My parents met at work. How many people's parents met at work? My dad surely came on to my mom.. this is now a crime? Had my parents met in this day and age, my dad would be in jail and my siblings and I never would have been born.
And she is "forced" to smile and be polite? She is not. She cannot speak up for herself? She can. You have to make a global issue about this? You don't.