Explaining my INFJ video 

Overthinking a video to create a video for overthinkers. You went full method actor + creator. Never stop trolling us!! We need it.

"I was over-thinking it." In other words, you were method acting to portray an INFJ.

The code: INTP: 34 = G ISFJ: 11= O ISFP: 6= J ENTP: 7= O ISTJ: 14= I ESFJ: 17= N ENTJ: 3= T ESTP: 8= H ESTJ: 2= E ESFP: 1 = P ENFP: 26 = A INFJ: 3= T ISTP: 5= R INFP: 4= E ENFJ: 16= O INTJ: 9= N Well played Kristin, well played.

I am simultaneously proud and ashamed that INFJ’s comments seem to terrorize your nightmares. - INFJ, here P.S. Thanks so much for this video. You are awesome, Kristin.

The scary part is I didn't realize the characters all wore a black t-shirt because of inferior Se and never looking at physical details 😭 I can literally see my husband in the morning before work and realize I don't even know what he looked like that morning a few minutes later, but you can be sure I remember what we talked about lol. 😬

Thanks Kristin, you now have me singing "I'm suppressing wounds" all over again.

INTJ: It's weird how animated I actually get when talking to a (probable) INFJ I met. Like, we have conversations where I become so mentally stimulated that I end up continuing the conversation for hours (possibly even days...) in my own head. It's a very different experience to the norm since I'm used to zoning out of conversations out of boredom and forgetting about them immediately.

Dear Kristin, as an INFJ I want to apologize for how stressed you've been by us, but also to thank you for caring so much to represent us well, even if mostly to stave off unfriendly comment. It still makes me feel loved that you cared so much to put so much work in for us, and for others who truly want to understand. So thank you! and I'm sorry! (I'm also glad that you were open with us about this because my Ti wants to nit-pick and argue but my Fe is shutting that down because I care about your emotions and truly do appreciate the intentional effort and time put into this.

As an INFJ (sorry, couldn't miss this opportunity LOL), I can say I'm not annoyed at all. It is actually super cool and made a lot of sense to create different layers and meanings. Even cooler that there were cases when the audience thought they found a hidden meaning, and there was nothing there. Sounds relatable with trusting 100% on the NI and ignoring the actual reality. And I have the theory that some INFJs might get annoyed with how INFJs are portrayed in some videos because we're used to be pointed as the masters of reading people but we are not always able to see ourselves from a perspective of people of different types, some might think "if it is not as the way I read, then it's not accurate." And, well, different people read people in different ways. I luv your videos, Kristin! ❤

Don't worry trying to understand INFJs :) It's fun to play around with stereotypes and it's nice to see through your videos how YOU are viewing other personalities. As an INFJ, I don't claim to understand or see through others any better :D

As an INFJ I can say it may feel like we are calling you out when really from our perspectives, we just want so badly to be understood, that we feel the need, not to correct, but to explain why something doesn’t seem right to us in our attempt to be understood. It always comes back to deep desire to be understood.

INFJ’s - no one understands me. Kristin - need to make a video explaining my INFJ video.

The psychological horror that arose in me when I read the "how many layers did you notice" at the end of that video was intense. Turns out I overlooked all of the audio and visuals to try and analyze the meaning, and missed the more obvious. Thanks for the explanation!

I love your relationship with INFJ. You never lose an opportunity to make fun of us, but at the same time you spend hours making the Da Vince Code of the series, making a second video just to explain it! Love the video btw!

Are you telling me that INFJs are actually bored when we spend hours dissecting books and films? ... I think I've got a new wound to suppress now...

I’m an INFJ and my wife is an INTJ and the segment with the INTJ was spot on and gave me a good chuckle.

Thank you for adding a lot more nuanced layers to your video, Kristin. INFJs everywhere are insanely proud. 😍❤️

“Good things come to those who wait” is also an INFJ’s nightmare. We, or maybe only I, tend to latch on to potential romantic feelings quite early into the relationship without dealing with the fact that the other person never told us they wanted to love us.

INFJ here. I really appreciate all the effort you put into your INFJ video, into all your videos. It's okay to not understand everyone/everything, as long as you're being respectful about it. No hate. That said, the video felt stereotypical and -despite all the layers- still superficial to me. I could immediately tell that you don't really get what INFJs are like because you aren't one. For one, I hate vague platitudes and I do not like to label people (except myself but that's another story). I'll admit I tend to read into things too much, overthinking and overinterpreting things - it can be a problem. But I'm not as judgmental and set on how I perceive other people as the video makes us out to be (implied through the translucent people, platitudes and the different backgrounds). And yes, I'm probably taking your videos way too seriously (I tend to take a lot of things too seriously...). But don't worry, I would never unsubscribe because of something petty like not agreeing with one single video. But I do want to stress that I strongly disagree with putting other people in fixed categories like that, labeling and stereotyping them like that. Ironic, I know, as the 16 personalities are doing just that. But to me learning about different personality types and which I'm closest to lets me learn more about myself - nothing more, nothing less. That's why I'm watching your videos. It's not about (stereo)typing others, it's about self-discovery and self-reflection as well as gaining a better understanding of how different/ly people view the world. Sincerely, an INFJ

I find all your videos highly entertaining but hate all your INFJ portrayals. I'm not sure if that's because I find them misrepresented or, because I find them correctly represented but only dwelling on the downsides of being an INFJ -- as opposed to other types, mostly extroverted, whose upsides are in focus in most of the videos. The 'Through the eyes of an INFJ' video was thoughtful but the fact that you made this seperate video to explain it makes me so much happier because it not only tells me about all the interesting trivia in the video itself but also that you gave INFJs so much thought. Being thought about, negatively or positively, is meaningful. Caring even. It trumps being misunderstood.

This would be a really fun series to have you breaking down each of your "Through The Eyes Of" videos!

0:35 maybe you can remake the intj video for some kind of a season 2 (and the other ones too?) that would be pretty cool (INTJ)

Amazing job with all the layers. Infj here, grateful that you explained it... I don't know how you would have done it any other way, but I missed a lot of it because it was sensory stuff that I just wasn't going to notice 😂

I'm INFJ and maybe it's b/c I have inferior Se, but I can't even imagine how much time it took to make this video. Just the editing alone must have been days. Imagining all the Se work that went into this overwhelms me! So basically I don't feel personally attacked by Kristin! 😂 More like "Wow, she put a lot of effort into trying to understand our type."

As an INTP, I am actually probably jealous of the number of layers an ESFP was able to put forward and how deep was Kristin able to analyze. I am also ashamed of how quickly I stopped the quest of cracking the numbers code...

also, i didn't know there were that many layers because some were a bit obvious (like the paper, the emojis in the subs or the background) but i love how much more there was to the video ! i guess if you didn't worry about the backlash, we wouldn't have known how much work was put into the simple looking video, so, everything happens for a reason ? lmao

Using the platitudes to decode, I got “I bet koi load tepee”

Actually, im really thankful to you for giving us a taste of our own medicine with exprcting people to read into things. My sister is also an infj lioe myself but shell always tell me "i dont know whats going on inside your head. You need to verbalise your needs like this and this" If im confusing to another infj, i must be pretty frustrating to be around 😅 Thank you 🎉

Wow this must have been an incredible amount of work, this was crazy! Also RIP INTJ, INFP and ESTJ lol we will never know what crazy ideas Kristin may have had in mind….. Also I thought the icebergs were an indication that INFJ thought ENTP was cold 😅

While I can't speak for every INFJ, I thought the video was very well made and accurate. There are a few things I disagreed with (specifically about INFJ+INFJ, and The XNFPs) but it was definitely not annoying! A while ago I came to terms with the fact that others don't see the world as I do, they don't see the layers and patterns as clearly as I do, and it's not really fair of me to expect them to do so. And it's okay if you don't understand INFJs, I don't fully understand ESFPs, but I really enjoy trying to understand them, and you definitely bring a fresh take on a "genre" of video that is usually made by intuitives and/or introverts x). I will say I enjoyed the layers in the background, and I'm proud to say that I understood what most of them represented in regards to the type you were showing. 😁(which also tells me that you did a good job in creating that deeper layer x) I talked a little about it in the comments of the original video, but I think it's easy for younger or less mature INFJs to get completely lost in looking for meaning, when some types - especially Se types like ISTPs - are really more of "what you see is what you get" types. We can look for patterns where there really are none and come to conclusions that are completely false, because we think "there's always a pattern". Sometimes a brick wall is just a brick wall. 😅 I think it's important for INFJs to use our Se and Ti too, and _look_ at the facts and situation around us, instead of assuming that we understand someone when we don't. Also, definitely gonna check out the podcast!

I actually really liked your Infj video. I thought it did show a lot about the infj and how we see the other types. And as an infj I’m sorry for all the backlash you’re getting from infjs, I personally think you are pretty spot on at times with the infj’s

I love how as an Se dom kristin's method to add layers is to add details on sensory things. I kind of gave up to be honest, I think the S-details in every video is fun to unpack but the INFJ video felt like a nightmare- perpetually forced to take note of sensory data without any chance to deep dive into what my intuition tells me about them.

“Sand lingers but the sun waits for no one.” I really like that. I know you didn’t attach any meaning to it but I did because it’s fun and I would like to share it. Also, I had an image of the beach while thinking about this. The sun does not wait for anyone to sink, much to the disappointment of the sand because it only shines when the sun has risen. This denotes to the people who are warm and kind to others, yet when they disappear, shadows lengthen, darkness deepens, and those who found solace in their kindness are left wishing for more.

I appreciate you putting in so much effort to add layers to your video! And thanks for making this video as well; I am an INFJ but definitely missed some of the Se details that you pointed out here. Btw in addition to your sketches, I’ve enjoyed listening to your podcast because I love hearing different perspectives of types similar and different to my own!

Hey, Kristin, here's a cool idea (cause my ideas are the best): "16P at The Eras Tour". You could capitalize on one of the biggest things going on right now and maybe sing a little, it's a win-win. Come on, I know your Se-Te self is tempted

Hoo boy, sometimes I'm really not proud of being an infj🙈🙈🙈🙈 You're very sweet to make this video for us, but really this just illustrates that we seriously need to mature. This is a comedy channel. Let's all try to lighten up, yeah? I think Kristin did a really good and thorough (!) job, considering she said she doesn't really get us xD which i think... Is demonstrably false, haha. I think you have a pretty good handle on us, Dear Kristin! I must admit, i needed a little time to fully appreciate the video, but I'm very happy about it now and think it's genius Thank you very much for going so out of your way to make quality videos 💖 and keeping it real

I love videos where you talk about or/and explain something, they're super relaxing to watch for some reason

As an ESFP, my stupid ass understood NOTHING. I tried uk subtitles and still didn’t know I was supposed to find layers. Thanks so much, now I’ll go and over think

Thank you for all your effort on this video! My favorites from the skit were ENTP and INTJ. Really love the detail that everyone was wearing a black t-shirt. I did not notice, and that's so on-brand as an INFJ. I appreciate that you broke down all the details, thank you! My last minute guess was that the numbers were the amount of wounds each type was suppressing, in retrospect, the decoded message is so obvious. I think someone would have cracked it had there been a number score in the background of the patreon section, showing us that the number applied here. Ahh, no matter, we had fun trying to figure it out.

this video and that video made me smile so much, because of how much effort and thought that was put into your videos! i thoroughly enjoyed being my usual self and seeing all the layers you’ve cleverly hidden, and taking my time to look at the UK subtitles (the emojis haha!) i hope you know that your overthinking is actually..appreciated! i look forward to your videos because i know they’re always quality :) i’m back after investigating a bit more, GO JOIN THE PATREON!

I wish you could make an updated INTJ one with all your new ideas for it! 💜

I don’t know if it’s just me, but I would a love a “decoding” or just explaining series like this for all the other types as well! Request for intp to be next. This was so much fun

I can't believe you put so much thought into a video for us INFJs!! I really appreciate it!

I'm supressing wounds has been going through my head rent free since then 😂😂. Great perspective on each video

I'm not annoyed or alienated, but... I do find it interesting that you say that you don't understand INFJs but spent so much time on the "Through the lens of the INFJ" video. There's definitely layers to that but I'm a lazy INFJ so I will put it on the back burner for now. Thanks for the really cool video!

As an Infj, I approve very heartily of all of the layers within layers within layers. Kristin, you hit the nail on the head with this one

For me, trying to read an istj is like a brick wall, and Istps are the ones I accidentally put subtext into, same with infp’s oddly, I try to read their emotions or see the layers there (I get bored in conversation so I need to entertain myself sometimes) but infp’s are always surprising, and I can’t really understand where their emotions come from exactly, very interesting. Good vid though

I (INFJ) can’t really relate to this looking for emotional trauma in everyone at all. If anything I feel like all my friends have their shit more together than me. I just feel like I’m good at putting myself in other shoes because I’m empathic, and I will consider that in how I treat them. I also feel like I can see through hidden motives quite well or maybe pick up more readily when somethings „not right“. However, I will likely project that towards me. But as to the seeing through people, I probably overestimate their feelings a lot, because I have to take myself as a reference.

Don't worry, my inferior Se didn't even notice 90% of the layers (so smart btw) you put so I don't feel roasted at all lol. But we INFJs appreciate your hardwork and effort! Love your videos!

When is Explaining my Explaining my INFJ video coming? Totally looking forward to it.

Thank you so much for the "through the eye of" series and for this explanation. It shows all the complexity and work behind it and it is trully impressive! Master piece!

I had an Se-dominant father (ESTP). I've done a lot of thinking on the disconnects and why and I would be more than happy to answer questions. I'm not entirely sure what you don't understand and what you would like to know.

I'm touched that you made this video Kristin, it sounds like you care about INFJs, unless I'm reading too much into it. :)) I missed so many of the details in the original video, the black T-shirts for example - even that was too much Se detail for me, it seems. I'm in awe at how much thought you put in that video, but I actually enjoyed this current one way more as it was interesting to hear about your choices and your thought process - my Ni brain circuitry lights up when I hear about inner process.

As an INTP, I genuinely love it when literature uses symbolism correctly and creativity. It gets the noggin spinning by wondering what was the author thinking when they deliberately used a specific form of symbolism for a character or a situation

as an infj i can say, don’t overthink too much about us. we will most certainly do the overthinking for you and all come away with different meanings from the same video 😂 i can only speak for myself but at least i love your content 100% and cannot imagine being dissatisfied

Can't believe it has been a year since the INTJs were done.

I'm an INFJ and I love, love, loved your video. It's seriously refreshing to see it be brought down to earth, I'm just a normal person who likes personality types and I find the INFJ idealisation you sometimes find quite annoying to be honest. The thing is over the course of my life I've had more paradigm shifts and ego deaths than I can count, once the INFJ has a 'frame' of things they assume they have the whole picture until it literally crumbles to pieces. No matter how many times this happens I'm still constantly surprised by how my perspective shatters periodically in order to be renewed, before this happens I'm totally conviced I have the whole picture, it's the fear of change and the synthesising convergent mindset and it's common with Ni doms (my INTJ boss also did this). This is a blindspot which can make you arrogant and MISS A LOT if you're not self-aware and humble. Your perspective is enlightening me!

Damn Kristin you scared me for a minute! I clicked here thinking some kind of drama happened 😢 I'm glad everything is okay. Please don't feel so pressure omg I believe the INFJ in your audience understand that this is all through stereotypes and is meant to be fun 😊 Personally I wanna thank you for putting so much effort, I feel special 🥰🤗

Ha! I did think the INFJ one was challenging to do and hence postponed. I was wondering how it would eventually be done, being so alien to an ESFP. Also INFJs rarely analyse to solve a problem, they just like to hang out in an abstract headspace 😂 probably few tried to solve the code.

INFJ here. I loved that video (and this one). Particularly as someone who works in a field not friendly to infj thought processes, it is always good to be reminded of how odd it can seem to someone not inside my head.

I feel like INFJs feel protective of their MBTI community environment, so it's pretty natural to feel anxious about portraying them right. That being said, even with all these unintentional roasts I thoroughly enjoyed 'through the eyes of' series. I work in a Se-dom dominated industry so my survival depends on how well I get them, so it's always fascinating to learn a Se-dom's perspective on the same things you both enjoy.

Thank you so much Kristin! I really appreciate the amount of effort you put into making that video, and understand INFJs....And it's okay if you don't understand us, for we don't understand ourselves either

What I love reading these comments is that most INFJs seem to be of a consensus that she doesn’t fully understand or accurately portray us, but we appreciate her efforts. It’s awesome to see someone go to all these efforts and add all these layers in her own way to express it. It is true what others are saying that we don’t judge people that harshly. I tend to recognize their issues and how to help them, but I want to be there for them and help them. We aren’t just looking for wounds to be nosy, but we have a sincere desire to love and help people. We know what it is like to not have people care and don’t want others to go through it without support. I loved all your detail. The translucence element was especially clever.

GO JOIN THE PATREON!!! 😉 Edit: Yes this is the answer to the number code. Damn my ISFJ for (mistakenly) being subtle about it, so the person that posted it after me (who legitimately solved it themselves too, so congrats to them!) who was clear about it is the one everyone noticed. I’ll just go and keep suppressing my wounds now… 😂😭

Petition to rename INFX's to "Onions" or, alternatively, "A Bunch a Onions". Or "A Bushel of Onions" Im fresh out of good ideas

As an INFJ when I saw that video I actually enjoyed watching it because of the patterns and analyzing the characters. I didn’t notice the Black shirts though but of course I saw INTJ with the hat and mustache 😂. The number thing was also fun since I thought (like prob most infjs did) was something with more deeper meaning like how much we like them, should we trust them, is what they’re saying truthful etc. Also don’t feel like you’re doing a disservice to INFJs or worry that you got us wrong, we are called chameleons for a reason and we often contradict ourselves all the time. 😂

KRISTIN YOU ARE SO DAMN DETAILED I USED TO BE LIKE THIS BUT NOBODY EVER NOTICED IT SO I STOPPED CREATING WITH SUCH GUSTO BECAUSE THE GAIN WAS LESS THAN THE EFFORT BUT YOU MOTIVATED ME TO START PUTTING THIS MUCH EFFORT INTO MY CREATIONS AGAIN.

INFJ here, I saw this EXPLANATORY video very late but I did enjoy the other video and smiled thorough this one as well. Every time I watch one of your videos I say to myself what I nice person she is haha I see through you Kristin

Kristin! This is a masterpiece! Thank you so much for all the effort you put in.

As an INTJ, I’m not surprised that I thought of all sorts of possible ways to decode the message, but the possibility that it could have been the order of the letters of the patrons completely eluded me. It felt satisfying to finally decode the code though. As for the layered nature of the INFJ video, the explanation of the thought that went into everything only bolsters my appreciation. I recall watching the first video in your series of “types through the eyes of specific type” and thinking to myself, it would be impressive to do one for every type like that. Since that first video in the series, they have only improved, and I share each one with my INTJ friend, so we can discuss our thoughts on the INTJ parts, among other things. As someone who appreciates depths of knowledge, your ability to combine and express that depth of knowledge on personality types in an entertaining and often thought provoking way has kept me coming back since I first discovered the channel. I look forward to future videos, and occasional future codes to spend an hour on, only to completely miss obvious possibilities.

You know what's funny is that there's only a couple of types that eat this kinds of videos up of someone explaining their thoughts and INFJ is one of them. You got me x)

Hate to do it but... INFJ here (sorry) and I want to say while I didn't really agree with a lot of the stuff with the original video, I also recognize that not only am I older and have probably outgrown a lot of stereotypes (and also maybe don't put too much thought into deciphering how I feel about things in general) but... it's just a video! lol It's for fun. You're allowed to make an entertaining video on your take of us and whether it's wrong or right it doesn't hurt anyone. For any INFJ out there that feels upset with Kristin's video: your identity is more than "INFJ" and how others might perceive how you behave or think. It's going to happen a LOT. We are all unique, not just INFJs, and plenty of the other types don't "fit" with the other videos of themselves (no offense intended to you Kristin hahah). It's important to learn how to cope when you're misunderstood and how to be constructive with that energy when it happens. With that being said, thank you for your hard work and even putting in the extra effort to explain your video. You've put a lot into this creation and it was fun! The only correction I'd like to add is sometimes meeting another INFJ feels amazing to have as a friend because they 'get you' and have similar reactions that don't make you feel so alone like getting upset on your behalf when you're too overwhelmed to stand up for yourself. PS I really liked your tea series and wish it continued tbh! Was really cute. :)

I love that every infj comments I see here is saying "thank you", " Don't worry" Etc which is like a very INFJ response 🤣 and I as an INFJ do agree though

Wow! For me, one of your best videos! I (an INTP) love hearing the detailed thought process/thinking behind such a well-crafted video. Truly fascinating. (Also, knowing a few INFJs very well, I believe that you have definitely captured their essence -- whether or not they can see it.)

You asked for comments on your INFJ on X takes! Here is my take on your takes on their takes. INTP - INFJ’s love living in Introverted Thinking and deep diving with Ti Doms. I would have gone with the library but mimicked the INTJ approach where the INTP is OVERLY lively and engaging because those Ti chats are really stimulating. ISFJ - Accurate ISFP - Don’t know any to compare but being agreeable if the person is just an acquaintance so you don’t really care is accurate. ENTP - My Favorite. Accurate ISTJs - Projecting on to them….maybe?? There is a spark of energy in them that could mean all kinds of things…or nothing. ESFJ’s - NOPE cannot be around them at all. The people-pleasing comes off as SO fake and that undercurrent of controlling behavior is so repellant. ENTJ - Love this one - Accurate ESTP - Yup! Suppress those wounds! My older sister is an ESTP and I don’t think I even know her on a real level. She’s the type that you think has her act together yet somehow every one of her vacations has some disaster related to poor planning. Her ability to ignore her marriage imploding and both not care or do anything about it is very very confusing. ESTJ - Another favorite. Accurate ESFP - I don’t know about admiring…it’s tricky. It’s like if you hate musicals and that’s what they want to talk about and invite you to do all the time. It’s not bad but there is just so little in common to even try to attempt to bond with them. They are also the ones inviting you to things and you spend all week practicing excuses to decline. ENFP - INFJ’s would see all the garbage and it WOULD make perfect sense. ENFP’s random humor is the BEST. If I didn’t have an agenda to talk about something specific I would have no problem just talking about random stuff. INFJ - Accurate. What do you do when two people don’t want to impose on the other and keep their distance? Very hard to make friends unless you are on a work project together that forces constant interaction and then it’s a blast. Reading INFJ comments also gives me cringe because I wonder if I also come off as so….overly verbose. ISTP - Hilariously Accurate - I wouldn’t even bother to try to get emotional as I know it would make them uncomfortable so I just keep the chats in the Ti/Se realm and talk about practical stuff. INFP - Very Accurate except the INFP opens up very very easily with their feelings in my experience. The feelings are sometimes too much where I’m like SHUT UP ABOUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOU DATED FOR A WEEK 20 YEARS AGO AND TELL ME MORE ABOUT THE LEPRECHAUN! Somehow 95% of all my close friends are INFPS. ENFJ - That pride line is SOOOO accurate. ENFJs are easy to understand and get along with and are actually WAY more selfish than they like to think they are. INTJ - 100000% spot on.

As an INFJ, sometimes you don’t even realize how abstract what you’re saying is…. Sometimes I have to remind myself to add more sensory details to my conversations haha 😂

Kristin talking about the ESFP: “INFJ probably finds them a pleasure to be around.” INFJ: finds them extremely overwhelming and can handle in specific moments, when in a certain mood, in small doses Love your art/work!

Lol I love the constant disclaimer-giving, you’re adorable (also, any INFJ’s giving her crap, calm tf down). Anyway, I’m an Ni dom (90% sure it’s INTJ rather than INFJ due to certain patterns of repeat behavior blah blah blah) and I thought you did a terrific job of portraying what Ni is like, particularly from an outsider’s perspective. In my experience, it’s kind of like a heads up display a la Tony Stark’s Iron Man suit that constantly feeds me data about the sensory world, but at a subconscious level. It’s not like I literally notice my thought patterns going “dark clothing + sideways glance + affected/faked ‘confident’ body posture + hesitation before speaking + (dozens of other sensory details) = intense but insecure person who may or may not be unstable, interesting friend but hoo boy red flags.” It’s more that I just KNOW things and hell if I can tell you how. It becomes like trying to explain a smell. The person (or place) just has a “vibe” to them. I’ve long since come to terms with the fact that people can’t see what happening in my head, but that doesn’t stop me from trying to communicate my conclusions in a way that makes sense to them and has an impact on their decision making. Also, when the person or idea or book or movie or whatever is particularly interesting, THEN I become like a dog digging on a wet beach trying to get at clams. I MUST find the one unifying principle behind everything that makes this person/event/idea/etc up in order to have a sense of it, to rotate it in my mind, to feel out its dimension and shape until I fully understand it. However, the digging is often fruitless, but I almost don’t mind because the moment I figure it out, when I get that clam, I lose interest. Re: not finding someone belonging to your same type all that interesting, I would say that other INTJ’s are still fascinating to me (I’ve always had crushes on INTJ’s, lol), but the fact that they’re considered “spooky” or “scary” just makes me roll my eyes. There’s nothing mysterious about the thought process to me, lol. Edit: oh, and ENFP’s are chaotic but they give me life. My best friend is one and we definitely feed off of one another. She’s like a kite in the wind and I’m the one using the force to surf, lol.

I appreciate the attempt to understand, and the reflections of resonate insight that help us see from the outside....and the recognition that it's not possible to entirely/accurately do so, especially when dealing with generalizations. My personal experience is I'm deeply secure within myself, not so secure within the worldly reality constructs nor relatable to the majority of others beyond simple human appreciations and joys of spirit...unless we share some kindred depth of perception. I'm personally very sensitive to my physical surroundings and detail-oriented. I just try to understand existence/life/reality and live true to my soul, and use my logical and intuitive mind to figure it out...I've learned to temper that compulsion to understand everything..... and still finding my way to navigate the overwhelming amount of spiritual, mental and somatic information that I'm taking in 24/7. I've been dating an ESFP for the past year and you are correct in your assessment :D Can def be too much for me but I let him be who he is. It's helpful to understand the functions and it's very INFJ to try to figure out these patterns and the structure isn't it? Of course we are all very unique - and the mystery is a part of it all too.

I actually think you did well on all counts for the orignal video. No critique from this INFJ and ENFP's are lovable but scatterbrained and I do get quite bored talking to them as they only want to talk about all the random things their friends do. Keep going and you don't need to try and please INFJ's or cater to us as that detracts from the unbiased nature of showing us how the world percieves us and judges us which is the motive for many of us.

6:46 Kristin "...but that when talking about literature, there's no real emotionality associated with the INTP's way in which they speak about the literature..." Au contraire, ma soeur. Have you actually observed an INTP talking about the media and literature we REALLY enjoy, particularly with a like minded individual? We get PATHETICALLY emotional and expressive and passionate. We geek out inappropriately like children.

I love this kind of content in which an autor explain how and why they did what they did. As a writer myself (and having written precisely a historical-fiction fantasy novel based on history of my country), I was pleased with this video, it was incredible! It's understable you would shutdown after that INFJ video, though. Well... It's true that ENFP's chaotic nature can be difficult to understand by some people, but I would say that, although beind perplexed in many occassions, INFJ can understand us... Although INFJ will be dizzy if ENFP use their Ne idea-to-idea jumpy gimmick too much. One INFJ friend of mine once told me after I wrote a huge text message with lots of different thoughts, some of them with no relation, "How do you manage to think and write this much!? I'm flabbergasted" (I'm paraphrasing, because we speak Spanish, to begin with). So, in conclusion, INFJ do get us ENFP... by a limited time when we don't go hyper-rainbow-space mode XD XD Now, I'm ready for this series big finale! I wonder if "16 P through ESFP eyes" would be either the easiest or the hardest video for you to make XD XD Are you going to do a separate compilation of these videos called something like "XXXX through 16 Personalities' eyes"? It would be fun to watch the same videos under a different perspective :3

Lol I love your authenticity in roasting us. Thanks always for the effort you pour into your vids. ❤

i feel bad that you had to make this video lol thanks for explaining!

Robot playing a piano is exactly how I perceive ENTJ. I can't imagine a better analogy. -INFJ

This is brilliant 😂. I was analyzing everything. I did become fixated on the black shirts and the signs. So much so that I didn't pay attention to the other things such as the transparency and font. I did watch the background... Well it seems I was trying to analyze it all. I'm glad you made this video and explained everything. I would've just kept trying to figure it out. Eventually I would've came up with something but I literally watched this video right after that one

As an INFJ I must say, I really enjoyed watching this video xD I loved the depth and the roasting lol And just like what you said about the black shirts and low Se causing us to not pay much attention to details, I only NOW noticed the numbers. Yes, the lack to detail is on point lol

As an INFJ, I enjoy ESFPs strong social skills and positive outlook. It’s a quality that I wish I had.

Hi 👋 InFJ here! I am not annoyed at all by you for not getting us right coz it actually shows me how other people view us infj , but if you wanna know how our inner mind works imagine a person with enfp heart and an infp’s soul with a mind of an INTJ or you can watch frank james

I really enjoyed all of the videos and I don't know why INFJs would complain about it (ESPECIALLY INFJs). We should get that no one gets us.... I rather consider it a compliment 😄 I didn't really understand your original video either, but I think, you nailed how other personalities see us. Because of your videos I am really hyped to meet an INTJ in a few weeks (friend of a friend)! I'm curious about how we understand each other while slowly losing each other on our seperate thought-trains 😁 I know it's easy to say, but don't let yourself be bullied by unhealthy (or probably wannabe) INFJs. You are echt großartig! 😄🤙🏾 Oh, and, maybe you tell us about your surpressed wounds someday? 😬🤗

I cant really identify with the idea of doing a video about a personality type without properly understand it.

INFJ here, impressive work, I can't imagine the time you put into this. I just wanted to comment as someone who has two close ISTP friends your analysis was spot on. Especially with one of them, after 20 years I can confirm, there is nothing deeper going on for him!

(INFJ) Here I was looking so hard for deeper meanings, and totally missed that everyone was wearing the same basic black shirt, symbolizing my inability to see what's literally right in front of me

My son is probably an ESFP (and me being an INFJ), though not sure, 'cause he is 5 yo. Never thought that it would be a struggle from the mbti viewpoint for him to understand me And i hope he understands me)))) My husband is Enfp, and he would benefit from having some discipline, but well, we handle each other for 20 years, and we love each other dearly)))) Love your sketches! I am not shy and awkward INFJ so not quite a stereotypical Infj, but hey, this is fun. I appreciate the many layers you put into your video, wow!

👏👏👏 I love that no one cracked the code. I did see the varied backgrounds,and the cleverly placed numbers. Well done, Kristin.

omg the ENFJ roast tho LMAO

@dear kirsten Love your videos. Super training and views for the acting crews too! As an on and off INFJ (INFP recently, depends on when tested apparently) or any other combo of letters I may be, was entranced and am in awe of your video creations with analysis and output that communicates well. Sorry for any neg feedback by INFJs on that video, and no idea why! It’s fun and INFJs love people analysing, right!?

Thanks to my inferior Se, i just cared about the general content and failed to notice almost all of the layers x) Loved the numbers, and i would have loved it more if they had a specific significance :B. Thanks as always!

Kristin, this was an amazing breakdown. You're incredible. Woman of the people! Thank you for your meticulous attention to detail brilliant craftsmanship! I just left you a comment on your new video. 10/10 just like your last TikTok one.

Thank you for explaining this one, it left me so baffled. This explanation video was much needed!