The man l prayed for came with the negative things l didn't like & we broke up twice thinking that l would find the exact description l had in mind but the relationships were a mess until l gave up & said Lord l'm back👐 & we are happily married now☺️.l'm still praying for those negative things & most of them are gone😁.Jeremiah 29 vs 11🙏
I read this and I start crying . When I met my current boyfriend I sow everything that I always wanted the values ,the morals and the love is there . I kept on telling him for a year and half when we met that I was saving myself for marriage but I soon gave in and ever since I have been having issues with the sexual part because the question is always there , am I sharing this part of myself that is supposed to be for my husband . And I have always had the calling and feeling that I want a man That loves God more than he loves me . We broke up for two days last week , we have been together for 4 years now. We then spoke about what was truly happening . I found out that I had put God on the back burner while we had agreed from the start that God would be the center of our relationship. I have always wanted a celibate relationship and I told him about this .But I want me and him to grow within God and really getting into having a strongly relationship with God . I told him about this and we are working on that . Reading your comment gives me faith that we will make it . I'll continue to pray for him still .
I wrote a letter to God around 1997 in my 30's. It's 2020 and in my 50's and I'm still waiting. Where did I go wrong. I know heaven is miles away, but surely it would have reached there by now 😏. Maybe it's because I didn't actually post it. Even though I am making jokes out of it. I have to, so that I don't give up as I get tired of waiting.
@@LestineBellTV Hi Lestine Bell, thank you for your response. I'm grateful for your encouragement. I will continue to wait on God's best. All of God's blessings to you and family. Thank you.
I did something similar. First time was last year when I read an article by Nicole Parker, she wrote down the characteristics of her ideal man and afterwards she asked herself if she was ready for that man and would she attract such a man. Then she realised that she needed to work on herself and it was during that time that she met Boris Kudjoe. Second time I did this was in March when Russell Ciara's husband said that he wrote down 5 non-negotiable things he wanted in a woman and he would not settle for anything less than 5/5. I did that too. After doing both exercises of listing what I want, working on myself, therapy, completing my degree, joining a hiking club, growing spiritually, being of service to God and others and my motto was "LOVE WILL FIND ME LIVING" and ladies God has delivered. Also read Habakkuk 2:2
I literally went through this myself. Once I surrendered it to God He answered my prayer. I am dating my answered prayer and my relationship is God sent.
Thank you so much. I am 40 years and still single. Been crying and praying to God for a spouse. Your testimony just showed me I have been going about things the wrong way. Probably insisting on my own ways instead of letting God guide me. Also, the part about becoming the best version of who I was created to be? Got me deep. God bless your home dear and keep that smile on your beautiful face always
Thank you so much ❤️ I pray that God hears you and delivers on His promises and that in His time, he will bless you beyond your comprehensive with love and companionship that is joyful, filling and beautiful ❤️ to Him be the glory 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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Thank you Kopano. I prayed for a man and started thinking God didn't hear me, then I got a promotion at work and realized that I'm not ready for a man. My career is still blooming. Now I'm focused on that and I know he will come when he comes
@Leanna C, I prayed the same prayer next thing God sent me across the boarder far from home, that's when I saw that no He has a total different plan for me.My situation can't accommodate now, it will jst frustrate the 2 of us
Kopano you probably don't remember but I once met you at church and I was so star struck I couldn't focus during the church service. After church I dragged my husband and kids to the same direction as you and after having a cute awkward conversation with you and my husband was chatting with your husband I remember when we walked away my husband said to me babe do you think we should have church friends wow that guy I felt like I could have a longer conversation with him he is such a cool guy that just filled my heart moral of the story is you and your husband are a blessing may God keep blessing your marriage ❤️🙏
I write letters to God about everything, sometimes it is just a letter telling him how much I love him, how much I see all that he is doing and thanking Him for being God. Ask God, he gives the best gifts.
This specific content just moved me. I remember how I couldn't stay without a boyfriend, I felt empty not knowing that there is a God that can fill that void. Recently gave my life to the Lord, and but I kept withholding that one sin I was struggling with, until my ex told me to figure out what I really wanted(he gave me 1 week to figure out) but hey it took me just a day... I worshipped surrendered everything to God. I felt so free for the first time in my life and the next day I ended the relationship with my ex. Joy, peace and happiness can't depart my heart ♥. I Love the Lord who saved me from sexual sin.
WHEN Y0U ARE PRAYING AND ASKING G0D F0R THING,S AND Y0U D0N,T GET WHAT D0ES THAT MEAN....I BEEN PRAYING F0R A H0USE N0W F0R AB0UT 2 YEAR,S AND I AM STILL IN A APT... A NICE MAN W0ULD BE NICE BUT 0NE THING AT....A TIME I WANT A H0ME AND JUST MAYBE....G0D WANT,S ME T0 BE STILL .N0T SURE WHY...BUT I W0ULD BE S0 HAPPY IF I W0ULD GET BLESS..WITH S0ME 0F THE THING,S I PRAY..F0R..BUT I GUESS I HAVE T0 STILL HAVE FAITH...THAT G0D,S TIMEING IS JUST RIGHT...
Because marriage isn’t something men pine after. They know they will be married eventually and are confident in who they are...and they choose women based on physical attributes first not spiritual.
😂😂😂😂 I’m that girl.... where is he??? WHEREEEE IS HEEEEE? But girl when you said you waited 3-4years and I realized I’m just in the 1st year of orater😒😒😒
But don't think that God will send your man 4 years later. Maybe or maybe not. Just focus on God. You might never know , maybe he will come after 4 weeks😹❤I will pray for you
God may never send anyone. Very sad. Some people are lucky and some people get nothing. Like me. 45 still single. I pray no one has to live the nightmare that is prolonged singleness.
I made the same for my wife I wrote some things too, features that I wanted haha was abit shy to ask God for it but hey I am blessed. This type of prayer is very powerful,
@Bishop Dale C.bronner first of all I deceren deceit in you, I don't trust you, while you are alive repent of your ways, because when we die God is (justice) "God is not mocked, what a man soe, that he shall reap.
God knows better indeed so true! I saw my husband in my dreams before i even met him and when I met him I saw the man who was in my dreams exactly. In my dreams I thought he was Italian but he was Greek.
This is so true, I once saw Nicole Parker’s post on how she prayed for her husband. Fast forward I thought I should do the same, I went on vacation alone and I meditated and prayed and I wrote down everything in detail and God answered my prayers a year later. You need to be patient and trust in the Lord. I’m glad you brought up this topic. May God bless you and your family.
I prayed for my husband while I was dating my baby daddy because in my heart I knew that there must be someone out there who would align with my values and I met my husband on dating anniversary with my ex( were we supposed to be celebrating 5 years) but then we broke up earlier during that month and when I saw my husband there was peace in my heart , it's like I saw God when I saw my husband for the 1st time. We dated for a year then he paid lobola and mind you we were in a long distance relationship I was residing in Pretoria and him in CPT( work purpose) but it just worked.
I just stumbled on your channel and 1 minute in, I know that I am here to stay... I am happily married but your points can be applied to other things in my life, thank you.
So deep in God that a man has to go through GOD to get to/with me. Amen sissy! Amen!! I always pray for that too. I also really like that you talk about trusting God - literally giving it to God and going to bed. Love love love it! Took me a while to get to this level but wow, ain’t it refreshingly freeing? Thanks for sharing ❤️
Blessed people of God. I am 55 years younger. I never got married and of course no kids. When I was in my 20th I used to think about 6 kids. I waited on the will of God but God didn't allow it to happen. I believe God has a reason and one day I will know it all. There is nothing out there like the love of God. I have peace of mind knowing that His love is greater than anything. Thank you beautiful sister for sharing your story with us. May God bless you and keep you.🌹❤
Its not too late our God is a blessed and wonderful God he hears our prayers am sure he has a reason for your life, keep on believing in him and trusting him Be blessed
@@1973onigiri Good question. So what do you think the solution might have been if someone else half my age now would have done? Honestly I want to hear an honest solution. Thank you
@@annakuman9595 my honest solution? I'm prepared to do what is necessary for me when I will have that situation, because first, I gave God the chance and opportunity to do so and so far it causes me false expectations, disappointments and heart aches. Second, I don't want my death to be painful and lonely without anyone who will hold my hand in my last breath.
I have recently started writing down my prayers and speaking to God through journaling...I just let my heart pour out about everything. At the end its God's will that will be done 💛
Just started watching your content from midnight. It’s 8am and I just finished the #weddingseason ♥️ I haven’t even watched this but I’m sure it’s the greatest advice because from what I’ve seen so far you and Vuyo are #couplegoals
I saw this title and I was like YESSSSS!!! God gave me my soon to be husband too. He even gave me a dream of his home at 4 yrs old and here it is 50 years later and I meet him. SoI know exactly what you mean
💞I love how you emphasize on wanting God's will above all else, to not be stubborn in your own ways but hear him and see his guiding hand. Amen Thank you sis for allowing God to use you
Absolutely loved this sis! We don’t know how powerful our words and prayers are. And especially when they are aligned with God’s will, it’s mind blowing how the manifestation is soo spot on! 2012 was also a very defining year for us and as Holy Spirit would have it, He gave clear and direct prophecy for whats to come in our lives together. Sooo relatable and valuable chats. Thank you and may you and your family be blessed💞
THE KOENAS! So good to hear from you guys 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I absolutely love that, the stronger the relationship the clearer the vision and it can be scary and strange but God always fulfills
Yes I always get what I prayed for sometime right away some time years but I always wrote in my prayer journal it always nice to go back and read in that way you know God answer your prayers
Very powerful and very true. I also have a man (didn't necessary prayed for) but I feel as though God finally heard all my cries to him and sent this man my way. Now I'm not sure if he's the one God sent for me to be with for life,but I pray everyday that if it God's will then it should be done. I've left it all to him cos he's my creator and he knows me, he knows my heart desires and all that's good for me and I believe he will send only good things my way. As scared as I am of the man he sent me(cos he's not what I always thought of when I thought of my husband) but I feel that he's everything I'll ever need in a man.
Obedience, Surrender, Focus on you...great video and very insightful... A man must seek God first in order to find me. I believe in this so much...Thank you girl, God bless you ❤
You know I've been praying about my situation with this boy i like at school but didnt want to take it to the next step and make it an official thing until i saw your vlog /video . This has taught me so much as a teenager not to jump stages in life and just learn to trust in God . Thank you so much for this talk it has really helped me ❤❤❤❤❤
This is so precious to hear. Such a confirmation to the process of praying for My Godly Spouse. Another thing I noticed that when I earnestly focused on praying for him everyday, random guys start hitting on me n then out of the blue your secret crush Finally declares his love for you BUT he is married!!! This is weirdly funny😅 but the Lord has helped me focus. Just got me wondering where all these guys were when I was just quiet minding my own business. Thank you for your help n you are very beautiful. Much Love from this Kenyan🇰🇪gal .
You know the enemy doesnt want you to be united with the man tou have been praying for so he will give stumble blocks qlong the way. Stay focused ans believe that he will give you what you have prayed. Do not be deceived nby the enemy. Satan is trying his best to distract you from the right one you know he hates glorfying marriages
I will say this too: I don't know how I ended up on this channel but from the look of things you are my eldest daughter's age. What I want to say is other videos are not very relevant to me but I like this one. Wow...Wow...Wow girl ! You went about it the right way. Though with me it's advice that I need to get close friends. Type that are staying nearby and that I can just drop by and visit over a cup tea and cookies and hold hands together and just pray together in the prayer language of the Spirit. Friends that would value my friendship and companionship so so much.....would thank the Lord again and again for bringing me into their lives and I would do the same ...I'm amazed how you got all the steps right. But with me for my new friends I plan on thanking the Lord for them daily that He is bringing them. But Wow, I'm amazed!
How many times was your heart broken before God sent your ONE? I just got my heart broken for the 3rd time and I’m feeling faithless in the idea of love...
Live Well With Nicky I think you may have to pause dating. Since I’ve given my life to God I haven’t dated. I honestly don’t want to put the wrong man in my life & risk sinning & hurting my Father God again 😞. I’m 25 & I’ve been praying for a husband for a few years & a servant from God recently told me while I was out of state that God is going to give me a husband since I’ve been asking amongst other things. Just turn yourself over to The Lord & turn the sins over. I hope this helped. ♥️
This is powerful🙏 thank you Kopano. I cried while watching your video. I use to pray to God to send me someone to love me kind, loving,respectful, loyal etc then He send me the man but what I didn't pray for was wisdom for me to love back😢😢😢I hurt the man that realy loved me I hurt him emotionally ....now his gone. I failed to see what God brought infront of me😢😢.
I think start preparing yourself for what is on the way rather don't dwell on how you hurt him etc. Let God heal you so you can be in a good space so that when he sends you somebody you are ready. Read the Gospel of Luke it helps in the healing journey.
Our God is a God of second chances ❤️.. what you went through with that man was a moment of learning and rediscovering yourself, now that you are ready and better prepared.. God will definately send you someone just as amazing..
You'd find that he wasn't the man destined for you. God was preparing you through him. Now you've got more wisdom because of that relationship. Pray for him to heal from what you've put him through and forgive yourself... cos you were learning
I normally say what I want by mouth to God but today I learned something else am gonna write to God and pray about them also I will pray to God to help me think straight in writing
The six pack that will last forever 🤣🤣That is hilarious. Honestly, I've been single and men have just been showing me FLAMES but that is because I have been excluding GOD from all my plans and I've recently been open to HIS ways and I am also getting rid of the hateful feeling I have towards men generally. This is so helpful kopano❤ Girl, thank you....
Love this! Amen, Seek He first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and everything else will be added" Be so deep in God that a man has to go through Him to get to you. Bless you
Just happened to come across this video. You are such an inspiration. So young... but yet so much wisdom! I too will need to start praying about everything... even simple things. I'm sure it will make a big difference. Greatly appreciated my sister. May God bless you richly as you continue to inspire others to draw closer to him.
I went out with guys when I was younger and I knew they were not going to be serious. I always wanted a man like my dad. My dad was (passed away now) a brilliant father and husband to my mum. He was strict but softer with me being the last born! Anyway I always prayed that one day I would find a man like him and he came into my life. We have been together for over 20 years and have 3 children. We don't argue and do everything together. He's my soulmate best friend lover and man of my dreams. He's the best father I could have ever wished for to father my children.
Asking God to guide you into that prayer... that will.be my prayer. I'm always sceptical to describe the man I want becaus I thought it would be too demanding of me. But now my prayer will change to that
( #Hebrew 10:23 ) Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful!🙏 My last testimony is that i always pray even i can cry asking God to bless me with one man. Guess what happened i had a dream God show a man in my dream but when i pray and seek .... for that man i can't find him...😢 it happened 7 months ago please children of God helped me how should i pray? up to now I'm alone hoping for God blessing. thank you. ☺🙏
Am at this point where i want to know my God first before i know any other man..i have failed terrible in the past but am now at the disposure of learning from the best,God.i love the tips here they are soo much inline and helpful too.
And that’s the way it should always be. When something worries you and takes too much of your attention then we should hand it over to God and put Him first
Beautiful. Thank you. I truly appreciated this tea! Letting go and becoming the BEST you! Nothing like God's timing and knowing that HE gives us exceedingly and abundantly so much more. Eph. 3:20. Trusting and walking to live out your purpose and HIS will.
I loved every moment of this ❤️😭😭 This idea of praying and writing to God about a husband is definitely one I've heard so much about but it's the first time I'm hearing it explained in detail ... That you ask God to guide your prayer so you don't get carried away and ask for insignificant things ❤️❤️
Just what I need in my life right now😢i found myself stumbling lately and settling for less than I should but this reminded me that God always has good plans if we seek, trust n wait on him! Thanks Kopano 🙏❤️
That's what I am asking the most high yah for a righteousness Man. That will love me will not hurt me but a God fearing Man. I'm praying for a husband 🙏🏾 😍🥰
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done; on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory, for ever and ever. Amen.