Little did she know, she was building an army for herself. She raised those boys to step up for situations like these . Nozi is rich, rich at heart.❤️🤞🏽
What a phenomenal woman she is I love her and her heart ❤️ may god continue to bless her.. she's a rock 🙏 I actually learned something amazing from her I wish I can have a moment with her .she really inspires me
The true definition of it takes nothing from you to be kind. Instead those same kids are ready to stand by her side no matter what. Because of that kindness and innocence
I feel like throughout this whole situation, Nozi was called to be a mother more than anything else. She gave all her children a comfortable home to grow in and a supportive family. She has done her part.
One thing I've noticed about the hosts is that they have a passion for connecting with people. Sometimes it may seem like they are "interrupting," but in reality, they are sharing their own experiences to show that the guest is not alone. I believe their intentions are genuine, and unlike most interviewers, they are not just sitting there getting gossip.
But the signs were there. Firstly he neglected his own children when you met him and denied them to you. You taught him how to become the dad that he was before everything went left. He wasn’t that man/father initially. The veil has finally came off. Men are like this. Once he shows his true colours uyeyisa (lack of love and respect or none). I hope uNozi moves on and finds her strength and love her life the way she has always wanted. This is a lesson to all women out there that being bob the builder doesn’t make you any special to a man….
@@Vv-fl2rmthe fuss is, in him keeping with tradition he has disrespected and disregarded his wife and also this was never part of their agreement he didn’t voice out ukuthi he will want to practice isithembu. You can’t want to uphold church practices but uqale ngokujola maybe if he had actually followed proper protocol the outcome would be different. You can’t cheat then hide behind Shembe if you want isithembu I’m sure cheating is not a prerequisite for polygamy there are respectful ways to go about it. That is the fuss here
I agree, I feel she sacrificed too much for him. She tried to build the family but somehow he is just not satisfied with it and I feel so bad for her because she seems like a nice person.
To the hosts: don’t be discouraged by the comments. I also want to add that uBhuti gets too excited and end up talking about themselves or prolongs the question. But again , don’t be discouraged because you will get better.
@@penelopechiloane7408 I agree, but they should learn how to read the room. I'm sure not all guests need the interviewer to relay their stories so they can open up.
Nope she thought Zola would never leave her like the others of she does. Bakhulele eboarding school abantwa, with housekeepers at home. She fooled herself!
This was so well handled, Nozipho is very private and digging to much would have been invasive. I watched it in the morning went to town and came back and watching it again thats how much i enjoyed it. I saw a woman healing, walking towards herself, and learning her new normal. When she heals more and gains strength, then she will go deeper. Also, these are ppls real lives it's not mgosi per se so it needs to handled with sensitive and i feel mo and phindi did just right.
I wish everyone can understand that. Its very important to make the guests as comfortable as possible and not make them feel like they are being interrogated.
Nozipho is still not holding her husband accountable. It's him he is like that you dated him like that, so there's no evil spirit controlling him. It's him, you did not dismantle anything, he did! accept that he is a terrible human being and he was from the beginning of your relationship. You showed him love and the possibility of a solid family, he participated but just like a wild animal he is his true nature emerged. You are such an amazing woman and you deserve so so much better Nozipho.
I liked how Mo and Phindi made it seem like a conversation with a friend instead of a formal approach with just questions from them and answers from Nozipho. I enjoyed this ❤
Nozipho, the super empath, the chosen one. Your contribution in this world will not go unnoticed. God knows your heart. He felt your pain and will always cover you. Blessings to you Nozi
I feel for her and I wish we all had step mothers like that to receive and accept us with so much love. However, the red flags have always been there from the day they met. This husband was not honest about his other three kids while one babymama was literally expecting their child. He has a record of just leaving women pregnant and had he not married Nozi, those kids would have been fatherless. But in all aspects, this guy just never changed, he just managed to pretend for so long and he couldn't anymore. Anyway, Nozi you deserve to choose yourself because youve neglected yourself since the day you met this man. You also deserve to be protected.
I made a decision to read the comments after watching a video because they can change how you receive the message. I also think that this is a beautiful conversation
I also think it was a good conversation and Nozy looked comfortable and not under interrogation. She will do more interviews with other hosts with different interviewing styles . We cant get everything in just 1 interview.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 must only happen in case of death. Raising another woman's child while she's alive is not easy at all. It takes special people like abo Nozi to do it. Mina honestly, i can't. I don't want to do it. Omunye nomunye aka bonane nezinyane lakhe.
Sometimes we don't understand why things happen the way they do but i think God brought Nozi into this man's life for the kids (red flags and all) and he will come after this storm to make things right for her ten fold. Nozi did the work and those children know love, family, sacrifice and more even with what the Father is doing the foundation is firm for those kids
Nozipho is a phenomenal woman! I've never experienced such a gracious, loving and calm person. may God continue to protect and bless your family. The battle is not yours but God!
I came back to say “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time”. Sesi Nozi created her own image of who she thought he was and ignored who he really is. This man couldn’t pretend any longer
Clearly Zola is spiritually blind. He couldn't even recognize the favor that this woman holds. Nkulunkulu unebantfu bakhe, Nozipho is one of them, and unfortunately, he won't benefit from that favor anymore. Honestly I feel for him, because he'll be on survival mode from now on & best believe he'll feel empty even after he's gotten what he's been chasing.
God will repay you, watch and see how this lady's testimony will confirm the greatness of the Lord. People wished for this interview to talk more about the other woman, I don't think even the sharks would get it out of her. She couldn't even comment on her husband's part , she would never speak of the other woman. Nozi is the girl she thinks she is, even with so much ammunition she chooses kindness. I STAN!!
I’m not sure why everyone is complaining about the podcast hosts. No issues with the interview, it was beautiful and thank you for honouring Nozipho and her story. Wishing her and her family all the best❤
Yeah, I read the comments before I watched and it almost stopped me from watching, but I'm glad I didn't let the comments stop it. This interview went beautifully. I'm not seeing what the negative comments are coming from. It's 3 adults speaking and sharing their lives. It's a give and take. This was amazing❤
@@thaminyashetotally agree, it was a warm give and take and in sharing their experiences, the hosts created a safe space for Nozipho to open up to the extent that she was comfortable as well. Thank you for your vulnerability Nozipho❤
I also agree with you here , the guest was free and not scared to share her vulnerability because of the connection that the hosts built during the interview. Well done guys I really enjoyed the whole interaction ❤❤❤
Thank you Nozipho for opening up. Thanks Mo and Phindi for this episode. Nozipho, if you see this, please return to YT. You have a huge audience behind you and one awesome story to tell. we could learn a thing or two from you about building a family.
Nozi has the most beautiful heart, she raised this ungrateful mans children and he goes and breaks her heart like this, eish if only we could see what the future looks like. She really doest deserve what this man did to her, my heart is off to Nozi for being an incredible Mother to all those children and being a good person and not disparaging her husband at all no matter how badly he hurt her. What an amazing super woman.
That man knew exactly what he was doing. Nozipho is a very kind and a gentle human being, he thought Nozipho was going to agree to a second wife. He got shocked that she wasn’t going with his fantasy. That man will never last with that girl he is planning to marry as a second wife, Nozipho is gold. Her kind is not easy to find. If I knew her husband I was going to wake him up with a slap 👋😅. That man doesn’t see what God did, the time He wanted to marry a second wife, God put Nozipho on tv so that she would share her pain with South Africa. God wanted to heal her quickly, She is loved by God. The devil is a bastard, he is a liar.
It was a great interview. You approached it with positivity, avoiding gossip and focusing on uplifting her current situation. Nozipho, you are such a powerhouse, and U Bra God must have known you are capable of handling this
Love Nozipho. My sense is that there were red flags from the beginning that were ignored......and that this change is Husband has been a long time coming.
Never put your dreams aside for a man. Never have kids you can’t take care of when he left you. People change everyday, you’ll never know when they will change. It’s so sad to see this woman building with an unfaithful man from the beginning but ignored the red flags. Yoh kubuhlungu sis, may God protect you and give you a better man.❤
I actually enjoyed this, it felt more like an easy going conversation instead of an interrogative interview. Nozi also seems relaxed and so are the hosts.
@LoveMarriageAndFamilyPodcast You guys can tone it a bit. Dont come too strong than the person we here for. Dont ignore all the other people they sending constructive feedback.
@@murielmoyahabo6078Thank you. Because choosing to ignore what 90% of your audience is saying and branding it as a personal attack and only acknowledge the 20% isn’t going to make things better. Take the criticism and do better next time.
@@murielmoyahabo6078 lol they're definitely ignoring coz they're only liking those who are giving positive feedback and ignoring constructive criticism 😂😂😂
Love you Nozipho. You're such a kind, gentle and humble being- judging from the way you speak, choice of words and expression (very consistent). You seem so peaceful and I wish you conquer this..
It is not as bad as the comments make it to be. It’s suppose to be a conversation and that, they had. Be that as it may, let us constructively give feedback and not just lash on people. Had it not been for Mo and Phindi, we will all be longing for this interview. Yho! To Mo and Phindi, well done guys!
Thank you soo much sis Phindi and Bhuti Moh for handling the interview with so much respect and compassion. Thank you for protecting Nozipho throughout the interview and supporting her as well. I think we people just want the gossip and not to really go through the emotions with Nozipho whilst respecting what she would like to keep to herself to protect her family and personal space. You did a wonderful job and the interview was honest but also didn’t attack anyone. Keep up the great work I have subscribed to your channel.
This is the comment I was looking for❤ they conducted the interview with so much respect for nosipho and everyone that’s complaining and saying they want more kusho khona they looking for nasty gossip 🚮
This is just a summary of how unpredictable life is and that no matter how you can build something when the time arrives for it to break it just breaks whether it is built on the rocks or Sand😪😪😪
I see everyone complaining about the hosts but I didn’t mind it! They made Nozi feel comfortable and it felt more like a conversation. She can be shy so I believe their approach was best for her. She’s so strong, I really enjoyed the interview
I literally shed a tear while watching this as someone who’s been watching Nozi since her RU-vid channel days it breaks my heart that her husband is really moving forward with destroying their wholesome family 💔. I’m rooting forNozipho, uNkulunkulu emuhle njalo she will heal and do amazing things for herself .
Men can lie and they very lie well. I loved my dad with all my heart, he was my world. He loved my mom, with all his heart and respected her or so it seemed. He was a family man in the home and we later found out he was for the streets chile. He hid it so well for over 30 years that my mom landed in hospital when she found out. Zola sounds like he got caught in a lie and decided to add another lie on top of it, now the problem is the repercussions of that lie where not well thought out by him. He thought it would be easy but he thought wrong. Also it sounds like God blessed Zola because of Nozi and not the other way around, because there were so many red flags about this man from jump. Sisi Nozi, with or without this man your are blessed either way. The evidence is all around you. Ask God to forgive your husband because men who do these kinds of things, it does not end well for them. God will always uphold the sanctity that is marriage with everything that He has especially if it is blessed by him, and yours was absolutely blessed by him.
I'm so sorry Nozi that you had to go through what you went through. But I know you will pull through. You're very intelligent woman. You're beautiful. You have a beautiful heart. You're definitely God's favourite child. He is with you. He will hold your hand through it all and get you to the other side. Mo and Phindi are wonderful interviewers. They are interactive, sympathetic and ask the right questions and I think Nozi felt safe to share her life story with them. According to me, this was the best interview ever. Thank you guys for this. You did exceptionally well. And God bless your channel and grow it even more. It so relatable to what most people go through in life. Love you guys so much. ❤
Beutiful interview Phindi and Mo i enjoy this interview i love how you had also share ur own journey so that Nozi can be free and learn from experience as well , this is ur platform big my people ❤❤❤, to Nozie you such a beutiful heart nono may God bless you❤
Someone gets it!!! This is not a tabloid platform. The aim here is a conversation and making our guests feel comfortable. If people are looking for a bashing platform. Unfortunately this is not the one!!!
He saw that she really wanted to be with him and wanted to have a family so he said why not? I get a loyal wife and mother to all my kids whose moms I didn't marry.
Keep speaking about it, it will help you heal . I am so sorry for everything that is happening. You will be fine sesi you will be just fine stay with God❤
Wow Nozi, I can relate so much to your story. I, too, am part of a blended family with children from both sides, and it's heartwarming to see how well you manage it. I truly respect and admire you for your strength and love. Wishing you nothing but all the blessings in life. Keep shining♥️💐 Thank you so much for trusting us with your life story 🫂
Who else wonders where and how those kids would be if God had not chosen to use Nozi as the glue of the family? You can tell she comes from a family that places a high value on family and unity. Knowing the God that we serve, He will surely reward her for everything she has done, as this was His purpose for her. Thank you for sharing your story. As a young person, I have learned a lot from your journey and your willingness to share it with us. Your dedication to family and faith is truly inspiring, and it serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of love and unity in our lives.
I also believe that God will make all things work out for the children's good. They will learn never to idolize a human again, they will learn that God is a provider and that He is a jealous God. I pray that the whole family will be saved and move our from Shembe worship.
What a beautiful story. ❤❤❤Nozipho is such a wise, mature and graceful lady. She exudes such a godly character - like I am in so much awe. I can feel her beautiful, pure energy through the screen. The way she narrated her story while still respecting the father of her kids? Like wow, women like this are so rare. She has such a beautiful character. Oh and she was a pleasure to listen to, so well spoken - the way she articulated herself in sharing her story and just keeping it classy & graceful? Wow...and can we talk about how beautifully she speaks IsiZulu!? Yooh hayi ndimthandile shem. May God's grace always carry her.❤❤❤
The red flags where there guys. Respect to Nozi but sisi a man hides his 2 kids imagine if he wasn’t sick when was he going to tell you about the kids 🙆🏽♀️
Kade ya qala ukusa le ndoda ya nozi ihamba izalisa and leave kids AI suka this man really didn't deserve Nozi such a generous humble woman. May God protect and bless u Nozi ❤❤❤❤
You're right, red flags were there from the begin. The problem is we always think "it'll never happen to me". A person's history says a lot about them, let's not lie.
@@cindy588that "not to me" led her to collect all the other children to prove to Zola that she is marriage material, years later Zola reverted back to his true self❤ Wouldn't be shocked that there are other children made within the marriage that Nozi is not aware of.
Yoo this is a very sad situation I don't wish it for any women I was in a similar situation. I'm still in the marriage so unhappy I wish benginaso isibindi esifana nesakho ❤❤
So true... this man never deserved her in the beginning... he seems like a lousy dad denying his kids just to get a girlfriend 🙄 ay that speaks volumes..
I'm glad they interviewed her. They had a conversation and some information was kept private. As it should. Oversharing always has horrible disadvantages because people will use that info against. They will even go as far as you told us. I'm glad this interview went this way ❤❤
Hosts were well engaged with Nozipho. I like that the conversation was not so much on the negative parts of Nosipho’s marriage but she spoke with grace about her journey in a balanced way. Lovely.
Oh Nozi❤ the signs were there, the miscarriage, failed IVF. You weren't meant to carry this mans seed. But ke what happened happened and nonetheless you saved all the other kids and showed them love.
The notion "that is not my husband" snap out of it, the young lady did nothing to Ntshangase, uZola chose isithembu for himself, dont be in denial about this. I mean his sharp eye for women was there before you met him, 3 children different mothers and so close apart. Reality is reality sadly.
@@khosiethabekhulu3497 I also don't see her blaming the "other woman". For me it speaks of the Bible verse that says "we don't fight against flesh and blood"but fight against principalities and the battle is more of a spiritual nature. She is right, that is not the husband that she knows 😞.
All I can say is that God is Love n God is Good.Nozipho usimelile as oMama, usimelile as Housewives n usimelile as IMBOKODO.Nkulunkulu wayekhona, usekhona n usazobakhona.Ngyabonga Dadewethu
"He said I was the girlfriend he couldn't get rid off" - so basically she forced herself on this man, overlooking the trail of broken families he's left behind. What he does to others he will definitely do to you!!
I love how Mo also opened up and spoke about their story with his son just so Nozi can see no one is perfect only God is... Angisoli nix with this interview I thoroughly enjoyed it. Well done Mo and Phindi❤
Amadoda awanandaba. This man didnt care how much Nozipho was there for him all these years. Loved his children and raised them so well. Im in utter disbelief
That man never wanted to be a father, she had to drive far to collect DNA and prove he is the father ai ngeke🚩🚩🚩 Nozi on the other hand is such a homemaker all she wants to be a mom and she's great at it. Those kids are blessed to have her. He lost a gem
@@_molebogeng6281 I agree he never did. He probably lied to the new wife when they met, good luck to her. his children are lucky to have Nozi. I don’t think she will leave him though
Totally enjoyed this interview it was light on the heavy stuff Nozipho has been through and we got to experience the family she comes from, the woman she is without her being caged to the humiliation and embassment she just publicly went through in her marriage! She is indeed a beautiful soul and a MOTHER!! Shes got this!! ❤
Ai guys, this is a conversation. I don't think there's anything wrong with an interview also telling their life story similar to a guest's. It eases the guest also. This is not the Oprah Winfrey Show. That woman had no emotion when she interviewed her guests. To the hosts, keep it up guys. You are human and have empathy. We are not going to watch people interview others like they are robots. Engagement is important
They kept interrupting, jumping from how she grew up to being a middle child. in the end she wanted to speak more about her late father but was rushed. there was no moral of the story.We don't have a problem with them telling us their stories as host. They must let the guest to finish her sentences 😭🤣 Oprah Winfrey listen to her guest. They must not do that for other interviews. We didn't get to know who nozi was beside her 8 kids and cheating husband. When she was trying to touch on her background about who she is before marriage, her family, her career and more they made it about themselves
I am so confused about the criticism towards the hosts. I read the comments early on and was expecting to be disappointed but wasn’t. They hosted and Nozi shared her story as she was comfortable with. They gave her the floor. I only wish the interview was longer.
No need to drag Oprah into this. You can praise them without criticizing or comparing them to anyone. Some people will like this channel and some won't and it's okay. I'm enjoying this podcast as it is... won't compare it to others. Mo and Phindi are doing it their way and I love it for them.
Aggg I just love you Nozi, your calmness, how you tell your story without attacking and bashing the other people shows that you have a big heart. God bless you.
