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Muslim later why your punk as don't wana debate Mr thus much third time calling you out, what I gota make a burner account to have you debate me ? Huh you pdi follower
Hello, I have been learning more about Islam and watch a lot of your videos. I am looking for a good place to purchase the Quran as well as prayer mats and manuals to guide me through. Could you help me in the right direction? I do not live in a place where those items are easily accessible.
If the person in the video is reading this I want you to know i didn't practice Islam until I lost my mom 😢. I disagreed a lot with her and felt very frustrated most of the times. Probably blamed her for most things that happened to me. When I started praying regularly and learning Quran and Hadith - (especially about the mother being mentioned 3 times then the father once) , I realised I could have EASILY been a much better son if I had practised Islam earlier in life. Islam is true; it helps the individual, it helps the family and it helps the community live peacefully together. It's guidance from Allah. Now I pray I can join my mother in Jannah and be the perfect son she didn't have on earth.
@@unistavanjesquarediagonal2687 Yes I do alhamdulillah. Also sadaqah and qurban (edit: on Eidul adha as sadaqah too). Also scholars say making umrah and hajj on their behalf (after you have completed your own first - from hadith) or sponsorimg someone to do it on their behalf. Inshaa Allah
This is not just her, we all have gone through that phase of life where we think, that parents are forcing everything on us and we didn't like that. But personally I realise it now, after becoming father, how much they cared about me. Alhamdulillah for their love and support. May Allah swt give them good health in this Life and jannatul firdaus in afterlife.
May Allah raise your children on the right path, brother. Even though becoming a father could help u understand them better, I think just trying to learn our own religion helps us understand them better
You guys only have this issue because of peer pressure. I lived all my life in Muslim countries, and wherever you go, you see a vibrant, unique Islamic culture. You watch children and young people practice Islam without much fuss. Teaching children Islamic practices from a young age and being stern with them is only a problem when you constantly learn otherwise from society.
I want to move to Morocco inshallah. I grew up in America and still currently there. Morocco is awesome but I also want to see other Muslim countries inshallah
Not always true, u might find Islam in Muslim countries but you'll find Muslims in the west In the west they see the the effect and the people living without Islam, so they appreciate and practice Islam more sometimes, then those who might take it for granted.
@MABzOne I disagree. In Muslim countries, you don't have identity problems. You know who you are and what is expected from you. You have no contradicting ideologies. You feel at home when you go out wearing a hijab or niqab. There is no question about your loyalty or if you belong to this place. Even teenagers' rebellion is different. In the majority of cases, there is no fear of joining the rainbow community or leaving Islam and becoming something like today's guest. Especially among females. There are many blessings in living in a Muslim country that I didn't appreciate until I began to follow Dawah channels. There are a lot of problems in Muslim countries, but these problems don't threaten people's faith.
There are some mothers that are not good to their children, especially their daughters. They can even get jealous of them. My mom didn't let me wear a hijab at the age of 14 because she was worried about what people would say. My parents are Muslim but not practicing. When I started to practice on my own at the age of 33 my parents didn't like it much. I didn't care. I didn't even live with them. One time my mom said that she can be god and make her own rules. The same morher was very abusive to me and my sisters since I remember. I'm still healing from childhood trauma that both of my parents caused. So brother not every parent is like your parents. There is no oppression and compulsion in Islam. Every person should find islam by their own. Pushing religion onto someone will just make them run away from it.
I believe it’s extremely important for parents to educate their children ‘WHY’ they’re Muslim, why we follow Islam and teachings of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), why we pray 5 times a day, why we fast during the month of a Ramadan etc. The sister sounds a lot like me when I was younger where I didn’t know why we’re doing what we’re doing other than being born into a Muslim family, and it almost pulled me away from it until I did my own research and came to the conclusion that Islam is the truth, and there is nothing that could take me away from it. In conclusion, educate your children when they’re young so the foundation in their Iman is unbreakable when their older.
For the few minutes I've listened to this girl, I can imagine that as she admit she became Muslim (practicing) in 2011 since she's 27 now she was then 15 this means that for 15 years she wasn't a Muslim, she was totally free to do whatever she wants and suddenly she had to practice to renounce to all what she could do before that and so on... If her mind is pervert anyway how do you want her to clean and delete everything she was doing and what was by her perceived as OK ???... When you sow a plant, you put a stick next to it so that the plant grows straight ! May Allah guide her and us to the Straight Path
Factsss lol islam is THE truth alhamdulilah I always loved the Quran and prophet Muhammad from a young age, although I’ve been in gangs, got shot, drugs, women etc but I always was in dangerous situations and willing to die anytime even when I was in the streets cause I had so much tawakkul of Allah, once I started learning aqeedah salafeeya in detail that’s when I realized loving Allah and his messenger is GREAT but it’s not enough to be a good muslim, you have to have correct beliefs and ibada…that’s when I was able to change my life alhamdulilah although I’m not perfect today I’ve COME a long way walilahilhamd wal minna.
Yup, a lot of people raised Muslims don’t have a strong foundational understanding of what being Muslim is. For many it’s something they were born into, and just follow what their parents taught them. They need to develop their own understanding and connection with the deen. Allah guides many lost born Muslims just as he guides non-Muslims; it happened to me. Having a deep understanding of Islam made it all make sense.
You can sadly see the ideologies she was fed by the western environment "I want to dance and sing you know express my self" and "I'm child free and proud of that" are key sentence that show you her way of thinking...all that left was to say "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man" for the trifecta to be complete, May Allah guide her and may he bless you brother Ali as always.
My parents are quite strict in terms of sharia. Especially compulsory worship such as praying or reciting the Quran. I also wasn't allowed to play much with female friends, unless my friends seemed to be diligent in their worship or when there was an important assignment. At first, I felt restricted. Sometimes I cried and wondered, "Why can't I be like my other friends? Why do my parents control me so much?" But one day, I chatted with one of my friends who was quite outgoing and often played with school kids from street gangs. She told me a lot of things about the outside world that were very scary for a girl who spent a lot of time at home. My friend told me that there are many high school students out there who like to get drunk even though they are Muslims, they also like to watch 4no movies, they also don't pray or even fast, they date and don't hesitate to kiss even though they consider themselves Muslims, at this point I was already very shocked. Ya Allah, how lucky I am to be born to parents who really care about my world and the hereafter. Maybe for other people this is excessive, but really, I am very grateful. Of course I still have friends and alhamdulilah we often remind each other of good things. Maybe this is the blessing that Allah gave me after all that bottomless sadness. The text is very long like a novel🤨
Thank you for sharing... Sister I think. Some Parents are extra rough. Devout but supremely rough. Alhamdulillah it's beneficial in the long run but in this current generation it unfortunately doesn't work as well. You gotta be inspirational as a Parent. Not just authoritative. Your kid is a person not an employee. That's my thought on it. Some Parents don't want to be a Role Model. They want to be something dangerously close to a Tyrant.
Alhamdulillah you've a great parent.. The real life is afterlife.. There's no use if you're happy in this world, but on afterlife.. It's totally misery..
@@GutzOverFear Yes, you are right. Nowadays, parents need to be more varied in educating their children. Because every child is different. Being educated firmly and harshly does not guarantee that a child will be obedient. The point is, children should not only be taught "Pray!" Parents should also explain why we should pray, who Allah is, why we should worship Allah, and so on from an early age. So that children will understand why they have to do it all and they don't feel like they're being made employees, but rather being led to reach God. After all, this world is only a transitory place.
@@iemochi30 Yes, I used to think that I wanted to spend my time in this world ticking off a list of goals that I had prepared. In fact, God had other plans through my parents' upbringing. What comes from God is an eternal gift, while what I want is only something ephemeral.
Alhamdulillah for Islam. I’m a revert and I will die for the truth in a sunnah way lol please pray for my mom she’s very close to leaving Christianity for Islam. She had a conversation about it with me the other day.
May Allah guide your Mom & family to Islam through you & may Allah make it easy & successful for you ameen. And may Allah save & free Palestine & us all from evil oppressors ameen.
@@user-cq8xh5vl1p John 14:6 was a fabrication. Never mentioned in other gospels. Scholars, including Revd. Prof. Richard Burridge of Kings College, as stated in one of his books, concluded that the anonymous writers of John put their own believe into Jesus' mouth in their writings. In short it was fiction.
@@JohnTronto so you believe in their lie.So sorry that did not respond to the love of God.Hope one day your eyes will be opened but then you will regret the years you have wasted in islam lies.
SubhanAllah - may Allah make it easy for her mother and for her. As a mother - sometimes when we see the gaps in our upbringing of our children we can become overzealous in trying to correct/close the gap. May Allah give us the wisdom to deal with our children in a kindly and charitable way which will encourage them to listen to us and not run away from us, inshaAllah. Ameen.
As a revert (originally from Russia ) I don’t want my children living in the “free” western countries! I moved and married in Jordan and after 1 year we moved with our first child to Qatar. I had many opportunities to move to the West but I never used it and teach my kids to stay between Muslims in Islamic countries.
This conversation is a literal manifestation of the verse , Surah Maidah, Verse 54: "O believers! Whoever among you abandons their faith, Allah will replace them with others who love Him and are loved by Him. They will be humble with the believers but firm towards the disbelievers, struggling in the Way of Allah; fearing no blame from anyone. This is the favour of Allah. He grants it to whoever He wills. And Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing."
As a girl I say that she's just poisoned by feminism and egoistic approach to life, saying things been going well with me lately regardless of my belief was laughable . The quran ranks about these ppl. I think she should leave her mom's house and live on her own as she's almost 30. No need to cause headache for ur mother . She needs her peace. Keep ur doubts about god and take that risk until u die . Life is short anyway. Greetings from a Swedish revert❤
I'm a revert of 2.25 years and alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen this is the best thing that happened to me. I thank Allah ta'ala that I'm a revert because what I see among the raised Muslims. However, a lot of raised Muslims have stated that everyone needs to find Islam for themselves ❤ may Allah ta'ala make it easy for the ummah and guide the sincere ones to Islam ameen
"Well I like your mother, honestly" 😂 YES 100% People do not respect their mothers enough these days. May Allah swt guide her and reward her mother. Ameen.
Yeah she’s very lucky to have a mother like that who cares but i have a feeling she was too pampered when she was a child. Because her main reason is very childish “I pray and allah didn’t make my dua come true” which made me think about a Hadith of a man wanting to enter jannah with his 500 years of prayer and that didn’t even come close to the blessing of seeing
I wish my mother was a Muslim. She is Catholic and quite devoted. She's always been very strict with me, so I understand how easily that can be misunderstood when you're young or live in an environment that advocates following your whims and desires. My mother often mocks me for being a Muslim to the point that she'll threaten and curse me when she happens to see me coming home and I'm wearing abaya and khimar. So when I read about the lives of the prophets and messengers, and even the sahaba - when they grieve, I grieve with them. It's like your heart being ripped from your chest and then propelled into the sky. Anyone who is going through or has gone through something similar will understand. But ultimately, you give up what you love for the one who loves you - and who loves you more than Allah, Al-Wadud?
@BHAWANI1009 It's not within my knowledge to say what I think Allah will do, but Allah is Al-Muqsit, the Just One. She may hate Islam now, but she may find it later, Insha'Allah. Just as I accepted Islam on my own, it's within her right to accept Islam on her own. In the beginning, it was difficult. I often cried in secret. But in that difficulty, Allah made me steadfast and as a mercy, Allah granted me my father's support. I love my mother for Allah's sake, because she brought me up, taught me arithmetic, and how to read and write from an early age. I couldn't abandon her even as she pushes me away. I've seen violence, abuse, and evil in many forms growing up - and so this trial, albeit difficult, is no different.
@lasampaguita But Alah says it clearly what will happen to dis believers, specially directly specifically he talked about chris tians , in his Final book ! I just wanted you to say it , That its going to be etrnl punishm@nt for you mom Similarly whats her understanding of your etrnl afterlife ? From her perspective, Etrnl punishm@nt is awaiting for you actually! Simply Unbelivable for me to Think like this for my family, No such fear for me As a person who doesn't follow Abr'ahmic traditions
@@BHAWANI1009 To you be yours - and to us be ours. What are you even here for??? If you worship multiple gods (or "representations", ie: idols) - you already know where you're going to be as per the Torah, OT, and Quran......
@BHAWANI1009 The matters of the Day of Judgement are within Allah's knowledge. It's only by Allah's mercy that He decides who shall enter paradise. Calling myself a Muslim doesn't mean I'm suddenly guaranteed paradise - it's merely a testament of faith that Allah is the Creator and my purpose is to worship Him. Many of the sahaba started as great enemies of Islam to becoming among the greatest allies. The Day of Judgement is meant to be a reminder to humble ourselves and not become attached to this world. While my mother and I still live, I will continue to fulfill my duties towards her and I will remain respectful so long as she does not ask me to disobey Allah.
As an Indian Muslim, I sincerely believe that everyone should find Islam on their own, even if they’re born in a Muslim family. Islam among many people is so filled with culture to the point one can think that it’s a part of Islam.
Well you don't even need to sincerely believe that because Allah orders us to ponder over Quran and Islam 🤷♀️ we are having a cultural issue not an Islamic. We were told to pray 5 times a day, read quran without knowing it's meaning and fast nothing more 🙂
Yes brother, you are so right. I am an Indian too and cultural influence is very heavy in the sub-continent. Muslims here do things that are cultural and wrong, but under the guise of religion. That makes the younger generation stray away from Islam. Educating ouresleves is obligatory. It is our duty. I came to find Islam and became firm in my belief. I studied Islam, clarified my doubts, did not stop looking for answers. What many people who leave religion do is that they give up after one unsatisfactory response. Prayer is very important when we are tested with doubts. May Allah keep us steadfast on the truth.
@@nullity- Islam is not a walk to discover forests & deserts. There are red lines. If you cross them deliberately, persistently and knowingly, you enter a circle ⭕️ where you have to ask your self 👉Are you still a Muslim or you leave Islam completely?
@@kalijasin What does my obedience to Allah have to do with my statement, making me a hypocrite? Irrelevant comment. She said she was Muslim, so she submitted her will to God and accepted him as the only one worthy of worship, that is what a Muslim is. Don't victimise her, it's not like she was never Muslim and her mum was forcing her, that's different. There is no compulsion in religion, of course, but she knows what she's doing and is following her desires and wants validation from someone else it's clear. She's cherry picking. I have nothing but support for her mother, seeing the world through the same lens as I, you'd do anything to save your child from hellfire, even your worst enemies. By the sounds of it you aren't even Muslim so why do you even care? I'm not forcing anything on anyone, I'm calling out her emotional reasons for having issues with Islam. She's literally trying to blame Allah for not guiding her. But then says she wants to sing and dance over Islam. Do you understand the flaw here. If you knew something was the absolute truth, accepted it and then was like ahhh but I like dancing and singing, I know I can't do that but I wanna do it anyway. Cool then leave the religion, live life how you want but face the consequences of your actions, no one is stopping her. Am I forcing you to become Muslim? No. I want you to be Muslim but that's your choice. Only Allah can guide you if you are sincere. And I don't think you are. You're calling her to hellfire and I don't agree with that.
And there are other reverts like us who fled to Islam and held tight to the rope of Allah, knowing this is the only safety in life by following the Qur'an and Sunnah. Others flee from Islam towards their desires and those who have been exposed to the realities of this life have fled to Allah and Islam. Alhamdulillah.
This^^^. Maybe she needs to "bump her head" a few times in the Dunya of the US to see the value in Islam and the Grace of Allah (swt). RIght now all I hear is me, me, me, and my - which sounds like equal parts selfishness, arrogance, and willfulness all together. IMO, she's probably stuck in some Haram things and wants to continue in them. It's very easy to get blinded by the unchecked "freedom" of the US - it's "a test" all of it's own.......
How can you feel bad for her mum she spent years of her life with her daughter even said she saw her not practising she wasn’t the role model from when she was young she just tried to let her go up however she wanted and then in force it on her that doesn’t work for children you need to establish it from when they’re young so that they grow with it. There are videos online of Imam is complaining about parents calling them and saying my son is going down the wrong path my child is going down the wrong path when the Imam ask one of the household for the last 1617 years he hasn’t been a practising environment is the mother’s fault you shouldn’t feel bad for her they reaffirmed their religion that they already had in 2011 and the mother only started practising in 2019 so her daughter has seen her own mum play with her religion herself
@@Khadiyah01 she mentioned that her mother accepted islam in 2011 but started practicing in 2019 , so of course she wasn’t a good muslim role model from the beginning, but after she learned the truth about islam she wanted good for her daughter so it’s still valid, since they weren’t muslims earlier in life . So yeah i still feel bad for the mother who wants good for her daughter, and the daughter can’t see it
27 years old and yet the mentality of my 12 year old brother is more mature than hers. "I am a decent person and yet allah doesn't grant my dua, so I wont follow this religion"
All those who leave Islam accuse Muslims for it Not mainly Islam Unfortunately some Muslims with their foul language and behaviour which contradicts th teachings of Islam contributes to people leaving Islam. Reminder: Islam is Perfect, Muslims are not. If Muslims do anything wrong, blame them, not the Religion!
Say, "Is it other than Allāh I should desire as a lord while He is the Lord of all things? And every soul earns not [blame] except against itself, and no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another. Then to your Lord is your return, and He will inform you concerning that over which you used to differ." - Quran 6:164
Their relationship is with Allah if you don't understand submission to Allahs will then you will make any excuses. Muslims around your, being too busy, not having enough Muslims around you, your parents being bad Muslims, or being beset with problems, or having too much luxury.
Takfeer is mainly the responsibility of those who from day one want to pursuit their own desires, they'll blame anyone and anything but eventually they're the only one to be blamed ! Their lies and their hypocrisy are blatant ... Don't forget that as a Muslim and as a parent we are more responsible than a young guy single or some one without kids. On the Judgment Day they'll accuse us of not having done anything to prevent them from taking the way of Sheytan ! Allahu yahdina bel jami3
Nobody is to be blamed only person to be blamed is themselves they left the path of Islam they took the path shaitaan and believed in shaitaan, don't they have their aqal? Are they new born kid ? When you found the truth and found Quran now you are declining it than nobody but you yourself is to be blamed
When I first married my Step-Children's Mother, I told them to not embrace Al-Islam because of their parents but embrace Al-Islam because that's what they want to do and study the Deen for themselves and not through their Mom and their late Father. Masha'Allah they are both grown, married and have chosen to remain Muslims, Masha'Allah.
Mohammed, I just a few days ago started watching your channel and I usually don't like the dawah people. I find that they conduct themselves in a bad way mostly, at least the ones I have seen. So when I found you and seeing the way you conduct yourself and your manners, I subscribed immediately. I love how respectful but still straightforward you are. You show no arrogance and you don't shout. I pray Inshallah that you continue in the same path, and may Allah bless you and protect you.
@jazzmineloe6496 oxxivoxoxxiii This young lady talks a LOT, is a bit too arrogant, means ignorant, suffers from being 'self-righteous' believes she knows all there is to know, lacks humility towards her mother. If she doesn't like the presence or company of her mother, should move out....be alone for a while and ponder about life as a female. Mothers are the Best FRIENDS daughters could ever have. She doesn't realize how much sacrifice parent make to raise a child.....! May Allaah Subhanwatala guide her.
I actually follow a LOT of dawah channels and haven’t seen rude ones yet. Sure there may be some but being rude goes against what they’re calling for. Right? Sometimes the people treat the callers to Islam rudely, arrogantly because in people’s minds muslims are backward and “don’t read philosophy “ and other misunderstandings. So people are rude and they get the same treatment because if you’re nice people think you’re gullible.
Muhammad Ali is knowledgeable, if he resonates with you then so be it, don't follow other channels because it'll create doubts if your Islamic foundation is not as strong. There's nothing wrong with that, i followed him for awhile and he's enough and a good source if your method of learning is interactive and videos. Of course i advice you to read books and go to classes than watch RU-vidrs.
@@EM.K024 My Islamic foundation is Allhamdullilah strong but there is always room for improvement as we humans are flawed so I always seek more knowledge. Those other channels have not deterred me from Islam but as a muslim when I am out in the world, I always think of presenting myself to my best ability as I believe our actions is truly what will draw people in to our belief. Manners is a big part of Islam and there are hadiths about the manners of the prophet (pbuh). So when I watch those channels, it is from a good place that I wish they better themselves as I think their message will come across better if they practice the way of the prophet in their conduct. Otherwise Mashallah many of them are highly knowledgable. I like Mohammed because he has the knowledge with the manners, Mashallah and as a fellow muslim that makes me happy.
@@a_w_bukhari7579 Yes, it goes against what they teach. I don't think they come from a bad place and mashallah many of them have immense knowledge and I learned a lot. But manners (non verbal language) is part of the communication and I wish for them Inshallah to implement the way of the prophet pbuh in their delivery as it is equally important as the message if not more. If you are making dawah, it should be wholesome and not just words right? So even if someone is rude to them, I think they can set boundaries without falling to their level. We are supposed to be the better ones and I don't mean in the way of giving the other cheek. That is why I like Mohammed. He is very firm with his rules on his channel and very straighforward and that speaks confidence to me. His manners alone is half the message.
I think she has a loving mother who kinda spoiled her early on and now regrets it. The way she demands and speaks of anecdotal feelings as if they are some kind of objective evidence shows she has a pragmatic self-serving, and selfish mindset. Sorry to say that and pass judgment but I hope she opens her eyes before its too late .
Я думаю ей кажется что вера в Аллаха основана на предположениях, а не на твёрдом убеждении как это должно быть изначально. Она должна получить знания и убедиться, для этого есть Коран и Сунна.
Yeah sounds about right. It goes back to the part where they talk about praying and reward aswell. She says it isn’t arrogance but it still is arrogance to expect Allah to give you anything basically demand it just because you prayed. Do you know the Hadith of the man who prayed 500 years? When allah judged him he told the angels let him enter jannah through my mercy. When he refused and demanded to be entered through his actions allah told the angels to scale his 500 years of prayer against the blessing of seeing. The weight fell down because his prayers were nothing compared to the blessing of being able to see alone. And he asked for forgiveness and was allowed to enter anyway.
No, it has to be both. Logic alone only makes you behaves like robot. "Don't do this","don't do that", etc. Islam needs to come from the heart first. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him isn't famous for being logical either. In fact, his prophecies are against logics. It was his character, good nature, and good heart that makes him the mightiest prophet of Allah.
@@ianlanford6922 EXACTLY I use the term “girl” bc she sounds like an immature teenage girl going through an emo era (imo) and she is living with her parents but didnt follow her parent's rules. idk i felt bad for her mom. may Allah guide her
Some kids would dream to have such loving and caring mother like hers; who is still alive and well, who educate and lead to truth and what is moral, and to support her adult child in such an age and to let her stay in her home. May Allah bless good parents who nurture their kids and lead the family to true success. And for her mother if it is truly harsh, for Allah to give wisdom to her in her parenting and for the daughter to be guided.
True …im born muslim and I had my on and off practicing phases … sometimes when Im on my Good phases I think Im saved and Im better than other sinful people then subhan allah Satan will get the best of me and then I would sin again …. Its fool to think you are ever safe you should always make prayer to god to die on the straight path … and be humble enough to know even your faith is a gift from allah and you No better than anyone
You should be grateful to have a Mother like yours sister Timyrica Sherrod but unfortunately you don't fully understand now, She is actually a great gift for you if you really realize it one day. Thank you brother Mhd Ali for your best efforts, may Allah reward you best for that ... Aamiin
Mashalla, I came to realization that in my entire life I will never see a brother like Muhammad Ali. He always say the right words in every situation. May Allah continue to guide him and bless him
@@David-fq5un that's not the intention from my comment. I personally have not seen him say the wrong thing, is he perfect ? no. did I mention anywhere that he is perfect ? no. so stop reading between the lines.
Bro he's very good mashaAllah but no one is infallible except for the Messengers (as) as they were chosen for this direct guidance. Some people put the people of knowledge and scholars on this infallible pedestal, linking their faith to these individuals, and when they make mistakes or sin as we all do, it negatively affects their faith in a big way, in correlation to how high they put this person on the pedestal. That is why scholars themselves say not to do this. No one is infallible except the Prophet ﷺ through Allah's swts blessings and guidance.
@@MABzOne that's why imam shafii " Al-Nawawi reported: Al-Shafi’i, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If a prophetic narration is authenticated and it contradicts my opinion, act according to the narration and abandon my opinion.”
This is what scares me. When my daughters try to follow their feelings instead of acknowledging their purpose of life. I do know we all go through our own struggles,. Sadly, kids don’t realize that we are all going through it and they are not the only ones. As a mother, I want what is best for my children and that is to become great slaves of Allah, so insha Allah we will be together in Jannah🤲🏼insha Allah
In Sha Allah, Allah will keep the heart of your daughter firm and all of our hearts firm upon His deen. Try to encourage your daughter to critically think, reason, and use logic. Encourage her to attend halaqas, take her out on little daughter and mom dates and talk about how connecting to Allah has helped you. Point out the miracles mentioned in the Quran and the scientific discoveries that were made after the Quran. If she has questions, ask her to see what she finds in Quran and hadith and then try to see if you could dive deeper into tafseer. Making your own discoveries often inspires one to continue learning. Keep on making dua to Allah to keep her on the straight path. You are her mother and the dua of a parent is valuable.
رَبَّنَا لاَ تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنتَ الْوَهَّابُ “Our Lord, let not our hearts deviate after You have guided us and grant us from Yourself mercy. Indeed, You are the Bestower”.
Imagine being 27, childless, living under your mother's roof and complaining that she has rules in HER house. That she's "forcing" it on you and is not doing "her part" to amend the situation. What a joke. The caller has a degree, she's a big girl, why is she there? Who forced her to be there? Her attitude toward her mother and Allah is the same. Arrogance.
@The_King_Of_The_Memes The usual case is that these daughters become disobedient specifically after education and not having a successful dating life. She just feels awful for being alone I guess or being the way she is. Because being that person usually results in you hating everything around you and being immersed inside your phone. Maybe it heals after marriage or the baby comes in idk. But it's very hard to raise and educate such children who never had a proper tarbiya anyways
@@safwanshahriar9579 this is nothing to do with education. The key word she wanted to sing means to lament. For a poor person singing means madness, for the rich it means scandal. Why scandal? Because forbidden to marry. There are lawful ways of marrying, but the lawful requirements even block marriage until said person is lawfully able to marry. An-Nur 24:33 وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّىٰ يُغْنِيَهُمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِۦۗ وَٱلَّذِينَ يَبْتَغُونَ ٱلْكِتَٰبَ مِمَّا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَٰنُكُمْ فَكَاتِبُوهُمْ إِنْ عَلِمْتُمْ فِيهِمْ خَيْرًاۖ وَءَاتُوهُم مِّن مَّالِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلَّذِىٓ ءَاتَىٰكُمْۚ وَلَا تُكْرِهُوا۟ فَتَيَٰتِكُمْ عَلَى ٱلْبِغَآءِ إِنْ أَرَدْنَ تَحَصُّنًا لِّتَبْتَغُوا۟ عَرَضَ ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَاۚ وَمَن يُكْرِههُّنَّ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مِنۢ بَعْدِ إِكْرَٰهِهِنَّ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ But let them who find not marriage abstain until Allāh enriches them from His bounty. And those who seek a contract [for eventual emancipation] from among whom your right hands possess - then make a contract with them if you know there is within them goodness and give them from the wealth of Allāh which He has given you. And do not compel your slave girls to prostitution, if they desire chastity, to seek the temporary interests of worldly life. And if someone should compel them, then indeed, Allāh is, after their compulsion, Forgiving and Merciful.
@@aj3706 An-Nur 24:33 وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّىٰ يُغْنِيَهُمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِۦۗ ... But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allāh enriches them from His bounty. ... Such bounty could be waiting until after day of the judgement
A lot of Muslim parents make this huge mistake where they dictate on their children to practice Islam, without teaching them the basics , and that is Aqeedah, and knowing Allah Azza Wa JAll, sometimes even the parents don't know much about Aqeedah and force their kids to practice Islam, while the kids have no idea why they should do that since they dunno who they're doing it for LEARN AQEEDAH and proper tawheed and TEACH them TO YOUR KIDS, that's the only key to Jannah Insha'Allah Ta'ala
The child running towards the fireplace was a beautiful analogy. Her mother is shielding her from the hell fire. Brother Ali is so good with his words Mashallah.
You are 27 and living with your mom. You can always live somewhere else. If you can't live somewhere else then accept the situation and do everything in your power to keep the peace in HER home ❤️
Islam is truth because Islam teaches strict monotheism, instills the best way of life for an individual, offers the best reorganization of society and state, and provides answers to existential questions. Religion that calls you to submit to The Almighty, commands you to live a clean life, and tells you to enjoin good and eradicate evil - such religion cannot be false. This is why Islam is the truth.
Dear brother Mohammad, you have a level of knowledge and wisdom beyond your age. Thank you for all that you do. May Allah give you the very best of duniya and aakhira.
Don't attach yourself to humans or pets or anything, brother. Attach yourself to Allah only, and pin your hopes to Him, and He will reward you, Inshallah.
This happened to me too. My father, uncle, were all over me to practice, i would only go to mosque because they wanted me to. I started to think all muslims are hostile, un accommodative, and my non muslim friends were more friendly to me and that pushed me towards christianity, i started going to church though i had some reservations about Christianity which didn't resonate logically. But later I moved with a friend of my father who was an imam in a university, because i got admission to same school. I was expecting even a higher level of confrontation but to my surprise my guard was loosen, we only had 20-30 seconds of conversation about why i wanted to leave islam and all he said was "whoever is trying to let you leave is just decieving you, you have a valuable thing but you are not aware, be a good boy" and thats all. This made me think why he is different from my father, i started studying islam myself and alhamdulillah I'm not perfect, but i didnt allow emotions over my logic again. I realise that the approach of parent may be emotional, and i stop to judge islam based on how some muslims behave, i know its a behavioral stuff by some. I had consistent encounter with him for 9 years as a family firend with his children and he never mentioned anything related to islam or convince me. I also think moving with muslim friends can also help seeing their perspective about life
Timyrica, if you're reading this : what's your purpose? Live and let live? Derive pleasure from life? Increase pleasure and decrease suffering? Life is a test, don't fail.
It’s funny how people disagree with some of their country laws but still obey them. But when it comes to Islam, “oh it’s being forced upon me”. There are rules and regulations in Islam, you can’t be doing anything you want.
Exactly 💯 If we were offered a million dollars by legal means we would be ready to do anything no matter what and even change our lifestyle to get that money When it comes to eternal paradise worth more than the best of this dunia , we feel lazy and discontent ............ May Allah guide us all
Are we pretending there is nothing called *Satan?* Of course there will be a difference. Satan has no vested interest in a person obeying man-made laws. But for God's Laws, it has. It's ego is on the line and wants a company in Hellfire.
she said i am child freee and i am very passionate about that, red flag = she is brainwashed in some way, whether its liberalism or feminism. i could be wrong but thats how i fell about this
Probably both. She did mention that she has her Bachelor's degree - and a whole lot of Haram goes on in undergraduate studies. Her "education" and her "desires" have become her "gods" in the dunya.....
@@Ezees23 Having a bachelors degree doesn't equal to "a whole a lot of haram." I went both to undergrad and gradschool and Alhamdulillah was surrounded by people who prioritized deen, even the non muslims were respectful and always ensured that nothing compromised my deen. Prayer times were a priority for us all, our non muslim professors would stop the class to give us a break to break out fast or to step away to pray the salah. Most students had jobs, and were involved in volunteer work and we had parents who were actively involved in the school as they taught at the University. I personally was on campus alone and didn't have parents with me, but I knew Allah is watching so I did my best to keep myself busy and not even get close to anything that could lead to haram. So no, it wasn't haram, it's what you make of it. Your parents can only do so much but once you grow up, you will have to speak for yourself and take accountability. Sheltering your child won't help them develop a relationship with Allah but seeking knowledge and encouraging them to be part of that can help. I understand this may not be the case everywhere in the west but we need to be careful to not generalize.
Man i'm such a big fan of how brother Mohammad expresses himself, respectful yet states his point clearly and objectively. جزاك الله خيرا أخي And may allah guide that lady to the straight path
Some people are okay with the hellfire, and acquiesce their akhira. I'm scared to death of the hellfire. Prayer is as essential as breathing and eating. Allah give us all hidaya❤🤲🏼
There are cases where they're not scared of it because they don't believe it exists. No one in their right mind would know with absolute certainty of its existence and not for a moment ponder over what would happen if it becomes their fate. At least that's what I have understood from various interactions.
@@mohamedelkayal8871Once an Athiest asked Shiekh Ahmed Deedat : How will you feel when you realise after death that the afterlife was a lie ? Deedat sir replied : Not worse than when you realise that it is the truth
May Allah guide you sister and your whole family and reward the mother in this life and in the hereafter with the best rewards. Being thankful to God and worshiping him and trying your best to obey him is more important than just being good yo people and doing good.. The thing that makes a person good or not is his piety and obedience to God first.
May Allah guide her to the truth and May Allah reward her mother. Hope that hardness does not grow in her heart due to any actions her mother takes as sometimes this may be a form of unconscious reaction to authority. May Allah open her heart.
The way she speaks she has a lot of arrogance may Allah swt guide her in sha Allah we love you sister and our religion is beautiful submitting your will to that one creator it’s common sense guys ❤❤❤❤
Alhamdulilah 🤲 for Islam May Allah swt bless you brother Muhammad Ali. It's high time Muslims take full responsibility for teaching their children the Deen.
As a psychology student, this woman needs help. Our Deen is based upon *knowledge* and not ignorance or emotions, that is what makes Islam unique. Allah says, *Acknowledge/Know, that there is no one worthy of worship except Allah* ..So, Allah began with *knowledge* ..We worship Allah with knowledge not with ignorance or emotions. May Allah guide her. Ameen May Allah aid and give victory to our brothers and sisters in Palestine, and to the Muslims around the world. Ameen.
If the caller looks at it objectively, and she looks at it from her mother's position generally and objectively, so for example, if the caller believes in God and heaven and hell and that it's the truth, the reality, and she has a daughter and her daughter is uninterested in obeying God and by extension, the afterlife, then would she be like, "it's alright, she can go to hell if she really wants to." Would that be love? No, that means you either don't care about your child or you don't actually believe in your religion.
I hope and make duaa she is not the type who learns when it's too late. Being emotional is just another recipe for a disaster and a strong catalyst for loneliness and isolation, regardless of ones beliefs.
Someone says: My mother used to say: My grandmother, may God have mercy on her, used to say every time she woke us up for the Fajr prayer: Get up to pray, we don't want anyone to miss us in Paradise❤ ❤Morocco ❤
I think what she mentioned is why many Muslim kids today don’t follow Islam. What is the solution , I don’t know. It’s several issues:1) parents teaching 2) personal desire 3) convinced islam is true . I think 2 and 3 could be the biggest issues. 3 is the one that needs to be addressed but then if they just don’t care then there isn’t much parents can do . That’s why having good Muslim friends is important.
I think you're downplaying the role of parents. Their job is not just to give birth and go back to their jobs. Muslim friends are good, but they aren't a substitute for parents. Parents are responsible for teaching their kids Islam properly.
@@TheLion377 the parents role is important however friends are more influential. You may disagree but I grew up in the USA so I know how parents only play a small role(still important) . 90% of my Muslim friends used to smoke weed/had relationships, a lot drank, and their parents are good religious people.
@@TheLion377you are influenced by the company you keep, like it or not. Parents are obviously there, but we don't choose our parents - we do choose our friends. If your kid has bad examples for friends, don't assume your little angel will influence the pack of them more than the other way around, and fix them.
"The example of a good and a bad companion is that of a perfume seller and a black smith. The perfume seller either puts the perfume on you and tries to sell it to you, but in the black smith’s workshop you will either burn your clothes or they’ll be blackened by the soot” (Muslim).
MashaAllah brother, that was beautiful. I am in the exact situation with my adult child. Alhamdullilah Actually when she started talking I thought it was my daughter. SubhanAllah I have been very distraught over this situation and just hearing your kind words towards her mothers soothed my heart as well. Alhamdullilah Knowing that another Muslim has this understanding of being bound by Islam to each other is beyond words. Alhamdullilah Barak Allah ufikum. And for her to know so many ayah and still not be convinced only shows that ayah that Allah guides whom HE wants. Alhamdullilah I think about these daily as I read and think of my only daughter who I so want her to be in Jannah. Alhamdullilah Again brother, MasahaAllah Tabarak Allah
When things are going easy and well for you after you’ve turned away from Allah…. That’s why the mom is so worried for her. May Allah guide this girl, Ameen.
The last part by Muhammad Ali, can you say Hi to your Mom, gives me chills. Brother, you ended the conversation fittingly on that note. May this sister find peace with the Creator and her mom.
I was also born in a Muslim family Alhamdulillah! But I won't lie that I had to find the love of Allah (S. W. T) myself, sometimes our parents focus too much on the practical aspect of Islam and not the emotional. Why do we need to pray, what will we benefit from fasting, why do we give charity. What is the essence of the true La'ilaha illallah.
Yes that is why Allah(SWT) tells us not to be like the other People of The Book. Jdism - rejecting love, mercy, connection to God but focussed on following rules strictly Chrstianity - rejecting following rules but only focus on love,mercy of God There is a balance and Islam is meant to be balanced and fair upon the believers.
When one starts to choose to not believe in God and do what He commands, Allah will fulfill his/her choice and let them go astray. Its one's choice to be rightly guided or not.
