I feel so bad for Julie in that clip where everyone was telling her infront of the whole World that she smelled bad and needed to shave. Like maam, i Think its up to Julie to decide if she wants to shave or not
The „I‘ll date my brother“ thing is a common thought process amongst survivors of childhood abuse and neglect. These children are so isolated (not just physically but emotionally) that they feel like the only people they could ever relate to and be safe enough to have feelings for are their siblings because they know what it’s like to go through what they are going through. That feeling immediately starts to vanish once you‘re out of that situation and engage with the real world. Sadly enough these kids will have those video taped statements follow them around in addition to the scars on their souls. Ruby is truly an evil and disgusting person. She never deserved to be a mother.
Yeah I'm disappointed in these comments and even the video making fun of a minor. They are isolated. They have no friends or confidants. They can't even privately text other people. It's a trauma response
The mom was like "yea shes been asking for her legs and armpits to be shaved" and the girl was like "no i didn't" and then the mom tried to convince her she needed to shave like basically shamed her.
Yeah Ruby didn't even care. She was like "Wow... that's... um... vulnerable of you." She didn't even seem like she felt bad. Not to mention she posted their very heartfelt moment for everyone to see. Just like she does with everything else.
@@zainabalkhafaji1633 exactly no cuz that’s scary. It’s like abandoning your child just because they’ve reached 18 don’t mean they are automatically ready to leave give them some time at least. she just wants to get rid of them because they aren’t useful for her anymore. With the way she treated them they may have a hard time adjusting or adapting to the real world because she didn’t prepare them for it Recorded, disrespected & abused her own children & Shielded them from the outside world so they wouldn’t be able to see their mother was clearly exploiting them for views & what she was doing was wrong. Like brainwashing them to what she wants is what they want. Leeched off of her own kids for money & is now dropping them. Snake 🐍 right there
“I just don’t feel safe, or accepted in any ground groups..” That is so toxic of Ruby to just not care about that. It can be really damaging to a child (especially chads age) to be left out and not accepted by anyone. Same with the daughter. She just isn’t seeing that the reason why her kids have no friends, is because of her. And how much she has ruined their lives.
@@andrelouis9422 being homophobic is sarcasm now? and who would joke abt dating your own blood related siblings? ngl even if its abt step siblings it’s genuinely still very disgusting.
Girl right!!!??? Like what the hell???!! Than her mom goes “I thought that way about my brother too!! That’s why I married someone who looks just like him!” .,.......come again?
“Cause we’re supporting marriage between man and woman” I feel so bad for those kids there’s 6 of them there’s a high chance one of them will be gay at least
Because the owner of Chick fil a said he didn’t support gay marriage in like 2010 so all of these weirdos purposely went to Chick fil a to show their support. Lol
The final clip, I remember what happened: she burned something on the stove and the whole house smelled so bad they had to move out for a few days and had it cleaned up professionally which costed a lot of money and is probably the main cause of her discomfort.. she cried about it blaming it on being overwhelmed by motherhood and too tired… meanwhile her kids were expected to be grown up adults who took their responsibilities and juggle school, chores, church, practicing an instrument they hated, be responsible for their needs and fully taking care of themselves since an early age and with a camera on their faces 24/7… Speaking of overwhelmed and overworked.... It Made me so nervous because if the kids ever burned something she probably would have gone ballistic and made them feel like crap, but she was allowed to play victim and blame it on others
her: “my kids aren’t welcome to live with me at 18” my mom: “please stay at home as long as possible, leave when your ready and have the money to move out.”
Yeah, my parents prefer me to leave when I get in a serious relationship or married. Not for religious reasons mostly just they don’t want me to be alone.
@@kathystevenson9771 no she acts spoiled she literally busts her brother head open and barely said sorry and she hurts kids at her school but she shouldn’t have to starve because she didn’t pack her lunch at 5
@@Claireicorn they are like ninth cousins- we’re probably ninth cousins- although i don’t agree with anything else they did ninth cousins are super super super far back
“I think your armpits need to be shaved more than your legs do” “You actually stink...atc” I love how they are just throwing those rude comments at her 🥰
@@minieggssss she used to be and you can tell she was depressed now if you look at their more recent videos I feel like Julies and abby switched personalities lmao except Julies more annoying then abby was
@@user-yh8kg3bd4o if you don’t support it, you are basically homophobic. If there is a reason you do not support lgbtqia+ then obviously you have something against us. There is no reason why someone shouldn’t be okay with gay marriage. Unless they are homophobic.
@@sikerslalatm3147 The problem is why wouldn’t you? What is bad about it? Why can’t you support it? It’s a bad thing because so many people and brought down everyday by people who “Don’t support it” It’s love. You should be fine with someone marry whoever they want.
@@oliei I know it's a forum of communication but perhaps people there is more to the story then what's being said on RU-vid . Not saying its Chads fault.
Those two talking about how they have no friends is so heartbreaking. Can’t imagine being stuck in that house with parents that don’t treat you right, and not even having friends to escape to.
Ruby thinks shes such a good mom, why would she film her 11 year old daughter shaving for the first time and talking about puberty and post it on the internet that's a very private conversation and in the videos you can clearly see she is uncomfortable isn't having the talk and shaving already awkward enough and she even told her mom to stop filming and Ruby did not even care and kept going and embarrassed her my mom does that all the time like when I hit puberty she called all her sisters and cousins and talked about it but she did not record me and post it on the internet for the whole world to see she did not even record at all.
ikr. her mom keeps shoving the camera in her face. “yOuVe bEeN aSkiNg tO shAvE yOur LeGs” like that’s a private moment, stop recording everything and putting it on the internet.
these parents are messed up. i understand that they’re family bloggers and their job is to record their lives on camera, but they don’t need to record every moment of their child’s life on camera. like going through chad’s phone and talking about julie shaving and that she stinks and the other kid puking. that’s where it goes too far.
‘I...don’t have friends.’ Both the mother and sister while filming this private conversation where he’s showing his true emotions: ‘I dOnT haVe fRiEnDs eItHer.’
Abby is pretty normal she’s just going through an awkward faze and I feel so bad for her because she has terrible acne! She just got her braces off but not she has to get glasses which isn’t her mom’s fault but damn..
Ruby makes me so uncomfortable wtf. Like all she seems to care about is how much she can capitalize on her kids. They’re for sure going to leave her in some nursing home lmao.
@@thekoolkid7039 honestly most all family vloggers make me uncomfortable, so I’m sure they’re just as bad. 8 Passengers is just the channel I know the most about as a past subscriber, but I’m sure we could have the same conversation about most channels tbh.
The fact that this was posted 2 years ago and all the people in the comments realized what was going on 2 YEARS AGO and they are barely doing anything about this case. 😞😔 My heart breaks for these kids.
I really don’t know what shocked me more Shari saying she’d date her brother or ruby saying she felt the same about her brother like girl whaaaaat????!!!!
@ 1:45 the emotion expressed by the the boy's face is called "anxiety". And the mom literally shows no concern at all. She even looks annoyed that her son has emotions.
I remember when Julie said she wasn't comfortable with talking about puberty on camera and ruby continued to pressure her. She would film abby,Julie, and eves breakdowns. Also why is sheri saying so loud that Julie stinks? A. Its nobody's business and b. Obviously she's gonna stink because the hair causes sweat and hormones cause u to stink.
“none of my kids are welcome to come live with me once they’re 18” as a 19 year old high school dropout who can’t afford an apartment with other people let alone by herself, i am SO glad my parents aren’t like that. i live with them (i pay board) and i’m looking for a job while also studying, and i would be so screwed if they didn’t let me stay
My leg hairs are so light brown and tiny that they are not that noticable so I don't need to shave my legs. But I start to sweat fast so I shave my armpits about twice a week.
Uhhhh people don't shave because they are insecure. Stop. Some people shave because it's uncomfortable to have all of that hair. I agree with everything else you said but not the first part. It's stupid and untrue.
It was so awkward, I cringed so badly. Who goes to chick fil a and randomly says "I am eating here because I support marriage between a man and woman" LIKE WHAT 💀
@@user-yh8kg3bd4o yes it is, chick fil a is an openly homophobic corporation and she literally said I’m here to support marriage between men and women. Why else would she say that if she didn’t support same sex marriages
@@chadynaie religion shouldn’t be used as a reason to oppress people. I understand that they don’t believe in it but why do they have to boost up homophobic corporations. Everyone is allowed their opinion but why are we boosting up companies who don’t support people.
Bro this whole family is weird as fuck. It’s the parents fault. They can’t live with their parents when they turn 18? Do they not realize how hard it is for young teens this day and age to just be able to leave at 18 and survive on their own??? It’s incredibly hard. I’m lucky I have parents who are willing to help but these poor kids don’t have any of that. Even hearing them say they don’t have any friends is horrible and shows how much the parents especially the mom seclude their kids from the world.
there’s no freaking way she physically tried LIFTING HER DAUGHTERS ARM UP to expose her armpit and when her daughter refused (rightfully so, queen) she giggled and convered it up by saying “oh we won’t show it on camera”
Also her saying "My children are not welcome to live with me after the age of 18" when she is CLEARLY able to financially support having children living in her home (look at the size of their house) is just sad.
I feel like anyone who hated on Shari should have to apologize. She tried to get them out of the house for a lomg time and the police did nothing. All of those kids were scared and traumatized, not just Chad. I'm so glad Russel and Eve escaped, I was acared something bad might've happened to the kids until I read about Ruby being arrested and the kids being rescued.
“we’re supporting marriage between men and women” first of all why does she thinks it cool to be openly h0m0ph0bic and second of all i think everyone does 😪
right like gay people (including ✨me✨) don’t give a fucccc about straight people. we want EVERYONE to have rights. So obviously we aren’t talking about stRaiGht marriage cause they have rights. We don’t. Like I could get death penalty in 20+ countries🤪
I'm pretty sure all of his ex friends were good guys too. The 'messed up' things they said were probably just normal stuff teenage boys would say. His mother Ruby brainwashed Chad
yall please shut up about "everyone except chad.". it's not their fault that they arent "normal" it's their parent's. they obviously weren't raised in a healthy or normal environment and ruby's condoning and encouraging incest is a clear sign that sheri was taught that behavior by her mom. stop acting like chad is the only victim here. all of the children are, even if you think that they don't have likable personalities.
I feel bad for all the kids. They clearly are growing up in a toxic environment no matter what Ruby or Kevin says. I used to love their videos before I realised how bad it was. Sadly Shari is going to grow up and be just like Ruby. I feel the most bad for Chad though. His parents clearly have something against him and literally sent him to a place where you have to live outside and when he returned, they took his room away for months (I'm pretty sure it was 7 months but I can't really remember) and even took the door off of his bathroom. Ruby is constantly embarrassing her children (Julie and Abby in particular) always documenting them going through puberty even after they told them not to (Julie told Ruby she didn't feel comfortable with Ruby filming her but Ruby pressured her and filmed her anyway). I just feel bad for all the kids in that house and hope that they don't grow up to be like Ruby and put their kids through what Ruby did to them. woops didn't mean to write a whole ass paragraph lol
Watching this in 2024 after what happened it’s just so sad what jodi and ruby did to those poor babies if it wasn’t for Russel then they would’ve been dead sadly 😢
I’m sorry but the fact that Chad LITERALLY opens up to his mom about his insecurities and she won’t stop looking at the camera and recording him is so disgusting (2:08)
Julie doesn’t have to shave if she doesn’t want to jeez like wtf they don’t say their brothers stink when they have armpit hair so why does it make a difference bc she’s a girl?
She should probably shave her armpits, but she does not have to shave her legs and arms I'm older than her a I still have not done that before. but she should shave her armpit hair. she is so young to shave her legs and arms. Some girls dont shave their legs or arms ever she does not have to shave at all and I barely see her leg hair people wont even care she is 11 and i think her mom forced her because she wanted to make a video to get money or because she stinked.
Im not trying to defend ruby but... julie said she has been wanting to shave her legs (my thing is thats just imbaressing to put for the world to see ruby is messed up
chad looks so traumatised it’s unreal, but then ruby continues to say that’s very vulnerable to say on camera yet she shuffs a camera in there face 25/8
