EXCLUSIVE: Yvonne Jegede Speaks On Her Separation From Husband, Olakunle Abounce Fawole 

This lady is one lady i do respect alot because she's got no scandals but i am sorry to hear this. Its no good news at all. For me as a Certified Relationship Mentor i always advise couple to see how to resolve issues when you see them instead of keeping quiet until it lead to separation. Act fast and learn to forgive easily. #hearttohearttv

Yeah as for me i went through the asme thing she went through with my girlfriend and everytime we try to talk or work things out she will never put in any effort then she will say arent we having a conversation but in realality she answer just simple yes or no

So when we broke up i saw thats she did some things with other guys she did do with me like having a good conversation with others guys and having a good day with them for me it was the opposite

People say marry your best friend marry the love of your life..marriage is hard work ..I've come to realize that marrying your best friend doesn't mean that u guys wont fight ..marrying the love of your life wont garantee success..My marriage isnt perfect it took work to get to where it is today,I got married in haste we barely knew each other,we both came from different backgrounds me from a wealthy home but my spouse was not from a privileged home we always clashed and fought alot in the beginning it took alot of pain and submission, taking care of someone when people have taken care of you all of your life,finding yourself it's so hard and involves a lot, but what I have realised about marriage is that it takes forgiveness to make a marriage work,it takes patience and most importantly no third parties or friends,I've learnt to make my spouse my only friend and confidant I've learnt to trust God to take the wheel .Am glad that I have a spouse who isnt perfect but unbelievably faithful..who wasnt my bestfriend who wasnt the love of my life but has become all these things over the years 3 beautiful children with twins on the way ,Hes pushed me to better my self by getting my BSN in nursing,he constantly wants to see me win,hes always there to help me so fir these little things am grateful. I believe Opposites do attract the rest is in Gods hands..if ure going through marital problems or issues know that it gets better with communication respect and submission..Gods grace cover all marriages..Amen..No marriage is perfect, starting a marriage because of chemistry is certainly not a guarantee the marriage will work,starting a marriage because hes the love of your life doesn't guarantee success but starting a marriage with someone who might be totally different from u might succeed with God as the center and no third parties 🤗❤❤..I wish u well yvonne and Xavier is absolutely adorable bless him

I love her courage die and the way she talks is👌 I know God will make a way for you for sure.some men are something else

You just spoke my mind dear so funny how men put so much effort to get a woman after getting her u can't keep her so bad.

#Thetruthhurts5 well Said. People are just evil they want to break your heart ❤️

Amen 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️❤️❤️💛

#Thetruthhurts5 Amen

I thought ppl would boo her..am surprised at your comment because ppl push so many blame on women that I become so irritated with the sound of marriage..every stupid creature on earth is a marriage counsellor!!!lol

Sure she is a strong woman

Its painful you know.its sad

Yes o....I feel her well...some men are just weaklings...while some are very cool

Yeah. It shows.

Yea shes hurt from her facial expression..i feel sorry for her and i pray she gets over it someday

Yes i can imagine

Lyn Atem that’s the whole thing. She is not badmouthing anyone. Are you sure you are not from my town? You are like us

Sooo soo matured. You don't judge people by their movie role. She's so matured. I like you mama

@@bigpussy6712 i am Cameroonian my dear. But i love the nigerian entertainment industry so much.

I reeeaaallly like this woman. She's strong and really beautiful. I dont know her but i feel she is very kind at heart

Yes I really love that strength in her and the energy of calmness

And kisses love u

God bless you Sis for uplifting other women 💟

Exactly i stayed in the mess for 8years thinking it would be better. Wish i had left earlier

Same here. She's sweet

Sameeee

Hmmm Yvonne you are blessed. God is with yu

nnema essien How did you scale through? How did you do it? How much pain was it? Did you have kids together? What did you tell them? I have so many questions. I am shattered....

I love u dear ur strong...

I have a similar story to Yvonne.I walked out when I was 3 months pregnant.From that time till now it has been 5 years.He has never helped us.If I did not leave he would have killed me.I gave birth to the baby alone and no one was beside me.

@@tabitaeguangs Sorry dear😢😢😢some men are very wicked chaiiii

Yvonne you are great lady . I love you .just keep being yourself.

With you on paternity court 😊

addie1309 amen

U have said ot all dear....i dont knw wat must have transpired btwn the two but the baby shuldnt be involved in any way.

The man said the son isnt his. So i think that probably the reason for his actions

@Addie 1309 you say you don't like to judge without hearing from the other side. You just did cos you did not hear from man. What if she is the one preventing contacts with the child or are people it's not something women do?

I am a living example. I fucking (excuse my FRENCH) walked out with my head held up high. I keep hearing all sorts of rubbish about me, who cares? God gat you Yvonne.

@Victoria Akomolede So sorry I just realised you mentioned you. Where are you based? And how do I get in touch with you Vicky?

She never said it was toxic... From her own story, she tries not to make things look like she was good. I think the secret behind the marriage coming to an end so soon, speaks for it self about some secrets which need not be told.

Infidelity was the reason why this marriage didn't work. From her stories we should read through further.

@V A let the music play on

Yashim blessing she is not trying to hold back any tears. I love her though.... she is strong, brave, tough you know!

She shows class

Yashim blessing Yea she was but it’s very sad and painful.😢

She really was holding back her tears but luckily she's strong, if it was an american person here there wouod have been rain of tears already

Facial expression can't be compared to inate and heart feelings.She has been hurt

Bukola Adekunle are you kidding me ,, have you seen the boy,, looks totally like the guy

@@stephenmoses4934 But still, he is doubt Thomas, let him get the test and all this rumors or story of the child is not mine will stop, Yvonne is will free of wrong accusation, those friends who don't want happy home for them will be put to shame 'I think' and maybe they can come together, you know you men na (lol), you always act on what you hear.

Stephen Moses very true sir. No need for DNA

Resemblance doesn't matter when it comes to paternity test,watch paternity court on RU-vid.

I've loved her since then too

Like!

GHchic absolutely narcissist

How can you classify someone you don't even know?

You are very right dear

MY DEAR SISTER, THAT IS THE REASON I HUSTLE OOO, BECAUSE I WANT TO BE THE CAPTAIN OF MY OWN SHIP.

So sorry

Pamax beauty what does she mean by pregnancy hormones?

@@ehinonmomodu6296 Happens in women during menstrual period, pregnancy and after pregnancy. Become so tired and unexpected anger

@@Pamaxbeauty pregnancy depression lol. I always barred incoming calls on my phone when am pregnant hahahahhhahaha. Avoiding every confrontation or upset cause my hormones is all over the place. Just do my things and come back home watch movies is relaxing.

She does not need to cry , the man obviously has a issue and he need to sort his life out .I like how strong she is I agree with you when you said God will assist her .

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@ Olubunmi maven for whatever reason! Some women can be very wicked and deserved to be neglected. Am not insinuating that Yvonne Jegede is before am crucified.

@@oluakinwale4485 no one deserves to be neglected. If a man feels that his wife is being wicked he can simply walk away and end the relationship instead of the mental abuse that can come from neglect in such sensible time in a woman's life.

''for whateverreason''...are you serious? this is kind of shit they love to perpetuate all the time. How about if she cheated on the guy and the guy got to find out? or do you think she will come out openely and confess what really happened. Make una dey there dey do whatever reason , as if its not almost a daily occurence wives kill their husbands

@@ramia184 exactly what l said. "walk away" Maybe that is what the man has done. Women want to be seen and for people to see them as "victims" in most or all relationship breakdowns. Not so and am fed up of this "see how l have been treated". I repeat there are wicked women and men out there. You don't have to destroy the other because you no longer have feelings for that person even if there are no children involved. When children are involved you both need to put your "thinking caps on" l am one of the men that believe in treating a woman with respect and dignity and l expect the same from the woman. However, we all know that no one is perfect only God is. As a man or a woman look for a future partner, look at their habits/vices you can live with and those you cannot live with and make your decisions from there. Finally, most women are more interested in the man's look and their bank balance than anything else.

@@kayholn7522 good comment.👍exactly my point. Women always want people to believe it's always the fault of the man when a relationship falters. I will say this again; there are wicked women out there Very wicked women. They act before they think. "Impulsive"

Yesssss

Nana F he was spectacular and did a fabulous job..kedos

joy purity same thought 💭 u can’t trust friends

Very true

True almost happened to me too bad ass friends

Why are they your friends if you can't trust them???

@@Jooniey87 that's the reason we are human" We can change at any time. If you blood can stage you kidnap let alone friends

Well said. I couldn't have said it any better.

You are right

Bimbo?

That's right

@@BlessingAmez Sad. Some friends

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😩😩

Exactly

Exactly

Truth

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My sister i ave been aaking me self dat also...

Selfish

True

If anyone knew the answer to that they would be a millionaire. If a man doesn’t want children early in the marriage, why can he not tell the woman that??????? So they can be sure they beef up the contraception. Ironically, it’s these types of men who don’t want children that are the randiest and won’t want to use protection. This one even took her to a fertility doctor!!!!!! Why turn on her after getting her pregnant? I have heard numerous versions of this story, it’s not even funny. Or maybe they assume that once the woman is pregnant, she has nowhere else to go and can’t attract any other men so they can start treating her the way they really feel. Thank God for women empowerment. Very soon he would have started ‘toasting’ other women in her presence.

That's not true. You're absolutely wrong. I am still in my marriage with three lovely kids. Family is everything

Yvonne there are people out there that care for you be strong for your son

Beautiful comment ❤️

I always love her

bad fans... so your happy with her brake-up

@@RoselomonTV rubbish talk

Not happy, but the man is foolish, pregnant women deserves a good care, well you are not a woman that is why u don’t no the pains.

It'z Golden Bae you here again?

It'z Golden Bae Yea She was and I was crying Cos it’s emotional and sad

He was cheating (with or without your so called friend) ..... thats what can make a man to ignore his preg wife( first trimester) ...first baby !! Are u kidding me?

If a man wants to cheat he is going to cheat. Even if you leave your friend with him or not...he is going to find someone outside. Woman need to stop this stupid mentally of acting like Men aren´t responsible for their actions.

copper I feel like he cheated but according to her there was no cheating involved, I don’t know, maybe she’s trying to cover up for him

Me too

Yes she is

Thank you very much for this

Thanks God for urs

You’re so right my sister,thanks for the advice too

@@maafiaagyekumwaa6936 you are welcome☺️

@@MoriyonIpuole you are welcome 🤗

Is it so easy?

Please please please do NOT ever judge anyone’s marriage. If yours turned out right, congratulations to you. But please don’t put your mouth in what you do not know. Let’s speak to your wife to see if she shares the same view about being with you.

IamTee thank u for your enlightened comment. I listened to this interview from begining to end and all i see is also a clash of egos nothing more. Marriage is a place of humility for both parties. Yes i agree that They can still make it together if they both can throw their negative egos aside and work together in love.

@@Solja88 abi oooooo

You are hired I am in faith with you sis I hope she sees this

@@victoryonyenwosa2529 thanks😁 so kind of you.

Hope she sees this 💕 good luck & your words are beautiful

@@lifestylewithmommynelly thank you for the compliment.. Thanks for caring. ❤

Yoruba people can't be faithful in marriage 💍, both men and women 👵

@@victorpatrick459 tribalism at its finest🙄🙄🙄😒

@@victorpatrick459 wow! I didn't know that about my tribe! I guess am not Yoruba then and neither my parents and everyone in my family who have kept their spouses!

Exactly..people should learn the difference btw friends nd getting married..oh God give us our bone of bone nd flesh of flesh

@@victorpatrick459 true they dnt value marriage like the igbo's no igbo man will leave his wife while pregnant even if his in doubt of the paternity of d child..he would mk sure their is a DNA test before leaving..

AMEN

Ck Entertainment why come back? Nah. She needs a good man

@@oeu3669 Yes, correct but that's the best prayers to pray for a breaken marriage that is not under physical abuse. It was a third party issues if that make sense.

Edna Julie is she from edo state?

@@nicolethompson3283 Yes

You are smart, the amount of time I say love is not enough to keep marriage

Cooking With Voluntas I knowww. This is hard but she handled it with class

Counselling would have been of help

Her husband cheated with her friend it obvious

Like the way you forced your self on seth to marry u.You are here giving qoutes ..u Adwoa adomakowaa..I laugh saa,i cant wait for your spouse to join u then ull see marriage is not a peace of cake,madam perfectionist madam mature😂😂😂..A forced marriage will never stand wai..goodluck 🤣🤣🤣

Gbam them plenty. I just hope nigerian men change, a lot of them shy away from their pregnant wife and even to help after birth na problem

oh my Yvonne even with all this pain u stay classy love u girl it is well !

She's a strong woman and I love her

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