Exposing Britain's Honour Killings - Nina Aouilk Tells Her Story 

The fact that her own dad raped and allowed others to rape her only to proceed and act like she was damaged because she was “no longer a virgin” enrages me, this entire story enrages me for her. This is terribly sad💔

Someone needs to make a film of this woman life. She’s such a force of nature. She deserve all the happiness in the world. What a catalogue of trauma she’s gone through.

😮 This interview is like a punch in the gut! Just when you think you’ve heard it all… there’s more. What an incredible woman!

"That's not culture, that's psychotic" - THANK YOU I'm so sick of crimes against humanity and the oppression of women being attributed to 'culture and tradition' as a means of justifying and excusing it or saying that it shouldn't be challenged or removed from that culture.

Apart from the obviously horrific story that this lady tells, what stands out the most for me, is how amazingly strong and articulate she is. It would have been so easy to go through what she has and become a victim, but she chose to educate, protect and advocate for others. The world needs more people like her. 100% respect Nina.

😢 I am so proud of this woman. She must be protected by any cost because many from her culture will hate to hear her say these truths. Legend.

How is it possible that people can overcome such things? Honestly the resilience of some people never fails to amaze me ❤

I am 6ft2 and 16 stone bricklayer. I was in tears listening to her story.

horrific, nothing else to say... lost for words. I'm English and my wife is Indian Punjabi and her mum and dad are the nicest people you could meet I love them to bits. These people who did this too you are sick, sick people they do not represent a whole race, I just want to make that clear, even though you said yourself. These fkn scabs must be jailed.

Nina is one of the most powerful individuals I've ever come across. An amazing women.

James mate LISTEN to your guests properly please. She said it happened at 14 right at the start. And she was talking about culture not religion even told you that plus said again at start she was the only girl. And please stop making your guests experiences about you and yours esp this woman's .

Hi Nina....I just discovered your story a few days ago. I wish I had a pen and paper, and just jot down the key points when you spoke and said things, I was like MY GOD! She sounds just like me. I'm from a Punjabi Sikh family, originally from Vancouver Canada, but now married to a great person and in the United States for 23 years. I may not have experienced things to the horrific magnitude you did, but I can definitely identify with many things you are speaking about, where parents in our culture only care about themselves and living their lives according to other's expectations, and then they become possessed with making sure you don't do anything as a girl to make them look bad. My parents were very emotionally, mentally and verbally abusive, but I was naturally very stubborn and when I look back in retrospect I realize just how tough I really was. I felt very lonely as a child, I had two bullies at home, bullies at school, because I was always the one who felt comfortable in my own skin, didn't go along and do all the crazy things just to be accepted and feel like a I'm part of the group. Life has been a journey of growing, learning and maturing as a person, and I've found myself going to a higher and higher plane spiritually with lots of faith in Guru Nanak's teachings, but to me I'm not fanatical or concerned with any religion so much, but just using the religious teachings in this case of Sikhism, and my husband is HIndu, and what I've found is religion is ok as long as you just use it as a general guide, and reassurance that you're on the right path. I've been to places and seen worlds, planets, and experienced things in my waking life, where I know God or WaheGuru or which ever name you want to use to refer to the Creator of the Universe, and that this physical body we have here, is just temporary, but we are truly never dead or die, we just move on from this world to go somewhere else, and the mission or journey here is to to do go onto others, all this show of acquiring money, material wealth, falsie honor false prestige, these have no meaning, because none of it is going to go with it. I see God in everything, in nature, the animals, and I feel more connected and getting closer to the Oneness. I'm sorry for the long post, but you speak just like me. I've been encouraged by my husband and father-in-law to tell me story, and I would love to share my story. When I rose up against the atrocities, I had decided to be a fighter, and started questioning everything, I was not going to allow to let anyone decide who I was, I knew I was beautiful, strong, worthy, but I realized it at a much earlier age I think that you did, I'm six years younger than you, and I felt like I was acting on behalf of millions of girls, and I was going to do my duty and responsibility to be part of the solution and not be part of the problem. I also have a daughter and I'm proud to say I broke the cycles. It doesn't matter what race, religion or nationality you are, at the end, once you leave this planet, you won't take any of those labels with you, except your karma, you wont' even remain male or female, so I've reached that kind of stage and just using Guru Nanak as a guide, but God is inside of us, all we have to do is listen to our heart and that is God speaking to you, He is always there guiding us, we are part of the energy that is what we call the Universe. Unfortunately people like your family have gotten lost in the darkness, and have been had be the devil.

Unfortunately this is a very common issue in the asian community 😢and l cant respect her enough for shedding a light on this huge issue. Such an inspiration to come on and talk openly about what happened

She’s sooo articulate and endearing wow. I could listen to her talk all day honestly! I cannot believe she’s in her 50s. I pray she finds peace 😢🙏❤️

Oh fur gawds sake James. Its not always about you. This lady has been to hell and back and you keep going about your own problems.

I pray this lady stays safe not only for her sake but for her kids I can imagine she’s a wonderful mother I hope she feels loved cause my gosh lady you’ve got us in the comments feeling so damn proud of you! Keep speaking and please stay safe! How on earth her father is still walking freely is beyond me

it makes me really sad to hear that in uk , the authorities did nothing to protect her from all this

Wow ! Nina thank you for your harrowing story I went to school in High Wycombe in the 80’s and the Asian girls were always diminutive and scared I too was born in 1970 and was subjected to mental abuse by both parents and have spent my life full of anger and I will not rest until they are both gone even though I haven’t seen them for years I am a white British male but I believe that all eastern women are treat appallingly and deserve so much better Nina you are amazing you are beautiful and you are a real inspiration and I hope you Male family members get there due deserved Keep strong darling ❤

This guy needs to let his guests speak and not use it as a platform to just go off on a tangent and spraff his own opinions. Let the guests speak!

Feel so sorry for her! She's so beautiful and so intelligent, no one deserves that.

She is such an incredible woman. I want to see justice for her. What she went through was horrific!!!

She is a really strong and brave woman. I felt so heartbroken listening to this story, her family are monsters and some people do not deserve to be parents! i really really hope she has a happy future.I can't believe she is 50 years old she looks much younger. You are such a good interviewer by the way, love your channel.

Great interview apart from James going off on a tangent about stuff not related to Nina. Sometimes best to just let the interviewee speak and tell their story.

James waffling at 24:00 she's told him its was purely cultural and he's still adamant on commenting on religion an the Quran. Do you know what the quran says about the treatment of women?

What a beautiful lady inside & outside her story is so cruel but yet she gives so much to others these are real influencers our youth should be looking up to great pod cast James 👏

So sorry Nina for all what you went through. May Almighty continue to bless you and your family.

What an incredibly beautiful woman, physically, mentally and spiritually. I am in awe. All respect and much love to you Nina - you are a true hero.

The story is truly horrific, in fact in the UK it happens in front of our faces, in London British people have been taught to not get involved, because if you do it is the tags of being a racist pops up, and then the Police get involved but for the wrong reasons. It also happened in the town I live now, a girl whose father owned an Indian Takeaway and she went to school with my own daughter, she got to 13 years of age and was getting cheeky and westernised and she was shipped out back to India, and an arranged marriage was involved, she did not want to go, lots of tears, but was forced back, never to be seen in the UK again. There has to be a UK assessment done at schools, and independently, no parent involved.

I’m so completely in awe of this woman she has come face to face with true evil she has suffered at the hands of evil and she is a shining light to help others ..thank god for people like her ❤

Honestly I do love James but feel he took over in this interview by going off tangent so often. She skipped half her life and I kept waiting for it to go back as I reslly wanted to hear it. Amazing women though, absolutely in awe of how she's taken her trauma to do so much good. I have a different background but was pretty badly SA as a child and then went into a very abusive marriage and had to escape with my daughter. I'm working on myself everyday to try and not let them win. Watching Nina really inspired and encouraged me to show that you can be who you want to, that the past does not define us. ❤

Who is that guy? So difficult to listen to him.

Wow what an amazing , intelligent , kind , compassionate lady and moving forward to help others , she’s an angel , I wish you well Nina , your story will help others. The law desperately needs to change 😢

I like James but sometimes I cringe at his monologues STFU and just ask her questions

the host’s accent is very challenging to understand. for the first 15 minutes i really thought he was speaking another language

Was going to say as well she looks amazing for 53, I had to rewind to make sure I heard her right, then look closer at my screen, she looks 33-34 it’s beyond tragic what happened to this obviously bright and empathic young girl and young woman, I hope she’s blessed with happiness, she is clearly a beautiful soul.

An interviewer is there to LISTEN and ask questions to share someone else's truth/story NOT talk over the interviewee and bring in their own 'opinion'. Stop talking about your views and let the interviewee TALK!

To the interviewer, it would be very respectful if you can respect the lady and stop using the F word. Look at her as your elder please. Hope you understand. Thanks!

Incredible woman. God bless you Nina. X

Interesting guest, I wish James would listen and let her talk…. Frustrating watch

This is such a disturbing story she is amazing I hope parents were charged

James getting a free session from Nina. 1 hour into the 'cast and I think he's told more of his issues than she has of hers 😂.. still a good watch 👍🏻

The men in these communities are hideously insecure. The woman must not acknowledge other men, absolute insecure little men. Anyone who treats woman this way needs a good kicking.

Poor lass, any man that treats a women or child like that deserves to be hung, the stuff she’s gone through, no one deserves it. Especially children and women, I hope she’s protected and real men look out for her, never stop speaking out love, your a wonderful good looking women with so much greatness to offer this 🌎. 👏🏻🔥❤️😍

James you spoke about yourself abit too much on this one man

What a phenomenal woman. How a woman who was literally living in pure hell but survived and she has the softest voice literally of an Angel. I pray God protects her and covers her!! Honestly the most horrific story on here 💔💔

I couldn’t finish this and it was one of the best guests, would have been lovely to hear her speak more 💗

*Hardcore topic this one James, rarely covered .... nice one*

Maybe give her a chance to speak James and not go on about your life which you continually repeat on your podcasts 😊good listen though

Don’t understand why the host keeps referring to religion when Nina clearly states whatever happened to her had nothing to do with religion. Stop trying to mix the two.

How can you have so little love for someone especially your own child?

So mid interview James English goes on a racist/Islamophobic rant and you’re like wth, where is this going lool

Wow. This is dark. I would love to get my hands on a man like her father.

James, your guests are amazing. What a strong woman Nina is. What she has been through broke my heart. This got to me this one. I hope she gets justice. Stories like this need to be broadcast all over and you're getting these Life stories out there and it's just so amazing James. Keep doing what you're doing.

I’m so sorry you had to put up with what your Dad, friends & father-in-law did to you Nina 😢 I hope and pray that justice will be done for you and many many others who have suffered like you have. You’re such a strong beautiful lady ❤

What an amazing woman to have gone through all that shit ..God bless and protect her from harm .

This was a good interview I just feel like he kept talking about himself and it’s like ok sir this interview is not about you

So sorry but the host was a bumbling mess... I really feel like the interviewer needed more grace and better line of questions for such a sensitive topic.

What a gentle pure soul she is.

James Prophet Muhammed peace be upon him consummated his marriage with Mother Aisha when she was considered a fully grown woman and was with consent not when she was 7.

Jesus is the answer of every question sister, Seek God’s word ont he bible and pray JESUS LOVES YOU HE WANTS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. Pray he will reveal himself to you if you believe wholeheartedly

The culture explanation for the way she was treated by her own parents is just a bullshit excuse used by vindictive P'sOS who want to abuse innocent girls and women. Being from Leicester myself, I have known many Sikhs in my 43 years and I would be horrified to think that any of those lovely friends had gone through even a fraction of what this poor woman has endured at the hands of those whose duty it was to protect her. The thing that really got to me when I first heard her story was the actions of her mother. How could a mother stand by and allow even a shred of that to be inflicted upon her own child? They are sadistic , sociopathic nutcases, nothing more, nothing less.

MURDER IS MURDER!! Wherever it Happens!! True, No one should come to.another Country , and still expect to.say it Is allowed because it's their Culture !Absolutely Not !!! 🙏❤💕😢😢

What an incredible and inspiring young lady. We need more people like this in the world! Hugely intelligent and extremely strong. Nina should be very proud of herself. Nina should receive a knighthood 💯

Heard her story some years back, which is difficult to listen to, it's so terrible, & quite amazing she has come through it with such dignity, the people who obused her should ALL be jailed/deported as a Minimum!

What an amazing woman! What a traumatising story and yet she’s come out it being so optimistic. Truly inspiring. Fantastic interview, raising awareness about a hard topic that NEEDED to be highlighted. I can’t believe how rife this is in Scotland. It’s utterly horrific! James, love the style you have, where you don’t mince your words or beat about the bush. You’ve one of those big Beautiful Glaswegian hearts. Love these podcasts. 🙌🏼❤️

What a very disturbing story. This lady is so beautiful on the inside and out, she's so brave, and James, you are so right about each individual cards dealt, only you and you alone can play them, I believe this lady was put on earth to make everyone aware of the abuse these beautiful children are being exposed to, and hopefully, her " hand" will change the world going forward 🙏 😊

So sad subhanallah the evil in this world May الله protect our children from these calamities

Omg!!! This content is the best content to bring awareness about what atcually happens in this silc and twisted world. Bless her heart she is immensely brave and I wish her nothing but strength and happiness. I too agree with you James about the demonic peadophiles in this world, adrenochrome , rituals , sacrifices everything!!! Amazing work as always! ❤

this woman is truely amazing i hope she gets justice thank you for giving victims a voice keep it your a true inspiration

Anything goes 👌 great to see more subjects being talked about that wouldnt be in the mainstream.

What a heartbreaking story from a strong beautiful woman. She deserves everything good that life can offer ❣️

It's a miracle she didn't die before the age of five due to neglect because of lack of food and proper medical care. Her parents would've been happy if she'd died. Her "family" is despicable. I hope they rot in hell. But she survived and now she's a warrior and an angel.

The reality of Khalistani millitants. What else one can even expect from them.

Ironically it’s the male that determines the sex of a child not the female

This was hard to listen to...not just bc Nina's story is horrendous bc it absolutely was but also bc this guy wouldn't let her actually tell her story. He kept rambling and interrupting and at times I felt like he really wasn't paying attention to what she was saying, especially in the beginning. Let her talk... this is why I clicked on the video. I watched her story on another channel previous to this one. It was 30 mins long and I learned sooo much more about what she went through. So when I see this video is 2 hours long, I thought there was so much more I didnt know. Nope, I actually heard her speak less than in the previous vid. Please let your guests speak without going on and on about your own personal tangents. The show is about your guest, make them feel important and heard. You basically took over and it felt like I was watching your therapy session.

Can’t believe what I’m hearing. Absolute disgrace in so many level!!!!!! Thank you for sharing your story

What an amazing inspirational strong woman!!

Thank you Nina for telling your story and Thank you James for hearing Nina. I too am 53 years of age and like you Nina I suffered extraordinary unspeakable levels of trauma both in childhood and early adulthood. Amazingly I also do not look my age and astonishingly like you I have rare copious amounts of empathy compassion and a pure heart - a varacious reader tooas a child just like you. The similarities and paralells speakto me and I completely hear you. I wonder what it is about multiple traumas that makes one totally go the other way? Unable to hurt another human being and instead having a heart so big and full of Love for other people. It baffles me it really does. I hope I can reach you and meet you one day because when same people find each other as kindred spirits we can make a whole heap of difference in this world. Blessings.X

When your culture comes from your religion, they become intertwined

She is strong and so beautiful congratulations Nina and blessings to you ❤

I’m a 5ft 9 housing manager and I too was in tears. Such an articulate woman, I truly wish you well Nina x

James you absolute legend not many people like to do this you and big man Tommy fair play mate credit where credit is due.

This is so crazy as to how many women have this life. I cried watching this I couldn’t even get through a minute without feeling utterly remorseful

What's sick is alot of people know this is going on, I'm white English and have known this for years because my head isn't stuffed up my own. arse, yet the lime light is constantly on the indigenous culture and how bad we are by people who claim to care.

I have so much admiration for this beautiful lady, she has been to hell and back but is still standing and putting positivity into the universe. I wish good things for her for the rest of her life, she's earned it ❤

This is sad - I am from the same culture ie Sikh - same age and same name funnily enough - only brought up with love - yes stricter upbringing than my brothers but to say girls are seeing as nothing is unfair - her Dad is clearly a Paedo and satanic to have treated his daughter like this. We are generally put on a pedestal by our Fathers and brothers. She certainly got the short straw being born in that wretched family. Her family sound incredibly backward. Sikh culture promotes education for the girls hence why everyone is a pharamict, Lawyer or Doctor - I broke the ranks and became an artist which was again applauded and encouraged - her story is horric no denying that - but to speak so broadly that we are all like that is very unfair. I wish her much love and only the best - bless her heart.

She looks fantastic for 53!

What a beautiful kind woman, she is beautiful inside and out. I really hope she is safe and lives a good life forever.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸

Can’t even start to imagine what she’s been through. Love that you are now helping others, amazing. ❤

The fact that this woman remains as positive and full of love after what she endured is amazing.

😢 what a beautiful amazing woman Nina is..God bless her sweet heart 💜 she is so strong 💪🏽 I hope 1 day those evil men get what they deserve .. disgusting 😡

How are humans so evil. I truly can’t understand.

Thank you for telling us about what happened to you, Nina. Your story in this life was based on a justification for murder and abuse from family members. You are an amazing and resilient woman and I am grateful to have heard about your life from your own words. Thank you again for having the courage to tell all of us what happened to you.

Her composure in relaying what happened to her is awesome. What a brave, courageous wonderful woman and human being. Her story is horrifying. When she said her pet dog at home comforted her when she was a kid, animals are wonderful and knowing. I wish her the very best in her life for always.

What a brilliant interview, so eye opening and inspirational at the same time. She’s got a good heart and spirit despite everything she’s been through. All my respects to Nina ❤❤

The system failed this poor lassie and others.

Poor baby i saw her on snapchat but the things she had to go through as a little child is disturbing and awful and just evil. Im so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are blessed and thriving and i pray that you have peace and protection for the rest Of your life. I love you so so much and I hope you heal from the trauma your own family put you thru. I wish you well and manifest lots of love and blessings to be poured out on you and may you always never stoo havinn love coming your way.

What is her fathers name and whats his address. I need to know. And her brothers. Eye for an eye thats all im saying.

A beautiful lady who has endured such pain and suffering at the hands of those who should know better. Her spirit remained Strong. She is undefeated.

What a beautiful, incredible woman! It was such a gift to share this time with you ❤ you brought the vulnerability out in James which was quite beautiful to see. Sending you both lots of love 💞