I just came on comments to say “ok who else is catching up on vlogs at 11 pm next to their Christmas tree before having to get up at the crack of dawn to teach little kids and is crying and crying in happiness watching?”😂
This is what friendship is. Crying laughing being complete happy crazy idiots together! If you have anything negative to say just keep it to yourself, let these amazing people have their moment! Seriously so happy for Estee & fiancé! And Amelia love how supportive you are!!! Best to all of you🎉
My best friend asked me to officiate her wedding. I felt very similar to you at first and ultimately decided that I HAD to do this for her. 5 years later it’s one of my proudest accomplishments and made our friendship even stronger. Hope you have a similar experience!
You crying your eyes out and Estee just being chilled is the funniest clip in the video. It's like you are more happy and emotional about it than she is. 😆
My bestie (a huge happy cryer) officiated my wedding and her and I did our own first look so that she wouldn’t bawl her eyes out when I was walking down the aisle. Maybe you and Estee can do that! Plus it’s so special to have a little moment with your bestie before the ceremony. 💕
I'm so happy that you're so happy for Estée. Years ago, I had a friend in uni who only dated with marriage in mind. She felt that for her she didn't want to date someone without treating it as potentially the person she would marry. At the time I really didn't understand it. But I could respect it. Now, I can understand it and understand that everyone has different life paths, and just because we do have so many options on what we can pursue in our lives, and more freedom to choose how we live our lives, it doesn't necessarily mean there aren't people who don't know what they would like their lives to look like from a younger age. I think it's very brave for Estee to publicly acknowledge that she's been focused on finding her life partner for so long in an era where one can be judged harshly and misunderstood for saying that. The fact that it came to fruition a decade later shows that she has thought seriously about this and isn't getting married for the sake of it. And I think you getting so emotional about it shows how much you've seen her go through. I think maybe you feel relief that there's a dream coming true, and that you feel you can trust that dream. I hope you can officiate for her, because I think you'd do brilliantly ( Saying this as someone who also hates public speaking, but somehow ended up speaking for ten minutes on national tv once). I think you might regret it a bit if you don't. Also, cue cards are your friend.
We had a friend officiate our wedding and it really was so meaningful. We bought her an ebook that gave a bunch of different scripts and she got a folio that she could read hers off of. Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable, but I know you’d be amazing if you choose to! ❤️❤️
Oh Amelia you are a true true friend. Your reaction to Estee's engagement was funny, heartfelt, sincere, genuine & so gorgeous. You are obvs someone who loves to see their girlfriends shine and be happy - which as we know, although this is as it should be it is not always the case - which to me equals not ever being friends with girls like that. - bye bye to them. We want the friendships just like you & Estee have. Lucky me I do have such friendships. I recall you speaking about this subject in a vlog in the past. Anyway Amelia your friends are v. fortunate to have your friendship.
The tears! I lost it. Your friendship is so beautiful. I’ve been watching you both for so many years and this was one of THE BEST moments. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of it. 💕
I feel like I'm part of this friendship too 😭😭😭 you should absolutely officiate Estee's wedding, the regret of not doing it later on will be worse than the fear of doing it now! Just have a script ready, but also, if you cry, it'll be a wonderfully sweet moment for everybody, so don't worry about it! ❤❤❤
Your friendship is beyond beautiful and filled with sisterly love 💖💖. You’re the sweetest Amelia, emotionally overjoyed. I’m crying too. That says something about your friendship that Estée wants you to officiate her wedding. Such a compliment to you. Jak’s Mum must adore you.
I love your friendship together, and how you have stayed close over the years. It is really heartwarming and emotional! I was crying right along with you
Amelia you’re such a loving friend and person 💜 I’ve watched your vids for years and your humour and kindness is why I’ve continued to stick with your channel.
Skin is "skining", malachite is "malachiting", nerves are "nerving"... you have an all new language and I love it!! (cried my eyes out with this vlog) 💛
Everyone needs a bestie/hype woman like Amelia! I couldn’t hold back my tears seeing you cry. It shows so clearly how big your heart is and what an amazing friend you are ❤
Very sweet of you, you are a very good friend. Personally I can't wrap my head around the fact that someone would want to be engaged, I was never "engaged" yet I have been married for 22 years, nor were my girlfriends and they are all married as well. We,my hubby and I, simply made the mutual decision to marry and that was it, yet I'm from Italy, regarded as a traditional country (but I'm from the North, here we are not Latinas nor Mediterranean)
This is so lovely!! Your reaction really shows how well you two know each other, how much you root for each other and how much you care. What a wonderful friendship. 💗
The fact that you are crying for your best friend’s engagement after 10 years of friendship and seeing Estee going thru dating and everything makes me emosh too 😅. Shows how special your bond is with Estee. That hit me. I wish I had a friendship like this. Lol there I was saying ~with love~ “pull it together, Amelia” (😘) at the beginning of the vlog and next thing I am crying with you. I had to share my rollercoaster of emotions with you.
it is so sad to see women cry ower engagement or marriage..............I really do respect these two beautiful women for being successful and independent but why so obsessed with marriage?!?
OMG 😭 I’m on a train and thank GOD I’m wearing sunglasses because I’m literally ugly crying. 🙈 Amelia. You would most definitely kill it officiating! You just need to be fully prepared and have a script memorized to work around. I’ve done something similar for one of my closest friends and it was such an honor! I know you will be great! ❤
You are able to do that job, I think Estée chose you because you are a fundamental part of her life and the person who has shared her fortunes and misfortunes. It's a lovely way to show that you are always there for her and how meaningful your relationship is.
You crying at Estée getting engaged is giving me major SATC vibes when Charlotte screams in the restaurant when Carrie announces she’s engaged to Big! ❤️ So cute! 🫶🥰
Omg your genuine reaction for your friend is SO heartwarming I cant' believe it😭 she's so lucky to have a friend like you, just supporting her without envy and with only pure joy🤍 you're a gift for people around you Amelia✨
Amelia, this is so beautiful! Yes, we are crying!! I feel like we really get to see how pure hearted you are in this vlog and it makes us love you even more.
Awww you guys! 😭 This was so beautiful and thank you for sharing this special moment with us, I cried with you 🥲❤ It's so cool to witness your beautiful friendship, cause I've been following you both from the very beginning and seeing you grow up into beautiful and strong women is so inspiring to all of us who have been growing up with you! Also, my bestie told me that she is pregnant a couple of months ago and my reaction was exactly like yours, I cried like a baby for half an hour before I called her, then I cried again, and I know I'm going to cry when she gives birth and when I meet her little princess, so I completely understand you 😁🥲 Sending you both so much love ❤❤❤
I can’t with this vlog 😭😭I don’t even know you two in real life but I feel like I basically grew up with you two . 🥹 Been a follower of both of you since I was like 15 which is 10 years now !!! And I really understand you Amelia for being so emotional. I feel like Estee had such a journey with so many ups and downs and she’s been through so much and to see her finally there, and how it’s giving her peace is just so emotional . I’m so happy for her ❤❤ and you seem like the best friend one could have.😍
My goal is to have a friendship like this by Friendsgiving. Btw if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine. Swing by, take a peek and stick around if you like. I’d be sooo grateful. 🙏
This was me when my little sister got engaged!! I helped set it up and I barely kept it together and after he did it I could not stop crying. Also this video made me love you both so much❤️
You seem the most deserving human to get engaged, married and with beautiful kids! ( I feel weird commenting on someone’s RU-vid btw but I enjoy your videos so much) I wish it will happen to you , let’s manifest it, so we can all be happy for you like you are happy for your friends 🙏🏽💙
Why am i crying too 🤣🤣 my bestie and i are in our 40s and she just got engaged xmas Eve and i was like THIS IS THE BEST CHRISTMAS GIFT EVERRRR. When you love your frirnds so deeply it means so much when they get their ever after. Her wedding is in 2024 and I'm already like THIS IS GOING TO BE THR BEST DAY OF MY LIFE (Mind you I'm married with kids lol) We have been besties for 25 years so her happiness literally makes my heart burst. I TOTALLY understand your emotions for your friends engagement!!!
Hi Amelia, I am so happy for Estee, I have been following you both for the longest time. I understand your hesitation about officiating Estee’s wedding. I too am terrified of public speaking. My mum passed away 6 weeks ago and she had asked me before she passed, if I would write and read her eulogy at the funeral. I had in my mind that I would ask one of the funeral planners to do it, but once she had gone, there was no way that I could disappoint her and it was her request. So I did it. I was so happy that I did and knew that my mum would have been proud and happy too. I was a bundle of nerves and couldn’t stop shaking but I got through it to the end without breaking down. Long story short, be very well prepared with what you have to say and read it out loud many many times over, so you are familiar with what is coming and kind of ( not in a bad way) become desensitised and able to read through the emotional parts. If you decide to take it on you will be so proud of yourself and honouring the beautiful friend ship you both have together. ❤
I’ve officiated a handful of friend’s weddings…. My main advice is write it down, practice (on film if you can) and time it (including pauses for laughs, walking, transitions, exchange of rings etc). If they’re writing their own vows, it’s good to know they’re about the same length. Try and have a good cadence of serious, sentimental & funny to keep it punchy. It’s a weighty occasion, but really people want it to feel like a tight 15 minute stand-up set building up to tears at the end. Oh, talk slower than you usually would and choose the best moments to pause for dramatic effect. You can totes do it!!
This is good advice since I’ll be dojng this as well! Btw if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine. Swing by, take a peek and stick around if you like. I’d be sooo grateful. 🙏
It’s strange how much there’s talk of wanting to be engaged but a weird lack of talk about who she’s engaged to. EL made it seem like she’d say yes to anyone which is sad.
After her public relationship with Aslan she said she's not making her fiance public. She did talk about how they met and what kind of person he is in her last vlog.
I was thinking EXACTLY the same thing! There was a lot of talk about this mission to be engaged, but not much expression on nurturing a healthy marriage or talk about the qualities of why her fiancé is worthy of her. If I was a man reading this, I’d feel concern for the fiancé! That aside (!), it’s lovely to see how happy Amelia is that her friend is happy - that’s a good friend.
Estée is a sensible woman, let’s not forget that lol 😅 she also lives with her fiancé and she talked about him on a podcast awhile ago and she seems really happy with him. I respect that she wants to keep him anonymous, it must have been so hard going through not only a public breakup in the past, but also thousands of people judging your relationship online.
I know I’m a bit late to this situation, but you Amelia are absolutely adorable. I laughed and cried out loud, that doesn’t happen often when watching RU-vid hahaha Thanks so much for this video 🌸💕🌸
My niece had to officiate her best friend’s wedding nuptials. She’d just recovered from a hip replacement too. Now this friend is her maid of honor for her wedding.
Funny thing, I have been watching your videos and shorts for months now but I just realized that I am not subscribed! 😂 I have clicked the subscribe button and I am now Officially your subbie! ❤
Not me crying on my couch this Sunday morning 🥹 I have been following both of you for ten years and seeing you both so happy makes my heart so full! ❤️ I love seeing your friendship!
