Extreme Toddler Tantrums - What's Normal? What's not?

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This video is about "What are NOT Typical Toddler Tantrums?"
"Kids vary in their temperament and in their responses to frustrating experiences. Temper tantrums are a typical phase of development for most children and are often exacerbated when children are tired, hungry, and disappointed. Tantrums are likely related to children’s struggle to express themselves and their need to assert control over their environment. Fortunately, most children’s tantrums begin to subside in intensity and frequency by 3 years of age, when their language skills enable them to express their needs and wants, and their capacity for self-regulation has grown.
-- Temper tantrums might be cause for concern when -
~Child has more than 10 to 20 discrete tantrum episodes on separate days at home during a 30-day period.
~Child has more than five tantrums a day on multiple days while at school or outside of home/ school during a 30-day period.
~Tantrums regularly last longer than 25 minutes on average
~Child is unable to calm himself/herself (., frequently requires assistance from a caregiver) and shows very limited capacity for self-regulation regardless of tantrum intensity, frequency, or context.
~During tantrum, child consistently shows aggression (e.g., hitting, kicking, biting, spitting or throwing directed toward a caregiver or an object).
~Child attempts to hurt himself/herself (e.g., head-banging, scratching or hitting himself/herself) during tantrums.
~Tantrums are accompanied by other atypical behaviors, such as self-stimulating behaviors that may not be injurious, atypical social responses, or aspects of mood that seem unusual to the situation.
~Tantrums seem exaggerated (i.e., child has strong reaction to seemingly minor events or changes in routine) or without clear pattern or trigger (e.g., when the child is hungry or tired).
~The presence of these signs does not necessarily suggest an ASD or even pathology. It does suggest that the child may warrant evaluation and further discussion, and possibly screening for behavior and developmental challenges is indicated."
Suggested Citation: Harstad L. Baum C, Yatchmink Y. Temper Tantrums. Developed for the Autism Case Training: A Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrics Curriculum. 2013.
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@theresa263 3 года назад

My son takes many tantrums in a day. They're usually short but intense. I get anxiety taking him out. He's a very stubborn, difficult child. He's great when he's not upset, but when he is, it's over. Kicking, throwing himself on the floor, screaming bloody murder, sometimes over something really small. I have a feeling he has a defiance disorder or ADHD, but I'll only really know when he's 3 or over. At which point I'll seek help. Very exhausting and discouraging, especially with Covid laws... No visitors are allowed, and it's hard to get a babysitter because of Covid. Rough times being a parent. I never thought I'd have to deal with this level of hardship raising my kids.

@theresa263 3 года назад

@sandy lee Glad to know I'm not alone... We've got this ♥️

@mariaelvas6785 2 года назад

I am going trough the same. A 2 yrs toddler and twins with 7months. The struggle is real and with covid is quite impossible get help from family or nanny. I dont have even time for my check up apppointment.

@haniak5710 2 года назад

I'm going through the exact same things. So overwhelming

@lonnielonmontalvo1831 2 года назад

I’m going through the same thing. My 3yo has been kicked out of 2 daycares now. I had to take him to work with me for a whole week & now I have to figure out what to do 💔😭

@mbz007 2 года назад

I feel your concern. I looked for this video because it's been very concerning for me as well. Mine is 4 yrs old and the school finds it hard to handle him.😢

@IrieLC13 3 месяца назад

To all the Mums/Dads watching this video please take into account age when it comes to tantrums/behaviours. A child can be referred to a toddler typically from the age of 1 and Its completely scientifically normal for a child under the age of 2 to not be able to regulate their emotions and have tantrums that do need adult intervention/help/guidance. Every child is different and there are alot of factors that may contribute to each childs behaviour, development and progression. Environmental factors, Genetic factors, Cultural factors, Ethnicity factors etc. Also some factors that are out of your control like medical conditions. The list is long. Don’t jump to conclusions snd feel defeated when this lady says “Not typical”. I know she means well but like I said every child is different and there are so many other factors to consider and “Not Typical” does not mean you should be worried. I have a child who showed alot of these “Not Typical” behaviours she explained in this video and to me they are all completely normal behaviours for a child who is overstimulated and can’t regulate their emotions. This video can be very misleading to alot of parents.

@joanwalden5140 10 месяцев назад

Tantrums are usually a lack of ability to express emotions of fear frustration and anger. Parents should put their phones away, focus on and engage with their children build trust and Listen to your children they'll soon reveal what they are struggling with Being ignored while parents are glued to their phones is very sad

@GetMeThere1 3 года назад

I'm 68 (and well, lol). My mom always told me I had "tantrums" as a toddler -- which arose when I was unable to do something that I was trying to do like, say, climb onto an object but finding myself physically unable to do it. My tantrum was FAINTING, however -- I would pass out cold, in frustration, lol. She didn't know WHAT this was, and took me to a pediatrician, thinking I had some serious neurological thing going on. The doctor said it was a "temper tantrum" and she STILL didn't believe it -- but finally did when they doctor showed her in his textbook that a tantrum could involve fainting. I soon got over them. I never remember having such a thing.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your story! :)

@Lola-qw1ih 4 года назад

I love this. Thank you! Really needed it

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 4 года назад

You are so welcome! Please share the video on social media.

@tircahpg7 6 лет назад

Your videos arr so much helpful Ms. Kayla.

@staceybuchko8170 2 года назад

10-20 in a 30 day time span is not normal? Ma’am my daughter has 10-20 tantrums in a 30 minute time span. 🙃 EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. 😪

@TK-jr1km 6 лет назад

I am so happy I found your channel. Such a blessing. Thank you for all your hard work. 😘

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 6 лет назад

You are very welcome!

@christianoliveras7799 4 года назад

umm zainab if a child calm himself down

@PhiCorona 4 года назад

Just found this video while my toddler is having a meltdown lol apparently he fits ur descriptions 😭 ty for this info 👏🏽

@christianoliveras7799 4 года назад

Phi calm himself down

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 4 года назад

Glad it was helpful!

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 года назад

The information on what is and what is not a typical tantrum was helpful, thanks!

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

Glad it was helpful!

@breannapiscitelli3941 Год назад

So this is actually something that I knew would most likely come up as a problem. Growing up, I actually had pretty severe tantrums, but they never really went away. I just learned to kinda hide my feelings more. Turns out, I most likely have autism and that’s why my tantrums were so severe as a child For a while, I thought we were in the clear with my daughter, but after she had like 13 months, we really started noticing some strange changes. Like she was very advanced, but then all of a sudden she just stopped being advanced, especially with her motor skills. She was able to crawl by six months and stand up on things by eight. After that, she didn’t take any steps or anything for like another four or five months until she was in the middle of 15 months. She’s always been kind of solitary, but I was kind of taking it to the extreme in the past two months where she will throw tantrums if I try to even play with her. I try to let her do her own thing because I was like that, as well as a Child basicallyw I’m pretty sure she is very similar to me and my also have autism. She is only 16 months, but she just started throwing tantrums and they are very intense and she hit her head on the floor in tries to hurt herself. It absolutely breaks my heart, because I did the same thing as a child and my mom told me that I was always just very over exaggerating as a child. The other issue is we are female so whenever I bring up that I either I might have autism or that she does everyone immediately shuts us down because neither of us were ever delayed in language skills. My language skills started getting really severe and bad around when I went to school. I never really got the concept of grammar in the English language as well as spelling. I don’t really know where to go from here. She has a visit on her 18 months but I don’t want to sound like a crazy Mom. I’m pretty convinced just because there’s always been this burning feeling in me going up to that something was off. I actually talk to my family doctor and he agreed and he’s referring me finally after almost 30 years. Right now my daughter sees a pediatrician, but my family doctor has also said that he would take on her care if they didn’t listen to me, but my issue is I also suffer from pretty bad anxiety, and I get very terrified to ask any of these questions. I knew that her tantrums weren’t normal because a lot of times when you give her the thing that she wants she does not come down at all, and she just does not know how to calm herself down. It breaks my heart because I haven’t learned how to do that yet for myself either and I just want to help her so bad.

@tatjanamirkovic3803 11 месяцев назад

I hope you find help for you and your baby 🙏 good luck and stay strong! ❤

@BrynTobin День назад

I’m still a teen myself but one of my best friends has a 4 year old sister who I’m concerned for. She has around 10 tantrums in A DAY. She hits, kicks, bites, scratches over the smallest things. Shes gone as far as breaking braces brackets, biting though skin, and trying to kill my friends and I. I’m over there a ton, does anyone have tips on how to deal with her?

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

And when will it stop hurting

@FeraleHubbard 4 года назад

My son is very articulate. Very intelligent. Was speaking better than every other child his age in his daycare. He has been very aggressive since he was a toddler. Biting, hitting. His father and I are not aggressive. His brother is not aggressive. He is not autistic. He is now 5 and still throws daily tantrums. Any advice?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 4 года назад

Here's some ideas ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XZlHjNRVO2M.html

@salmanisaurr5824 4 года назад

I'm very glad hear it. If the tantrum is still in the normal category, does it have to be dealt with immediately or let it quiet down by itself?

@kiarafranklin9190 3 года назад

Salma Nisa'ur R girl you rock 🥳 🤩 😍 🥰 😘 🤪 😎 😀 🤣

@leafy427 2 года назад

I have a 3 year old very well spoken but won’t talk when he has a tantrum. Some of his issues are noticeable/ he just doesn’t want something changed. He won’t try a food. He asked who’s turn it was to snuggle before bed and he didn’t get the right answer so it was screaming crying non stop

@creativeminds6335 2 года назад

I am a special educator your channel is such a great help for me.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

I'm so glad!

@ToyaRoa1 4 года назад

my child is 18 months, and his speech is very good. Alot better then other kids his age. But he still has alot of tantrums. He is always talking back, got attitude, and will on purpose do the opposite of what I ask. I dont know where all this attitude comes from. He is the youngest of 4 kids, he has 3 older sisters aged 12,11,and 10 years old so he is spoit and gets lots of attention. he is super bossy, likes to scream and cry when he doesnt get his way and hits. He is very clever for his age and has a big vocabulary for his age. arggg just so frustrating with his attitude and tantrums.

@valeriebelen9569 2 года назад

Same! I have a 3 year old son who is also the youngest, his brother and sisters are 13, 12 & 11. He is so bossy with them and is also such a mama's boy. He thinks he's a big kid like them but will cash out on his "baby of the house" card when he sees fit lol. He also screams and hits and has a lot of tantrums. My husband says he's just spoiled and has that Taurus personality lol

@The_Scouts_Code 14 дней назад

@0:20 my kids are like this… i don’t know why since my communication skills are exemplary, and i didn’t have trouble expressing myself as a kid. It’s so frustrating. Just say you’re hungry instead of having a meltdown…

@BratzFanz123 11 месяцев назад

My little brother is 4 yrs old. His tantrums don’t last longer than 25 minutes but he’ll chase anyone around and try to hit them in the face or bite them where he can! My older brother literally has to hold him in place until he calms down. It usually happens from him not doing something he wants. My sister moved her desk chair, he wanted to us it but he was using another chair, when she redirected him back to his original chair he bit her and started this huge tantrum. He says sorry but starts it all over again. He also has a short attention span, and will go without eating or pee on himself just to continue watching RU-vid videos.

@iosonoi.7132 2 года назад

So what does it mean then if it’s not normal?

@matthewpearson1564 2 года назад

I sometimes have tantrums in a day when I get mad at the teen nick tv channel for not working right and also that when my computer is not working right and when my mother makes things frustrating with changes when things get confusing I get upset about every wrong thing when I have to hit my legs not when I;m throwing kicking myself on the floor I only shake my hands and fists up and down and I also hit my knees and legs that's what I do that's what I do. this cannot happen to me do you know what my mother tell's me to do? breathe and calm down witch make my anger of vengence not strong enough to make my mother pay of make things frustrating and for what happened on 2013.

@charlenelinkedinleads 4 года назад

Thank you for this video, it helped me to confirm that my daughter's occasional tantrum is normal. My daughter does have some language delay because she is learning both German (in daycare) and English (at home) and that these intense tantrums will get better.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 4 года назад

You are welcome!

@savannahjones299 4 месяца назад

What ages does this apply to because I have a 13 month old.

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

So no school for him on that day

@thesoulwandererproject2094 4 года назад

My twins tantrum about 20 times a day each. Literaly anything will send them into a tantrum and nothing will work. Tried distracting, negotiating, punishing, explaining, rewarding..nothing works, i'm at the end of the rope with this..

@sandrav82 3 года назад

Same here, I've tried everything, he's 2, he throws around 3-5 a day but they last a long time sometimes until he falls asleep they are explosive and he gets extremely angry.

@shannenlibres2365 3 года назад

Have you tried leaving them alone? I'm no expert In just curious

@thesoulwandererproject2094 3 года назад

@@shannenlibres2365 yes..gets better if i leave but the problema is they won't do things they need to...like eat. Sometimes i think they would gladly starve to death if i didnt force them to eat something and specially this worries me a lot because they are super active and skinny, can't really afford to shed weight. So it all turns into a battle of wills..

@thesoulwandererproject2094 3 года назад

@@sadaali68 thanks for this. Actually gave me new ideas to try :)

@k-okay9797 2 года назад

Hi, how old were your twins when you wrote this? Has their behavior gotten better? Or did you seek help?

@thessab.6212 3 года назад

Hi, what can be some possible reasons that a child is having a tantrums as extreme as you mentioned in your video, or for the reasons that you mentioned? Thank you

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Good question! It's best to get some help from a pediatrician to determine.

@frodolover58 4 года назад

I am still confused with my son, he has frequent tantrums but they don’t last long. Although last night it was he was overtired. Can that be normal? It’s typically being overtired or not getting what he wants. He also hits but not all the time I thought this somewhat normal at 2-3 years old?

@epicpoliticsgirl229 6 лет назад

My son is yes to all those except stemming. He's on speech therapy but I've noticed something odd. Before he started therapy he rarely spoke mostly babble if that but he was very independent. He would always attempt to get what he wanted or if it was physically impossible he would ask by taking u to the kitchen or standing where he knows u hid the cookies. Now at 22 months old he very very very clingy. Sometimes refuses to feed himself. Yes his tantrums were intense before but know they're constant and at times for no reason. Instead of attempting to ask for what he wants he cries and acts hysterical even hitting. However he is starting to move past mindless babble and attempt words sometimes with success. His understanding was at a 9 month level when he was 18 months but I do feel he has improved in that area as well. Not sure what to do as he has become unruly. Right now I try 30 second time outs, doing my best to keep a schedule and attempting to empathise but he once he gets worked up he seems to have almost no ability to calm back down. Any advice it would be greatly appreciated???

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 6 лет назад

Hi! Thanks for reaching out. Whew! That sounds like it's getting tough and it sounds like you are trying your best. good job! Watch these two videos and try these tactics for a week and then let me know how they go. Also, please talk to your therapist about his behavior and ask her recommendations and if she thinks he should be evaluated by a behavior specialist. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-K_8uF9Lv50A.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XZlHjNRVO2M.html I hope these help! Let's talk again in a week!

@abuber88 5 лет назад

What's the difference between a tantrum and a "normal" toddler upset episode? Thank you ahead of time! :-)

@eileenfuentes6975 4 года назад

That's what the video is all about

@sa1sa624 3 года назад

Is my kid throwing his paccifier away or throwing his toys in air for one and half year old normal?

@EamonWill 2 года назад

@@eileenfuentes6975 No it's not. The video never defined what a tantrum actually is. It only talked about the frequency of tantrums. This assumes we all have the same definition for tantrum and know what she's talking about. I'm confused to. Of course my kid gets upset more than 10 times a month! But when do we reach tantrum level upset? What is a tantrum? Idk.

@RevolutionUtena 2 года назад

@@EamonWill did you ever get an answer? This is my question too

@AlisonClark-pv5sz Месяц назад

My toddler doesn’t get violent but she does throw herself to the floor and has been crying a LOT more lately and I just can’t figure out what to do for her😭 cause she’s not been wanting to eat either, any advice?!!!! Need some!

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Yes he is on March 31st

@EmpressNewGroove 2 года назад

Typical and not typical got me confused! 😂😅

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Shrek is chimpanzee also getting a 3rd Covid shot

@parkender1833 2 года назад

My daughter seems to have uncontrollable tantrums when her Mum leaves the room/house. My daughter grew up during covid she's 20 months now so for basically the first 8 months of her life was just me and her Mother. My Girlfriend is a nurse so she works nights. My daughter seems to understand what work and out mean as she goes into an incredible tantrum. Hitting herself in the face, hitting me throwing herself on the floor. I'm worried to be honest. She has no problem in Nursery and will throw small tantrums throughout the day but as soon as her mother leaves. There's almost no comforting her. She also sleeps in our bed as currently we're living with my parents due to us saving for a house.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

Speak with her pediatrician if you are concerned. Here is a video that may help ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-K_8uF9Lv50A.html

@parkender1833 2 года назад

@@liveontheedge I don't mind her sleeping with us but her tantrums are unbelievable. She won't even get dressed now

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Yes

@evelynaguilar4055 5 лет назад

My son is 2 years old is aggressive only when he is in daycare. Per his teacher he hits without no reason to other kids. He just started with his ST. My son is on a waiting list for OT. Any advice.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 5 лет назад

There is always a reason why they hit. Discuss this with you in-person ST to figure out why.

@TwinTagYou 5 лет назад

My 2 year old daughter holds her body stiff while crying n throwing tantrums.is this normal?can she sucking her fingers for comfort cause speech delay

@vernonbosshard9317 3 года назад

My child born 07/06/2017 whos mom had a stroke mar 21 2019 and has since shes been in an unconscious state, he throws frequent violent temper tantrums, kicks and hits others and sometimes tries self harm, gets mad easily over small things, very picky, seems to have separation anxiety, can't be away from dad very long if at all. do you think he needs help?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Hi Vernon, it would be a good idea to seek an evaluation. It could be so many things but sounds like the little one needs some extra help.

@toriliggins8101 6 лет назад

I have a 2 year old that has violent tantrums, hitting with objects and attempting to really harm his siblings. He can speak a little but his temper is short and he have cried for hours until I picked him up. I have a 10 month old as well and he copies his brother's tantrums as well. How can I fix this?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 6 лет назад

Hi! I’m sorry that sounds hard. As I said in the video, when a child has such extreme tantrums it can sometimes be a sign that something else is going on. If the child is also behind in speaking, then a developmental evaluation is a good idea.

@toriliggins8101 6 лет назад

Walkie Talkie Speech Therapy Inc. thank you. I will take care of this. My son is speaking and very well he is also learning spanish, which is the only thing that's a plus.

@user-zd1jh5zz9n 2 месяца назад

Ok my grand daughter almost 3 years old screams loud. Its too the point they are going to lose their apartment and live on the street. She won't listen.

@mellamarie6601 3 года назад

Everything you mentioned seem to be not typical for a tantrum, what does a typical tantrum look like

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Hey there check out this video on tantrums ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zZuHcL6XHsM.html hopefully this helps.

@Sunshine-rb5tc 2 года назад

Throwing a tantrum in the store because they couldn't get a toy or whatever they wanted

@Mani00700 7 месяцев назад

Okay now that I know what’s not normal. How to help? I can’t handle this kids tantrums .

@abigalerockis7341 3 года назад

My 3 year old literally fits the bill on everything you listed...I'm at a loss of what do do.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Hi! I suggest reaching out to your pediatrician as a start.

@lasheslies4239 2 года назад

Me too 😩😩 my daughter is 3 goes to speech therapy which helps but her tantrums are horrible .. I am scared to think it’ll continue like this for more years I’m so exhausted 😩

@joshmcclure5223 Год назад

@@lasheslies4239 any update to daughter.

@amykay6391 5 лет назад

My 28 month old girl is having lots of the nontypical tantrums you describe... What are some reasons for these types of tantrums?

@amykay6391 5 лет назад

Also, I sometimes think her tantrums are pain related... She does a lot of back arching, like to the point I think she's going to hurt herself... Is this possible, a pain related tantrum?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 5 лет назад

HI! Thanks for watching. It'd be best to seek help from your pediatrician.

@connercrouse3826 3 года назад

Im so happy i found this because my 2 year old has been out of control and i showed my fiance this and shes just in denial about all of this what do i do ??

@connercrouse3826 3 года назад

To furth expand on that she just thinks all of the hitting kicking he does is normal and also when you said 20 - 30 tantrums in a 30 day period my jaw dropped because my son has had that much in just this week

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-K_8uF9Lv50A.html Here is a video on decreasing tantrums I hope this helps!

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

On April 2nd and it will hurt even more on April 5th

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Yes really

@eviewells6172 5 лет назад

I wish I could send this to my childs speech therapist. Ugh

@eileenfuentes6975 4 года назад

Do it! A good speech therapist would WANT to hear or see things that help better understand the issues.

@Waynemomsince2017 4 года назад

How do you deal with a 3 year old toddler who throws a tantrum and take clothes off. is that normal and how can i deal with that.

@Breyerluvr4eva 3 месяца назад

What did you end up doing? Were just starting this now

@Waynemomsince2017 3 месяца назад

@@Breyerluvr4eva That was three years ago I think he just didn't like his clothes altho I just found out that he's autistic nonverbal trisomy 8 mosaicism

@Breyerluvr4eva 3 месяца назад

@Waynemomsince2017 oh wow. Thanks for the reply! Mine is very, very verbal. Like ahead of the curve. She's 2.5. But recently the meltdowns and "I do it" are really hard to deal with. It's to the point where she will cry and scream and want to undo whatever we just did so that she can do it herself... I'm wondering if that aspect of it is okay/typical...

@Waynemomsince2017 3 месяца назад

@@Breyerluvr4eva I'm hoping it will get better my son has grown out of it but every child is unique and different. Wishing you all the best and stay calm and be patient as I once I did. My son is now 7 and he's just a ball of energy.

@beccaleighh10 5 лет назад

How would you solve a problem when a parent is struggling to communicate what her child wants. My niece is 22 months old with developmental speech delays. She will grunt and cry to get what she needs and wants, for example after being put down, she will cry to be picked up, or seeing mom pull out phone she will cry and grunt to play with phone, n mom feels sad to see her child frustrated not being able to express herself so she gives in immediately. Any great home speech therapy ideas for her child to be able to express herself n decrease her tantrums? She will not sign, she will get upset more when the ST tries to teach her sign

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 5 лет назад

Hi! Thanks for your comment. I have TONS of videos on here to help so you've come to the right place. Maybe start with these videos. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9gTPS0cX4VQ.html, if you want a step-by-step video guide, check out my online course for parents here walkietalkie.teachable.com/p/crying-to-signing-to-talking/?product_id=807392&coupon_code=10RU-vid

@race8810 2 года назад

What educational background, licensing, specialties this woman has to publicly give diagnosis to parents what’s normal and what’s not normal in child development ? Licensed medical doctors specialized in specific behavioral fields do that not just RU-vid influencer !

@sgdft9186 Год назад

Our doctor assured us these things were normal, even, "head banging," where the toddler bangs their head on the floor causing bruising! Apparently about 20% of baby boys do that, she told us, so it falls within the normal range, but WOW it did not feel normal obviously. I've had 4 babies and the middle two were extremely easy going and had almost no tantrums in their toddler years, so kids can be very different yet still in a, "normal range." I agree with you that I think she's over-diagnosing what isn't normal and possibly worrying parents. Our oldest that had so many issues, it was horrible parenting him (and I was honest about that, which relatives didn't like to hear but it was true), it lasted for about 3 1/2 years and then he got extremely easy until fairly recently when now he's about to be 13. So I still don't think anything was really wrong with him per se, he was just extremely difficult and parenting him was lonely, hard, and exhausting and awful. I even had one stranger come up to me in a parking lot to make sure I wasn't abusing him because he was screaming so loud and resisting being strapped into his car seat. He was super strong, and was able to hold his body stiff where he couldn't be strapped in for almost 30 minutes (paired with screams like he was dying). Ugh! It gets better parents! Don't give in to their tantrums, leave a fun place the moment they start doing that, endure the hits and bites etc. and take hot baths/calm down when you need to!

@vanessamarie3557 Год назад

My 20 month old does every single thing listed in this video plus she recently started hurting animals. Ive been voicing concerns to her pediatrician about her behavior since she was about 1 year old but her pediatrician just keeps telling me its all normal. Its really discouraging and makes me feel like im just overreacting to normal behaviors.

@LeahLovellGreen Год назад

I would seek a second opinion mama!

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Yes no school for him on that day

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

A while on May 2nd

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Oh so that means chimpanzee is not going to school on April

@angiewarner1393 2 года назад

Our 4yr granddaughter has tantrums, hers are not regular but they do last anywhere from 10 mins to 30, sometimes more. It's never unprovoked. It's always at bedtime or if she loses a privilege. But.. when she does have days like this it seems to be several days in a row. Should we be concerned?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

If you are concerned definitely speak with her pediatrician about these concerns.

@jamescook115 2 года назад

Apparently your version of a typical tantrum is where they yell one time and then say I love you daddy... Be more realistic!

@vivianapetrasova1586 Год назад

My child has tantrums once an hour. He is refusing to eat and uninterested

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

I know

@rodrigoacevedo5909 2 года назад

Its hard when your first born (girl) was really calm but my second (boy) is really active lol and usually throw tantrums when we going out because he wants to sit in the drivers seat and play. I guess that was kind of my fault for showing him that. But its really frustrating now.

@renuhazari544 Год назад

Does it changed??? After 6 months?? Coz my son is omg i took him yo the park evryday no other kid is as active as him ..he is just fearless 2 years old And same making him sit in a sitbelt is way harder process for me too…sadly i lure him with treats or videos on phone

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Yeah hopefully Hugo’s blessing it will go away why did Hugo made that happened sometimes yeah

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

May 2nd

@salenawheatley2064 3 года назад

What age? My daughter is 1 (15 months) and im worried about her tantrums. She has a lot of sib

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Hi there feel free to check out this video I have on how to decrease tantrums ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-K_8uF9Lv50A.html I hope this helps.

@lucinda6286 6 лет назад

My LO will be 2 years old in two months he doesn't throw tantrums often but he will sometimes hit himself or bang his head on the floor. How do I help him?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 6 лет назад

Hi! Watch my video on how to decrease tantrums

@melodias94 5 лет назад

Have you looked into autism? Theres such a huge spectrum it could be very minor. But hitting themselves and head banging is a huge hint. Of course, it cant be diagnosed until they're 3 unless it's super obvious. I'm going through this with my 20 month old. Dont know if she is or isnt.

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Right everyone different because chimpanzee hurted just for 3 hours and Eddie is gonna hurt when he is 20 and it will stop hurting when he is 75 but Eddie thing hurted even more on Jan 10

@jerzmecooks3910 Год назад

Crying watching this. My son is throwing things hitting others triggered easy all of it

@bkonagoldgold2517 2 года назад

Does not typical mean it is abnormal?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

Definitely speak with the child's pediatrician if you are concerned. Not typical would mean not seen as often.

@robloxjada61 2 года назад

This can be a sign of Autism, ADHD, Learning disabilities or more.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

Thanks for the comment

@Ola9013 3 года назад

Nothing seem to be typical.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

yes, ever child is different!

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

You know

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

@sarabethmattis6099 3 года назад

I guess it’s even worse if it is an almost 6 year old, right? My son is so smart. Great language. Great motor skills. He is a challenge, big time. We are starting to wonder what to do. Our oldest son is very well behaved. A typical libra. I guess we need to reach out to a child development specialist or something. :/

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Hey Sara! Yes, I would recommend getting an assessment. There are so many possible factors that play into childhood development. Parenting is tough!

@Scroartic-cn6lt 11 месяцев назад

¡900th like!

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Oh ok then

@chrisoliveras5488 2 года назад

Nope

@petercgonzalez 4 года назад

What should I do when the behavior isn’t typical? Such as hitting and kicking my wife and/or I?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 4 года назад

Hi! I have some tips here but it may be a good idea to get help from a behavior specialist. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-K_8uF9Lv50A.html

@bossman674 10 месяцев назад

I think this is completely inaccurate and you are going to give parents complexes over their children’s behaviour. Defining normal and abnormal tantrums is completely subjective, and anecdotal… this is absurd. You’ve got parents in your comments thinking their children have ADHD!!!! this is unacceptable.

@SweetPeachannel 2 года назад

You have nice teeth by the way.

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

Thank you!

@jroark101 2 года назад

Then every kid is not typical lol

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 2 года назад

Every child is definitely different!

@omarramirez2704 4 года назад

What can I do if my toddler is throwing tantrum’s over the smallest things?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 4 года назад

Oh man that can be tough. Is your child communicating appropriately for his/her age? ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Ll-xqXxszsQ.html

@ashleyblanton8395 3 года назад

So my 1 year old likes to scream at the top of his lungs when hes upset and i have a 3 year old that freaks out when he does this im am just lost on what to do any ideas?

@WalkieTalkieSpeechTherapy 3 года назад

Hey there, check out this video ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-K_8uF9Lv50A.html hopefully this helps!