It is so frustrating on the part of this man that his kind of romance is brusque…rough. It’s also heartbreaking when the girl you want is even scared to dream about you and all the girls to that matter, coming from her own lips. He should learn how to be gentle because that’s the way to treat a lady esp the one you like. I understand his feelings because he wants his love to be reciprocated since she lifted her poisoned love bug from her and moved it into himself, he looks at her as her other half because of what they have to share together lest the effect of it once the other one is not in love with him. He silently loves, cares and protects her from afar but that “scared” feeling has blinded her from seeing through him. Nevertheless, after Ye Shiqi/Tushan Jing, I am shipping for him because I love that kind of overbearing romance, the feel of not only loving you but also yearning to be by your side all through the years to come.