Cheng and Kit were estranged for 10 years before they reconciled. What seemed like a small thing for Cheng took him years to realise why it affected Kit so much. How did it come to this? Why even bother to reconcile?
Find out in this raw and honest exchange about what changed for them, and how they started on a journey of healing.
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - An unexpected surprise: Watching themselves in a short film
04:21 - Reactions to the short film
04:59 - What happened in the short film?
06:14 - Confessing to being a bully to his sister
06:25 - Having trust issues because of past incidents
07:18 - Sharing about their growing up years
08:14 - Cheng's backstory for his anger
09:50 - Kit learning something new about Cheng
10:21 - The starting of their reconciliation
11:10 - Why is anger necessary?
12:08 - What does it mean to process something together?
12:42 - 'You are never wrong for the way you feel'
13:40 - Cheng and his sorries
17:12 - Is it harder to love or hate?
18:00 - 'It's more important to be reconciled than to be right.'
19:46 - Having a final dinner with their dad
20:57 - Life is too short
21:42 - Parents are doing it for the first time too
22:10 - Having a friendship with each other at 26 and 29
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME is an intimate peek into the struggles that we often find so familiar, especially in familial relationships. Witness honest conversations between family members as they unpack what it took to get them to a place of acceptance and restoration.
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20 июл 2024
