Episode 242: Swifties! We need your help! | Calm Down Podcast 

Taylor's concerts are full of so much love and happiness -- it's the most euphoric state I've ever been in when sober. I swear.

Make orange/black karma shirts Friendship bracelets that say “Matchmaker” “Responsible”. lol Your the reason she gave Travis a shot!!!

I saw a clip of a sold out crowd dancing & singing at the top of their lungs at the Eras tour & the caption said: wouldn't it be great for girls, women, and so many others to feel THIS SAFE & FREE every day? To not be judged & just be themselves? Let that sink in. The answer is EFFF YES.

Jimmy is like a long lost brother, it will be so fun!!!

Just call Travis!!

You need to wear a Chiefs jersey, Kelces number, front says Chief Matchmaker, back Kelce/Swift. And a sparkling bottom.

How lucky you are going to the Eras tour, just wear what is comfortable. You girls will look great no matter what you wear.

Please come to Atlanta to do your improv! Loved it! I have a son that lives in LA, but I’m usually only there once a year. Unless you can schedule like a few months in advance! Love you guys! Have fun at the Eras tour!! The UK is awesome, but you never exactly know what the weather will be, make sure to take a raincoat, possibly a sweater. Sometimes it’ll surprise you and be cold!!

i would pick an album and wear the color that associates with it. you could go simple and wear a light blue dress for 1989 with sneakers

Yes, more cities!!! 🙌🏻 You ladies are the best!

Fearless outfits. Gold fringe of course. Most of all, friendship bracelets.

Two of the best smartest women. Love the podcast. Kimmel was great , both looked great.

Hi Ladies! I have to say how much what Charissa said about kids hit me, I am 49 and didn’t have kids…you know life happened got divorced at 31, Married again at 41. Always thought it would happen like you said had the plan and names in my head! At a certain point I started to think maybe I am chasing something that is just not meant for me. I think it is great thing that you said and you or any of us shouldn’t have to have a huge explanation why! For some it doesn’t work out how we thought it would and that is ok 😘 thank you!

First, I cannot wait to wear my WEAR by Erin Andrews backpack to my show in October! Pick an era and find a dress that looks like a stage or MV costume for that era! Or anything sequins & cowboy boots will work as a default outfit that you don't have to put as much thought into. There are some easy pieces of merch you can buy too (mostly the TTPD earrings, bracelet, and ring that I bought for my TTPD outfit; there are some buttons etc in the merch store as well). Or you can wear NFL stuff as long as it's Chiefs or Eagles/Kelce!

You 2 need to calm down!!!

I love Justin T. You were lucky!

It is winter in london

Come to PHoenix! I'd love to see you two live. Wait, did you get marriaed again Charissa, or is that just an Erinism? Honestly it doesn't matter, you two do you two.

My husband and I do not have children. It is a personal choice, and we don't regret it. Having children because you feel guilty or because of family pressure is not the right reason. You do it because you want to expand your family, devote your time and energy to nurturing your children. Everyone's lifestyle is different. We all feel the warm fuzzies when holding a baby, but it isn't a baby forever. It's almost like it has to be more about feelings as the reason to have children.

You don’t have to disclose murder….only if it was a meth lab

Nikki coming on as a guest soon?

My eye doc said i have really good peripherals so if I see something its probably there. Didnt like that

As for having children, turn off those thoughts that they could hurt someone and you would be responsible! What?? Where’s that coming from?? Change your stinking thinking…. Child/children are a gift from God….Don’t you want a gift that would be a part of you! Yes it’s work, oh but the Love is amaaazing!

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇨🇦

White dresses

if u wanna impress taylor....dress like her AMA award dress

I know I was a bitch and said Im not donating anymore blood to vampires.....guess its more energy vampires and I do want a quick blood test and I told you technology hates me.

Please don’t be that person in your position and NOT address Butker’s commencement speech. Stipulate free speech but how does he get away with that and others are vilified for speaking their truth? I’m was raised catholic and it’s stupid. everything he said exemplified the opposite of you two women. You can’t not speak to this bullshit. Though I acknowledge that you have to tiptoe due to contracts but you cannot ignore it. Please.

My daughter and I attended the first Nashville show. I was 59yrs old at the time and we stood the whole time dancing. The energy is undescribable! She puts on a show like I had never seen. We were both exhausted by the end of her concert. Wear comfortable clothes and shoes, my best suggestion. Love you guys. Your podcast is great.

along with the friendship bracelets, draw a 13 on your hand

I haven't seen TSwift live yet because I refuse to pay 3k for a show, but I've been to over 350 concerts. Cross-body bag to free up your hands. Little to no make-up - it will melt in the heat or with dancing. Hair will be likely put up after a bit- you must have a scrunchie. Comfortable shoes you can dance in, and comfortable clothing in general. Chapstick or something similar. For Taylor I would probably make at least 20 bracelets. I hope you have the time of your lives!

Saw you both on Fallon! You rocked it!

Oh in the words of Taylor “Jet Lag is a choice”

When I was 12 years old, I told my mother that I was either going to have a husband or children because it's the same thing. I grew up watching my dad, my uncles with their wives and children, and it was just too much damn work. When i met my husband, it was great cause he didn't want children either. You have to do what is right for you. I LOVE other people's children ... play with them, help with their homework, buy their prom dresses ... give them back☺️

Be sure to wear comfortable shoes because you will be standing (and dancing) for hours. It may be tempting to wear "cute" shoes but make sure that you can be in them for hours. Wear clothes that are comfortable also.

When I grow up I want to be like you!! You are just so cool!💫Beautiful, charismatic, funny and supportive of other women!! ✨🙌🏼

WEAR COMFORTABLE SHOES!!!!

It’s a fine line isn’t it between having your dreams and putting them out there and then dealing with the consequences of those decisions over and over and moving on …. Charissa is on a fear based what if worst case scenario track on being a parent and that’s not ever gonna be helpful … yeah it’s a huge trust walk you get what you get with kids, your teachers for life, and they ARE GIFTS in every sense. No pressure Charissa and I like how your friend’s not pressuring you either, is a big trust walk but isn’t that life tho

My daughter (53) and her husband decided to not have children. Let me just say that they have an absolutely wonderful life and I have 2 grand cats and 2 grand dogs!!!!!

Hi lovelies! I'm a 50 year old Swiftie who attended the Eras tour in Denver, Co last July and I'm coming atcha with some tips and hints. The first thing to know is that people will be wearing everything from a simple t-shirt and shorts to elaborate costumes. It's easy to get lost in what to wear but let me tell ya...the most important thing is to be comfortable. It will be hot. You will be doing a lot of walking. And to top it all off you will be standing and dancing for 3 1/2 hours. I chose to wear a cute cotton spaghetti strap sundress that had Swiftie words, phrases and pictures on it that I found online. I rarely wear shoes so I thought my feet would be sore if I tried to wear shoes so I wore a cozy pair of flip flops. I would avoid heals or any hard soled shoe. Just be comfortable and simple and of course bring tons of friendship bracelets. Be sure to hydrate all day because you'll be hot and sweaty and continue to sip throughout if you can. The concert usually starts on time but because of the heat and sun my girls and I chose to skip the opening acts. I think Taylor starts around 7:45 or something like that. Be sure to check your stadium policies on bags/purses and items you can and can't bring in as each venue is different. Ya'll were talking about a parking pass. I always take an Uber or something when attending concerts because I find it easier but if you want to drive there buy a parking pass ASAP because they sell out as quickly as the concert tickets. Take public transportation if you can. I don't know what it's like over seas but most of the vendors in Denver only took debit/credit cards. I think those are my biggest tips and tricks. The most important thing is to be COMFORTABLE so you can enjoy the concert. All of that said, I must tell you I have major jealousy that ya'll get to ses TTPD set! You're sooooo lucky! Have fun gals! Looking forward to hearing about your experience!

My one piece of advice would be to wear comfortable shoes!

I m child free by choice. I really never wanted kids. But i did re think it when i was 38, if it was still right for me. (I was /are in a 20 + years relationship. Now, i still dont reget it at all, it was the right decision for me. The worst was the pressure from "society" that says you have to have children, you're not happy without them, you don't know what love is without children" And of course grandparents who wanted grandchildren. I don't think anyone should feel pressured to have children if it doesn't feel right for you, the lifestyle you have chosen and live. I am very independent, highly educated and have a good job. I don't regret it at all, it was and is the right decision for me

They do so much. But this is the most personal. And it’s the best. I’m sure everyone agrees…everybody agrees, everybody agreeeesss!

The blond and brunette characters Taylor was in the You belong with me MV? One cheerleader and one in the band, or the white and red formal dresses?

Oh my God Erin and Charissa you should also get with Travis and do a joint guest appearance podcast with new heights. Plus I’m sure if you text Travis he’ll have you in the suite

Hi, when you go to Taylor's concert can you talk to her and find out what the true story is with her and Travis. I am so tired of hearing the different stories. I worry about them a little bit. Thanks

You two always make me laugh. ♥

So all this 'trying to figure out what to wear to the Eras Tour' talk, and they end up wearing the most basic boring white girl non-Eras tour outfits....

Having kids at 42 makes you 62 when they are 20. You don’t have a lot of time. Adopting later would be kinder with a 2 or 3 yr old.

I did hair jewels with my hair up, and I would recommend sneakers!

Come to Cleveland Ohio for a Calm Down Podcast Live!

Yayyyyyyy. So happy for you🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

taylors new color is white theme

Come to San Francisco

I never wanted kids. Now I'm 46, and every day I think to myself how grateful I am that I didn't cave into societal pressure. I love my pups and my freedom. you know yourself better than anyone else. Also, wear more bracelets to the concert than you think you need. Someone may give you bracelet that you don't want to trade so you want to have plenty of "giveaway" bracelets that you don't care about. The ones I loved the most went into my purse. We traded so many of them!!! "In my monologue" was my favorite bracelet! LOL

And I said wtf I did have tubes cut as you know....lets start with saying Adam and Eve reincarnated to Antony and Cleopatra reincarnated to Bonnie and Clyde reincarnated to Anthony and Heather. God has a destiny for Anthony and I, its like Brady bunch. God intends us to have a Mary and Joseph moment. Id say 6 weeks, guessing due for xmas. I had a vision of twins boy and girl.

Is there Calm Down merch? I love Erin's clothing line.......link????

Make orange/black karma shirts Friendship bracelets that say “Matchmaker” “Responsible”. You both killed it on Fallen

Tony and I have chance at rebirth did our shadow work, paid our karma. Long story short listen to whole tswift discography and might all make more sense

You guys should talk to travis about getting engaged to Taylor before theyget too old!!

You girls always have high energy. Im sleepier than usual, probably gained 10 lbs already

Ive always wanted an ice pack back pack, and got a feeling its going to be a hot summer

Hi Erin 👋😘😘😘 all the way from Presque Isle Maine 😘😘😘

Bring a back up battery for your phones!

What brand of white wine? Is it semi-sweet?

What about the 22 t-shirts for Eras concert

V8 fusion plus energy yes please

no kids. kids drive me crazy

Face off movie is pretty real

Hauntings true and yikes

Please don’t be that person in your position and NOT address Butker’s commencement speech. Stipulate free speech but how does he get away with that and others are vilified for speaking their truth? I was raised catholic and it’s stupid. everything he said exemplified the opposite of you two women. You can’t not speak to this bullshit. Though I acknowledge that you have to tiptoe due to contracts but you cannot ignore it. Please. (PS - I’m a longtime Chiefs fan)

Arrive early because the open acts are awesome for London shows. Also, plan when you pee.. I suggest last song run to the bathroom during All too well. It's the 10 min song, by the time you come back, she's still singing it. Have the best time, honestly 3 hrs will feel like quick. It's so much fun. And yes, wear a jacket that says "Thanks for doing it for AMERICA!"

C, lose the backwards cap.

I seem to the only fan concerned that Taylor went from men with no masculinity, to men associated with toxic masculinity. That response from the Kelce brothers to Harrison -whatever the fuck his stupid name is - was weak sauce. I’ve been a fan of Taylor’s since the early days. I raised an adult millennial Swiftie. I have been on her side through every single controversy. Not this time. Not when men in government are coming after my daughter’s rights in the name of “religion”. I’m sick to my stomach that poor Taylor’s new boyfriend’s teammate decided to make that speech and invoke her lyrics and put poor Travis in this position. But I’m even sicker from the Kelce brothers reaction on their pod. I’m super surprised y’all aren’t sickened. Women have to stick together when men come after us.

Not A lot Going On At The Moment T-shirt, black shimmery shorts, 22 hat! Taylor starts on time, pee before she comes on. The cheering before she comes on will be her mom/dad or both walking in. Then you can pee again during the 10 minute version of All Too Well. I only sat down about 3x during the entire show and I'm over 50! 2x were to take my boots on/off. 😆 Also Taylor has Eras Tour cocktails that aren't in every concession area. You have to look for them. Also, the merch at the concert is different than what you can buy online. Bring a lot of friendship bracelets!! The Eras Tour is Amaaazing! We saw it at Levi! Enjoy!! 🫶 I'm a Swiftie and a 49er fan too Erin!💃💃❤️🧡