I've been in his shoes , exceot I wasn't as strong the first time and went back. The second though, by that point I had become someone new, not just strong and confident, but powerful , I had grown enough to use nothing but eye contact to crush her and stop her advances. It was hard not to become a womanizer though, I blamed all women for a time, had no trust, and if I felt anything for a woman, I left quickly. Thankfully I've grown, remarried, have a family, and I'm happy , FINALLY. People like her, man or woman, is disgusting. Cheating is murder , it kills the person you were, and only rebirth will be give you new life. What they leave behind is a zombie.
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Good lord, the ex wife cheated on OP, lied to him, and damn near KILLED him, yet the second OP moved on and found another woman that actually treats him right, THAT'S when she has a problem? OP should have sent her to the asylum. She sounds unhinged.
Obsessive controlling and possessive type.....they see their partner as an object to use as see fit and when loosing control...like a kid breaking a toy. saying if I can't have you nobody will.....
Agreed, plus, my heart bleeds for OP's stepkid and two kids. I predict that, when social services removes all three kids from OP's ex-wife, and splits the kids up, the stepkid will be declared a ward of the state, the bio-son will be placed with another family, through closed adoption, and the bio-daughter will be bounced around from one foster home to another, next, at 18, OP's stepkid will stay with/marry a boy who's not only financially irresponsible, but cheats on her, also, and become an expectant mother on the verge of homelessness, and at 17 (after nearly aging out of the foster care system), OP's bio-daughter will stay with/marry a boy who controls her, abuses her, verbally, emotionally/mentally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital, traps her to keep her from breaking up with him, and even threatens to un-alive her if she makes any escape attempts, then, with kids on the way, and no one to take them in, OP's stepkid will flee to another state, stay temporarily with roommates while getting her GED certificate, find a cheaper apartment (as long as it's in a safe neighborhood), and work one or two jobs to support herself and her kid as a single mother, OP's bio-daughter will also flee to another state, and have to stay at a women's shelter (until she finds a job and an apartment), and get her GED certificate, plus, instead of finding new love, just like OP has, the stepdaughter and bio-daughter will need to steer clear of potential new partners, concentrate on their mental health, raising their kids, and providing them with stable and safe homes.⚠️
Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Just ignore her completely and work on improving urself just to keep ur mind off of her. she will definitely not have an happy ending like u would if u forgot about her.
Throw a threat at ex wife about how you'll sue her in court for defamation if she threatens you with lying to ruin your reputation. Record all conversations, save all texts.
That's an excellent question, if someone gets wind of what happened, the kids will be on their way to foster care, when social services removes them from OP's ex-wife.
The second the hospital saw the abuse it should be automatic. The question you should be asking yourself is, "WHY ISN'T CUSTODY CHANGING TO THE NON-ABUSIVE PARENT AUTOMATIC?" But nah, you gotta attack the man.
that’s partially why i don’t listen to this channel much…that and the repetitive paragraphs when - that and the repetitive paragraphs when they are in the middle of a juicy section 😂🤦🏾♂️
I seriously doubt that any family courts will ever grant custody to OP, given they're biased against fathers, plus, if someone gets wind of the ex-wife's behavior, the kids (the two bio-kids and the stepkid) will just be placed in out-of-state foster care, and then, with other families, through closed adoption. In fact, the kids SHOULD be removed from OP's ex and placed with stable foster/adoptive parents, and they would have better lives.
I don't get it why the OP would listen for 30 minutes his ex-wife berating and ranting on phone? Why even bother listening for 10 seconds? If I ever get such phone calls, I would just close the call instantly and put phone to mute for few hours. Got no interest for drama bs and the more you pay attention to drama, the more there will be coming your way. Makes no freaking sense to listen at useless whining from a person you don't care for anymore for freaking 30 minutes.
Better yet answer and just put the phone down as you go on through your chores, I wonder at what point does someone so self centered realise they're talking to themselves
Dad joke warning: It makes sense that his new girlfriend is named Cher. She made him believe in life after love. Not to mention if she could turn back time...
The whole story is all over the place. In one update there is cleary abuse involved then he says he suspects? Then a gun... WTH? Is this a writing prompt?
Look my son's mother left me and 2 years being a part when my son told her that I was happy she couldn't stand it the whole thing the other spouse doesn't want them but but the other women can't have the spouse lol
your story is a powerful testament to resilience and growth. It’s incredible how you’ve turned a painful situation into a path of self-improvement and happiness. The contrast between your ex’s dramatic reaction and your positive transformation is striking. Your journey shows that even in the darkest times, there’s a way to emerge stronger and happier.
If i was this dude and she does this to me, imma be like "Wait let me get a cig and lighter." While smoking looking at her sternly as if i was actually listening.😂
This story is all over the place, she filed for divorce then he did and suddenly she's firing a gun at his side of the bed. Sounded legit to start but went AI bot batshit at the end. Good story though
is two stories, at one point around 13:30 we change for one to another. is hard to tell when because the way one of them end is very similar to how the other one starts.
I just hope my life will improve too. I broke up with my ex around christmas 2023, because he was abusive towards me and my cats. The last straw was after months of therapy and talks, when he got physical again and threathend to kill me. I called the police and locked myself in the bathroom until they came. I kinda still miss him from time to time, though i feel a lot better that i don't have to be scared anymore and do whatever i want. I just hope that i can love again in the future and that i will stop missing him.
I'm confused, why didn't he just cut all ties with his ex wife when she betrayed and had an affair partner and even almost killing he by firing a gun on his side of the bed. Not to mention that she is spreading lies on social media where people just believe what they see whats post and jump on him by bombarding him with threatening and offensive texts to him. She even has the audacity to comment on the OP's pictures with someone new. The OP's ex wife is delusional as she is constantly blaming him from the break up even though it was her fault for the drama and making the falling relationship when she strained him mentally and financially plus almost killed him with a gun. so what holding him back from cutting her off from every social platform he has with her completely, I really don't see the reason why not. So commenters what would you do if this happened to you. Would you get your revenge or hold back and move on with your life?
So the entire story can be dumb down to how dare he go off and live a better life and be happy finding a woman who loves him. As the wife has a temper tantrum in the corner like a toddler.
The paperwork literally sounds like it wasn’t theirs, like at all. Wrong names, wrong addresses, wrong properties, wrong children, wrong everything. You just got someone else paperwork lmaaoooo
It sounds like my gf she just got exposed to me for cheating of me with her new bf for the past 7 months. I would have dropped it if she just told me why. I was with her own kids more then what she was and that's what hurt the kids so much even making them cry
I am 4 minutes in and have no qualms about how he got her grandmother's house, but I am sure hopeful he changed the locks, cause the family might still have a key.
This is two different stories or an utter fake cause he had one kid. Now he had 2 plus a step child? He first said shingles for divorce and it took forever to then saying he did and it was done in two months. So I call bull shit on this.
Whenever you see a divorce play out online and a woman accused the other of abuse, whether it be physical or emotional there is a very easy and very accurate way to determine if these accusations are valid. When a true victim of abuse is free from their abuser, their only concern is to get away. They would never initiate conflict or do anything to stay in the others mind. They would never do anything to lash out at that person, over concern that it may prolong the process to completely rid the abuser from their life. Victims of abuse don't post online to "win".
Narcissists are actually very very rare. It is nowhere near as common as these stories seem to think. Sociopathy, or just hysteria are far more common.
There is a lot of truth to this statement. Men shouldn’t see it as failing but instead as a chance to succeed with someone else. Lastly, for those earning a lot more than their wives … the sooner you pull the plug the less years you spend on alimony.
What the whiplash? At 13:30, is that suddenly a new story out of nowhere? Is he talking about his new girlfriend? Is this a different user? He's been talking about his ex-wife who divorced him that he had one child with, and who was with her abusive AP Then all of a sudden he says "And everything changed that night when I found out she was cheating with two guys and she tried to shoot me. My 2 kids and step child will never be the same" WTF? What is this story change freaking mid-paragraph? He literally says "Yeah, I should stop letting my ex-wife get to me and drag me into these pointless arguments. Now as a bit of a reflection [totally new story with zero context about the change]" HOLY FRIG
This is always how it is. The partner who is the real toxic person in the relationship is so sure they are not the person causing the problems, and so often these days it is the woman. The incompetence of the lawyer she used was very indicative screams volumes that she was incapable of making good decisions. The OP jettisoned the real dead weight in his marriage: his ex-wife. Also, the fact she clearly lost custody of their child screams volumes. Also, her family's behavior shows that gaslighting is a family trait, even though she was the one who committed adultery and was abusive in the marriage she still tried to pretend it was the OP's fault.
I’ve seen so many of these stories it had honestly made me swear off marriage I just can’t get behind it anymore with how bad things can potentially get
Call me petty, but I would’ve been far more cruel towards my ex-wife if she had boldly asked to get back together. I would’ve asked her straight up “Do you really think I would accept you back in my life after everything you’ve done to me and put me through? I would rather walk into a cave and wake up a bear and face the wrath of disturbing its hibernation than accept you back into my life. Also, in regards to Cher, you’re welcome to meet her. But I wouldn’t recommend it because you will hate her for the fact that she is everything you’re not.”
Did I hear that right in the second story, she fired a gun at him in bed? And she’s still alive?!? Take a shot at me you better not miss because you’re dead if you do.
"She's the first person i talk to before i go to sleep and the first i reach out to when i wake up" CHILD NEGLECT (this is a joke btw please nobody rub it the wrong way)
LOL! Clever fellow! Sir, you should be thanking your lucky stars that she left you! Enjoy your new freedom. Go forth and be happy! Of course she had relied on your income. Of course she dumped the good guy for the a.h. boyfriend. Of course she lost her $#!^, when she saw you thriving. Live long and prosper.
I’ll admit Reddit focuses on the women who destroy relationships for the benefits they believe they’ll get but don’t lump us all in with the riff raff. I was raised to believe partners should be equal and that no matter what both parties deserve nothing but faithfulness and respect. You don’t have to believe me, I mean I’m the dreaded fairer sex but I know how my heart works and know without a doubt I’d marry for love. Money helps with the necessities but it doesn’t bring happiness.
If A Certain Character Was There He Will Say To your Ex. And Her Family that they expect you and her to be Back it's there imagination plus Rainbows...
he said the the children had lost all respect for their mother at about 14:40 but earlier in the video when he is talking about his childs soccer he states that his kid still has affection towards his mother.
