It's how you look at it. You should be whole with God as an individual. A person shouldn't make nor break you. If you identify and find your being in that person then you set yourself to fail during and after if it happens.
Yes ma'am say it again I went through a divorce and I was a hot mess myself so I know how she feels it's not easy but they're not actually dead they walking around but it is like a death
I just went through it almost 3 years ago and it’s awfully hard for real I understand what your saying But we still standing, I literally thought I was gonna die when we were back and forth in court
People were vile about her weight , and forgot that she was going through a tough time. So glad she addressed it, although she shouldn't have had to. Wishing you all the best Eva. Your future is bright
What's most BEAUTIFUL about Eva is how she is overcoming depression looking more radiant than ever! Prayers to Eva on this new journey she is embarking on. 🙏🏾❤
@@kenyafromcali Yes, that's part for course, stats reflect that more women file for divorce than men. I believe that's due to men's willingness to deal with a bad marriage more than women, and often that means men withdraw. But I don't know them so 🤷🏾♂️
I lost 125lbs. My skin broke out. My hair fell out. Couldn't control my blood pressure. Blew out my kidneys. Now on dialysis. But.... God. Im still here. Thriving. Happy in my new life, new relationship. Not at all looking like what is going on.
You definitely will pull through. God's got you. Jeremiah 31:3 ...“I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness. @@christinagoins2012
Love Eva's honesty.. remember rooting for her when she became America Top Model!!,,love her in her element being Madam and other roles she played in!!♥️💙💜💛💚
I love how many of you are validating what she’s saying with your own experiences. Life be life-ing and it gets hard sometimes. Wishing healing, growth, restoration, joy, and love for us all ❤
Man, Eva isn't lying! I'm currently going through a divorce. We called it quits 5 months ago and I've already lost 20+ pounds and I'm taking MUCH better care of myself physically, mentally, and emotionally. It is a healing and learning process, but overall I'm doing alright and navigating through it all.
@@donttrymetryjesus4566exactly that’s why I believe she was naturally losing weight because of what she went through, unlike these other celebs taking different medications to lose weight making them look like addicts🤮
Here she is telling her story!!! And yet ppl knew this and ridiculed her online and shamed her for weight loss like they didn’t know she was going through a divorce. Remember ppl pain shows in a variety of ways. Have compassion & understanding.🌸
@@crowder807right, no one fully knows what went on in their home but them. To tell someone, especially someone they don't know, "she should have never left her husband" is absurd to say the least.
Not everyone some get fatter. I sure didn’t lose or gain weight. I will not let another human dictate if I eat or not eat if I can’t sleep or sleep to much. Especially I know my ex not even thinking about how I’m living . Why give him the satisfaction. And I’m not beautiful and I don’t have money. But I love me more than any other human can love me.
@@LivingMyBestAlways you are very fortunate but a lot of people don't have your kind of strength and they have to fight to get to your level. So let's send some encouraging words to those who need help finding their way out of that dark place.❤
It can go either way....some folks are emotional eaters and will eat when depressed. Happy she got ahead of the story and addressed the weight loss herself.
She’s absolutely right after I lost my husband I lost 40lbs didn’t even realize I lost weight until other people pointed it out I was so grief stricken
Same here for me. When the Lord called .y beloved husband Gerald home, I was 310 and a year and a half later I'm 240. Grief is real and that bitch don't play 😢❤
@@missjoy6685A Divorce is still like a death between the two families, that have been bonded together for a certain amount of time. I rmmbr when my Parents split, it definitely got dark for about 3yrs., and felt like a death to our family. And it took me to become an adult to realize, that my Parents were HUMAN having human experiences.
@@demetriusjames9535No it didn't.. Her comment is trying to dissect WHY Eva filed for Divorce, or saying that her reasoning wasn't good enough. Eva's decision to Divorce was HER decision to make, and not meant to be dissected by strangers. It's still a Divorce, a seperation which is like a death.
Yesss!!! I said the same thing to my family and friends. It was all a shock to them, but I told them that I mourned my marriage while I was still in it, so when I finally let it go, it felt like a ton of bricks off of my shoulders. This was 21 years ago, and I have no regrets on doing it. My ex-husband and I are in a much better place right now, thank goodness. 🥹🙏🏾💙
Once I found out about a situation in my marriage I suffered in my mental stage: I lived as a non functional woman, wife, and lover : I became numb, depressed, isolated, misery, delusional, and lived a life of lies: I was deceived. When it finally came to the divorced end I was deserted and went into. Stage of loneliness: I lost weight and lost my appetite: I truly appreciate Eve sharing this moment
I used to work at Phipps Plaza Mall....I worked as a Assistant Security Director. During my time there I stood in front of Saks...greeting people as they entered the Saks store. I was known for how I dressed...I knew how to wear a suit. Eva would stopped and give me the most warm greeting...one day she told me that I may best the best dressed man in Atlanta....I have never forgotten that. A compliment coming from her was extremely amazing....I thank God she endured those tough times with her husband. I'm married and its something I don't want to ever experience. May God bless her....
You are still beautiful inside and out. Take time to heal yourself and grow. Through prayer and meditation, Eva, you will gain inner strength. From your words, you seem to be on the right path. May God Bless you, Eva. 🙏🏽☺️👍🏽💯
My name is Eva too, and I have been separated for 6 months from my husband. I was treated so poorly prior to the separation that I lost 30 pounds. I have gained every pound back, and I am trying to adjust to being single.
Praying 🙏 for God to give you strength, comfort, and peace!! Trust God !! he will never leave you or forsake you!! You will get through this!! Sending love and hugs to you!!❤️❤️❤️
She is so gorgeous! And yes divorce is like death, I lost so much weight so fast, I eat with normal stress, but learned REAL stress has me losing weight like crazy, wishing her the best ❤
Divorce is actually like a death and some of us take it harder than others but at the end of the day it’s painful for everyone involved. Especially when you have children watching while you trying to cope and adjust from the mess the parents have created in their lives so everyone suffers. I hope and pray Eva is able to pull it all together and heal from depression as well as the loss. Not to mention being a mother helping devastated children to find their footing while getting on track with the new direction their life is taking them. Hoping Eva the best with all her future endeavors.
This is absolutely true. I remember going through my divorce it was so devastating and I had to rediscover who I was. I now teach women how to heal and rediscover themselves after divorce. 💖
Wow this was a eye opener because i feel like that and I’ve never gone through a divorce but trying to rediscover who you are outside of a relationship that was strong , meaningful and gave me a deeper meaning of who I was. It’s hard. Thank you for sharing ❤😊🙏🏼🕊️
Eva I was in the same situation so I feel your pain. When my husband and I divorced many moons ago, I was so depressed and devastated I lost so much weight I looked like a zombie . Like you said I was not the wife anymore & didn’t know how I was going to survive. I was still a mum and that was my driving force to survive although I felt like giving up at times. I’m glad I didn’t give up with the help of family, friends and God, after 3 + years I started to heal. Unless you’ve gone through it, people won’t understand. It’s like death and you have to grieve.
I lost 35+ pounds after a 5 year marriage. I missed my ex-wife and kids so much that I didn't realize I had stopped eating. A few years later, I got into a 2 year relationship with another woman, and we broke it off, and I ended up gaining some weight back from that break up. The difference was that I was broken from the 1st one and relieved from the 2nd. 🤕
So true. I lost so much weight when I was going through my separation, but the come back is going to be amazing. I had to find me again and love me again.
Eva’s pain and heartache has given her a new perspective on life and a different type of joy that only God give. I’m so happy she is in a better place❤️
She is one of the most strikingly, beautiful women I have ever seen... I hope that speaks to the women out there that have divorced to know that you are not alone. It doesn't matter what you look like, we all go through it… God bless her and everyone out there who has, is or will experience this… Divorce is not fun, but there is life afterwards… So much life! #prayerworks!
Depression can take you to a place that no matter how strong you think you are Babe 😒 you go under sometimes without any return 😢 However, through the grace of Christ you get pulled up and you become stronger and snap back, new and improved 🫶🏾 ready for that new Journey. New heart, beautiful soul and an Thankful Spirit
What Eva is saying is true. When you are hurt, you will lose weight or gain weight. It is possible that you can lose your hair, etc. Eva is still beautiful I prayed that she was not sick I thank God she is address the weight loss and she is coming out of that mean old depression.
I hear you and feel you! Same here! Divorce is tough but God gives us strength, peace and joy in the storm. He provides us with the peace that surpasses all understanding 🙌🏽🙌🏽 We Still look good and feel good by Gods grace & mercy.
Such a beautiful woman… In pray she finds, and realizes her path… such an amazingly beautiful and gifted person. Listen and GOD will guide you! Continued Blessings!!!
Both are very pretty, but her facial features are different from Vanessa's. Vanessa's features are fuller and rounder. Eva's features are more aquiline. No shade, just different.
@sandraatkins2539 You must be very analytical 🙂 I didn't say she looks just like Vanessa Williams , only reminds me of her, remind can mean lots of things, not only appearance.I Agree that both are very beautiful women 😍 I am analytical too !! Lol..😅 Thanks for your reply!!
When I got a divorce I lost a lot of weight I got down to 90 pounds and people don’t make it No better for me! They talk about me said I look horrible I lost my long hair and had to cut it all off. I’m ok now I don’t wish stress on Nobody.
She's right. Speaking to my youngest son the other day, my ex-wife is in depression. When he told me that she doesn't use the closet I used, i understood there was some level of depression involved. I pray that she heals and prospers.
Girrrrrrrrrl! You don't need to be depressed as PRETTY as you look! Your hair is BEAUTIFUL! I'm glad to see you back on track with life. Divorce is difficult and depression is a serious thing. Cudos to you for getting through it! You look AMAZING!
Shes right losing someone you love will change you..hiding your depression, not eating trying to find your place after this loss. isent easy, I totally get it ❤
Never wrap your entire being and your entire existence into a partner/spouse. Always have a healthy relationship with yourself so if things happen to not workout, you dont feel like you lost the world. I have been through that many years ago and entered a very transformative process. Best thing that ever happened to me. Also, a lot of women will loose weight because the root cause of her cortisol levels are gone!
Eva you said that!!! Women need to rediscover who they really are at all stages of life,with or without marriage. We need to never lose our true selves. We can be everything that others need us to be but we need to hold on to ourselves thru it all. That's how we stay sane and strong as leather that is well together.
"...strong as leather." I love that comparison. People usually say strong as hell, as steel, as an ox, etc. Never heard strong as leather. I love it. That's what I aspire 2 b. Thanx 4 that, albertabrown2126.
I’m currently going through a separation leading to a divorce and I’m going through all the stages of grief like it’s a death. Because it is a death of my marriage and friendship. 14 years is a long time to invest yourself. I’ve been with him for so long that I’m relearning myself everyday but the memories of us still fresh in my mind.
I’m sending you all kinds of good, healing vibes during this tough time! Please don’t use your precious energy on “could’ve, would’ve or should’ve”. Allow yourself time (possibly 2-5 years) to heal and mourn. I promise you the light is BRIGHTER at the end of the tunnel!!!
Me too. It can be very devastating at times. But I always end up eating my pain away so I gain weight instead of losing it. Occasionally I have no appetite and don't want to eat but not eating seems to make it worse for me. So on those days I always have to force myself to eat something. I don't want to sink any deeper into depression.
She put in the best words "I'm not someone's someone." I never thought I would smile again let alone be happy but whoever reading this you will make it threw I'm remarried and wish I met her first. You will get threw it's hard but you will make it.
Divorce within its self is hard..let alone with children everything in life changes and we as women must continue to keep going praying and being safe. She is GORGEOUS..SHALOM
