This is exactly what my ex is about trying to puppetry my life into what she wants and when she wants it.. That's not what love is about remember that.. Love is 2 people that connect in a way that is real. And isn't something you can direct like a movie. When she will ever get that in this lifetime or not. That is something I highly doubt now. Just like you don't like being told what or how to do things niether do I. You wanted things like this cause of your thought I was doing wrong well you didn't confront me rather just u walked away and iv accepted it as it is what it is today chapter has ended without a proper smile or ending and now doesn't even need one. Cause if it really did matter hey I wouldn't be messaging a comment section on you tube CORRECT. thanks for watching........
Yea you could see the hurt when she said their chapter ended. He knew that he really blew it. I really love how mature these two are this is one of the most authentic things I've watched
This guy could still get back with her idk what you're going on about. Everything depends on communication and creating good feelings. I've known guys doing way worse and getting back a woman
Natali Avila why are u making an assumption about who she is based on how she presents herself in this 1 video? I know a lot of liars. Most of them are women without accountability
@gary corr respectfully, I disagree. I think that he did the right thing. He can look her in the eye. Perhaps you can do that to someone you 'love'.....
You know a woman’s moved on when she can still sit in front of you and smile and have a normal conversation like your her friend after you’ve wronged her that’s a different type of peace and acceptance
@@cello_thomaz1557 - Not according to the follow up on Part 2. Afterwards, they started talking again and occasionally hanging out. They were very young when they met. He was 18 or 19. She was younger. Good decisions by young men are often as rare as hen's teeth. They are truly adults now and will have a more adult relationship, friendship or something else, since they've both grown up.
I’m a mama and I teach my son this: I believe that when someone does something to hurt you and they apologize you don’t say “ it’s ok” you say “ it’s forgiven “ it’s not ok when someone hurts you. But it can be forgiven ❤️
Dennoh yea I agree 💯 I don’t wanna ever go to this place with my ex. 3 years later it is what it is and you over there living your life and I’m living mine. No need to talk about shit from our past especially when we’ve emotionally, mentally AND physically moved on
Erica Wilson he wasted 2 years of her life, so it was a bit too late for that at that point. She believed they had a fully committed relationship and he tarnished that from the beginning.
Their relationship didn't end because he cheated or admitted to cheating. They were having significant problems before he admitted to cheating from what she said. They were on the way to breaking up, and the cheating was the final straw.
Good! Do you know how many women have HIV, herpes and other stds because of men who wanted to eat their cake and come back home and give their partner things. Disgusting. I hate cheaters. They need to stay from tf away from women like Krystal and relationships in general
Cheating is most women’s deal breakers in a relationship. If men know this, then cheating behavior is a clear sign he is willing to risk everything & the relationship is not the priority.
Is it? Women praise themselves for staying with cheaters just like "the good ole days." Women will raise males baby he had with another woman as if it's a normal thing to do. You're not catching males staying round watching a woman's body grow with another males baby inside. You're a "real woman" for sticking around but you're a simp if you stay with a cheating woman.
@@Ashley-qx4my Seems like a bunch of generalisations, I've never heard of a woman raising a mans baby, the modern family court almost always sides with the mother, so it is usually a man bringing up another man's child seeing as though women generally get custody.
You don’t understand men because you don’t take the time and patience to. And another thing. Women only care about how they feel. They don’t care about the mans feelings. This is why you can’t seem to understand men. Women blame men for everything they see happening to fellow women. But they fail to see the real picture. Women only see what they do right, and what they see what the man does wrong. But never what they do wrong. And this is straight facts. Disagree with me if you want. We all know this is true.
“why do that to yourself” the fact that she’s concerned about how his guilt was making him feel after what he did to her... just maturity and i respect it
Sis is free from deep within. She ain’t got a tear to shed or an “F” to give. At the end of the day she would never trust him again no matter when he told her.
Gregory Glass I never said anything negative about him. I just pointed out that her overall response to seemed measured and thoughtful. Kudos to both of them for being able to express themselves in an open and honest and transparent way.
When someone is so pure inside it shows. She holds no bad feelings for him and I think it's amazing. Being bitter makes you ugly. She is beautiful and over it.
Bitterness has its place and time though. People want women in particular to just get over it and at the same time understand when males kill their ex over cheating. I'm yet to hear bitter being used to describe a male. Anybody else wonder why that is?
@@Ashley-qx4my women become bitter because of emotions, and men aren't nearly as emotional as women, so thats why men tin to handle it better, least thats the simplest way to put it
Lizzy u know just by saying that your going against feminism, I’m assuming your a feminist not into Matriarchy, so feminism stands for all equal rights not just for women, but for everyone, and saying that means u think women’s opinions are above men, they are equal opinions all round so just stop and be quiet because u know nothing, ur just being misandry
Her simplicity and truthfulness is a reflection of the flaws within him. Her security made him insecure. He was suppose to grow with her instead he hurt her and himself in the process.
Cheating is often never about the other person (ie the partner being cheating on). It’s to do with insecurities and ego in the person cheating. A man with high sexual value, having women throw themselves at you - you’d be hard pressed to find a man who won’t at least entertain it. A man with self esteem or ego issues is going to take the bait. He wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Have his faithful loving beautiful girlfriend at home, and play around on the side. Ego. Thought he could have it all and didn’t consider the pain he was inflicting. Till his maturity and conscience perhaps caught up. I think he did the right thing by telling her. She deserves to know his character and the choice to leave or stay. And I respect her decision to leave. Sad, because they do seem like great people who’ve grown.
@@user-pf1fe1sn5k its sad that ppl find ways to make up for a man cheating but when a woman cheats she's a cum drizzling slut. He cheated he knew what he was doing. He obviously regrets it but he still cheated. A cheater is a cheater it has nothing to do with us "expecting" things. All we ask is loyalty a man who is unable to fulfil a simple task like that isn't a man lmao. Let's just give each other attention and stay loyal. Idk why cheating is so normalized for males
guys be like “i cheated on you but trust me it hurts me way more” like ??? boy how you broke my whole ass heart when i didn’t even think of one moment of hurting ylu
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He still loves her and I know he’s willing to go back....but when she said “close the chapter the proper way” you can see the Hope drain from his face. I felt that
What a lovely girl but it's sad that after 3 years she wants to know the full details so that she can get closure. Us girls always want the full details so that we can get closure. Sometimes you have to give closure to yourself and stop hanging on.
It’s not only women. It’s men as well. There are women that just pick up and leave, and then expect the man to just figure out what went wrong without any communication.
This video right here testifies how much strength a woman possess and once she’s healed it’s done. Happy she moved hurts me same time dude lost a great wife. And how she kept smiling through the video tells me fo sho she’s completely healed and moved on. 😊
Works the same for both men and women. I have gone through the same thing with the woman cheating. So yea.. women cheat emotionally which is 10 times worst.
@Stephanie Knowles Yes, it is important to realize that he was not mature when he cheated, but he should not be looked as someone who can't redeem himself. You make it sound like he has no chance left at all based on that ruined relationship.
I know everyone's angry he's a cheater but I just want to say it's really rare to find a guy who's sincerely sorry and apologetic for his mistakes. I hope he moves on and finds peace. For the woman, I'm really happy she's moved on and healed. She is a really beautiful and strong woman ☺️
Damn this is gonna haunt him forever . This is his queen and he wasn’t ready. A good woman is precious . Don’t play with her be real . I feel sorry for him honestly because he screwed up big time .
Yea, maybe. But maybe the reason it didn't work out, is because she is TOO GOOD for him, even if he got her back, maybe he is just a bad dude and would fuck it up again. She deserves someone as good as her.
Sometimes we fuck up, and we hate ourselves for it, but we're so scared to tell the other person about it in fear that we're going to lose them. I'm not trying to justify cheating but I understand why someone doesn't immediately tell their SO about their infidelity.
I actually completed disagree. When she said that they still needed to talk things through that's a clear indication. It's been 3 years since I've seen you....what do we need to talk about given the timing. I feel like she's hanging on to something.
Ye , that's true my guy friend tell us this is true ,man would regret after the girl is completely move on bcos they don't deal with it earlier than girls do
I cant relate I'm 100% in tune with myself like once I'm done with you I'm done with you I'm not looking back in the past I may feel sad or wonder what if from time to time but that's it
Woman have this unrealistic idea that men are men from womb. It takes time for a boy to become a man. Understanding woman, understanding ourselves and how our actions effect the people we are close to takes time. Most of the time we can’t see the good ones until they are already gone. When they are gone everything gets put into perspective.
He lost a true Queen and 3yrs later he's still hurting 💔😢 the chemistry is there but the trust is GONE he's definitely gonna cry later on when cameras aren't rolling and she's not around
Well it does SEEM like she's a really cool person, i being the optimist, i wanna believe that she is, however who really knows, but one thing we do know for sure is that she is beautiful, with a gorgeous smile.
I agree, and she seems very kind, with a sense of humor too :) We all have our "stuff" tho... I'm sure it wasn't ALL him. It does seem like he might've learned a valuable lesson from the way he handled himself back then ✌🏻
Looks don't mean shit....... That's a development. An less physically attractive (whatever you consider) person with a amazing personally subconsciously draw you things you never think you'll like about a person.... Easy. She can be fine and all but it might not be meant.
My dude in the red cap, no sir you didn't hold on to that for her sake to spare her pain, you held on to that in order to have her for as long as you could.
But then why say something at all? He could've taken it to the grave. Seems like at the time he wanted to break up it didn't want to do it so he gave her a reason to leave HIM.
@@shimag1992 he probably couldn't keep it in any longer. but people won't tell you cheated out of selfishness. by not telling the other person it hurts them even more when they eventually find out because it means they weren't respecting you the entire time
Right that was very selfish of him and he says he was worried about hurting her but he cheated multiple times so he made that choice I felt like he wanted his cake and eat it too smh hopefully he has learned and will not make the same mistakes
This video is a perfect example of you do not know what you have until it’s gone. He lost a great woman but that’s okay because he made room for the man who was really meant to be with her. She’s a gorgeous woman and on the inside too. Congrats to her on her new marriage! ✨ and to any ladies who have a feeling that they aren’t in the right relationship or anything similar.. trust that gut feeling and leave. Make room for your future husband or wife. Sending love and light.
You kinda want to see them work it out but some things are not workout worthy. He did a final over it action! Some women go back and some will never go back. Cant blame them...
Who cares let her move on she will get cheated on a few more times and then she will look up and be 35 and single 😆. Then she won't have the leverage anymore.
Reminds me of the deep speaking dude from boys to men 🤣 who would always start talking at the end of the song GIRL IM HERE FOR YOU ALL THOSE TIMES AT NIGHT WHEN YOU HURT ME AND YOU RAN OFF WITH THEM OTHER GUYS I'M HERE FOR YOU BABY🤦🏾♂️ HAHAHA 🤣😂
"You gave me rides and bought me sour-worms and I realized this guy cares about me" 😭 This is how grateful we are with the tiniest of things men do for us when we truly love em and they go out and cheat on us 😡 😡 😡 😭
I’m so hoping she doesn’t take him back. She’s so smiley and kind hearted that her body language seems to say she’d consider reconciliation but she shouldn’t. Forgive yes but don’t let him back in. His body language seems like genuine regret over his past or possibly even deeper than that, he realizes he lost his soulmate. Either way I believe he’s grown and no longer the man he was in the past. Good for him but please leave her alone. She deserves a man who will ALWAYS treat her as the Queen she is.
Briana G. Not by experience, but I object. I feel that if he cheated with multiple women at the beginning of the relationship. It might have been a moment and time of him just making one of those mistakes that make you the person you are now. Just bigger and better. Im a believer of love and if you can get through those mistakes as a couple with gods grace, you can overcome all that is to come with that person.
D E I believe you can love multiple people but it doesn’t mean they are right for you. To cheat is an excuse. You always have the option to leave. I don’t know what is worst the cheating or being having your trust broken and leaving you completely vulnerable. Not all company is good company.
@ Briana G, guurrrrrlll, i 100% agree with you. I still dont trust him. I havent even finished the video and i JUST DO NOT TRUST HIM! It feels like he saw her after 3 years, realized how geogous she is and he just trying to kick it. I agree, she deserves better.
It’s been 3 years, guaranteed she’s moved on. Look at her, feel her positive and beautiful energy. Someone else snatched her up and hopefully treating her properly, people need to stop thinking cheating is anything less than evil.
@@dpalacios11 why do ppl always say that. He cheated he knew what the fuck he was doing when he did it. Idk why ppl try to say things to cover up what he did. Yes he is filled with regret but like the original commenter said she deserves someone better they're ex's for a reason. If it was the other way around and the girl cheated would u still say the same?
Someone asked why guys don’t feel the pain of a breakup till way later... this was my experience. Because in the beginning it feels liberating. It depends on how the relationship was though of course. But in my case I felt free. Free from all the fighting, nit-picking, assumptions, etc. I felt like I could finally come up for a breath of fresh air and get back to focusing on myself and my goals in life since the relationship took up a lot of my time. And in my free time I was exhausted emotionally and mentally from all the strain the relationship was causing on me. That being said, there were a lot of amazing moments too. Those true love type moments where you felt so connected to the person in front of you. The things you’ve done together, the experiences you had together, the inside jokes, and the memories with them and of them. They were your best friend. And I think after all the bitterness and anger fades away with time as it tends to always do, you are just left with the memories of what made you and that person fall in love and why you became a couple to begin with and all the memories with them. It’s the memories that will fuck you up. The way they looked at you with love in their eyes, their smile when they looked at you, their laugh when you two would goof off, the way they felt when you held them in your arms, the way they made you feel in your best moments. You tend to forgive and get over what caused you two to split and are only left with the good. What hurts more is this person was your best friend, and losing a relationship hurts, but losing a best friend you had true love for hurts the most. The person you would “life” with. The person who you would always rather do anything with over anyone else. And this usually isn’t truly felt and realized until down the road for guys. We bottle it up and push forward. But when we’re alone with just ourselves and our thoughts, this is when most take the time to reflect on themselves, their lives, and relationships; and that’s when it hits. It truly is a damn shame that what started out as a great friendship crumbles in front of your eyes and when the dust and ash clears (the bad shit that you get over and forgive) you are only left with the pieces (good memories) of what you two built together, and of what made you two fall in love with each other. Call me a sap, but if you’ve ever TRULY been in love, you will understand and feel this.
What you say makes a lot of sense. However, there was this ex of mine who would, like you say reflect on our relationship after a long pause, and then not long after we get back together, he does the same things that caused the break up in the first place! Six years of on/off/on relationship. So I decided to end it for good. He can reflect, reminisce all he wants, some things are better left in the past.
that was some pretty wise shit sir. props on the self reflection from a fellow "sap." the curiosity is killing me though so im gonna take a stab in the dark and ask ... Did you get her back? ♥
I hope she never has a relationship with him again. He's not worthy of her; she gave him her trust and he cheated on her and killed her heart. She is too beautiful of a soul to let this guy mess her up again. Once a man cheats on you, always beware! Furthermore, she's not the one for him because he would not have hurt her the first time if he really wanted to be with her. Sometimes men don't realize the good thing he lost until it's gone.
This man knew cheating on his girlfriend would've ended their relationship, yet he did it anyway. So, basically he really didn't care about the relationship. He thought he could have better, but found out too late that the "better" is in his past.
He cheated in the beginning of their relationship. Which means however many months or years in, the guilt was weighing on him about how much of a great woman she really is. When he recognized that the dirt could come back on him and their relationship, or before he was going to get even more serious he felt like he had to let her know. He could’ve very well been faithful after his indiscretion and just told her about how much he used to cheat before. He seems truly sorry
Luis Rodriguez yes he would, he probably wanted to take their relationship to the next level and wanted to come clean before they went any further. Honesty is the best policy...most of the time
Florence Katanha you can still tell she has beautiful skin look at her neck and chest .. besides makeup doesn’t glide on like that when you look like a pizza without ..
Someone just brought it to my attention that it has been a year since the release of this video! 🤯 I had so much fun being in this video and I’m glad this conversation touched such a large amount of people on various levels. ✌🏽 & 💛
All these comments about him ans this is the first decent one. He came to here with honesty, while brutal, but confessing his sins. People CAN change and regret IS real. Regardless of her, I find what he did commendable but people are quick to hate instead of trying to understand. She doesn't need to take him back, that's her choice her life but he wanted to be honest even when most people wouldn't.
@@l3l3Cakes he was young tho. He seem like he more mature now. You know how some people have that phase where they can’t really be tied down, he seem like he passed that now
One thing to take note of is when ever you are with someone who you can just chill with, or how they put it, just simply enjoy the presence of the other without doing anything big, you know you found someone special.
@@RspbyLmn hmmm. I couldnt care a less what he does in his private life. He still has a narrative voice... he can mess with 100 hoes he still will have a narrative voice. Ya'll so judgy, last I checks that's against the rules.
If there was such a thing as “soulmates” the divorce rate wouldn’t be so high. Scientifically there is no such thing either. Also, it’s not healthy to be enmeshed with another human. That’s more toxic than anything else.
This was perfect to me, she has clearly healed and he is remorseful for his mistakes. They are whole people at least in this regard. Happiness and light to both of you!
Some of these men in the comments really believe when the relationship ends, women sit around crying over them and just can't get over it or be genuinely happy without them. Narcissistic behavior
Yes hunny everyone is judging him messing up but he owned up to it an forgiveness is everything but only people in god understands noone is perfect noone
