Everyone Is Doing Marriage Wrong (feat. Daniel Sloss, Chris Distefano, & Andrew Collin) 

yep!

so I'm not the only one that noticed that, she is so hot

She's really not hot at all dude

Her reactions are hilarious

Nikki makes most other women around her look like sloppy dog shit, even without an ounce of makeup. I mean, I think I'd dislike her in person, but c'mon. Seriously? How do you even *notice* any other woman when Glaser is in the room?

It's great, his logic is on point!

His special is the shit. I'vebeen telling people to watch it since the day after it dropped

Not really a fan of his vibe, but the dude’s got some zingers

So you mean it keeps out the sweat and also could you explain the scent collection part?

@@abolishpolice5232 doesnt seem to work for me.. my body must do something fundamentally wrong..

@@mats7492 I'm sure in the areas where you have hair. (Under arms, pubes) you have more smell than other areas. It's probably working just fine.

I mean, there is a fine line between "You want to marry a shitty person, and i'd like you to think very hard about it" and "I have a hunch, not everything might be shiny in your future". It would be pointless and not helpful to just throw pessimistic thoughts at your friend.

define a comedian

How do you think comedians are made?

Yet here we all are listening to them.

It's the kind of off the cuff comedy that makes a good comedian

The thing is though: Sometimes it does require work. Especially if the outer circumstances are really hard. I’d agree with you in that sense that there are many, many people that should get divorced, but for some people it has proven to be absolutely worth it to dig through a lot of problems. Like my aunt and uncle. They went to marriage counseling and therapy, together and alone, now they’re happier than ever.

You don't have to be a chef for saying if a food tastes good or how to make it better

Must be recently married with no kids. Give it time!

So is not being married and just being alive

Hezekiah Crocker I totally see where you’re coming from, and totally respect that but you should really watch Daniel Sloss’ special called Jigsaw. He goes into greater detail and makes some really great points. I think the main point they are making here, that some folks may be missing, is that settling for someone who doesn’t love you 100% or that you don’t love 100% for the sake of not being alone is a dangerous game. And if you don’t love yourself 100% then how can you know how much someone really loves you, you know? “If you only love yourself at 20%, that means somebody can come along and love you 30%. You're like, ‘Wow, that's so much’ “ Sloss says in his Special. And I’m inclined to agree. I think there’s a difference between compromising and growing. If you find someone you can grow with and love wholeheartedly, someone who makes you happy more than they make you sad or angry, then lucky you! That’s wonderful! The point is, if you’re with someone simply because you’re terrified of being alone, then you shouldn’t be in a relationship. If you’re with someone whom you once loved but no longer do, you shouldn’t be in that relationship. Don’t waste your time, don’t waste their time. I agree but at the same time disagree with your 4th paragraph. Marriage as an old institution doesn’t hold the same value it once did. Society evolves. Most (and let me say this again, M O S T) don’t get married for higher social standings, financial benefit, to pay a debt, etc. anymore in America. Most get married because of ‘Love’, which has no societal value, but has significant value for you and your partner (and if it doesn’t, why are you getting married?!?). Values are subjective, objects and ideas only can only hold the importance we give it. Like you said, we choose what we put value into. Sometimes innovation can be more valuable than tradition, and at times, instant gratification is needed more than commitment, but in a relationship they all go hand in hand. Tradition (what you know about relationships, love, and yourself) needs Innovation to be able to allow another complex human being into your life. Instant Gratification (whether that be sex, or someone’s smile, or laugh, or personality, or a whole myriad of things) is needed in order to even think about Committing to someone. There’s such a specific combination of variables that go into finding ‘The One’ for a person, turning ‘The One’ into ‘The Many’ for most. Relationships are symbiotic, and good ones are mutualistic. We learn, we grow (or twist, bend and play with what know) and sometimes we get lucky! Why dwell on the fear of being alone or letting go? Why sell yourself short for the illusion of happiness? Like you said, life is short. So don’t waste it forcing yourself to love someone, or “employ someone to love you, for you” when the most wonderful feeling is truly loving yourself, and then (and only then) some could argue: love someone else, and have that in return, if you so choose. Life is short, why not just live it as happy as you can? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Oxymoronic and defeats the purpose. Fucking logical lol.

Para Bellum it doesn’t if your not a drone

But also: when you love someone very much, it doesn't feel like work. You want nothing more than to make it work for both of you. If it feels like work and you don't want to change anything for them, you probably don't love them enough.

@@valhalla1240 but also.... This video just stated how much people change, and they do. So even if you fell in love with someone.. they change, you change, so it takes effort/work to communicate and adapt.... People expect it to be easy breezy... Take kids for example... Priorities change. It takes work.

pcr2088 Yeah, i hate that

MyessYallyah Americus you must be a comedian...well done. Smart people don’t write so horribly as you. Must be part of you being funny 😄

Thats sounds like insest.some men just want to marry someone who will do everything for you like your mother does. I dont think dads do as much for their girls like the way mothers do for their boys.like doing their life skills work

SHOTS FIRED!!!!!

Hezekiah Crocker now they are dead, hence the name

Really! That's insane, do you want to meet them?

Marriage is an archaic outdated institution. Humans are not birds were not designed to mate for life... birds live for seven years humans live for 60 - 80 years.

@@justinpipes85 My bird died aged nine and my dad at 37 so I'm gonna have to call bullshit on this

@@justinpipes85 cool that's a nice opinion, thanks for sharing

@@justinpipes85 I think it varies from person to person. While one person is monogamous that does not apply to all people and while one person is not monogamous that does not apply to all people. Which is why we need to stop applying everything to everyone. Marriage works for some people, marriage does not work for others. The beauty of human beings is that we are like a bunch of different species of animals (not literally) in one so there is no uniform. Like a penguin mates for life, but humans are like a grouping of penguins and lions and elephants and rhinos and monkeys and just basically the whole Animal Kingdom shoved into one species (again, not literally).

@@joshholmes877 sorry fo hear about your dad. I forgot parrots live for decades but I'm not sure if the pairbond for life.