way using God's name in vain. I'm a Christian.

@JohnLee-ui5gd 4 года назад

Me too . head on straight. Rare in today's world.

@bigredneck789 4 года назад

You are amazingly articulate. I wish I could fluently understand your language. It's obvious you are a man of great integrity and honor. We need more people like you explaining the true priorities in life. Thank you, once again, for sharing.

@ElronHumpperdink 4 года назад

Instead of “they don’t deserve what they have,” I look at other competitors etc and say; “if they can do it, I can.”

@golagiswatchingyou2966 4 года назад

What if health and biology does not allow you to have what you want? Do you rage? Do you become resentfull? Sould you just live in service of others while remaining unhappy and miserable forever? Is life realy worth living anymore if that's the case?

@basilbaby7678 4 года назад

My brother always aspired to do very physical occupations like be a Marine, bouncer, firefighter, etc...but he was a severe epileptic. That was never going to be his destiny. He just spent his life fixated on what he couldn’t do, instead of exploring and developing his other innate gifts. He’s gone now, and passed away as a frustrated and bitter man. He was 38 years old. Life is short. I like to think, we come into this world to reveal who we are, but if you set your mind on a definitive criteria...you might be missing out. That’s my two cents. I hope you find contentment.

@mercilessmountains4682 4 года назад

@@golagiswatchingyou2966 Try the Wim Hof method, and never say you are incapable of doing a certain thing. I know there are physical facts and impossibilities, but you are capable of MUCH more than you realize.

@golagiswatchingyou2966 4 года назад

@@mercilessmountains4682 I''m not sure if just sitting in the cold and breathing will do me any good, it won't cure me of who I am, nor will it magically make me a beter person, I have a hard time wanting to be someone, I dislike being itself, I could be more, I try to do more but the things I actualy wanted are not clear to me, everything I can do and know is something I don't care about, others care, it makes me bitter that we are so limited in what we can do, that we have to endure this life for so long. there are things I want and work towards but it's such a long way with so many people and events that honestly bore me to death, boredom is my worst enemy, second is misanthropy.

@svenjosefsson8007 4 года назад

Lifes not fair. Never a truer statement spoken. Just what I taught my girls from an early age. Some people thought that was harsh. I think it was a kindness.

@svenjosefsson8007 4 года назад

@Jim Nickles Cheers Jim!

@beckywarren517 4 года назад

You sound like me

@Dennoire 4 года назад

Anyone else envious of his wisdom?

@julianfrede3934 4 года назад

Bjørn, thanks for this video. You spoke out of my heart. I discussed the same topic over and over again with my friend and partner in business. Envy people don‘t make good employee’s too. Which leads them no to get what they are envious over. I don‘t think that envy only is a thread to masculinity, but also to femininity. Can you imagine a Mother full of envy? I‘d rather not.

@thekg6811 4 года назад

Great video as always Bjorn. No point in wasting energy being envious, if you want to achieve something, your mind is a wonderful thing to allow you to do that. 🤘🏼😎🤘🏼

@omarbaassiri8689 4 года назад

I am from Lebanon. The whole country functions on Envy generated from the systematic self-deprivation of the human soul. Love you man.

@AlvaKelly 4 года назад

"Envy is the only name she could find for the monstrous thing she faced, but it was much worse than envy: it was the profound hatred of life, of success and of all human values, felt by a certain kind of mediocrity ... the kind who feels pleasure on hearing about a stranger's misfortune. It was hatred of the good for being the good ... hatred of ability, of beauty, of honesty, of earnestness, of achievement and, above all, of human joy." (The New Left (later titled Return of the Primitive), by Ayn Rand.)

@maestro7058 4 года назад

I couldn't agree with you more man! GREAT GREAT VIDEO! THANK YOU SIR!!!!

@roseannereddy9687 4 года назад

I think this is probably true of women, too. I used to envy my sister's nose! How silly of me. Now I'm glad I have my own Neanderthal nose. Lol!

@Redrosewitch 4 года назад

Oh we have to be very careful of envy. Especially with the ones we're closest to. I was the same with my sister who's a lot more confident than I am. But when I stopped comparing myself to her. And looked at both our achievements. It meant I could feel happy for all that she's done without envy getting in the way.

@jonathanbowling2904 4 года назад

Bjorn, you videos give me such a peace in my life. If I ever could, I would gladly go hiking with you. Spending time with a Viking sounds good.

@alfrealtier6486 Год назад

Thanks Mr. Bjorn Hansen..... Greetings from the South Chile 🇨🇱🤠🤠

@Nothing2CHere4U 4 года назад

"We should not give into envy" Correct. Healthy forms of envy result in Motivation, more than Acquisition. Motivation + Inspiration(healthy envy?) can equal to realization. Envy + Acquisition can equal to war and destruction.

@daveywuzere 4 года назад

There is no such thing as healthy envy

@Nothing2CHere4U 4 года назад

@@daveywuzere it was used as a figure of speech, to illustrate a point. Perhaps not the most eloquent example, but the point was conveyed to 28 people at this posting. Satisfied?

@aerodronics_showcase 4 года назад

Your point can be better clarified in Greek. Antagonist (ανταγωνιστής) = someone that is directly opposing you irrespective of the morality of the means used (that is what you say bad envy). On the other hand synagonist (if there is such word in English, συναγωνιστής) one that competes against you using moral means (good envy, motivation to surpass you etc) . Like football team mates in training. They are all push hard to earn a position in the starting eleven but with moral way so that the "rivalry" between won't hurt the common good of the team Hope that makes sense

@Nothing2CHere4U 4 года назад

@@aerodronics_showcase very cool

@TarrelScot 4 года назад

Agreed 100%. Envy is debilitating and disabling. When you are envious you focus outside, on the things you cannot control or influence, and you lose focus on the things you can control, such as your own self-improvement.

@HellenicWolf 4 года назад

One thing I like about Bjorn's videos (besides the obvious tranquility) is that he always let's a smile after a "teaching". He relieves the tension from "giving advice". Smiling and ending on a positive note seems like a great choice. Keep on going Bjorn. You inspired me to make videos in the Greek nature, following your template of tranquillity and peaceful tone.

@misterio4439 4 года назад

I'm brazilian and I love to watch your channel. Please, keep it up!

@michaellanzer9770 4 года назад

I thoroughly enjoyed that chat Bjorn. Thank you and have a great day!

@FrankBarryLuv 4 года назад

I’d rather be envied than being pitied. Envy, you have to earn, pity you get for free. If people envy me, it’s their problem. I chose a glamorous life for myself, will never give in to the haters.

@Vabrejuro 4 года назад

Valuable words of wisdom. Thank you.

@ArchoSoma 4 года назад

I love how you try not to get overly political, but you are totally correct. We should build, not take. Be inspired, not resentful.

@sibiria981 4 года назад

Greetings from Russia

@DieErikShow 4 года назад

greetings from germany

@sash0047 4 года назад

Greetings from USA

@MisterRSG 4 года назад

Hello from Sydney

@raja1687 4 года назад

Greetings from tamilnadu... India

@samuelwyndham9704 4 года назад

You've hit the nail right on the head, sence I've been watching your videos I have noticed that I have changed for the better. Thank you for inspiring me.

@perrywidhalm114 4 года назад

Another great video Bjorn. Thanks! Envy is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to get sick ....

@timothygraham5150 4 года назад

Hi Bjorn, I really enjoy watching your videos and absorbing your messages. I can almost smell the coffee brewing and feel the warmth of the crackling fire. 10 minutes or so of living vicariously in the woodlands of Norway listening to your measured and accented speech, as you ponder upon different subjects, is a good way to put a little more intentioned thought into each day. Much appreciated!

@jamesrileyish 4 года назад

Thanks again Bjorn. I've definitely felt envy. Self improvement is the only way forward.

@dianerobillard1044 4 года назад

My Granny used to say "never envy anyone because we all have our own cross to bear."

@deandunbar8856 4 года назад

I HAVE JUST STARTED LEARNING & LISTENING TO YOU ...BEING GREEDY BEING SELFISH THINKING ABOUT HOW AN INDIVIDUAL ARE BETTER THEN OTHERS WILL NOT BE GOOD FOR LIFE.....SAME AS ENVY NOT HAPPY....BEING HUMBLE & AND WILLING TO LEARN AND LISTEN AND KEEP TRYING.....I LISTEN WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY AND VERY INTERESTING. HAVE A BLESSED DAY TO YOU......Dean 👍👍

@Backfireoftheworld 4 года назад

Please never stop making these talks/videos people need to hear these things

@butchholmes4624 4 года назад

I came across your channel a while back and immediately knew this is what we, the world, needed. Thank you for all of your hard work.

@sannamagranna6552 4 года назад

Envy is destroying South Africa. The majority was raised to hate and envy and destoy, not to work toward uplifting themselves. I love your message.

@citybushcraft2475 4 года назад

I agree with this. I have been working on recognizing exactly when it happens in my life. Either inspired or jealous, learning that when I recognize it more often I change my actions and take heed to develop more skills and more knowledge.

@aloncr1796 4 года назад

Every time you go outdoors and grab a cup of coffee and share your thoughts with us, I really feel like we are chatting face to face, having cool conversations and sharing experiencies... It's absolutely amazing. Thank you for your dedication and awesomeness. Greetings from Costa Rica.

@kennydyas688 4 года назад

I have the same reaction. Bjorn is absolutely a thinker and gentle soul. Would love to have some chocolate coffee around a campfire with him. Hope he gets his books published in English very soon.

@PitchUpCampsiteReviews 4 года назад

"Happiness is a pointless goal" Jordan Perterson (12 rules for life, an antidote to chaos). I agree with you in that envy is a terrible emotional state but if people wish to truly understand themselves and not stand under the influences of others it will take a lot of self reflection and what has truly impressed upon them throughout their lives to indeed shape the people they've become. "You can tell the quality of any nation's people by the music that they keep" Daniel Roberts (As one stumbles through life) In order to understand what that saying means ☝☝ one must explore what learning is and how repetition locks into the subconscious mind, when you understand it you'll stop watching TV and listening to the radio and you'll begin to properly tailor the influences around you because you'll fully understand what's being taken from you. All humans are forgetful and all of us have encountered the instance when we have walked into a room and forgotten why we walked into it. There is no funny coincidence in that. Scole (Cheers) be well.

@emmettchristie1563 4 года назад

Alex, Terminal Cancer, auto-immune disorders, paradoxical drug reactions and chemical addictions fueled by the American anti-depressant/anxiety medication industry are hard obstacles in life. Don’t judge a man by the challenges he faces.

@LPx007 4 года назад

That's a great message for men and people in general Bjørn. I truly think it's very important not to give into envy. Thank you for another fantastic video!

@shooter3083 4 года назад

Truer words were never spoken. If you allow it, envy is a destroyer, not a builder. Your channel is greatly appreciated by me. I look forward to each new video.

@HighColorado 4 года назад

Bjorn, this video came at a very good time. We just lost our longtime family dog last night, and it is easy to get lost in the grieving process. This gave me a very good and positive distraction. I have chosen to share this video with family members because I think it is quite important.

@wojciechjanuszewski7156 4 года назад

This is really a great insight. Seems to be simplistic at first but it has great depth. I have just realized how much the feeling of envy distorts my actions and attitude towards the world.

@crackerjack4790 4 года назад

Envy is an emotion. Emotions are born full grown and pregnant, ready to give birth to resentment, anger and hatred. Principles are the cure. Self-reliance, patients, forgiveness, hard work, honesty, truth seeking are principles. Principles must be practiced to be possessed. Thank you Bjorn. Time spent with you is time well spent.

@TheHuma999 4 года назад

this man should write a book about manhood

@ebraa8355 4 года назад

Keep up the good work Bjorn! Good stuff

@guyh.4553 4 года назад

Great topic Bjorn! Yes, there is a big difference between envy and aspirations. This is something that I must think about a LOT!

@jackburton4790 2 года назад

Your videos are possibly the most relaxing things I’ve ever seen

@charlesharper7292 4 года назад

Thank you again for another good conversation. The woods and snow behind you are stunning!

@ralphmancini1653 4 года назад

I agree totally because a real man has self-confidence and doesn't need anything he doesn't deserve, he even doesn't want it. He is content...

@Virsidus 4 года назад

I've always believed that if someone else made it very far in life, so could I, if I was REALLY willing to work hard for it, I could make it there too. I would look up and feel inspired by those people who suddenly changed their lives into better, I would feel good for them. We can all learn from people who have made it there themselves, great mentors to look up to, work on ourselves and take responsibility for how we spend our time day after day. Rather than just trying to bring those who work very hard down so we get to feel better about our sad lives. I never understood this kind of people. We all have the same time here, why would someone try to pull me down when they could invest all that time and energy into themselves and their growth... Love your channel, greetings from Romania

@daveyjoweaver5183 4 года назад

A great video Bjorn! I must admit I am a bit envious of that chocolate coffee in that wooden cup but I know I can do the same if I wish. So you are just inspiring Bjorn! I don't care about fancy cars or houses or whatever. I live in the woods and what could be better? I agree with you, envy has created great sadness and hardships for those who want to be envious of others. Life is not fair but life also gives each of us the ability to create what we want from our hearts. I'm not a young man anymore but I'm not envious of younger men. I've already been there and done that. But I also know and have learned through experience and the wisdom of others, that I can create those things I desire like chocolate coffee in a wooden cup. Nothing to stop me but myself saying I can't have it. But I can have it. I have chosen a spot in my woods to build a modest shelter where I can have my chocolate coffee by a fire and others can share this as well. You have been a big inspiration to many in my opinion and for me certainly. I took a two hour hike through the woods and by the stream a few days ago and I thought of Bjorn over there in Norway. So Thank You Kindly Bjorn! You are a good Heartfelt man! Love, Light , Peace and many more cups of Chocolate Coffee in your Beloved Woods! DaveyJO in Pennsylvania

@oculii1 4 года назад

Envy is another visage of hatred; like resentment & unforgiveness, these ultimately corrode the spirit, like Kryptonite. It's difficult to release these feelings; they enable us to rationalize what the soul recognizes as noxious, self-destructive thoughts. Once released, however (& this is a never-ending process), the freedom we experience can be sublime, setting us back unto the path towards fulfillment. There is a wonderful section of CS Lewis' 'The Great Divorce' which beautifully illustrates this. Keep up the good work Bjorn!

@elainewilkes1937 4 года назад

Thank Bjorn... congrats on nearly 200.000 subs you've earned it my friend ...i wouldn't mind betting that most of those subs are men yearning for inspiration in life...

@montana1951 4 года назад

Good talk & I agree. Thx I am having a good life here & wish the same for everyone watching.

@kravist518 4 года назад

In the US Declaration of Independence it says “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal” what that means to me is this-when you are born no matter how rich or poor you are or what race you are, you are born naked and helpless, it is up to you to make the rest of your life how you want it to be. If you want to envious or jealous, if you want the the government to take care of you that’s what your life will be, but if focus on yourself to be successful and to educate yourself others will be envious or jealous of you Skal Bjorn 🍻

@LilyandI 4 года назад

Bjorn, you are an inspiration! I would love to have one of those chocolate coffees by the fire, out in the woods and have a chat about masculinity... Envy is one of the most destructive forces! We should all be aware of it. The world would be a better place!

@MrJRW1 4 года назад

I tend to agree with you Bjorn. Envy’s something we all feel at times. How we respond when we feel envious of others is a choice. It’s easier to attack others, and tear them down than it is to look inward and work on improving ourselves. As for life being unfair, that is true. If it wasn’t, we would all be born wealthy and never have any bad experiences. Overcoming the difficulties of life is what builds character. It gives us a reason to hold our heads up high. Good talk.

@yourboi6436 4 года назад

You have changed my whole perspective on masculinity and envy

@ForTheNorth369 4 года назад

Keep it up man. Brings me happiness knowing there are others out there with similar moral guidelines.

@lorenheard2561 4 года назад

Always good to share fireside chat,good wisdom

@bgurtek 4 года назад

Bjorn, I had a rough week up until I watched this video. Thanks.

@kbjerke 4 года назад

You are so right. I have been often inspired by others, but have never been what one might call envious or jealous. Also, I feel inspiration can be shared with others.

@his1916 4 года назад

I really enjoy your content about men's mental health and masculinity. Being an wiser small town man who spends a lot of time in the forest, you seem like the perfect man to be talking about this. This channel really is a gem for those your content applies to.

@PMK7734 4 года назад

I could not agree more. You are absolutely right. Men must be strong and draw inspiration from our surroundings. We must not give in to the baser instincts but rise above them and succeed by our own merit. We must not be afraid to admit we're wrong and we must not be afraid to ask for help and advice. No man is an island unto himself. Thank you for your insight, Mr. Hansen.

@nunyabidnessanyway7013 4 года назад

I thoroughly enjoy your videos, particularly the ones about the attack by society in general of true masculinity. I've forwarded several on to my 16 year old grandson in the hopes that he will heed the sage advice. Keep it up, sir.

@hilohaianmolinere7168 4 года назад

Not been able to comment or really view Your postings in a while. I do enjoy and agree with much of what You talk about. I think you have hit the nail on the head about envy. I was raised to believe if You saw something and wanted it You worked for it. When I was a boy about 11 I recall fishing with my Father and older Brother. I was not catching anything was being a little bratty about that. My Father who was and still is my hero said to me watch us be quiet do the same things we are doing. So I did and I started catching fish. I have applied that method to all I do in life. I see people doing better than I so I learn from them. I see people not doing well I avoid the pit falls that have harmed them. My Father is gone now I am a Father and a Grandfather I have given my Children the same lessons. They are doing well.

@kev1734 4 года назад

It's strange you talk about this; just the past couple of weeks I've suffered petty little attacks from people and I put it down to envy. Envy of my youth, envy of my freedom and balls to say what I think and not care. Thanks for going over this Bjorn :) Also; I received my Gransfors forest axe just the other day! It's so light and smells amazing. You can always tell the quality of a product as soon as you handle it I think! I'm heading out to find some fatwood today :D

@vio9749 4 года назад

You teach me things my dad was never around to teach. Thank you!

@bethanyjones9899 4 года назад

Thank you once again for your inspirational words. I really enjoy these sessions. I'm glad you mentioned JP, because I've been trying to take up some of his advice about not looking up to others too much and more so compare yourself today with who you were yesterday and be proud of the improvements (how small they might be, doesn't matter) and gain strength by doing so. Peace from the Netherlands

@ZaroTV 4 года назад

Awesome topic! I personally believe that "positive envy". As where you're happy for someone and you feel inspired to achieve the same goal or success as them. Can be a good thing.

@williamcorrigan5697 4 года назад

You speak true words. More people need to take and practice your advice.

@polemeros 4 года назад

EXCELLENT POINT! AMEN 100X. In my own mythic/moral world, it is envy, not pride, that is the matrix of human evil.

@thomaswilkerson2875 4 года назад

I use your channel as a teaching tool for my son. I appreciate your words and wisdom. They make me a better person and father and i hope it does the same for my son.

@triskellian 4 года назад

Good topic for discussion.Envy seems to permeate many aspects of our lives.Some more insidious than others.From just ordinary citizens to people in power,the later most destructive.It's liberating to live without envy and be able to grow as a man and be a better friend to others.Cheers my friend.

@abc12356565 4 года назад

I definitley needed to hear this today. I would love to hear your take on relationships nowadays and how to deal with them in such a complicated time for dating

@futuredeath 4 года назад

God damn is that scenery beautiful! The snow on the trees. The coffee. perfection!

@copperconadventures 4 года назад

Keep up the great work Bjorn!! We are watching from Indiana!

@stanleythorsen4363 4 года назад

Its good to see that there is a chance for men to be men again.

@golagiswatchingyou2966 4 года назад

What does that mean? Everything seems to just be an illusion, we try our best and keep going but often it feels like a very poorly written comedy.

@golagiswatchingyou2966 4 года назад

@Jim Nickles families used to exist long before states did.

@alaskabornheathen8902 4 года назад

Couldn’t agree more. I consider myself fortunate to have stumbled upon your channel. Not too many wise people left in my life. I rely on radio and a few channels like yours to learn from. Hopefully I can meet you someday. If not in Alaska then in Norway!

@NobodyWhatsoever 4 года назад

I agree so much with what you had to say here! I'd say that shame is another enemy of masculinity, affecting people from a different direction. That is, from my own experience, these two scenarios especially: From peers who look down their noses, saying to people things like "you have less" and the like, sort of like the opposite of envy in a way. Also, from parents who tell their kids they're not good enough because they might not have quite the same things as another person, or live in the same kind of house. It destroys confidence, the right kind of pride which can be combined with inspiration to rightly urge people forward.

@sickrick6285 4 года назад

I love how you bring up the topics real relaxed. It comes across less controversial. Normalizing or promoting masculinity can come from crazy sounding talking heads. Thanks for the cool delivery on these things. Enjoying the videos