Fairytale Romance to Absolute Nightmare | The horror kidnapping of baby Sebastian | True Crime 

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careful! someone will accuse you of victim blaming! there ARE things we women can do, or not do, to up our odds of surviving. but. heaven forbid we should say out loud what some of those safeguards are. it's fckd up.

Very important advice. Apparently the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when you finally get the strength to say it's over.

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Absolutely. I guess hindsight is always 20.20.😢

I would think there's enough evidence to sue the family for harboring a criminal.

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Your a lovely lady

What’s you being Mexican have to do with anything ??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Stay strong

I’m so sorry that you went through that, no wonder you are traumatised bless you. I hope you manage to find some peace ❤️

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I remember this story. My prayers go out to you, and Sam. From Namibia 🇳🇦

@joanneliechti5001 . Was he a german ??

I met women who move/migrate for a man. That to me is always a red flag.

Therezumee My parents, especially my father (born 1910 ) told me only once: A man has always to find his way to a woman he claims to love, always, no exception, no matter how far....Since I`m an older person I can only state he was right and so are you.

@@user-rl5lt1vx2o So very true...

Exactly right

You are so true… I don’t understand how now and days these women get flown out to different places to meet a man they barely know and some get killed too and never make it back home. They say flown out is a new trend but I want follow that trend….

I’m sure she did!

Im pretty sure she did lol. 5 months have passed.

i actually thought that too but Daniel had someone (Sebastian) that was going tolove him and look up to him, a narcissist dream so I don't think the baby wasever in danger.

​@@julesnorton2138can a narcissist show love? I thought they only surface love, but deep love. And he never really bonded with his baby when they were together. Also he has another child and never told her. She was living his life and it was all a lie to trap her and play with her like a mouse for with a cat. So I'm not sure. I just hope you right. I know I said I'd get a DNA test done but I've way when I think about it I'd be scared to, to know for real. A child can be loved unconditionally your or not but her heart would be always missing her own blood child, and many of she found out that the baby wasn't hers she would be forever looking for him and everyone would be again in massive danger. What a tragic life experience she lived. I wish her and her baby peace and happiness forever more.

@@julesnorton2138 my narcissist ex-husband didn’t really want either of his kids (not mine, they were from earlier relationships)…he hated their mothers and blamed them for the kids not being in his life… (both kids were in different countries and he left them)… I have a wonderful relationship with my step-daughter… she has no relationship with him. She sees him as he is! I’m grateful he is completely out of our lives!

Yes very bis risk.

She seemed very naïve, thinking “nobody would take a baby away from his mother”

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That is bad enough but then, without knowing them yet, you add a baby to the mix, it is my opinion that almost 100% of crimes begin with bad decisions.

True enough she could not have done it alone.

Understand. After my son was born, we were kidnapped by my abuser. I was locked in basement being tortured & drugged for 18 months. I escaped with nothing to an abuse center in the middle of the night. The doctors said they’d never seen anyone(me) so close to death & survive. We were granted an IFP & Victim Protection Program. My son has delays from abuse & neglect. I struggle with permanent physical damage, trauma, scared of everyone but know how to put on a good front when necessary. I don’t have a family, just good friends & church community.

@@FLBeautyQueen I'm so sorry this happened to u. I'm glad you have friends and your church around. Stay strong!

@@FLBeautyQueenoh my I am so happy you were able to get out and escape. I am so sorry this made me crying reading this! I would love to be your friend. I haven’t been thru what you have but I am a nurse I have been hurt by my entire family after adopting a baby of a different color. I am married we love love love our miracle little girl who is 7 now. I had to make my family from my friends but let me tell you I have some great friends who love my child so so so much. So I don’t know what to even say to help because I sure can’t say I been in ur shoes but I am a great listener and nursing in mental health has made me a great listener and friend to all. I appreciate and love my friends who didn’t throw me away like my family had done due to adopting my beautiful newborn baby who I just saw take her first breath. I held her first. I snuggled with my baby first. I cherished being a mother so very much and still do. She is my absolute everything and being brown isn’t a crime. It isn’t a sin to adopt and give a baby who has no chance in life before she was even born by me being able to make sure I protect her from all these people have such hate in their hearts and souls. I miss my family I thought I knew for 35 years when I last could be apart of their lives. It hurt me made me not trust anyone and made me feel like everyone but I hated my new gorgeous daughter I prayed and prayed for.

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Exactly - thought the same thing.

Exactly my thoughts

Some people are born psychopaths

I was thinking the same thing.

The police usually do them automatically. Usually when the child is rescued they automatically go straight to the hospital for a FULL check over and log of their EXACT condition when found for evidence in potential future trials. Part of that DOES usually include doing full DNA tests of BOTH parents. If they passed away then the police use the next of kin and relatives. And they'll go as far back as they need to. They'll search far and wide if necessary. There's case's from decades ago where children were mistakenly handed back to the wrong parents, usually to the wealthier more stable family. Which sadly means sometimes when they didn't know they tried to opt for the parents who had the most to offer a child hoping they'd get the best life possible to protect them and recover from any trauma. It would hopefully give them an easier start with many more opportunities. They weren't just heartless before DNA testing.

Yes! I’m lucky in that I’m autistic, so getting this much attention is an immediate turnoff for me. A lot of women I know have been taken in by this- it’s not fighting fair, bc your brain will produce way more oxytocin, which is very easy to become habituated/addicted to.

​@@sarahissersohn5495 we're more vulnerable to this kind of manipulation actually.

Big red flag! Too much in the beginning

Narcissist, aka psychopath or sociopath. I was married to 2 of them. Now single for life. Raised 2 beautiful children whom are now married. I have 5 grandchildren. Raised my kids as a single mom. Nurse for 30 years, now retired.

​@@ginaverdi6101 thank goodness there's greater and greater awareness of this now. Without that knowedge or past experience, it's easy to hope your way into the facade that the lovebombing is true love, and stories of romance from the past all the may to modern storytelling will often include love stories with excessive romantic themes and displays.

This is in 2006

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😮such HIGH STAKES to gamble with. Babies shouldn't be used as pawns in these types of situations. 😢

@judywright3470 All that love-bombing, narcissism 101...

My thought exactly!

Why don't you leave it up to the experts, Elaine!

No it is not safer. In my experience dealing with a narcissist. Once you find your power, stand on it! SHOW NO fear, NO weakness, NO eff's given. THAT scares the heck outta a narcissist! They are used to the weak, crying, selfless person. A confident, powerful person will make them RUN!!

Well did it work??

​@Earth_Rocker "experts" make mistakes all the time, they literally have to carry specialized insurance to cover them. 🥴

His story was probably different than hers

Do you think he was telling them "oh, I've always hated this baby and didn't think my wife would give all the attention to the baby when it came. I've also been acting like a narcissistic whackjob and come across like I might get physically abusive at any second. So I snatched this child away from his loving, caring mother who takes great care of him"? That's never the story of the person in the wrong, even when it's completely accurate. I'm sure his story involved the mother being neglectful at the very least, possibly downright abusive to the baby, as well as running around on him with multiple men, maybe even throwing in a substance abuse problem for good measure. Abusers are never in the wrong to themselves, no matter how much they have to outright lie to justify their horrible actions.

Narcissistic enabling family system

Leave, your life will improve 100% even if it is hard at first. I was raised by a true narcissist and I know our life would have been so much better without him. My brother is a severe alcoholic and has been since he was 20. My mother regrets staying with that lunatic and I try to get on but the trauma of living with a person you feel you have to walk on eggshells with takes it toll. Don't carry that toxicity into your next generation of family, they will be grateful for the peace. Stay safe x

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Same here and everyone thinks it's so easy to leave but by the time you're in their web, they've usually relieved you of your finances and made you completely horrendously dependant on them. Tale as old as time 😢

I found other story in internet about her. He mistrated his own son. And he wait for her in Mexico. Who said the true?

This is so true. High chance they are an alcoholic as well.

Especially when breastfeeding. You can get seriously ill if you are not able to feed or have to be put on meds not to be producing anymore.

But it’s the first 3 years really…he had bonded with his mother before he was kidnapped.. so hopefully he recovered for the most part. The live of a mother trumps EVERYTHING. 🩵🤍

So vrey true.

Love wins

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I totally recommend Prof Sam Vaknin RU-vid amazing insights "13 types of mentally ill family" good initial ep then NPD playlist

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Well simple math says he is 18 now since he was born in 2006

@@cherylemaybury9967 haha, I must have missed that.

It's okay me too 😂

Gypsy Rose should still be in prison for killing her mother. Her boyfriend that actually did the killing got life without parole. She should have been sentenced according to what he was sentenced because she was the mastermind.

@@sherrigates463 Amd she did most the jabs!!! A jury would have seen all the evidence which we can now. She stole TWO knives. Nick said he did 4 jabs. Who did the rest? Where is the other knife she stole? So much more too. Nick is still covering for her. That’s why he still says he has to “protect” her.

There’s no such thing as a perfect man

Yes! And what was her plan regarding that visa that she knew would expire? She was young, sure, but still an adult. With such poor planning skills and no common sense, she shouldn’t have traveled to Mexico in the first place.

He is very scary

She's THE mom. I don't think you have any kids yourself? otherwise you would know better.

Do you know how babies are made? Oh my, if not, I hope you aren’t sexually active

I'm pretty sure he would've been formally identified.

​@@mh1979odenseEven the mom had concerns apparently.

@@mh1979odense He was weeks old when he was taken, and she stated herself that he looked nothing like before, so clearly HIS MOTHER wasn't so sure either. I have kids. That was a really dumb statement for you to make. How many switched babies have there been where the families didn't find out until a DNA test was done for one reason or another?

I don't think so. He'd be completely out of his element. And honestly, I think he's too lazy.

Yes anything is possible he could set someone up to kidnap the little boy.

He won't, he is wanted in America for kidnapping, so if he did go, he'd be arrested at the airport

@@empfangwien521 that is great but she lives in the UK where her family lives. Sadly he’s probably already found another victim he can abuse now.

@empfangwien521 Indeed. And since he's wanted for international kidnapping, he's more than likely on the radar of the Yard, Interpol and other law enforcement agencies in the Western world. He's probably scared to death to leave Mexico lindo.

There was plenty special about her. I don't know about you, projecting with petty shade.

Plus living illegally in two foreign countries! Daniel owning property in Texas is likely what permitted US cops to help, then the US FBI. If she had the proper visas and went directly to attorneys in both countries it of course would have been the safer, proper way to deal with this. As is she used an incredible amount of resources from two countries, MX and USA, based really on her own idiot behaviour. Commenters saying she is an amazing mother are not seeing her for the young dumb girl she was. Fathers do have custodial rights. All depositions everywhere are videotaped, so are police interviews. Just a foolish young woman.

Wow - I tell my kid all the time, that there’s no trouble she could ever get into, that she can’t come to me with, and we will figure it out together. There are lots of ways to teach accountability - my kid has also had a rigorous, developmentally appropriate chores expected of her, since she was a young toddler, bc everyone contributes. It’s really important your kids know they can come to you and not get judged- otherwise you leave them extremely vulnerable to manipulation from predators

Exactly glad u didn’t fall for the woman pity party

The saying is " if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is "

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So naive,sooó naive

same with the australian lady who sign an arabic paper without understanding now she is held in egypt cant go out egypt without the permission of his muslim husband 😂

I think this is an excellent idea. Don't go chasin' waterfalls

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People relocate usually and end up not knowing anyone. Its impossible it seems to meet people nowadays unless through dangerous online ways

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You watched it??! She was worried cos her visa had run out

@@MindyBeee I saw it. But authorities will turn a blind eye when the situation becomes a life and death situation. So, I’d say, she failed there. In addition to her dependence on him on making sure her visa is valid. Especially, when she planned to tell him she was no longer interested in continuing the relationship. I’ve met people who would plan an escape before telling their spouses they want a divorce.

Awesome victim blaming. ​@@user-rl5lt1vx2o

She did call the police.

@@user-rl5lt1vx2othat is what I always did when leaving my abusive husband. I never let on anything and planned it well in advance without giving him any clue about it. Sadly he convinced me to go back several times after I left so it got harder and harder to leave as he was getting paranoid about me leaving . But I was very gullible and young plus naive !

So absolutely true. Since Samantha was still very young, I can understand her actions....It`s the reason so many marriages fail, cz the 2 spouses didn`t know each other good enough AND both of their family backgrounds....Mexicans are very macho society, still today....

but he was RIIIIICH

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She was there illegally

Money....very wealthy family.

Because he is the legal father with citizenship in US and Mexico. Generally you do need a letter from the other parent to fly but a land border is porous. Do not have a baby in a country in which you do not even have permission to live and work, that was completely on her.

@@zapfilmsok but also she was 19

That's an actor!😂😂😂

She hadn’t married him

She shoylfd have asked advise from the British embassy when she felt threatened. Her baby is half BRITIsh so the British authorities could have intervened. But if Daniel was that gutsy, his wealthy family must be a drug cartel that even the Mexican police didnt want to touch. Just great that they were reunited. Sadly babies ense these things and was surely in a trauma. He woyld need a lot of intervention to heal. Just lidstened to a dad who killed his children to punish his wife. This Daniel is from a a drug cartel family.

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I would have called as soon as he locked me out.

She did!

@@TVC15antimaga ohh ok I didn't finish watching

Yes she did.

The police in Texas could have deported her back to England. Daniel's family home ownership and wealth as well as her being white saved her from that.

She was 19- brains are not done being constructed til mid 20’s