EP-19 | Ex-IPS Officer Kiran Bedi deep dives into Shraddha case, talks about Kejriwal 

Whenever I see Kiran Bedi speaking I feel so sad about what we Delhiites lost. What an inspirational woman!

Salute to Kiran Bedi Ma'am.She is still a firebrand. Women in India are the biggest migratory population is a profound statement . It would be nice if Kiran Ma'am educates the girls and women in India regularly to stand up for themselves. There are countless women who are scared to go back home when they are ill treated and abused in the spouse's home.

Her clarity of thought is at another level! She is SO sharp, witty, and knowledgeable! ❤

in 2010 I met Ma'am and my life changed and today listening to her I again learned so much

what an awe inspiring conversation this was… so informative and completely apolitical… we are in dire need of people like Kiran Mam to guide us through the future.. absolutely brilliant episode.!

I'm in love with this podcast after last 2-3 I have watched. I wish this becomes no.1 podcast in the world very soon.

Few years back, me & another female colleague were in Mumbai for a weeklong training program and were sharing a hotel room. She accidentally fell in the washroom and bruised her hand & around her eye so we immediately went to the nearest nursing home. The doctor while examining her asked her in private if she was hit by someone? We both appreciated the doctor for being so extra vigilant. ✨

My father was villain for me up to date I understood his point of view he tight my screw many time's whenever I came late at home or did any misbehave with mine friend arena. Now I understood he is nothing but responsible father. 🤝👍🙏🏼

As always, it was divine listening to you Kiran ji. I wish we can replicate tens of thousands of Kiran Bedis to illuminate our hearts.

I am not an expert in any sense but I had a friend who suffered from domestic abuse within marriage and what I learnt from her ordeal is that sometimes the victim is afraid of reaching out to others (cops, friends, family, counsellors, etc) because she fears that if she speaks out to others then the offender might come to know about it and will react with immediate violence. The offender usually has some sense of control and power over the victim making them obedient. In some instances the abuser will also threaten the victim by saying that if she complains to others then he will reveal some confidential information that could destroy her family's reputation (this happened with my friend hence I am mentioning this possibility). Sometimes the offender uses blackmail to keep the victim silent. In some cases, the victim might even suffer from Stockholm Syndrome and that may prevent her from reaching out to others. There could be any number of reasons for why a victim suffers silently without taking positive action (i.e. ending the relationship, leaving the guy, etc). In the podcast you mentioned that Shraddha should've gone to the police, but if I recall recent reports then Shraddha did file some police complaint but it seems she also retracted it before the police could act on it. Not sure what really happened there or why she did what she supposedly did. Someone can correct me if I am misinterpreting the recent news reports.

Physical abuse is rarely only physical, it is also psychological and emotional as the abuser tries to break down the victim's self-esteem so they can do whatever they want and get away with it. It gives a man complete power over the woman, her body and her mind.

I'm all glued to ANI podcasts. I make sure to listen every podcast.

She is such an intelligent dignified lady ... so polite her aura is so positive ... one of the very informative podcast

Our visionary former ips , nice to see you here and listening you about Delhi issues as well as our recent public affairs and various things. Thank you ma'am 🙏 Jai Hind 🇮🇳

It's such a fresh breath of air listening to a pure bureaucrat speaking with such clarity and authority. It's this profound understanding of system and how to work it makes an excellant bureaucrat. Delhi it's absolutely your loss because her way of administration would have done wonders and it's not because of her party affiliation but because she has a proven track record of excellant administration. Thank you Smita prakash ma'am for an excellant podcast. Best one

Exactly i was saying same thing... His parents knew that he is hitting her . But they told her to keep calm . His parents are to blame also

Thanks for bringing this podcast. How informative her interview is.

I really wish this kind of interview is hosted in Hindi, so that so many non English speaking people understands this. So many of my domestic helpers need this kind of advice. I feel from my heart for my helpers but it’s not easy for me to help them with their woes and troubles. Domestic violence is happening more in these uneducated people’s houses. Smita ji and Kiran ma’am are doing a fabulous work 🙏👍

She has the ability to keep people captivated for hours on end. She is indeed a wonderful woman. She should be a part of 2024 Union Cabinet!!

Thank you Smithaji for inviting Kiran Bedi mam to this show. Was great hearing both of you!

People always talk about a girl and her family but nobody talks about a guy and his family and how is he brought up..RIP shraddha 🙏

Very important information for all to know. 1. If you are being abused, reach out. Make a 100 call, tag police on social media. Many people just suffer in silence because they don't know what to do. From one of India's all time best, most trusted police officers. 2. It is one's duty to report a crime. Not reporting a crime is also an offence. If you don't want to be involved, you can ask the police to not reveal your name.

Beautiful interview. All the points that Kiran Bedi Ma'am raised/raises have always been relevant to India's civil society....but there has never been sufficient political will to appreciate her commitment to create tangible solutions to our society. It's like... she has always challenged the low IQs of babus and netas and obviously they are nervous to be in her company. With respect to Shraddha... I, as a DV survivor and single mother, can honestly say that our social system is ruthlessly patriarchal and biased against women. Our toothless DV law, our judiciary, our misogynistic police and our stifling, spineless and apathetic society kill so many of our daughters every day. My RTI asking for details on how many women got relief thru DV law implementation, across India, was shocking. Not even 1%. Most of them abandoned their cases because the system and courts were painfully slow and always put the victim on trial with mean and mannerless questioning. This suffocating system...its not easy to walk out of your marital home despite domestic violence. Luckily for me my mother was a huge pillar of support. Not every woman is that fortunate. Most violent men draw their energy from their violence. They need their victims and they'll never let them go. It's possible that Shraddha, in a moment of weakness (and trust) could've been party to something that she in retrospect is ashamed of. Probably she was ashamed that her acts could bring shame to her family and he probably was threatening her on those pieces of "evidence". She was not even married to him... She could've walked out. But when you are a DV victim, it just saps your energy, your confidence and a certain depression sets in. It takes enormous courage to walk out and often you are confused about what your next steps should be. But the truth is the system is a bigger predator. It sniffs your vulnerability miles away and It'll shred you apart in no time. As a lone woman it's difficult to manage it all. I am sure that poor girl was trapped in all this, not knowing where to go. My heart went out to her...what a way to die. Violent guys have a pattern to their relationships and they have a way with women. Obviously that beast's parents know about his nature. They just don't want him near them. Most often they are happy that their son is someone else's problem and they'd like to keep it that way. Young girls should understand that live-in relationships in a culture like ours is the first step to self-burial. And family bonding is a two-way street. Middle class parents don't know how to handle things when their daughter chooses a live-in partner. Its a very complicated situation for everyone concerned. But law needn't look at all these issues. It's a heinous crime committed on a young girl and their duty is to deliver justice to her. Drugs, alcohol, material aspirations have lead our young ppl to go astray and feel rootless. I hope these lessons are well publicised and young girls are trained to be more objective and rational about their harmonal needs and stop glorifying that as 'love'.

This is my first comment on your channel. This was an amazing conversation. This Lady has Courage, she seems uncorruptable, She clearly has integrity and she is more disciplined than any men I have seen and known.

Kiran ma'am is so sorted, and a problem solver. Incredible person. I love this podcast. 🌺

Can't really thank you enough ANI for this interview..... truely insightful, powering and eye-opening..... Yet thanks 😊🙏 keep it up:):)

Always good to see you ma’am! Always very energetic and inspiring

She looks so determined .I always liked to be like her. Truly an inspiration.

Simply fantastic.....Really Kiran Mam is an iconic n towering personality of this country..... Excellent clarity, showing the way forward for every one in d society, for a better social fabric ......Smita ji !!! Thank u for inviting Kiran Mam to ur show.... Looking forward for another great personality.....All d best.... 💐💐💐

Would it be possible to put the entire video in two parts? I don't want to miss watching any second of it. Covering it in two days becomes convenient and delivers efficiency. Thank you.

Fantastic podcast ❤ so inspiring . As a retired teacher, I exhort every teacher/ school/ educational institution to screen this for their students. So proud of you Kiran Bedi Ma’am! And the questions you posed were insightful and probing, yet not offensive ! Kudos 👍🏾

Mam she had filed a complaint in police station last year November, but police didn't take any action... And yes women have a psychological issue that what if she leaves him, society may treat her, her parents may get hurt, etc... It's not financial stability, it's psychological, we have been told from early age to adjust, forgive etc. And normalising verbal abuse also.. Sad still this upbringing is there in so called ellite, educated family also...

I love how her thoughts flow! Kiran bedi is legendary

Wow! Thankyou for bringing her to your show she's my childhood inspiration & still remains one , ofcourse. Lots of love and respect for you ma'am. A true women of substance she is; mostly women who are at top positions put other women down but here she is praising other women and telling them to stand for themselves! Hope to meet you soon ma'am.

Excellent interview, very well conducted by Smita Prakash. It was a pleasure to hear the views and advice of respected Kiran Bedi. She is a legend and a true patriot. She is methodical, intelligent and practical in her handling of all kinds of situations. She has a way of solving problems and to lead by example. Clear thinking is the Hallmark of great leaders.

While Madamsir Kiran Bedi made some important points about Shraddha. There is something called Trauma Bonding which seems to be the case with Shraddha so despite wanting to leave that monster she may have been Trauma Bonded. Trauma Bonding is when an abuser uses manipulation tactics and cycles of abuse to make the victim feel dependent on them for care and validation, causing a strong attachment or bond. This often occurs in romantic narcissistic relationships, but can also occur in families, friendships, or work relationships

After accidentally watching Palki Sharma's podcast I am addicted to your channel

The monologue at the beginning was very well written and said. And looks like another amazing podcast! Thanks Smita Ma'am.

They missed an important point! Sometimes it's the mother of the boy. A woman is the worst enemy of another woman. I have seen so many decent sons who were madly in love with their wives only to have to choose between their mother or wife and about 80% of them chose their mothers. There was a very nice Jain couple that lived downstairs in our apartment building and they had a five year old son. Very happy couple. Living a happy life until the father passed away and mother moved in. She filled her son's ears and he started accusing his wife of cheating. Started abusing her and she finally ended up divorcing him. There was another beautiful couple and the mother did not even live with them but she brainwashed her son into thinking that his wife was having an affair! I have seen so many times mothers influencing their sons' married life directly or indirectly.

This one was REALLY INCREDIBLE podcast! I take pride in as someone being a part of Kiran Bedi mam's exclusive BRS community! Btw.. I look forward to seeing people like SANJEEV SANYAL SIR on the show! Thanks ANI! ❤😌

Madam Kiran is always inspiring 🙏 so many aspects she has spelled out that need to be incorporated in every household/ state/country. Her expertise in the field can be utilized for betterment of society. Great Conversation @Smita 🙌🏻

I want to ask Mrs Bedi. What is hindering GOI to amend police act of 1860. Why cant there be a new modern police act to cater todays modern India.

These podcast has been magnificient as u have took people who are from the society to the society its great delight to watch!!❤

Absolute Masterclass this episode is. So very educative and enlightening. 🙏 Thank you very much Smitajeeএ for inviting Kiran Bedi Ma'm to this podcast of yours. I would take this opportunity to say that why common people very concsiously not connect with the people because time and again it has been seen that a good Samaritan has been harassed by police. Most unfortunately the likes of Kiran Bedi Ma'm only one or two in number in this vast country. Maybe Police personnels are trained to suspect each and everyone they come across so they donot lose objectivity to deal with each case. But speaking of my personnel experience, I was harrassed by the force when I tried to help a child who was hurt by his alcoholic father. I was made to feel as I was a criminal. We will readily seek help from an Indian soldier but not a police. To us police "represent the statement " Rakshak hee Bhakshak".

Mam also bring to your show sir Vikram singh ( ex dgp up )

Great interview! What a positive “can do” spirit and service ethic Kiran ji embodies! She’s a strong role model for women and all citizens. No problem is unsolvable/unresolvable for her, whether domestic violence, or traffic snarls. Kiran ji strongly reiterates the need for the right parenting, whether girls or boys.

Very much need of the hour interview. Thank you

Agree. I am a 90 born but I don’t know how I know the name Kiran Bedi since childhood. It’s not just me , I think lot of my generation. She is so popular.

Kiran bedi is icon of Indian lady....

Call upon the metro man of india E SREEDHARAN and plz discuss how he got things done before time, despite various red-tape and other issues in Delhi metro and konkan railways.

Wonderful interview, Smita... keep up the good work, your podcasts are at another level !! Language used in your interviews is professional and sensitive.

Kiran Bedi Mam ❤ so much public officials politicians can learn from you

It was really a very inspiring and informational episode and I have been looking forward for such a detailed conversation with Kiran Bedi mam. She has been my source of inspiration ever since I have heard of her. Thank u Smitaji for telecasting this episode.

Such a beautiful episode. Kiran Bedi spoke her heart out. Very authentic and gifted administrator and citizen of india.

Amazing and inspiring conversation. Kiran Mam you are a path provider to so many in term of your ideas, thoughts, clear mindset, determination etc etc etc...

Dear Smita and team...another sterling interview....so much to learn ...we all have contributed in our small ways and i understand how tough it is to just work good work .....she is truly a Hero.......civil servant politicians all can do so much..we as simple working class citizens are doing are bit ...... highly inspired to walk that extra mile ..thanks Smita and team keep it up

Thank for @ANI for this wonderful series I love Podcast with Smita Prakash and this is my favourite thing on RU-vid Please keep bringing interesting people. And lastly salute to Kiran ma’am

Gave me goosebumps! Her concern and affection for the people, clarity in vision and thoughts are unmisable!

Ms. Smita Prakash! Your Podcosts have been wonderful and I have not missed any one of them so far. I would request you to call in someone like Rahul Dravid who is not only a great sportspersonality, but a thorough gentleman. Kindly make all efforts to bring him and interview him. We will be honored.

Every interview I’ve seen has been lovely. Keep it up and continue giving us the pleasure of watching.

Love your podcast,ma'am. The guests are amazing.its just eye opening

Wonderful podcast with Kiran Bedi Mam . Thank you for the same . Each of your podcasts have been absolutely interesting.

It’s a very good session with this great Lady Kiran Bedi ji! I wish she could come to politics and serve India. As she said, PM Modi ji is a karam yogi and moving India to a different level. I hope and pray that he continues for another five years and bring India out of the corrupted system. We are fortunate to have him as our PM.

Throughly enjoyed this awesome Podcast with this very intelligent lady. May India continue to produce more of Ms Bedi

Awesome ... so true, education only is not enough at all....we all must be brave and strong and alert

Ma'am it's a humble request.🙏 Please release these conversations in Hindi too. Our other half population needs to empower more.

Smita ji you are doing a yeoman's job by getting such influential personalities in your podcast. Even if 10% of your viewers follow the take-homes of your enlightening conversation with icons like Ms Kiran Bedi, I guess this country will surely become the Vishwaguru. Thanks.

I am totally loving these podcasts... Mam was so brilliant.thank u so much for having such wonderful guests

HelloSmita ji! Thanks a lot for such enlightening and energising conversations! Keep it up

I will be always grateful to you Smita Mam for this wonderful Podcast I myself have learnt a lot of things from this podcast

It's a privilege to listen Kiren Bedi please bring her more & more. Her presence confirms our belief of beautiful India, empowered India.

Brilliant Conversation! So much to learn from The Lady! Absolute great podcast!

Informative podcast. Thank you mam for the knowledge. I would like to see another podcast over another similar happened in the same city where a woman cut her husband into 22 odd peices.

She went to the police in Mumbai.Lodged a complaint. She was asked to withdraw after 27 days. For 27 days the police were twiddling their thumb. They did not do anything.

So positive and inspiring conversation l love it

Every parents should listen to this talk . Amazing ...👏👏👏

This Lady knows so much and lot to learn from her please ma'am if you can bring her once again for a talk on different issues like thier total journey as an IPS officer or what a governor do or any other special topic u think it will be a great moment for all of us

Kiran Bedi!!👍

Wonderfully inspirational interview with the tough lady MS. Kiran Bedi who means business; a no nonsense person. She needs to b the Chief Minister of Delhi who can bring the city on track. Women of Delhi look up to her; A able administer who stands up to all odds. Smita Prakash forgot to mention that Kiran Bedi was honoured with the Magsaysay Award too. Many accolades to her account too.

Society and laws are not good in our country. My mom was a teacher and she needed help. She went back to her mother and was sent back saying things will change. She killed herself infront of me when i was only 2.5 years old. That's the only memory i have of my mother. She was independent, she was smart. Till today i don't know the reason why she had to it. My father married another lady after that and she used to abuse me. When i was 5 years old my grandparents ( mother parents) brought me to their home to take care of me. My father Never bothered about me. He used to work in reputed company. I had no relationship with my father. Till the age of 10 i used to scared child. Even my grandparents never told me what exactly happened. I don't understand why they didn't put case in him. Today i am 30 single and working very well. But was not allowed to study cause whats the point of me studying cause i am a girl. 6 months back when i was in so much emotional pain i called my father one day to know the date when my mother passed away. 6 months back only i came to know what was that date. Death certificate doesn't mention reason of death only date. What laws??? what society???? Relatives used to feel sorry for me but no-one encouraged or focus on my studies. I was a bright child in school but could not complete my graduation. I am 30 years old , alone , independent but still Haunted by my childhood memories.

Wonderful Kiran Bedi Madam..nice to listen to you on this show..we need more Administrators like you Madam..Thanks Smitaji for this wonderful conversation.

Great lady our dear Kiran Bedi mam.🙏

Loved this podcast ❤

Mam u r amazing. Ur IQ is too sharp It's ur upbringing that speaks. Many facts of life coincide with me and my parents especially my dad. Mam ur physiology to tackle the these criminals is worth imparting to the new officers. So that we can have a top class law abiders

I loved your conversation today as she is the one I idolize to speak truth no matter what.

Thank you vary mush smiita mam for such a wonderful conversation wirh dr kiran mam, it is always inspiring to hear kiran mam on various topics and her insight to deal with various issue during her journey

Smita ji, another good podcast. Kiran ji, the first lady IPS, 24th Lieutenant governor of Puducherry and more, I respect her very much.

She is so right a woman is a migrant in India. I have suffered enormously at the hands of my parents the trauma affected my psyche so much that I wasn’t able to adjust in the society. It is unbelievable harm to women like me and no one speaks about it.

Living legend.... True inspiration for the generations to come.... Smitha ma'am one of ur best..... Enjoyed..... Lotz of learning, relearning, energized through this great power house.

There is a reason why people love and respect Kiran ji. To the point answers. Always solution oriented. For most problems, she has ideas. Even if 1% of us start thinking and working like her, Bharat will become superpower.

It is very doubtful that Shraddha will get justice and Aftab will be punished as our judiciary believe in Sharia.

Most needed valuable conversation i ever got with perfection 🙏

Smitaji you handled this stint with kiranji very well and covered all the topics very articulately...Thank you...loved it ...

How did I miss this fabulous episode??!!?? Fantastic conversation ❤

I am big fan of Kiran ji. It was so good to see her. Wonderful interview. Specially the suggestions given by her should be taken up seriously. Wish to see Sambhit Patra and Smitaji face to face.

Very very educational and inspirational vedio ... touched all part of life of a common but responsible citizen of India. Loved it.

I salute to all your recommendations and your views on all the points discussed 🙏

She is so pure and awsm .. great podcast.

So happy that Dr Kiren Bedi served as Lt Governor of Puducherry, my hometown. She was so reachable to public, that I could enter Raj Bhavan for the first and last time in my life. ❤🙏💐

What an amazing lady! A big salute to her! ❤