Episode 67 | Dudu On Prison love, Manipulation ,Deceit ,Dating An Inmate For 15 Years & So Much More 

Why is she reminding me of Zodwa wa bantu?

I really feel for this lady😢 She needs deep help for her self. This guy was arrested for rape and he still continuing to violent this girl It's easy to see through her eyes how deep her pain goes Skeep I applaud you for such being a gentleman You are really a protective father, a blessed son and a true brother. I'm watching you turning and tossing trying to contain your cool and that reminded me of my late father, he could take anything, he was very strict but his only soft spot was to selflessly defend small girls and woman🙏

lack of family love and support could lead you to such horrible experiences dudu is just a victim of such circumstances

The bros said "ahh siyakujaja...." 😂😂😂😂 Hawu Dudu Ntwana Yami... ❤😂

What a sad ending story,full of lessons especially to the youths Never finance a man.. no matter how you love him.Thats what i told myself from my early years of dating

she must come back and slowly share her prison experience,.....

She needs to be separated from him spiritually because he has a hold on her. Before she receives deliverance she can never be happy in life or find any man. God loves you my sister and He has good plans for your life.

Shame i saw her on Madam speakers podcast.She fell deeply in love with a rapist for 15 years.I hope she gets healing and deliverance.You can see shes still hurting and that shes a good person at heart.

Siyak’judge Dudu chomi, ngeke 😭😭😭😭

Ai man Skeem, this episode could have been longer. The sister story we haven't heard all of it. You cut her off why. Great story but you missed another 1mil+ views here.

Yacaza girl she honest and love is blind i understand

Dudu mara😢😢this guy is using you.

People won't be able to help you, if you are telling that you slept with this man, cos they would think you are going to work for him again

What you are saying about the cats Sis Dudu is true.. animals help with depression because they are unconditional in their love.. I wish you all the best in your future, Psalm 23 remains true.

aw skeem wenze kahle its been a long time since we had usisi ❤️

The guy needs help I don't think he is mentally stable

Siyabonga Skeem GP Very profound guest 🙌 To Dudu " thanks for educating us " 💪

Le ndoda iyathanda ukuphazamisa amaGuest. He will stop a guest and 'explain' something that doesn't need explaining.

Skeem nice hoodie I don't know if you are selling them if you do please share the info on how do we get them please 😢

I know what phone sex is 😢😢

First of all I would like to commend you Dudu for your vulnerability and for sharing your story. Personally, as a female, I have taken gems in your story. 1. Be careful who you fall for .2. Any relationship that requires you to sacrifice yourself to the point of losing material things or your mental health is toxic. 3. It,s important to see someone when you start losing your marbles or feeling you are not okay. Prison love is not for the fainthearted. SWINDLERS ARE IN PRISON TOO YHOOO KUNZIMA . May God give you the strength to start that salon If I had the financial muscle I would help. Praying for donors to help.

Damn this is deep🤔

eish satan uyadlala ngabantu cabanga u cc omuhle kanje udlala isboshwa esadlwengula ai abo girl abekho crs angazi zikhiphani emakhanda wabo so skeem pls bophani leyanja idlala ngalo girl y imushutha benza ucansi ngale kwemvumo icala lelo

I like the fact she has a skill in saloon business she just need help uvusa saloon yakhe school or no school she has a skill uzophila ngaso just needs help for products to start again godbless my sister Danie skeem

Skeem hey Zulu is problem for most us especially in Botswana. But I love you still.

We need these type of women in our lives. A true ride or die. It’s just a shame her efforts went to an undeserving person.

Skeem what about us who dates prisoners even if we never been arrested, what about our stories

Zimbabwean Nguni sounding so much like RSA Nguni,😂

sad story for Dudu...may she find strength to move on and leave the devil

This is soo educational i feel your pain Dudu wish you all the best in life❤❤

Hi boss can i help this lady i am based in Durban .I neen to wrk with here.i have a salon

Dudu change your numbers.... If u trend u will trend people will 4get

Please can you forget about this guy.

Childhood is very important

Hhayiii Dudu nawe kepha 😂😂😂 ngiyakujaja sebakuphindzile Dudu come on

Bathi i "STOKO SYNDROME " (stockholm syndrome) poor girl didn't stand a chance. My advice is never involve yourself in indaba zabantu abayi two

Skeem is exposing himself with his love for "sex" questions,you can't be asking about phone sex for 20min🙄..

Awa dudu nawe yekela ukuzenza ispermdish sebhantinti ahh😮

Skeem you need to work on locating "ntwana" and get him re arrested. Taking a video of someone without their permission is an offense, mara Tokoloshi will probably deny saying that part.

Stranger, danger 💔

Love neh 😢😢😢

It's never too late Dudu You'll get help & get married..have a lot of children

This lady needs help psychologically and medically. Sitani bo Mzansi

Bulawayo ❤❤❤

Sister should change her numbers pls and move on 😢😢

Dudu lento abamdlisa or did to her it's still there, she doesn't need to see Ntwana anymore otherwise she won't heal

Ahyi sisi dudu the key word is that usamthando so find way to deal with ntwana nd be happy again I feel your pain

I believe the hair lose story even Nandipha is lossing her hair line

Another educative episode.Askies Mamoe.

Dudu sthandwa yaz mara eish, poor girl

Laph,My Mom Is Doing This To Us ,She Gives Money to a prisoner and Buys Him Clothes,All in the name of love,She Met him on "Facebook"😢She Doesn't Listen To Anyone.

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Ohhhh MaMo Waze wangizwisa ubuhlungu🤍🤍

Sis Dudu will get back to the guy... Untwana une lunch bar

I can relate to you my sister, I use to date a guy from modabbee prison. z'yakhala mantombazane🤞

Dude is such a beautiful soul, always laughing

Askies Dudu uzoba right

I wonder why it's buffering for so long

I wonder why it's buffering for so long

Tyoooo mi sisi engathi ungaryt mi sisi😢😢 moor

Sorry my dear sis l hope God help you 🙏 😢 ❤

Umuhle Dudu...uNtwana ukusiphi istradi eTsakane...sizoba carefull?ngoba ngathi unomlomo omnandi untwana ukugilile....sorry sthandwa Sami.

The pain in this girls eyes

The background laughs always crack me up 😅😅😅😅😅😅 Dudu is in love 😂😂

Dudu ngeke 😢

Kodvwa Skeem senichamisa natsi mosi😂😂😂

Ohhhhh mara DUDU, leave Ntwana alone sisters.. This will end badly, please shiya phansi ntombazana🙏🏽

"Uthando lu deep ludla nezinwele"

No I will judge you

Sad story of Dudu

Hay Dudu!!! Nalala again

Dudu you can’t be with a man you love love ruins things … that what our elders tell us to rather be with a man who love us and we just honour and respect them. I think that’s what they meant. That man will never love you .

Danko skeem

I was touched by i story sika Sis Dudu. What is sad is noting that mental illness is not understood in the African Community. We laugh at others to mask our own pain , because as a people ( a collective we are traumatised) Kudos to you for this platform that highlights real stories affecting real people. Themba you highlighted something important that back ground and family foundation is very Important. If the foundation is wrong, a child will grow up disfunctional. Through out the interview I was watching her mannerisms. She laughs at inappropiate moments, either subconsciously to mask embarrsment or deep hurt. Everytime she touches on a sad part of the story she looks away and stares far. Almost dissociation with the "person" that went through the pain. She was forced to be independent at at early age to fend for herself. Sis Dudu has serious Mother ( Naturing and Grooming) Father wounds ( Authourity , Structure, Protection) abondonement issues and deep trauma. She chose u " Ntwana" because she wanted never knew what love from a man looks like ( Primarily her Father ) so she looked for what her understanding of a Father was through u "Ntwana" ( danger element and sounds like a protector) Unfortunately she met with a Sociapath and Narcissist ( very charming and deceptive ). She convinced herself that she chose better that her mom who died at the hands of a Psycopath . Many are shocked at why people go back to their abusers. Trauma can do that. There is Cognative Dissonance at play. She nows what he is doing to her is wrong. She will excuse his behavior until she faces herself and heals. She will then be empowered to leave her tormentor. The phrase commonly used " we attract who we are" has been misunderstood. I believe we attract people according to who we are internally and our wounds. She needs proper therapy. She needs to heal in the inner child , that is where is she is stuck. Even spiritually if we where to go there. She needs proper deliverance.

Dudu ingane ka Zodwa Wabantu...Masechaza Indaba Yomdiyadiya...🤣🤣🤣

Haibo skeem uDudu yimi mara mina ngisashizila ngiloko trusting the process 😂✋️

Iyahlanya lento yakho Dudu, phuma ku leyo nja..

Big up @SkeemGp, I’m your biggest fan, what an addiction to your podcast

Akaboshiswe untwana for that sex tape kwaze kwabuhlungu ngoDudu

"Dudu usadunusa kunenkinga ezingaka"🙆‍♂️😂 uncle Skeem

Mara Dudu kanti kuyini okumangalisayo ngalo mfana😏😏

😢😢😢😢I know what she is talking about,worse I even got arrested for smuggling drugs for him in prison

Waze wajola no thabo bester😢

Skeem your program is very educational, I feel sorry for the lady, she’s going through a lot 😢

Iyhooooooo prison love ke scam hle😢 it left me over indebted and almost unemployed.

I wish Dudu can get help with papers I'm sooo touch such a loving and loyal person ♥️

Yhoo so sad indeed, Dudu may God help yu ,heal and deliverance, to start a new chapter in yo life❤ khhlwa and move on dear

Ayikhona buyela esbhedlela uyebona sychiatrist

Konje the Nzimande in Skeem's name, what is it for? (Genuine question)

Mhlonishwa, what happened to most wanted you were doing very well on that

Some people are so lucky imagine having someone like her on your side but sorry about your business

Igwe ayiwalahli amabala wayo ncese sisi wami😢😢

Ubani le auty yase Tsakane kanti cos ngihlala eTsakane

I dnt like the long introduction of the show before the initial interview

Ayi Dudu phuma kulomfana kusase early please 😢🙌

Dudu needs to cut soul tie with this guy honestly coz he is going to take her to the graveyard 😢

The pain in her eyes speaks volumes , sending you love and light Dudu 🌟

Skeem u so annoying by cutting her while she speaks

Ai Sisi dudu ku Madam Speaker Episode 46 you said umyekile uNtwana manje keh ubuyele kanjan again 😢😢😢😢😢

32 years, damn you are still young!!!